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Randy100:
Exactly.

That strategy makes no sense

YoungLionken:
That should be Papa Ajasco...

Papa ajasco is great, full with memorable characters.

Fuji house of commotion aimed at something higher than what ajasco aimed for.

Its peace attainable in large families?
How much strain can a family bear before bulking under the load?

It was also there as a symbol for the state full of men with different identities.
Can they ever get along?
What type of heirachies will form?

Randy100:
Both of them are wrong. You can't be criticizing a government that you are representing. Zambia government is wrong for such harsh punishment to gay people.

You should only criticise it when you're not representing it?

YoungLionken:
I don't really know any of the aforementioned by the OP but, you see Papa Ajasco and Company,Superstory,Ayamatanger(i am at anger), Jaguar, Ishawuru, Fuji House of Commotion, Everyday People ehn...

Fuji house of commotion remains one of, if not the greatest Nigerian sitcom series.

Amaka igwe was a genius

BlitzNG:
To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

Which is why i suggest she should move on.

He has doubts that he can't overcome, if he could he wouldn't say it.

Close relationships like this needs affection to thrive.
Distant calls and chats won't suffice.


You'll become disinterested over time and break away without saying anything. Nothing was holding you back.

Its too casual to last unless its temporary.
And temproaraity comes with defining the relationship

What she has with the guy is defined by feelings.
He's still an internet friend she has feelings for.

AfroKnight:
She’s surprised by your compliment.

Maybe you overdid it. Don’t be too dramatic when complimenting women.

Also, maybe she’s shocked that you find her attractive or something.

Compliment women specifically, describe what you like precisely.
That way it forces you to say the truth, which she responds to.

There's no room for exaggeration.

Newguyhere:
Never compliment a girl you are interested in. Neg her instead.

Funny how this principle works ...

hachan:
In times like this Google is your dearest companion

I want to know you mean by that?

Google will give me a general answer.

I want the answer that comes through your filter,
I want to judge it by your interpretation

Heyyounotyou:
I know he’ll see this but Idc .. na love I love I nor kill person
Met this guy sometime ago.. we started on a good note..
Texting and chatting... Video calling and all that ..
Said he was interested in me, but I had my doubts.. I shared it with him and asked if this relationship thing was going to work .. He assured me and said if two comes together and agree on something it will definitely work ..
He clearly stated that afterall people that are close also have relationship issues ..

I believed him and we continued the charade .

He came to my state of residence inside this month .. I went to see him ..we were both happy to see eachother.. There was no sexual activity involved just kissing ..

So when he went back.. we were chatting and he said he didn’t think about this whole distance relationship thing properly and that don’t I have doubts.. I then told him I had but he has cleared it by assuring me that we will make it work !

He said it wasn’t going to work .. I was like why lead me through all this .. This’s someone I’ve already started seeing our future together and praying for his betterment cause he was always complaining of his financial and family predicament..

I was ready to keep myself and hold on to him !! But he just came up with this long distance relationship ..
He could’ve thought about it from the onset nau.. why put me in my feelings??

I feel hurt and don’t even want to hear about LDR no more .. I’ve blocked and unblocked him on all social platforms but he’s always in my mind.. I’ll move on tho .. Na only time e go take !

Any thoughts about LDR or he just doesn’t like me again ?

It could be anything, all possibilities are valid.

You can barely have a serious relationships with LDR.
It requires so much resources to sustain. Points you make with one physical embrace would require tons of video calls and text to match.

Physical relationships last more. I guess that's an obvious statistic.

He probably saw that he couldn't carry on with his promise.
It would be a good time to ask if you want to be with someone who breaks promises?

And his actions as described by you seems inconsiderate.
He should have provided a soft landing.

You can't start something and not finish it well even if the original plan fails.

If you ask me, I'd suggest you move on.

sprints1:
200k for that girl wey snap for unconcreted fence the guy must be very stupid for paying 20k something that I will just move the decimal back and Pay her 2k...nonsense

I'm very sure that story is exaggerated.

Probably didn't pay or it never happened at all..

Social media is the fool's paradise

pocohantas:
Exactly. With the way that sector is booming, I will suggest FG makes it legal. They are service providers.They should be made to pay their tax.

Banks can also step in and help them go cashless, provide POS and various means of payment for them. MTN too will make money. They can create a toll free number for booking oloshos. "if you want fair olosho: press 1, if you want a dark olosho: press 2...if you want fair olosho with big nyash and small boobs, press 3"

Viz.kiz go call that number die!!!

This is one of those crazy ideas that work.

hachan:
Every human is a political being

I've heard that alot, what does it mean?

Explain pls?

sharpwriter:
Lol..... The earlier you know the better... What we have are people in the hem of affairs most of wh have demons sitting in their brains. The dark forces against the well being of people are hellish and enormous.

You know, I watched a movie some time ago. Aliens came from outer space and abducted the real leaders of a city in that movie. The aliens then took fake flesh and wore them to take the form and faces of those abducted leaders. While unsuspecting citizens thought their original leaders were the one still leading them.
Dem just dey make crazy laws, dey behave nastily.

I can liken Nigerian situation to it. The consciousness to do good has been stolen from many people especially leaders, and what we have are people with cold hearts who are now confused about making right laws.

Brilliant people dey waka dey search for job and better life, while morons dey lead the brilliant ones. Commotion.

Hmmm..
I'd like to know the name of the movie, that was quite symbolic.

Our biggest problem is poverty.
Our leaders are poor too.

