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fine girl

at 5 you are scared of leaving him alone I already know the kind of man he will be please leave that boy alone and get a job or better you can volunteer to teach in his school free of charge so you be around him all the time od you are so worried

You forgot to add that exclusive bf is cheap and free I did for my two boys 6months and I love it sharp and healthy

maureensylvia:
congratulations indeed u both are destined for each other.

My one year anniversary was on 1st April 2016

wishing u many more years of love, happiness, blessings.

aww my anniversary mate but I senior you sha for the game lol

cococandy:
I'm fine thank you

how baby

cococandy:
OP Why use Will smith as example? Did he tell you he used to beat his wife?
Rocky marriage or relationship doesn't mean it involved abuse.
No long term couple can say there haven't been rocky patches in their journey. That's life.

Abuse is a different kettle of fish altogether.

so so true. Coco how are you?? been a while I saw your post
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yes I can but you gonna pay and pay well oo haa

keyman0007:
How come you say this? i suggested she did an MBA in lagos business school, it is her that is selfish.

if she goes she is actualizing every and hooking me down.

and what's wrong with her hooking you down she's doing it becuase she loves you am sure her parents are insisting she goes abroad you sound like you are in a Christian relationship so I will advice you to let her travel and pursue her dreams so she can be happy wait for her if you can if you can't let her be but don't cry later in future that you missed a good woman and besides even if she goes dere as a married woman she can still cheat and leave you so let her fly dude just keep loving and praying for her no biggy

keyman0007:
Why do ladies like to pretend to be confused, when in the actual sense they know what they are doing, and what they want. It jut so annoying.

So this year i raise the marriage thing with my lady and she is like she wants to go for masters, that i should come see her parents then we do an introduction of some kind and she leaves, I told her a masters in the UK will mean i will wait till December 2017 to get married if she goes to a UK school and maybe 2018 if its a US or canadian school. I told her i am not trying to tie her career down, that why doesnt she go to LBS, since its an MBA she wants to do. I also discussed with my folks who are also desperate and they were like i should forget her she isnt the only lady in the world. what the guarantee if she goes she will not see someone else.

Sha i pulled out of the relationship and began to search again. only for her to come back and say she is sorry, she has reflected about every and that she is ready for marriage. Cos i liked her i dumped all other female admirers i had began to develop relationships with . I told her again about the LBS master and even told her that i am willing to allow her go do her masters oversees after we get married long as her dad will be willing to pay. Or if God blesses me i can sponsor it. She said she is ready for marriage even if i proposed today.


Sha with her change in position i decided to go see her parents in Lagos, the dad was receptive but the mum seem abit tough, wanted to knw what i did for a living and dall that. I then go see her uncle in Abj. I also told my folks she is having a rethink on the masters thing, that soften my parents. I then invited her to my place. She met my parents they really like her. she also met my siblings as well. My father even called her dad self and they seem to have started getting along.

Only for this babe to begin to say she will submit her school application to fulfill all righteousness. Then 2 days back she says i need to go see her folks to make my intentions. Then she is like she thinks she shd go for her masters now and brought the whole introduction story up again. That we should do introduction and then she travels. I told her i think she is trying to trap me, she is trying to trap me, We have been in a relationship for 2 year no kisses, no sex we even rarely hug. i am 28 she is 22. It is either she goes for her masters and then if she is still single when she returns am i also still single then we get married. It is nt heard of, in my culture. She is not even considering doing it in LBS.

We are not talking at the moment.
I am thinking of a way to break this news to my folks. cause they have already started seeing her as my wife.
I have told her i wont move an inch further in the relationship if she cant tell me what indeed her plan her.
it is either she goes overseas or does it in Nigeria and if it is overseas am nt giving any commitment.[/font]

IT just so annoying.

you better let her travel abroad or you will regret it if she marries you without travelling, to me you are a selfish person you want her to marry you and give up her dreams it's even diffrent if you are promising her that you will sponsor her but you want to marry her and then you want her dad to still sponsor her story leave that girl if you can't handle don't you know that most African father's remove hand from their kids after marriage especially the girls let her go for masters after that you get married allow her follow her dreams

Funminicrown:
She's not done the change of name and the applications are very urgent but can't she attach the marriage cert before the availability of the affidavits and newspaper publication?
I'm stressing this because I'm more particular about how she's been addressed behind me. Using her father's name means two things: she would either be addressed as miss Anonymous or Mrs Anonymous. The miss is a nono for me while the other option connotes wrong identity(cause she's not married to her father).

you sef there are jobs I apply for my hubby will say put single it doesnt change the fact we are married all these little things doesn't have any effect on your married life simple

Cutehector:
See the problem I have with married ladies? U see...


