Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by Blueelf: 5:51pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
etidy: The warriors are just wasting curry's prime for one useless future build. Trade draymond and one or 2 of those pick for ben simmons.  Bros, e be like say you no like GSW |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 5:49pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
daveP: Its my birthday...another year to look forward to.  Happy birthday. Wish you all the best life has to offer |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 5:48pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
fabyom: Without injury Bucks can't stand this Heat roster! You sure?? No wahala. Maybe, we'll meet on the NBA thread. I don't want to derail |
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by Blueelf: 1:56am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Khanben: How the hell is AD a top 75 player and Dwight Howard is not? These voters are on something For once, I support you |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 1:51am On Oct 22, 2021 |
fabyom: Heat killing Bucks! just the start of the season Watch everything go back to normal after 20 games |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 10:29pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: Has anyone downplay osimhen here ?
Or maybe you see the Haaland argument as downplaying
Na Haaland we talk say better pass osimhen ooo,no be Jonathan David or Patrick bamford
Wait make komekn come back you go see the real definition of downplaying 
When reading anything about osimhen I ignore comments from Nigerians ,I must say I have been impressed from what Europeans and mostly Napoli fans are saying about him Osimhen is a very good player no doubt despite his glaring weaknesses Not long ago, we were comparing him with Tammy Abraham and this generated lots of controversies  Well, its still too early to judge |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 9:01pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
nelszx: January 9th, 2022 Thanks bro Chai Omo Liverpool has to hold out ooo Our 2 best players will be away. We really need to shop in January |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 8:25pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Please guys, what is the date for AFCON
cc andrewbaba44 |
Romance › Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Blueelf: 1:46pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
bodybuilder: The easiest to avoid heartbreak is being real with yourself. The girl is not yours, it just your turn. Men bin dey handle before you, and men go still handle after you.
The problem is the you guys have been sold the concepts of soulmates.
It's good to be in love, but just enjoy the moment and stop thinking to love long term.
Don't let your life revolve around your girl. Let your be your girl, don't try to make your girl your best friend, your therapist and shit.
It will be harder for you to recover from heartbreak if you do everything with the same person. It doesn't mean you must cheat on your girl. But don't disconnect with your friends, family, hobbies and passion because of your girl.
And people have stop the delusion that dating will must lead to marriage. All your ex boyfriends you didn't marry them, why do you think it's this one that will marry you?
And finally, love doesn't exist, it was just a concept that seems good on paper, but does not apply in reality.
Relationship is just an exchange to utility, nothing special it's like contract but people act as if it's different. Best advise so far |
Family › Re: What's Your Childish Trait? by Blueelf: 8:44pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
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Education › Re: Uchechi Promise Echefu Best Graduating Cadet In Nigerian Defence Academy Kaduna by Blueelf: 8:43pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 11:09pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ugo4u: If you hear the crimes/atrocities some of the dismissed cadets commited you would justify their dismissal. It's better they're flushed out of the system now before they get commissioned and bring disgrace to the army, we can all testify to the uselessness of the NPF today it was acts of indiscipline that was left to fester in the system that brought them to this state. FYI some cadets even go as far as raping their junior female cadets, some came in with forged credentials forget matter plenty, cadets no dey hear word. You have a good point So sad However, they need to be monitored, especially those dismissed in terma 5 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 7:49pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
HitlerGaddafi: They sent so many terma 5 kids back home some months ago. Some were even sent packing for crimes they committed in terma 1. Watch crime rate increase A better approach should have been taken to pay for their crimes Maybe demote them to terma 3 or absorb them as NCOs,,but outright dismissal of people trained for battle and leaving them to the mercy of society is the worst approach |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 5:31pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
RiceProducers: Some very sensible talk. I hope the NA takes note. This is why I love the British Army. Have you served in the British army before? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 5:25pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
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Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 3:06pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: I have never seen this in my entire life when a coach will name a squad and will name only 3 midfielders and like 8 attackers
So because ndidi etebo and iwobi are not available onyeka Aribo and bonke are the only midfielders we have In Europe ?
