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Manson1:
Things nobody may tell you about marriage:

1) At some point in marriage, love may fade, you will only need commitment to survive. Especially when your partner changes from the person you knew initially.

2) As a woman, enjoy your single life now because when you marry, you will let go of certain lifestyle and enjoyment because of kids and family responsibilities.

3) As a man, when you marry , you must let go of certain life for your family reputation and integrity.

4) Attraction Wanes. This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, one fine day, the attraction is sure to wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive when you fall inlove with your partner's soul, not just the body.

4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution.

5) You can stay many months without séx because of responsibilities.

6) Marriage is work, you work to make it work.

7) You need to forgive because you will always be offended.

8.) Childbirth can change your physical look or cause damage to your body. A successful child delivery is a miracle

9) If you marry someone who feels he or she is too good for you, you will suffer. The person will always make you feel less, like you're privileged to marry him/her

10) If you're a career driven person, marry a supportive partner, Marry someone who is eager to aspire. If you marry unsupportive partner or someone who settles for status quo, you will suffer alot

Cc; Walshak Kos

Let's hear from the married folks

Zee0007:
WHO WINS A GIRL'S HEART EASILY AND WHY?

A) Rich guy

B) Funny guy

C) Caring guy

D) Intelligent guy

IkpemhiTG:
Your candid advise is needed.

His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing.

On a second thought he will rather let the wife go while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.

My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.

ijustdey:
..........Ignores Recommendations To Prevent Future Occurrence



https://saharareporters.com/2023/07/13/exclusive-nigeria-airports-authority-faan-redeploys-southwest-manager-others-over

questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

Slynation:
I think if you understand the process very well...the fact you scored 205 or even 350 doesn't mean you can't take the exams if you wish too...

It's a very welcome development because the more students stay at home, the more they are been affected by brain drain...

My first jamb score then was 285, I applied for FUT Minna as my first choice, but after going there to write my Post UTME examination, I hated everything about the state and school setting, it's been over 12years but bro, till today I didn't know my score in that exam because I didn't even bothered to check the results...

But the most funny thing was that i couldn't attain that score in my next jamb due to work and hustle I embarked on...

So imagine if these policy was in voke then, students can use that one year to hustle hard while they apply for their choice university the next year with same score without thinking of going via the rigorous process of taking another jamb...At it stands now, gaining admission are taking some parents unawares...

I will use my Alma mater (Unizik) as an example. Currently, parents will have to cough out roughly 400K including accomodation immediately there wards are admitted...I think this policy will ease off stress on parents to atleast prepare for what's ahead.

Sorry...for the long epistle

Gossiphub:
https://twitter.com/mni_JJ/status/1679178690293383198?t=Jkv0iT7c5IUcma65pryYxQ&s=19

Wahala be like bicycle. Twitter is apparently on frenzy over this NIRSAL Loan by past administration.

JASONjnr:
This pregnancy will favour us and our families...

Penguin2:
NNPC was quick to tell us that they arrested a vessel with about 800,000 barrels of stolen crude oil, but despite revealing that the company that owns the ship is a Nigerian registered coy, they were silent on the owner(s) of the company.

Well, here you have them.


https://twitter.com/jacksonpbn/status/1678923531378208769?s=46&t=2AB_wrBea-oBYJf5ZCFV-A[/quote]If this vessel had escaped Nigerian waters the kind money wey go enter acct over 50million dollars and to think it has been going on for years...haaa

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/naira-devaluation-nigerian-students-face-tough-times-in-uk-tuition-soars-by-60/?amp

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/eonsintelligenc/status/1679128385677676549

RTID:
Okay, this is crazy. I was with my friend yesterday and he told me a very shocking true life story.
A particular Yahoo boy went to plus up his Yahoo. Babalawo tell am say make him sleep with 25 women for the whole thing to be successful.
“I will advice you to sleep with 50 ladies at least, because many of these women have been used.”, the babalawo said.

This guy went to book a lodge & stayed there for about 2 months. All he was doing was sleeping with different women.
He slept with over 120 women & went back to the baba.
120 women!!? Quite shocking right? Now, here's the most shocking part of it.

The babalawo told him that out of over 120 girls that he slept with, only 8 have not been used. The rest of them have been used by someone else.
Ahhh! This is crazy. I was traumatized when I heard this story. Things are happening.

So many thoughts came through my mind. This is just one of the many reasons why we should flee from sexual immorality.

TrueNigerian300:
You guys are just foolish, if Obi had won would dollar be equal 410
It was never about good governance for you fools but just want one of your kinsmen to be there.
Any reasonable person knows that the unification of the exchange rates is the right thing to do. But half educated illiterate like you think otherwise.

I just pity some of you fools sometimes and wonder who gave birth to you.

TheBillyonaire:
People are too shocked to comment and too non-concerned to bother.

One thing is sure, Tinubu is basically exposing Nigeria for the rot that her Economy is, I can not blame a man who is showing me my ugly picture.

MykellOni:
Attendance: Present ✔️
Hmmmm this one wey naira dey devalue everyday by day so., Omoh I hope say e don dey favour all those it will favour me and my family peeps them so o.
I jz pray say no be from fry pan to fire we dey go so. It is well!

TinubuShet:
I’m already tired of the relationship it’s not leading anywhere since she started working in an hotel in which I’m strongly against

Nazgul:
A member of a church underwent a major operation, and his medical bill was N245,000. And he couldn't afford it.

His brother went to the Pastor on Sunday and told him to assist. The Pastor picked the microphone and told the church that our brother needs N245,000 to settle his medical bill.

Members began to donate.

After donations, what was realized was N760,000. And after the church, the Pastor counted N245,000 and gave the brother to the sick person, and then he put the balance into the church account.

The sick person's family are aggrieved. They're of the opinion that members raised that money for their brother and not the church so the church has no right to keep back any amount given to their brother. Cos the announcement was specifically to raise money for the sick brother.

The pastor is saying that they requested for 245k and he has given it to them. So whatever is left belongs to the church.

Is the pastor right?

Or is he greedy?

Contributions are welcomed.

Zigzagman:
abegi, just forget dat private school mata. e get one of my yard people wey go find work for private school last month. Na 17,000 dem wan pay am to teach 4 subjects. 17,000 o

chi4ik4:
Good day everyone, your professional advice is highly needed.

I opened my company for about 7 months ago and I can save 1m-1.3m monthly after the cost of running business including payment of salaries. I currently have 11 well paid staff.

However: Japa syndrome has kept me in a state of dilemma to close down the company and Japa or stay back and keep thriving.

Another factor is the continues poor government policies which affect the cost of running the business.

NOTE: I'm a health care provider who can thrive in any English speaking country. Thanks as I await for your commitments.

LegendHero:
Source: https://www.legit.ng/education/1543187-list-nigerians-graduated-perfect-cgpa-50/