₦airaland Forum

yes jare.

why una want take away the man's right to have as much as he likes?
if women no surplus, men no suppose fit get 2 wives. Besides, its the women's fault.

Why do women like marrying and dating married men?

RichyBlacK:
It's possible but difficult.

Today, the psyche of the typical American woman is not compatible with the traditional "till death do us part" kind of marriage.

Nigerian men are hard wired with the notion of roles in a marriage - the roles of the wife and the roles of the husband. The typical American woman is either unfamiliar with such roles or is familiar with and opposed to the entire notion of roles.

Many American women grew up in broken homes in which the idea "a lifelong happy marriage" has not been nurtured.

Most Nigerian men prefer to marry women in their twenties or early thirties, however, American women in their twenties are too immature for marriage, and so they're ready for marriage in their thirties and early forties. This age-maturity mismatch can be confusing for the typical Nigerian man.

Compared to Nigerian (or African/Caribbean) women, they do not mange stress very well.

Cases of anxiety, personality disorder, mental illness, etc. are more common among American women. This may be as a result of better health services that do a good job in managing these problems, with the unintended consequence of blurring the line between what we consider normal behavior and attitudes that are as a result of some form of mental illness. This ties into the higher propensity to use drugs (methamphetamine, heroine, ecstasy, marijuana, cocaine, etc.), probably as a means of coping with deep personality disorders, or as a path to some form of psychosis.

Good analysis.

abeg the thing no dey work. One girl say she sabi one couple. Only one couple out of the several thousands what a statistic!

People go into 419 because they were not decently bred. They want to get rich quick!

OpeLovely:
I agree totally!!!!!! Charity begins at home. Its easy to sit back and criticise without looking at ourselves inwardly. When we throw pure water nylon of dirt outside, is it the govt that threw it there And yet you expect the govt to clear it for you. We say our leaders steal, yet we visit them and ask for material demands that would make them steal. We say we need a honest leader, yet when a govt makes tough laws like using helmet for okada, fire extinguisher and Mot Test for cars, we complain. Even using seat belt is a burden to us. Getting into school, we bribe and sleep with authorities, we cheat during exams, we lie so much and even pretend to be like Americans!!

We should stop being hypocrites and do the right thing. Its only us that can move this country forward, no one else.

God bless you

why did Nuhu not see all the 419 policemen under him when he was AIG?

Horus:
In America people are not classified as bi-racial,but black or white.

Therefore, Obama is white

na true say some girls for here go still become 2nd/3rd wives?

make una continue dey talk oyinbo for here. Na too much oyinbo dey make una become easy prey. Make una go learn how to submit to loving husbands before time run out for una.

Dis Guy:
inec?

considering people don't see them on a daily basis they shouldn't really be among the list

1.Lagos Agberos
2.police
3.Nepa

Is that a recently contrived agency? Lagos agberos

vigasimple:
I think OBAMA has shown that he does not want to play the race card.

he is a black man who happens to be running for the presidency.

1. He is Bi racial unlike any of his predecessor. his mother is white from rural kansas.

2. his father is from Africa

He is NOT a black man. He is bi-racial

Those fowls lack the passion and commitment it takes to represent one's country.
They are like most of us. We also do things for Nigeria (if we ever do) without passion and desire.

Our footballers are just like us in our daily lives.

Aleksys:
Branding someone a terrorist depends on what side of the political aisle you are. Terrorism is everywhere today. It is not only when you fly a plane into some high rise buildings or when you detonate a bomb in the market place that you are classified as terrorist. We have economic terrorist, sex terrorist, moral terrorist, pyscological terrorist et al. There is terrorism going on in all spheres of our lives but because it is not violent does not mean they are not terrorism. History will classify our actions and inactions (passive terrorism) for what they are. Life is precious and should not be taken under any guise. Iraq war, Afghanistan, Sudan/Darfur, neo colonialism, foreign debts foisted on poor nations by rich nations, elected government of a nation that turn against the wish and the aspiration of its people, all these are terrorism unclassified. I think right now we need some divine intervention in this world to bring people back on the track of sanity. So help us God.

