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HanisahZuwy:
Why do you say so though?

If you added abuja why not add lagos too

HanisahZuwy:
Please, I need your input/opinions/suggestions/advice on the state I can find love and also find work.

Below are the states I have in mind. If there's any other state you think would be better that's not on the list, you can mention them.


These are the states I have in mind;

Anambra state
Cross River state
Enugu state
Ondo state
Rivers state
Delta state
Niger state
Abuja( FCT)

Please, I would appreciate your inputs/suggestions/opinions/advice. Thanks

Was checking to make sure abuja and lagos isn't there.

LithiumSupplier:
1. I work in a project development company.

2. I am at the assistant manager level.

3. I do most of the work; from designing and maintaining company's websites, to clerical works such document preparation, oversee environmental consulting jobs, to troubleshooting company's systems and many more.

4. The problem is that the company does not appreciate all my efforts. They push every blame on me.

The owner and his son are just so inconsiderate. For example, I was working on a project that required attachment of some sensitive documents.

Once it was time, I requested for the documents from the owner, instead he provided me with different documents entirely. Many times, he will shout at me for asking questions. So I assumed that he didn't want the documents out in the public.

While reviewing my work, the owner was okay with the attached documents until he decided to make presentation with the work to prospects.

As soon as the prospects registered dissatisfaction with the out of place documents (So to say), he called and started blasting me on the phone, calling me stup!d and stuff. He would always let me take the fall for his own mistakes all the time.

His son on the other hand is just too empty and overbearing. His father would always ask him to supervise any project I'm working on.
He would okay many things and I can't say otherwise.

When we present the project to his father and the father decides to query any part of the things which he okayed earlier, he will push all the blames on me and the father will call to nag and lambast me for things I know nothing about.

This has been going on for like 3 years now.

My regret was that I turned down an offer from a small oil company in Lagos last year and early this year too.

My current pay is 300,000 NGN without accommodation, while the Lagos' was 350,000 NGN with accommodation.

I'm currently in Abuja. I was scared of the traffic in Lagos.

I really don't know what to do anymore...

This issue is affecting my mental health.

This guy talks down on me anyhow without respect.

This is a guy that can't properly put together a common letter.

As plan B, I have set up two blogs and Google just approved Adsense application on one, while I'm working on the other one.
I have also set up Facebook pages and have grown to over 232,000 active followers.

I am also an environmental consultant with over 15 years experience, I also major in GIS and I design websites too.

I am married with 2 kids. What should I do?

One thing I can't take from anybody is someone else shouting at me no matter who you are..I inherited it from my father..no matter how much you pay me..I might put up with a person unbearing attitude but him cup go full one day I am quiet reserved and analyse the action and words of ppl I deal with constantly assessing the motive..I always advise ppl to let ppl know where you stand so they don't cross boundaries..don't let those motherfuckkeesssr instill fear in you..deal with you job professionally let them know this is how it should be done and you won't take the fall if the project goes south if they choose to do otherwise.

Mr Speaker... off the Mic ...off the mic

Beauty attracts character keeps..I see beautiful women that can replace my woman daily but I av never gone further to assess their character..but I met one she ticks all my boxes and I started wondering the essence of monogamy.

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

Full time husband doing wat...its not bad if I marry alakija type of woman my manliness can manage that kind of energy but like any other woman there are boundaries that cannot be crossed and what do mean by full time husband..hope its not just a sex machine or one doing house chores not that I can't do it occasionally but not a must I love a clean environment ..no harm employing helps at home if we stay in a mansion but as a hustler that I am I would keep looking for things to be busy with and also give enough time to spend with my family..she should be focused too and not a whooreeeeee. Cos in that area it's a no no.

Curious346:
We are the giant of Africa , largest black nation on earth , the father of ECOWAS .

It PAINS MY HEARTH anytime I see lamentations about fuel price hike in Nigeria on social media.
Have we lost our dignity and prestige ?

If small Ghana pays N1600 per liter for pms , what then is the wailing about a paltry N618 per liter in Nigeria ?

I think we need to look within to find out what our real problems are. AND TO ME IT'S CORRUPTION, BIGOTRY AND STATE SPONSORED TRIBALISM (site @DSS)

Way is Ghana minimum wage..wonder why ppl to look at the full picture.