Is she still the daughter of her father?


She has to use ur name now!

yes she's still her father's child ogini di sef

well hello daddy hehehe congrats

elijah101:
And again , dont just kill your self alone , just kill your wife and kid , because you go add to there problem if only you die .. and the weather no go nice for them at all .. e go red and e go hot .. So i will just advise you kill them too ..

Use poison so the death go happen together , una go just use the poison drink garri .. or drink am alone sha .. anyone make sense .. but me i prefer make you drink the poison alone , so the death go dey very painful .... and add garri your wife and kid own ..

I can't wait to attend your family funeral .. Shey money go dey to do burial sha ..

Sha drop your town address .. so i can go and chop your burial Rice

guy calm down you were brave and overcame doesn't mean everyone Is that tough, we are all wired differently so be nice and if you can't be move along haba all of these shuu

Siena:
[color=Blue]In a manner of speaking, yes. It is not unheard of for a child to have a fear of water, if drinking times become more akin to torture or punishment.

Water is good for us, a child will know when he or she has had enough. Adults are the worst culprits when it comes to NOT drinking enough water daily, opting for fizzy drinks, juice, squash and for some, beer. Children don't often have these options, so they generally drink more water than adults do, on a fluid-to-body ratio.

Yes, kids can run their parents ragged, asking for water frequently, but that's what parenting is all about. It is actually best if children drink water in small quantities at frequent intervals, than large quantities, at widely-spaced intervals. [/color]

thank you joor I have two so I know what am saying

yvelchstores:
Call it anything. It's his child, when u have your own, treat her how u like.

it's his child but he's on a public forum so my opinion counts and yes I have two beautiful kids so bye

blackedwin:
Hello House,
I'm in shock as I'm writing this, I seriously need advice on the way forward
My 3 year old daughter said she was thirsty and wanted drinking water so I walked over the fridge got a bottle of water poured it into her cup and hand it over to her,she took a little and said she was done I was upset cos I was like is this why you made me drop what I was doing.to ensure she won't come back saying she was thirsty I said to her drink all of it she answered dad I'm ok, I repeated finish it she took a few rounds and then walked to the kitchen table and dropped the water cup walked back to me and said Dad I'm angry Dad I'm mad and walked away since then I've been feeling really bad.
How do I assure her I meant well for her

at that moment she didn't want water she wanted attention and decided to get it de easiest way but you didn't understand and choose to bully her instead apologise to her it's no biggy then tell her y you did that kiss her on de fore head nd tell her you love her that will boost her confidence and she will smile next time don't force

yvelchstores:
Op, being a man, I understand why u felt she needed to drink more. I don't see what you did as wrong. Water is good for the body. Children don't knw all that is good for them. Taking more water is good for her. If she says she is mad at you tell her that's not a good thing to say. Discipline your child o. Naira landers don't love your child more than u. Don't let them tell u how to disciple your child. Tell her not to say such again and buy her ice cream for listening and obeying afterwards.

oh please kids drink water all the time and de do so ON little quantity except the are very thirsty you have no right whatsoever to force de child becuase you are de parent who does that I have a toddler I know how annoying what she did is but that's not discipline he bullied her

na wa oo God go save person

Eddygourdo:
To be a woman is alot tougher than being man. The situation is worse when you have to be an African woman, where no laws help you when victimised and all laws come down harder on you when you are the aggressor.

I love my mama and I no go lie, I love my sisters and female cousins and I no go lie, I love my woman and female friends and I no go lie. PS... THEY ARE ALL AFRICAN WOMEN.

The good wife is a crown on her husband's kingly head. She is the general on the home front who fights physical, emotional and most especially spiritual battles to keep the family steady.

The good wife is a good mother to her children, a good mother to her husband, a welcoming presence to children in general and above everything a great grandma in due course.

