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White girls are more romantic and they f*** beta too.
Black American girls are the best, then European girls.
African girls are the laziest and least romantic.
I guess you can say the same for black guys.
African American boys are more romantic than African boys.
The Carribean boys are more romantic than the African boys too.

My 3 sisters are all happily married to black non-African men. So there goes.
Most of my female cousins are married to either white men or non-African black men.
I am married to a Jamican girl myself.
The few Nigerian ladies I dated before I got married all wanted money, did not care for romance.
We have a long way to go in that romance department.
A looooooooooong way.

Elijah, the lone voice in the wilderness.

I can't wait for this airport to be completed. I hope it can be made cater to international interests too. No reason to ever visit those Lagos/Abuja airports.

Are people justified when they say this man is an antichrist or not?

So supporting gay rights makes him an anti-Christ?
Was reaching out to the gay population of the US not one of the agenda on his presidential compaign manisfesto?
Or we forget sometimes that we are not dealing with Nigerian politics?

Not only gays but all those who don't trust God's Word.  It should not surprise you that most of the folks supporting this declaration are atheists and agnostics who do not want the absolute truth of the Word of God to guide them.

If you want to the absolute truth and word of GOd to guide 'them', please start with your own country Nigeria. The affairs of other nations should not concern you as much, especially when you have more to deal with in your own country Nigeria. In other words, mind your own business.

From 419 to Paedophilia.
God please save our young girls in Nigeria from randy men without shame.

Don't let the decor fool you. Wait till you encouter the toilets that have not been washed for ages with mildew on the walls. The sheets give skin diseases too.

I love the food only, especially the Nigerian dishes buffets.

Over-prized and extremely filthy. The customer service sucks.

Give me a bed and breakfast in any London seedy joint or a "La Quinta" Inn any day.

debbynicky:
There is Maureen's pics. As 4 d post Chioma is more pretty and Maureen's shape is better

Maureen Solomon all the way.

nalijah07:
Would you prefer a SUPERFINE woman who took care of home, worked and didn't give you ANY problems, but was just not that good in bed or the average looking woman with the same qualities mentioned above, but this one rocked your world in bed?

This was a topic on the radio the other day because of the fact that Halle Berry is single again. The debate was on why she couldn't keep a man, even though she is so fine and seems to have a nice personality. The callers seemed to think it must have to do with her sexual performance. They said pretty woman think all they have to do is lay down and not do too much.

A woman can only be so good in bed for a while. It gets old you know. I would rather keep the friendship. How much sex can you have after 30 years even if you started at age 10?

Please give me a good cook, home-maker and caring mother anyday. Especially a woman with manners.
Sexual performance never kept any man from being faithful anyway. If it is not sex, it is height. If it is not height, it is weight.
Learn to be satisfied with what you have.

Not stupidity. They are married. Love conquers all, even if it takes ages.

nalijah07:
I have a friend who curses and disrespects her husband so badly. I have tried talking to her and she always just plays it down saying, "he is not going anywhere".

It looks like she is right, because whenever I see them out in public, they look so normal. All of this is done behind closed doors and often in front of the kids. I just wonder how he feels as a man to have this happen on a regular basis.

The man is doing the right thing. One day, the lady will wake up and find him gone. It is a marriage with children involved. The man is looking at the bigger picture. Not every man wants to go chasing skirts and marrying more than one wife. You guys should keep educating her. She is only acting on what she knows. Which is poor upbringing and bad communication skills. Most women who never had fathers at home or had legitimately married parents in a cordial domestic environment usually act like this. Men too. It is all about behaviour modification. Some therapy might help too. Some kind of private counselling session with a pastor or a shrink.

The same way a woman goes on after a man has belittled her.
You swallow your pride, communicate your feelings and dislikes and hope for the best.
I think, it is called love.
Life is not perfect.

Belittling people is the trade mark of black people generally. I think it is a cultural thing, because of too much sufferhead life.
Yet they still care for you but have poor communication skills.
You just have to be patient and teach her better ways to communicate.
Her parents probably did the same to her all her life.
Just be patient if you care enough.
The next one will be no better.
Work with what you have till you have exhausted all avenues.
Keep communicating and don't let it rub off on you.
The last thing you want to be is an emotionally abusive person like she is.
You are in a better position to make her a better person, for mutual benefits.

We know.
Stale news.
How we can get past all that is the bigger problem.

Diseases.

Out of OBJ came forth Jonathan.
You cant separate both.
JG is OBJ's legacy.
Don't expect anything miraculous.
His appointment or re-appointments of governmental functionaries have to be sanctioned by OBJ who put both Yaradua and himself in power.
Wake up and smell the cow dung.

I agree. OBJ is the worst thing that ever happened to Nigeria.
IBB never pretended to be what he is not.
OBJ? The most prominent Southerner in Nigeria. A wolf in sheep's clothing.
He made things worse and makes no apologies for his anti-social/political behaviors.

The most annoying part is he calls himself a Christian who sleeps with his family members.
A morally bankrupt individual children out of his so-called marriages to concubines.
The man is shameless. The worst thing that ever happened to Nigeria.
We should be burying him not Yaradua.
But God's time is the best we are told and I can't wait.

