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Societalex:
Hello my fellow nairalanders I need help concerning my recent life development.
I have noticed that I can't stay a whole week without thinking about a girl to have sex with. Though I masturbated for many years when I was still underage and it is okay to say I am a spoilt child.. But I stop this act immediately I got into the university and promised myself that I will balance it with chasing the things between a woman's leg.

Since my first year in school to my present thrid year I have had sex with more than 45 different girls as I have lost count.

The problem here now is I can't think two minutes without thinking about the next p*ssy I need to smash. I can't do anything like sleep or even eat if I don't see a girl beside me or in my house for the night. When I read for exams I get distracted and start thinking of breast and ass.

I don't know if this is addiction but I need to know if I am addicted to sex or just women.

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Thermodynamics:
Why are we Nigerians so heartless and selfish and inconsiderate.
I've seen many cases where people create a topic about real life problems they're facing, I mean people that are in deep and extreme depression because of one problem or the other.

Most times these people have been to several places in the real world looking for solution only to be disappointed at the tail end.
They finally come to Nairaland in a bid to get some kind of hope and all people do here is just to make mockery of them and start blaming them and make jokes about their predicament.
Some even go as far as insulting them and telling them that they can go commit suicide if they want.

And you'll find that these kind of people are the ones that are always online and quickly jump into sensitive topics and flood the first few pages with heartless and mocking comments.

Why are we so wicked in this country?
Do you guys realize that the people behind those usernames are people as real as yourself, do you guys realize that these are people that are desperately in need of help.

It was this same attitude our forefathers possessed that made them sell their fellow black men to the whites as slaves.

Please please and please, the next time a person post a topic about an illness that is eating them up and how they want to commit suicide,
If you don't have anything meaningful to say
PLEASE KEEP QUIET AND GIVE SPACE FOR THOSE THAT CAN CONTRIBUTE MEANINGFULLY.

Don't rush in and tell everyone you are a black man by being so insensitive about their post.
God bless.

Here are two links to threads that perfectly describe what I am talking about.

https://www.nairaland.com/5497977/could-std-bad-immune-system#83541822

https://www.nairaland.com/5496622/lightened-skin-now-multiple-stretch

MODS, PLEASE BE KIND ENOUGH TO MOVE THIS TO FRONT PAGE FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.

nairalandposter:
Times Jesus broke protocol:

-when he received the children

- when he healed the sick

- fraternizing with sinners

- healing on the sabbath

-teaching what's in the heart is more important than what goes in the stomach

-speaking to the masses outside the temple


I am not involved in any protocol breaking, and neither do I want to be involved in any of such, internal matters should be settled internally because these constant complaints are exhausting. Obedience is also important for ease in administration.

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nairalandposter:
Jesus broke protocol all the time no doubt.

Robisky001:
Greetings nairalanders!


This is actually not my thing but at this point I am constrained to come out of my closet and do the unimaginable.
I have enmeshed myself in the Business section of this forum trying to acquire knowledge to uplift myself from the shackles of unemployment. I have so far settled for some digital skills that actually requires the use of a laptop to enhance my productivity and efficiency. The android phone I'm using is nothing to write home about. It's a Tecno Camon C8 and is actually lagging and showing insufficient memory.

I'd appreciate and not let down anyone who will be benevolent enough to grant me this humble requests.

uniquepeace:
HEY?! that hurts...

MrSurd:
please I am in urgent need of a temporal accommodation in Lagos mainland or any area where I will be paying 10k to the person monthly. even if its a shared apartment. help pls

uniquepeace:
HI Nairalanders this is my first time posting here pls permit any errors....am hearth broken searching for a male bestie around jos

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mustinudra:
Lady unleash her anger on a customer for refusing to pay her over time fee.

There was serious drama between a slay queen and a client over payment. Drama that are developed lead to ashewo confrontation your unfaithful customer who refuses to pay.

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blogger10:
Its not enough to just be alive. Self improvement...is to me the most important thing in this world.
Yet it crosses my mind often that I may never wield the power that a certain kind of knowledge posses and that that knowledge might just be what's between me and the next level...and then the next level and so on.
Funny enough, I always had this notion that there's a secret path in this life one must discover and take, yet time after time, through wasted years of lending listening ears to so many so-called gurus and amassing much of what is more or less irrelevant and grossly inapplicable knowledge, I'm beginning to think its all a myth and that secret path is just a figment of my imagination.
Who even knows what I'm saying? Sigh

Yeecar:
The guys personality as nothing to do with pride, a dictionary definition of pride will help clear your doubts.

