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Politics / Re: Ahmed Makarfi, His Profile, Wife, Children, Family Of PDP Presidential Aspirant by BizLifeE: 12:21pm On Apr 26, 2018
Would Makarfi ever become president? That's a big question.





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Romance / Re: The Most Ungrateful Thing A Woman Can Say To A Man by BizLifeE: 10:11am On Apr 21, 2018
ImaIma1:
Ladies have suffered on nairaland. Someone will get scammed by a lady of easy virtue and now come here wailing.

Guys here should try to be attracted to more than a lady's beauty and body because on behalf of the ladies on NL, we are tired of this same single. You guys need to release another song.

Yes, you're right. There are other qualities one needs to consider, apart from beauty.
Romance / Why Doesn’t My Girlfriend Want Me To Touch Her Body? by BizLifeE: 1:38pm On Apr 13, 2018
Whenever I try to touch her, she moves away or makes excuses. Why is she doing this?

I am happily married. My husband touches me, a lot, and it really gets on my nerves. Although I love him dearly, he acts as if my body is “his”. Whenever he walks by me, he slaps my ass or grabs my boobs. It doesn’t matter if I’m doing the dishes, cooking dinner, working on the computer, etc.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. It’s annoying. I want body autonomy. I don’t want someone touching me constantly. Just because someone is a significant other, doesn’t mean they want to constantly be touched. I just generally am not a touchy-feely person. I’m not crazy about my 7-y-o daughter climbing all over me and constantly hanging on me either. Being touched all of the time feels invasive, aggressive, and sometimes predatory. It’s not fun. My body is my own. Regardless of who this other person is to you, how long you’ve been with them, etc….their body is their own! Do not just touch people without knowing that it’s ok!

And, in my opinion, it isn’t sensual. In fact, constant unwanted touch accomplishes just the opposite: out of context, it just becomes a constant annoyance. I’ve had my boobs grabbed so often that it’s erased any pleasure there once might have been. Now I just feel like protecting myself from constant, unwanted touching.

I love my husband but I hate that he constantly grabs me, slaps my ass, sticks his hands under my clothes, etc. It feels disrespectful. It feels entitled. It isn’t cute or sensual or intimate.

Now, if we’re being sexual, that’s different. In that case touch is part of that experience, and in that moment it’s wonderful. But when my mind is on something else, I’m focused on work or childcare or domestic chores or reading a book or watching something or taking a walk or otherwise going about my day…that is a different story. It’s not an enjoyable experience. Don’t assume it’s ok to just grab, manhandle, and touch another person. It’s invasive, disrespectful and annoying.

Source: https://www.quora.com/Whenever-I-try-to-touch-her-she-moves-away-or-makes-excuses-Why-is-she-doing-this



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Education / Re: Should I Leave My Well-paying Job For Further Education? by BizLifeE: 10:13am On Apr 07, 2018
Education or money... This is a dicey decision.
Family / Why Poor People Produce Children They Cannot Feed by BizLifeE: 2:46pm On Mar 29, 2018
Why do people keep having children while living in crushing poverty?

You’ve already got 24 answers to this question and I’m not sure I can add anything that hasn’t been said already. The answer can depend to some extent on the country in question. Take my own for example. Yes the mighty US of A. The Great Leader of Democracy.

We seem hell bent on turning back time as far as woman’s rights goes and the right for a woman to chose what happens with her own body. Before long, back ally abortions may be back in vogue and woman will once again die at the hands of butchers who don’t know what they are doing. All because men don’t have the babies and women have to make the hard decisions.

Reality is not always sunshine and daffodils. But you said crushing poverty. That brings to mind places where women have to survive on mud cakes and see their children’s bellies distended from malnutrition. Women in that situation do not have the option of saying “No”. They are uneducated. Their societies are controlled overtly by men.

They are married off young and have children young and sometimes die young. Many of the children also die young. The men just get another wife. They are easily replaced. They are just women. In many societies they have little value. In some of the religion that they practice they don’t even have a soul. In some cultures they are even unclean for a portion of the month while they have their period and they have to go off and spend time in a menstrual hut where there lives can be at risk because they are unprotected.

They exist only to have the children of the husband and are his property. As are the children. They do as he says. Do you think he is going to forgo his pleasure? He is a poor man. He has little. Would you deny him what pleasure his life does have? He’s an uneducated man. All he knows is his little part of the world. All he knows is what has always been. Life is marriage and having kids and the sadness of sometimes losing one of them young. This has always been a part of life. He had many brothers and sisters when he was young but as he grew older only a handful were left. That is his reality.