Poverty operates through greed, which powers our leaders.

Its not cold heartedness, its foolishness in its highest degree.

These guys are small time criminals with cheap goals. They are not even evil, there are barely on the way.

Nazi concentration camps?
Now that's what evil bro.
That's what it smells like, our leaders are barely evil just foolish.

realstars:
Is that what is happening in other part of the world?

If not we have introduced a new thing into the system.

Forget about where else it happens to validate the action.

It should be judged based on how it helps or obstructs the process of travelling.

We need to start thinking for ourselves.

hachan:
Now what is the political relevance of this guy?

He has to be politically relevant?

shugaboy6102:
Really am not talking even based on the new lady I met, what am asking is are we legally married? and if so do we keep enduring each other and for how long. Should I stay with her out of convenience because of what people in my church will say, my neighbours, friends, colleagues etc. Do we keep tolerating when we both know it was out of passion and youthful exuberance that landed us both in this. Oh God help me because my life is in a mess I hope someone understands me

I think you should have a dialogue with your wife.

Tell her the things she's doing wrong and how you are complicit in that. There's no way your 100% guilt free of the happenings.

She should do the same too.

Terms and conditions should be reached. Leave everything to feelings and things will fall apart like this.
Things have to be clearer than they are now.

Also..

Its not self evident by any stretch of the imagination that marriage is something that should provide happiness.
Its a false idea and not true.

We are all full of shit! and marriage as an idea tries to fix that by pairing 2 idiots together to make one reasonable individual.

Its an old idea.

The bible proposes the same idea with the message of 2 becoming 1.
Life is hard enough, surviving on your own without help moves you a step closer to your grave.
You need someone that reminds you of your stupidity, so you can get better.

With your strengths paired, raising an infant into a reasonable adult is a lot easier than it'd be without the pairing.

You can't make such definitive statements in this internet and streaming era.
Its easier to be relevant now and I still believe he will come back.

He's a business man that I admire, instead of pandering to everyone, he found his own audience and stuck to them.

That move afforded him a very strong core fan base than the one enjoyed by artistes more known than him.

All he has to do know is flip the switch again and everyone runs back to him again. He has done that repeatedly enough to believe in his Resurrection

blesskewe:
When your children go day sick, u spending it money on sickness, the anxiety

U go no say love is really blind

What's my own sef

Love being blind isn't a strong argument against its perpetuance.

Its wilful ignorance.

There's no logic to it.

Its base presupposition is the idea that "every human carries a divine spirit within them that needs care for more good to emerge"

Offpoint:
There's no way these guys won't fück themselves and impregnate themselves...

Let them stop the sex and the useless will die.... no love in that story up there, but lost.

You can't sit there and call what they have lust.

It shows no such indications.

If anything, its a hangover from an unfortunate affection

Fountainofyouth:
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Why am I seeing stupid comments this night, do you know if doing the medical procedure will work out the first time? What if they have to continue to terminate pregnancies for them to get the right combination of AS or AA, do you know how stressful it will be for the woman? You're busy comparing USA to naija, becos we are sound like them medical-wise abi? Why can't they do the safest thing by staying away from each other instead of wasting money on something they could have avoided from the onset....

Its not a waste of money, its the cost of being together.

If you think what you have with her isn't worth that cost, you move!

Don't trivialize their relationship, you don't have enough information to do that

Rocboy112:
What do you mean by saying Kanye forgives Jay?

Lmao.

False news.

This guy literally made his conclusions based on just pictures.

What made you think they weren't on speaking terms before that day?

ebukamen:
It's like the awards for Peace he received in the past is making him not to talk. He doesn't want to be seen fanning embers of war

This guy!

Awards for peace my ass

Of what utility is cultism to the state?

I want to know how it helps to balance things out, looking at it as necessary evil.

Who understands it should please give me an answer.

I want to know the utility of its perpetuance, stripped off of its morality.

ghettok ;Did1:
And na news?

Onyekachi419:
Dangote Is really enjoying from this government

Being a billionaire within a state affords you certain privileges

SultanOfPuna:
Heavy Guns Make The Loudest Noise Too..
So Keep Quiet Niggarr

Not the most damage though

Makeup really has a way of making women look the same.

It tries to achieve the same shade, same facial curves, same lashes etc

Women end up all looking the same after a makeover.

Its like all makeup artists share the same moulds. Same look they all try to achieve.

Its not a bad thing by itself, just disrespectful to aesthetics

SarkinYarki:
There is nothing intelligent in scamming anyone , it's simply breach of trust , anyone can breach trust even a dog.. Intelligence is building a new type of jet engine , intelligence is creating a new maths of physics Formula that makes things better , intelligence is developing a new cure to some age long ailment disturbing mankind but breaching trust and scamming someone is no intelligence

Thats innovation

And it can be driven by intelligence.

There are levels of scams that require a high level of intelligence.

Petty scams don't require that much intelligence but when its an intelligent system you have to beat then Intelligence is required.

Fountainofyouth:
Enough with the stereotyping bullshit, crime and flaunting of same crime has nothing to do with race or skin colour, there are white men who flaunt their crime on social media, don't display low esteem cos of the way you perceive a certain race.

Poverty does things to your mind, not everyone's mind.

Poverty is a state of mind already. Its a way of navigating through choices.

So yes it does things to everyone who is infected by it.

It doesn't just signify lack of financial resources.

LZAA:
A lot of shady deals on wall street

And you have evidence?