We already saw pictures of his last days(for over a year)
They were not pretty.
Please, spare us and let this man rest in peace.

Any northerner of course.
Maybe El Rufai or Nuhu Ribadu

Reason? To pacify the northerners after OBJ duped them by installing a terminally ill patient as their representative.

Definitely a northerner.
To keep them happy after being duped by OBJ.
What an evil genius of a master planner.

Exactly. He actually died 1 year ago imho
Just for the records only.
After tidying up.
May his soul rest in peace.
Amen.

Blame Senator Yerima.

deluxecad:
Forget about the so much noise about love and its too many misconceptions. Love is the ultimate, no doubt. But love seems to be die and fade with time if not nurtured. Love for one's spouse seems to wane when the kids start coming and the pressure of bringing them up weighs in. Should love be the only basis for marriage?

How old are you?
Even an infant knows that love should not be the only basis for friendship not to mention marriage.
Please, grow up and learn to ask intelligent questions.

Talk of tradition as an enemy of progress.

So, she left Nigeria to go and clean train stations in London with the help of her mother?
She has been there for many years and is still working as a cleaner of train stations?
I hope she graduated from the university?
What a wasted life starting at 21.
She needs to move her butt back to Nigeria, simple.

frosbel:
The chief Imam of Fouad Lababidi Central Mosque Sheik Tajudeen Bello said those protesting the marriage of Senator Ahmad Sani Yerima are hypocrites.

Speaking at the special family seminar of the Islamic Da'awah Group (IDG) yesterday in Abuja themed "The Ideal Husband", the Muslim cleric also said that the bosom-for-tat killings in Plateau State would not stop until perpetrators of the killings were brought to book by the government.

Senator Yerima has been in the eyes of the storm for marrying an Egyptian girl who was alleged to be 13 years old.

"It is unfortunate that the same people criticising Senator Yerima cannot criticise and protest the wanton child abuse going on in the country. Under their nose in Abuja, girls of school age are involved in prostitution and can be seen at hotels and streets. There is nothing wrong in that marriage as far as Islam is concerned." 

Sheik Bello listed sincerity, justice, forgiveness, wisdom, contentment, firmness, fear of Allah and imbibing the teaching of Islam as practiced by Prophet Muhammad as some of the characteristics of an ideal husband that goes a long way in shaping state of the family, society and world.

In his contribution, an educationist and Muslim cleric, Ustadh AbdulFatah Adeyemi, enjoined couples to seek ways of living harmoniously with each other, adding that obedience to the provisions of Islam is a guarantee of peaceful family life.

The Chief of Imam of University of Abuja, Dr Taofik AbdulAzeez, who urged Muslim couples to see their unionism as a destiny, test and trust from Allah and should ensure that they guard it to enjoy everlasting joy, said that married couples should prepared themselves to forgive each other and overlook their shortcomings.

http://allafrica.com/stories/printable/201005030487.html

My sentiments exactly. You will be surprised that most had under-aged housemaids from the villages molested by big ogas and their sons all over Nigeria. Who fought for them? Thank God for "Egyptian" blood. Nonsense.

Nigerians and hypocrisy.

I do not condone what Senator Yerima did of course. My question is why now?
We have some kind of elections coming up soon and this is the only story that can keep hitting the cyber airways.
Nigerians must be jobless for real.
Get a life all.

Marriage is for better for worse.
The lady has given your husband something you cannot give him.
Please tolerate the situation or move on with your life.
All are blessings from God.
Sorry o.
At 52, you will soon stroke out with man stress.
Leave the man alone to enjoy his new found love.
Leave the marriage if you can't take it.
The man has made his choice.

You must be pretty desperate madam.
I feel ashamed for you.

ThoniaSlim:
Also found myself in this position once. I had a crush on this dude who was a good friend. The dude in question was in love with me but didn't have the courage to say so. According to him, he was waiting for the right time. Well let's say when the right time came for him, I was already in love with someone else and in a serious relationship with the person.

Also found myself in this position once. I had a crush on this dude who was a good friend. The dude in question was in love with me but didn't have the courage to say so. According to him, he was waiting for the right time. Well let's say when the right time came for him, I was already in love with someone else and in a serious relationship with the person.

Obviously not more than once.
Sounds like you've been passed around quite a bit.
Slow down woman.

Control of what?
No perfect relationship, so quit wasting your time trying.

Your choice.
Your business, not ours.
Be prepared for the consequences, if you are unlucky to have sickle cell children.
Now you know.

The strain has ended many marriages.
Decide wisely.

Beautiful body and figure, but ugly face.
Just loving her finely chiselled neckline. Too bad money cannot buy beauty all the time.
Nice wedding.
But is this not one of the debtors in Nigeria?
The money used for this wedding should have paid off some debtors.

You can't spot a good man period.
Some good men have turned bad.
Some bad men have turned good.

You take your chances and go with the flow.
Hope for the best.

The definition of a good man is one with a conscience. Not many men have it.
Look around you.