That is his wife;s reality. People in big cities have choices. His family just tries not to starve from day to day as best they can. If God sends another child then they have another child. If God takes one of their children then they cry and get on with life the next day. There is no Planed Parenthood where they live and soon there will be none where you live too.



Source: https://www.quora.com/Why-do-people-keep-having-children-while-living-in-crushing-poverty




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Crime / Re: 82-year-old Man Remanded For N41m Fraud In Oyo by BizLifeE: 2:17pm On Mar 27, 2018
419 and cunning people.



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Business / Re: Shame On Gtbank! Their Email Support Staff Are Useless by BizLifeE: 2:33am On Mar 23, 2018
Those people are after salaries.. Not after quality services. They don't care.
Education / I Won’t Speak To Anybody For One Year by BizLifeE: 12:16pm On Mar 15, 2018
What happens if you stop talking for a year?

In India, there is a meditative practice called “Vipassana” where participants go without speaking even a single word for days.

I've attended one such session and stayed absolutely silent for 5 days. Here's what I experienced:

You have to remind yourself constantly for the first day to simply keep your mouth shut physically. This looks and feels very awkward but you soon get over it.

Since I was at a meditation centre, I had no access to my phone, the internet or television. The organizers encourage you to think about your life, all of it! Recall every memory. Despite how many years you've lived, most participants could recall their entire lives in a day - that's how fleeting a single human life is.

You sleep a lot as a way of passing the time. But this doesn't work for more than a few days because once you're well rested, you just can't force yourself to sleep.

You become more attuned to sound. When not constantly listening to people speak, you begin to notice sounds in nature, tactile sounds of things like cutlery and even the sound of your own breathing.

You get much better at reading and speaking through body language. Eye contact, facial expressions, shrugs, hand gestures. You start to tune them to convey messages and in time, you can almost “hear” a person's body language from a distance.

But perhaps the most surprising outcome is when you're given the freedom to speak again, you almost don't want to. You realise you have nothing that needs to be said urgently.

When you do speak again, your ears don't fully recognize your own voice. It's a feeling similar to hearing an audio playback of your voice - you question if this is what you sound like to everyone else and it feels a bit odd.


Source: https://www.quora.com/What-happens-if-you-stop-talking-for-a-year





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Politics / Re: President Buhari Sacks Paul Boroh As Amnesty Coordinator; Asks NSA To Probe Him by BizLifeE: 5:41pm On Mar 13, 2018
But this has not improved any statistics.





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Investment / Re: Why Most People Are Broke by BizLifeE: 12:33am On Mar 11, 2018
Hmmmmm.... Financial literacy.
TV/Movies / Re: Bbnaija: Fans Campaign For Miracle With Bottled Water (picture) by BizLifeE: 4:12pm On Mar 06, 2018
Utter stupidity has now become money.




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Business / Emergency Security Measure For Access Bank Customers by BizLifeE: 2:46am On Mar 02, 2018
Please contact Access Bank immediately:

1. When you change your personal information (phone number, email, or home address, etc)

Why? They need to be sure that the changes are from rightful owner of the account.

2. When you misplace or lose your phone

Why? So that your banking info contained in your phone is not used against you. Thieves steal phones now so that they can use your banking info to withdraw your money.

3. If you do not have immediate access to your phone

Why? You may currently be a victim of hackers.

4. Informing Access Bank on time will help them serve you better and protect you.

Your security is their priority.


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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Ikeja Electric Latest Job Recruitment (7 Positions) by BizLifeE: 4:33pm On Feb 27, 2018
Is it a contract job or a permanent job?


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Career / Re: Formal Education Versus Rare Skills, Which One Is Better? by BizLifeE: 11:03am On Feb 24, 2018
Ideas and skills rule the world, not education and titles.
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Cee-C In Tears As Tobi Walks Away by BizLifeE: 11:40am On Feb 20, 2018
Are they bereaved or what?



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Celebrities / Does Your Name Affect Your Destiny? by BizLifeE: 4:13pm On Feb 16, 2018
Do you think changing your name can change your life?


In Hollywood it certainly can.

The theory is that it pays to have a very American “white” sounding name.

In the past, there has been a stigma against too ethnic/Jewish/Irish/Polish types of names.

It is getting better but a lot of stars still change their name.