Dawinlove:
I see a major Nigeria pastor who focuses more on prophesying exposed in a foreign country. In the revelation the place looks like South Africa and the main reason for his disgrace is due to jealousy from a lady who he appointed and later dropped.This prophet charm will fail as the lady will use a more powerful charm on him. He would be taken by lust. I see people leaving his church because they never believe nor expect such from him. This prophet is giving a chance to repent. I see God using him to open people eyes towards people who are lost in believing fake prophets without praying or confirming if truly they are sent by God. Those people fall under this category
1. They pay money for deliverance and believe it's proper
2. Those eager to see the future without waiting patiently on God
3. Those who don't like praying, they go about looking for solutions
4. Pay money for miracle water and many more
In the revelation I heard the Holy Spirit
whispering a song to me "Amona tete mabo" (the one who knows the right way, come quickly) Would be understood majorly by the Yorubas.

sparkhalifaSpk:
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kpakpandoN:
It is sad but true that some people love gifts more than their very lives. In other words, they are covetous and love to reap where they did not sow. In order not to be caught in this devilish snare, our Lord Jesus Christ warns us against covetousness in Luke 12:15. One man who loved gifts exceedingly was Elisha’s servant, Gehazi. His master rejected the gifts offered by someone who God had healed through him, because he understood the principle of “freely ye have received, freely give,” which led him to say in 2nd Kings 5:16a:
“As the LORD liveth, before whom I stand, I will receive none.”
However, greedy Gehazi was not happy with this response, so he decided to run after the rejected gifts. He went and collected them in secret, not knowing that in the realm of the spirit, “there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known” (Luke 12:2). Imagine the shock he felt when Elisha said to Him in 2nd Kings 5:26:
“…Went not mine heart with thee, when the man turned again from his chariot to meet thee? Is it a time to receive money, and to receive garments, and oliveyards, and vineyards, and sheep, and oxen, and menservants, and maidservants?”
Dumbfounded, Gehazi could not answer these questions. You need to learn some critical lessons from this experience today, Gehazi did not know the spiritual eyes given to his master followed him as he executed his devious scheme. If Elisha’s spiritual eyes could see the things Gehazi did in secret, how much more will God’s eyes, which run to and fro the earth, see those who secretly toy with sin? Also, learn that there is a time for everything. There is a time to receive gifts and there are times they must be rejected. Elisha asked Gehazi whether it was the right time to receive gifts. Gehazi did not consider this when he went ahead to demand and not just receive gifts from Naaman. However, this earned him God’s judgment, and he instantly became leprous. Beloved, it is vain to run after gifts that are not approved of God. Ecclesiastes 5:10-11 says:
“He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver; nor he that loveth abundance with increase: this is also vanity. When goods increase, they are increased that eat them: and what good is there to the owners thereof, saving the beholding of them with their eyes?”
Beware of the love for gifts because some gifts are ill-motivated and can destroy your future, like it happened to Gehazi. May the Lord spare you the agony of gifts from ill-gotten wealth in Jesus’ Name.
Written by Pastor E.A. Adeboye.

SeunDobo:
I have girlfriend we have be together since 2018,We are both a finalist in same higher Institution but she lack manner cuz she always talk to me recklessly ,Even when are chatting with her ..Sometime when I call her and she's missed my call ..she we not call back and if i call to challenge her she we said she don't have time to return any calls .. Most of time i always scare to call her cuz she always abuse me on phone .. I call her on one Sunday evening and she didn't pick the call and later chat her up and she's told me she's don't pick calls on sunday!if I don't chat with her , she we not chat with me ,And this is girl I love her so much but I can't bear with this her behavior , My mom didn't even like her
Please advise me may be I should leave her am confuse .. sorry about my blunder am emotional traumatized

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

DonBenny77:
Assuming she chills over for the weekend and they spoilt the bedsheets together. What's wrong with her washing for/with him on a Saturday morning.
Op I am speaking from experience I dated a girl for about 4 years she washed with me just once. She had that opinion it was wrong didn't pressure her further, I always knew I wouldn't marry her so I played along till she saw her type n bounced. Such girls have "been through a lot" they will always judge and stereotype you based on their numerous exes.
If you were my blood bro I wouldn't let you marry her..
I wee bite your ear so your eye go open

Samuel4689:
So today i told my girlfriend that since three months we started dating she has never one day wash my clothes.

Immediately she got angry, removed my head from her legs and looked at me and said how will she wash my cloth, that she don’t do that, she will never wash my cloth and if I want her to wash my cloth, I should go and marry her because she can not do that.

She continued to say that was how she washed cloth for her ex and did everything who later abandoned her and after she finished washing my clothes and every other thing like a house wife, i will later go and marry another girl, that she can’t wash my clothes and walk out of the sitting room to living room.


Please advise me on what to do about this relationship.

I love her, and I would love to marry her but there are some characters she displays that i hate but think with time she would take correction and change but this her response looking right inside my eyes telling me she can not wash my clothes and walked out of me is so scaring. I need your advice!!!

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1 I always cherish my privacy note than anything



2 I don't contribute to discussion I consider not important to me.



3 I can be indoor for a whole day especially when am off duty.



4 I hardly make new friends, but hold the few ones I have in high esteem.



5 I something refuse people help not because I don't have the means to, but simply because I hate their life style and thereby don't want anything that will make our path cross



6 Relationship wise, if we can't have meaningful intellectual discussion, forget about the boobs and ass I don't find you attractive.



7 Am so much attracted to intelligent ladies not minding their look (sapiosexual)



8 Not that expressive verbally but instead I prefer showing the love than professing it all the time.



9 Trust means everything to me, if you break it, it might take century to regain my trust back



10 A creative person, sing and write song when alone.



11 some friends don't really know coming around to say hi pisses me off, (privacy invasion)



12 people sometimes think am proud and wicked cos I don't relate with them.



13 Still finding it difficult to keep a relationship beyond one year not because am abusive, but sometimes lost that connection due to my partner intellectual deficiency.



14 How do I solve this and build a lasting relationship(31 years of age, working and ambitious )

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2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

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