Yes. That is why George Bush is the number 1 terrorist alive today

Those boys are typical 9ja boys. Dem believe say dem don arrive come dey do 'big man' style for field.  Other teams have players with a passion for their nation. They are used to acting big whenever they are in Africa and it follows them to the pitch when they play for their nation.

Our boys showed no such passion, it's so apparent in their lack lustre attitude to the game. They are no different from the average Nigerian person who has no passion for the nation. Those boys are just like most other Nigerians with no real desire or commitment to the Nigerian entity.

I take it that every Nigerian is capable of stealing and they have it in their veins till they prove otherwise.

George Bush suppose face tribunal for the murder of several thousands of Iraqis including men and women, some of whom were pregnant.

George Bush no go die better

A legislator getting into a public show of shame because he thinks he has enough 'power'/clout to be rude to others.

Very typically Nigerian

If I am president of Nigeria, I will incapacitate every adult Nigerian because they are ALL thieves. Then we will start a proper re-orientation of the young ones

Somebody said that Nigerians are mostly thieves-in-waiting and I agree with him/her.

The world community, according to Bush's America, consists of America and anyone who agrees with America at any turn

oyb:
in the west, when a so inclined man makes it, he dumps his wife and marries a trophy wife (sort of like trading in your 2001 benz for a 2007 benz). in nigeria, he marries a second wife and the first wife fades into the background. there's your advantage. at least in africa, where ploygamy is not a crime, the woman's welfare is in less jeopardy since she is still married to the man.

True.

In the west, the women will divorce when they want to have other men and there are always excuses for such actions.

OK. maybe we should tell men to divorce before marrying any other woman. Then we will have more rejected women for playing men to play around with

YES. we should ban polygamy but allow men and women to fuk anyone they like just like they do abroad and if they get caught, the women can just say their men dont give them enough attention or that they have fallen 'in love' with someone else.

What's the difference between polygamists and those who fuk around abroad?

make I hear word jare

very good. I will become an armed robber then I can say I have changed when I have killed many people and stolen enough money. I will also be left free so that there can be peace.

Evil thrives when justice gets buried

That is one useless woman. shagged by her father-in-law and probably even her own father.

shameless LovePeddler who should be thrown on the streets

no be small thing. make dem go back home instead of destroying the image of 9ja

@ Poster

Nigeria cant progress because Nigerians are all seeking any means to gain material wealth even if involves destroying the fabric of the nation. We are so eager to make immediate wealth that we do not think about the future. In our 'smartness', we have become stupid.

When we all decide to shun illegalities and only celebrate real achievements (not necessarily financial), we will probably be able to say we have taken a first step in the right direction.

brownbonno:
My dear Nigerians,the more i read about Naija,the more i understnd the mentality of a typical Nigerian.
The spokesman to the president is a typical Nigerian,there is no excuse over the presidency action on this Ribadu issue.If the president is actually a graduate,what stops him from read through the relevant Acts/Statues before approving and signing a bloody memo from the IGP.
My submission is,Mr president is not in tune with modern day Nigeria.OBJ is still better in terms of selecting good hand into his administration.
[b]The first bad egg in this administration is Kingibe,[/b]then AGF(the degrace to the legal profession).

Please tell me Baba Gana Kingibe is not in Government. Hopefully, it's another Kingibe you're talking about. Baba Gana kingibe helped in no small measure in the destruction of the Nigerian economy several years ago

cute9jaguy:
he did his job well,not so well though because he laft some people out, they have reasons to remove him or better put,send him for the course! so he's going,no doubt.

there should be no complaints about the removal of a man discharging his duties selectively

Perhaps we should all start rebuking those we know who contribute to the damage that the country recieves all around the world. Even as a Nigerian, I am very defensive whenever I come across other Nigerians here. We are very notorious for all the wrong reasons.

Everyone should try and ensure no one they know is involved in illegalities. it will surely be a good start. Many of us are always too willing to celebrate anything, no matter how illegal it may be.

I am not well informed about goings on there but did Ribadu discharge his duties without fear or favour? If he did it wothout favouring anyone or group, then Nigerians should rise up in his defence