Name = Real Name

Louis CK = Louis Szekely

Natalie Portman = Natalie Herschlag

Demi Moore = Demetria Guynes

Al Brooks = Albert Einstein

Woody Allen = Allen Konigsberg

Chevy Chase = Cornelius Crane Chase

Ben Kingsley = Krishna Pandit Bhanji (I had no Idea he was Half-Indian!)

Katy Perry = Katheryn Hudson

Some succeed against the odds:

Arnold Schwarzenegger = Arnold Schwarzenegger

Source: https://www.quora.com/Do-you-think-changing-your-name-can-change-your-life


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Business / Re: Top Mistakes Freelancers Make And How To Avoid Them by BizLifeE: 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2018
I am going to read this thing again.





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Family / Re: Why Some People Don’t Want To Have Children by BizLifeE: 1:36pm On Feb 09, 2018
In Western countries, we see kids as a big deal. But in Western countries, they don't see them as a big deal.
Crime / The Real Reason Why Police Ask For Your ID Cards by BizLifeE: 7:54am On Feb 04, 2018
When the police arrest a bunch of citizens, often illegally, they ask each of them to show their ID card.

If a person is arrested justly, they don’t usually ask for ID cards.

Now, when the raid illegally, often to round up a bunch of people, they ask for their ID cards. They later release them after they’ve been bribed (settled)

It’s not that they want to release you if you show them your ID card. They simply want to know if you can implicate them. For example, if you’re an airman or a seaman or a soldier or a high-raking politician or anyone who can really put them in trouble.


If you a member of the forces, for example, and you don’t have an ID card and you’re put into a cell, even your superiors would later blame you for not carrying your ID card with you, and the policemen who have arrested you would your lack of ID card as a cogent excuse.

Now, if you’re rounded up for the purpose of raiding, if you show them your National ID card or Voter’s Card or International Passport or your Driver’s license, they won’t release you (not as long as they’re sure you won’t implicate them).

The only ID card they understand is MONEY. If you’ve not committed a very serious crime and you’ve not been arrested by an order from above, they’ll release you as long as you have the cash to give them (otherwise you would rot in cell with your ID card).




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Nairaland / General / Re: Pastor Innocent Chinedu, His Wife And Twins Survive Ghastly Accident - Pictures by BizLifeE: 1:54pm On Jan 30, 2018
What lucky souls!




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Celebrities / Re: These Are Regrets People Have When Dying by BizLifeE: 5:18am On Jan 27, 2018
But people fail to learn their lessons.
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid Shares Photo With His Son, Zion Ayo Balogun, In Bed by BizLifeE: 3:27pm On Jan 24, 2018
How can we be sure that this is the real wizkid?




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Religion / What Does It Mean To Partner With God? by BizLifeE: 1:02pm On Jan 19, 2018
I’ve heard some pastor saying this often and often?

How many of you have N10,000 each to partner with God?

How many of you have N5,000 each to partner with God?

Needless to say, you would see many people coming out to “partner” by donating money.

When I partner with a company or someone, I expect some returns (though we also bear losses together) in a year or less or more.

But the monies collected by these men of God are mostly used for their personal purposes, at least in certain cases. The man of God gets richer and more comfortable.

However, in most cases, most of those who partnered by donating money would later get nothing in return (in spite of promises of unusual blessings).

Maybe I get it wrong, please explain to me:

What does it mean to partner with God?

Is there any gain in this or is it another means of duping people?


I turn the question to you, how many of you have N1,000,000 each to partner with God? Of let’s say N500 each?




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Romance / Re: Sex Doll Trending On Twitter: Funny Reactions From Twitter Users by BizLifeE: 4:53pm On Jan 16, 2018
Those women who think they can get money for sex, please know that your days are numbered.



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Romance / Re: “Wow, I Can Finally Have Sex” — Lady After Wedding Her Partner (Photo) by BizLifeE: 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2018
So, she wants to claim she's a virgin?





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Foreign Affairs / Re: Can Saudi Arabia Beat Israel In War? by BizLifeE: 1:25am On Jan 12, 2018
Thanks for the answer above. Israel will win, period.
Crime / Re: FRSC Impounds Vehicle With Human Head In Akwa Ibom by BizLifeE: 4:39pm On Jan 09, 2018
Is that person old enough to go to jail?



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Nairaland / General / Re: Truck Filled With Cement Crashes At Sagamu (Photos) by BizLifeE: 12:24pm On Jan 03, 2018
Olorun ya wa ya Esu.





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