Funniest joke of the year..I can't stop laughing

Now is the time to live up to our name..we are the GIANNNTTTT OFFF AFRRRICUALLALA..to hell with their vaccine. If una like continue stealing our common wealth and stashing it in foreign bank accounts..when una die una go vomit the money back just abacha is doing..you cant live in more than a house at a time and no man can consume a cow in a day

Benblaq:
Would you fault this result on the students or lecturer?

Those c and e guys are geniuses..they are adjusting to the reality of the times..you can't be thinking about wat to eat and score good grades..you can't be in a country where after graduation there isn't any job waiting for you anywhere u go still join those ppl wey no go school drive keke...do pos...open shop dey sell in bales..do fashion design or carry camera dey do photographer..event planner...bakers and expect such student to carry book for head.

Good riddance..you want wealth and ritual is the only means you can come up with...ur slowpoke mother too joined you in your foolishness.

osazsky:
and who told u its minimum wage That causes hyper inflafion...what are we exporting..just crude

Flooding the system with devalued notes won't solve the underlying problem..it would create more harm than good.

EcoBrick:
https://leadership.ng/federal-govt-may-raise-minimum-wage-to-n200k-to-take-decision-soon/

The kind inflation going to hit the country..we go dey buy bread 5000naira coke 2000naira dollar would be 3000naira per dollar..an we would return to square one...we must become productive to get out of this mess...even if na tooth pick...plastic....processed food...bandits...we must export something if not the ditch is getting deeper.

Love800:
U have fridge?

Yes I do but u don't av to av fridge..just warm it in the morning before going out and in the evening when u return.

fadsam:
I notice some or most of ladies have turn themselves to absolute parasites,calling men that cant or wouldnt fund their fantasy life-style broke and lazy.
Meanwhile the only reason i figured out so far for this mentality is wretchedness, extreme poverty has wallowed their generation so much that they now see man as automated poverty alleviator even when they have nothing to offer, imagine a grown up lady that the only phone her father has ever bought for her is a toy phone, now demanding iphone,samsung from another man.
If a young man is lazy,broke & useless to u because he didnt have up to a million in his account,pls what is ur father that is grown up & his account is like a radio frequency channel.

Common with most women from struggling homes. Girls Brought up in real Wealth aren't interested in your money they just want you to have your shittt together..love them and exude confidence
A wise woman attracts wealth to her man and herself

This tinubu regime no favour to dey buy food outside oo..I know some ppl go disagree but its the truth.

Just use 30 to 40k buy foodstuff for house..not much would have said rice
Quarter bag 9500...16derica
Beans half paint 1400
Garri full paint 1500
Groundnut oil 2.5litres 2500 to 3k
Palm oil 2.5 litres 2500naira
Onions 500 naira..like 20 big pieces
Grounded pepper 500naira
Gas 9kg 5850

U can begin cooking soup or stew
Me I cook stew twice in a month and soup twice in a month each stew costs 3500(tomato 1500...meat 2k)
Soup costs 3000naira( egusi half derica..750..crayfish100 vegetables 100naira I use part of my grounded pepper...meat 2k...pomo 500 ..that's 3k to 3500)

I eat as a like breakfast and dinner for the full month..occasionally I buy hollandia yoghurt anytime I feel prosperous..for that day something wey I dey buy daily for myself now them wan push am enter 1k some placed 1100.

My feeding expenses as a bachelor
Better than spending 1400 for two square meals and you won't be full..

Merry100:
Some men ask their wives to become full-time housewives after marriage. However, if you are not interested in being a full-time housewife, it is important to emphasize this to your partner before marriage. This is one of the factors that create problems in a marriage.

99 percent of women would grab this opportunity if the husband is very wealthy even the educated ones..its imprinted in the feminine dna to enjoy soft life. Thats why our women are becoming masculined gradually loosing what it takes to be a woman cos of them wanting to do things like men but it doesn't end well as it tells on their body..physiological clock...looks ...name it. Some it's not their fault others just want tobe dragging position with men.

Omooba77:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/increase-minimum-wage-to-n100000-instead-of-n8000-palliatives-primate-ayodele-tells-tinubu/

Hmm if govt increases minimum wage to 100000 and my salary jumps to 833,333naira...how much was I earning before...

Love the fact this regime is paying our debts. Probably from money saved from subsidy removal. More concerned about those Chinese loans those guys are very wise

We only have rich, about to be poor and poor.
Rich...standard of living no reduce their networth just drop

About to be poor...those one wey before their living na calculation..tinubunomics don shake dem them just dey live on the edge..na them they begin charge for giving ppl lift cos fuel cost...na them dey increase their trekking distance to reduce tfare...na them dey Park car for house or even sell am since times are hard.