The good wife is a shining star to her in laws, she accommodates and mentors. She isn't covetous of the family wealth from lending a helping hand once in awhile to relatives in penury. How can you cloth strangers when your family members roam naked.

The good wife is a crazy adaptable lover, you knows her husband's buttons. She drive him nuts in the bedroom, that the mention of adultery make him flee lest he loses his jewel.

The good wife is neighbourly. She is not a public fighter, she is not a gossip, she is not a snitch, she is not a adulterer, she is not a prostitute, she is not ungrateful

Lastly, the good wife is a human being, who could sometimes make mistakes, fall short, be moody, be tired, be sad and even cry. Should this make her all of a sudden a bad wife? Should she not express herself once a while in non conformity to standards? Can she not be understood as much as she is expected to understand everybody else?

There is a good wife in every woman, nature and nurture of most women make this trait difficult to find, past experiences and heart breaks makes this trait difficult to find, societal and peer pressure also does same. Nevertheless they are humans and deserve to be loved and respected as we all want to be loved and respected.

The perfect wife for a man, is that woman who his presence in her life makes the good wife. Goodluck to you all as you search for her.

NB: someone should write on the good man and father ( if nobody does, I will when I can). Cheerio

oh hi Eddy the guy who called me a 13 year old nice write up

God help me do good, help me be selfless please. Thank you Anja

Acidosis:
Pastor Sam, please remember your root.
Launching a Business School in the heart of Kogi isn't a bad idea please.


*do not get lost in Lagos (or claim Kwara like some).

kogi master

Eddygourdo:
Who is this 13 year old on my mention. Please go and read ur books. Leave romance for the romancers

hehehe at 13 years lol good night bros

deyemia:
please tell me, how will she know the number of women the guy has had? I lost my own count and I still respect women feelings..

anyway sha, she's just 20, dem just start to toast her

lol you sef

Eddygourdo:
After all this epistle, a mumu stud will be sleeping with you, while you friendzone the good man in a no sex till marriage agreement.

Women never know Wat they want in life and whenever one sees a woman who says she does. One has just seen the most clueless of the lot

so your sisters are included right you may have met crazy girls but there are lot of good girls out there but guys don't like them de see them as too simple and naive so meaning guys dunno what the want abegi joor

marriage is a beautiful thing dunno y everyone is seeing only the down side I love been married sure I miss my freedom but I wouldn't have wanted it better, I love been married, love having a man to submit to, love seeing my kids run around, love the joyful and sad times. Marriage sweet forget what you see online

Ahmed0336:
whats the use when i can watch channels of my choice. Morning to night all she watch is telemondu

life is simple get explora so dual view as she's watching in the parlour you stay In the room and watch your own jeje you can change and she can change too you don't have to be mean

same advice am giving my friend to come clean to her fiancee and she's saying never I will refer her to this page

icedbeatz:
hope you're working on not being so sannoying? Would you like a partner who is annoying? You see that's our problem, we want other people to be close to perfect or perfect while we swim in our bad features hoping to meet who will tolerate us. What a damn shame, let's try to be the ideal partner we want others to be then maybe we would start having better relationships goddamn it!.

in this world am the best person anyone can meet am the best of best not bragging tho and no one is perfect the fact I don't like ill tempered guys doesn't mean he won't have any flaws just not a bad temper and yes we all learn daily am sure am a better person from 3years ago. have a beautiful celebration

congratulations dear I wish the mum, dad and new born the best of God. I remeber my first son my hubby didn't sleep all through I was just shouting " baby massage my waist please I will die of pain oo" lol and he was massaging till I popped the baby, the second time I was calm just walking up and down the hall no stress in about 3hrs my second boy came, men that are supportive try alot I hail them .

very correct post, I have never liked guys with anger issues becuase I know how annoying i can be before the guy will use slap and reset my face lol, anything you.can't take in courtship you can't take in marriage, I wonder y a lady will hold your shirt and destroy it she would have sulked instead frowned or even use silent treatment not hold your shirt that was bad but please you can forgive and help her manage her anger better am sure she got too comfortable that's y she acted like that. wish you a very good morning

Acidosis:
Send me your number, by the time I'm through talking to you on phone, his mindset and conscience would come back to life.

hahaha he's around wahala