Poor..where most ppl dey now..no income na to dey look for ppl wey go buy free drink...pursue small girls wey dey Street to turn dem to baby mama..smoke weed with the little money dem hustle/beg or thief to wipe away frustration..playing draft for years no self improvement with their usual group.some go grow old for their papa/mama house.

labake1:
Pick one default you can accept in a partner


1. Snoring
2. Sex addiction
3. laziness
4. Bad cook
5. Nonchalant attitude
6. Mouth odour
7. Body odour
8. Drug and alcohol addict


As for me, I can only accept no. 4

A partners that snores was sent to spoil my next day except she won't mind me after intimacy I move to another room far away..u stay I I stay downstairs not on the same floor.
Sex addiction not bad..love women who know wat they want sexually..was counselling a young couple she was concerned about her vaginnnna widening after child birth I tot in my mind cos she doest want her husband to look outside alas I was wrong she felt she won't enjoy the knacking again and it's very important to her.i was like this is a woman that knows what she wants.

Laziness..depends on when she meets me already made or struggling..if she ticks all boxes I can cope with that..bit one thing I won't condone is infidelity.

Bad cook...if am made who cook help can always employ a cook

Non challant attitude..I can marry thd type of lady but we won't have any meaningful discussion together..

Mouth odour..body odour..a NO...NO...

Drug and alcohol addicts the present generation o ladies it would be difficult to see a lady who doesn't engage in such..some women even smoke weed more than men and the number is increasing gradually..by my estimate 30 percent of Nigerian ladies take substance viz a viz loud..shisha...weed...ref...trama..codeine..pent.

adecz:
https://leadership.ng/ryan-taylor-sparks-break-up-rumours-as-he-unfollows-dj-cuppy-on-instagram/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

It always looked like Cuppy was trying
too hard & the guy was probably just
using her as he didn't look like he was
really into her.

Wetin be her problem really❓ Guys seem
to always use and dump her, which
makes me speculate say she no "sweet"
down there⬇️ 😉😉😉😉

She should just try and look for a cool
9ja dude and settle down.


FP pls🙏

Cuppy should make her relationship low key and only make is open after tying the knot..like say 1 Yr after..don't like the attention her relationship life is getting nobody deserves such public intrusion into one's private life.i wish her well but she should also check herself and what she holds really dear cos wat she see as right or wrong could actually be messed up.

duduade:
As a man to ladies I will say NONE


Marry either at your own peril

You can't advise a lady always remember that cos she won't listen

Trustmea:
Ladies over to you

Most women would go for a rich man who is a womaniser.. they would deny it but deep down its a lesser evil. They wiuld rather cry in a brabus

We miss Bubu who would have tot of this day

Fuel go land 2027

NBAjunior:
My dick was fat and thick tho not too long after marstubating like 3 days ago I discovered my length has reduced drastically when I measured it. please I’m worried my dick is now slim and thin help

Had sex with my girlfriend yesterday didn’t feel a thing from her usual tightness

Psychology..hope your woman no recently jam gbollaaar wey expand am you con dey feel bad.

iwaeda:
Tinubu's Palliative: What can you do with N8,000?

8k can even take most ppl to work per week..instead of dolling out cash...that can make some essential things cheap and affordable..like food and transport..I no talk fuel oo but some unscrupulous ppl would start exporting the food to neighbouring countries.

gabbytabby:
The Apple does not fall far from the tree. They usually have good mentors so it’s to be expected.

Very true..the mentorship part is very important and most grew up in the university environment regularly frequenting the dept or faculty...those that matter are their next door neighbours and they often see at functions..so really it's expected.

NapoleonHill:
Don't mind them. Many of their parents are projecting them to take over their businesses and offices.

Go to federal institutions and see the same surname in numerous departments and units. It's hypocrisy all again.

There is no class set you won't see like 25 to 30 percent of that set being lecturers or profs children and they hardly fail...especially those competitive courses engineering, medicine, law.

lexylaw09:
Lagos was built by the Yorubas with the hard earned money from their cocoa farms. The airport and the sea port you are using in lagos today was built by Awolowo with money from cocoa. Yorubas never needed oil money to progress. And we still remain the envy of other nations for a lot of good reasons.

O hun ta ni lan gbe laruge

How come if lagos was already built as far back as 20yrs ago alot of choice estates were bushes you could afford with chicken change.