Na wa ooo Its sad really We are stuck with him till his contract runs out |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 3:01pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Blueelf: 10:44pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Ted Lasso Season 2:
Nate is an ingrate and his ending will not be good except the writers choose otherwise
In reality, what goes around comes around |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Blueelf: 11:25pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Better days ahead
Keep your head up Super Eagles
Chriskels, I sincerely apologize for the other day. Anger got the better of me. I can understand if you're still angry. Take care bro |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Blueelf: 6:01pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
jikins: The last season ruined the incredible series. It was sad to watch actually. How? |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Blueelf: 5:59pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
nani667:
 What nonsense is this I will prefer the guy that acts as "Loki" This better not be the case. Tom Holland as James Bond   ? |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Blueelf: 12:19pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
posty56: brah you must be hell bent on wanting to falling in love , , I don't know how to answer your question, my own is if you are going into relationship use your head, this thing we call love is flawed. He that hath Ears, let him hear. If he likes, he can jump in blindly all in the name of "Love" |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Blueelf: 2:32am On Sep 29, 2021 |
Carchoice: I am silent reader too. I was and still guilty of what the posters on the thread are preaching against. My conscience don’t let me comment.
I will talk about sexual desire and self control
The sex I had last year and some parts of this year could hold me for the next 10 years no cap. I’m always ashamed to say it. There was a day I had sex with 4 different ladies. One at 5am because She slept over and left in the morning. Another lady came at around 3pm and stayed till 7pm thereabout. I saw her off to the estate gate and saw two ladies going to a nearby hotel. I signaled one and collected her contact. Got home and got bored all of a sudden. I called her to come to my place, She told me her condition and we had an agreement. Few minutes later She called back that She can’t leave her cousin alone . She asked to bring her along. We had a new bargain. Both ladies came and I had sex with them. Sorry I had to post all this but just to give insight on where I am coming from. This is one of the many sexcapades I have had. And more of it happened this year.
I started asking myself questions as to how I get the energy to partake in all these endless and fruitless sex parties. I called it endless because you will never get permanent satisfaction from it. Few days later the urge comes back, what to do and to what end? You get trapped in a loop trying to satisfy what you didn’t create nor understand;.
I started doing research and reading online. What I saw made me realized I had been wasting something very vital to human and especially Man(male) because man is a creator(created in God’s image).
Sexual energy when rightly used is what makes a man to thrive, create and aim for success, it can make you godly too. This energy is like a fuel you put in a car to take you to a preferred destination. Where the wastage occurs is when you lack the knowledge to rightly use it or when the means to exercise this energy is readily and cheaply available(sex and masturbation). This then turn into a habit because that is what you can see as the only means to suppress this energy force which you don’t understand.
I have a friend I met through my brother. This young man is well to do. Different kinds of women visits him almost every day and night. But you know the surprising thing? He hardly have sex with them. Sometimes months you see him with different ladies but no sex. He tried explaining something to me but I couldn’t comprehend it because of my love for pvssy.
Fast forward this year during my research was when I got to understood what this young man was really doing. He was like me too. He liked sex so much but he found a way to hold on to the energy and put it to use.
Here’s what he did; He found out frequent ejaculation is a problem, he knew he had gotten used to having sex always, he couldn’t just do away with women completely but continued inviting them over just to be around him. I’m going to explain something I think many people here will not understand. Do you know that you can feel sexually fullfilled just by having a lady around you? On your bed, a lady you can just gist with, play with, even at the sight of seeing her buubs, you get satisfied without having actual sex. Some men even go as far as pre-intimacy, suck buubs and they are okay. He doesn’t go far more than the above mention because he had already conditioned his mind that, that 2 to 5min pleasure of sex is a disaster to his success and spiritual journey.
if you are very much into meeting with hook up ladies, they will tell you stories of high caliber men they met and spent some time with and they gave lots of cash but didn’t have sex with them. You and I will think they are impotent or ritualist.
Few days ago, I was relaxing and I sensed the energy was coming, it comes in form of energy waves, at first an overwhelming feeling but not specified. Reason why i said not specified is, this feeling is an energy, it is not just a sexual energy, your feedback to this energy is what it holds on to. It’s like the universe knocking on your door telling you it’s time to create something. What is it you are going to create? You have no idea. There are two major creations that takes place, the creation of life, which is having sex, getting a lady pregnant and giving birth thereby adding to the life circle. The second creation is the creating of the environment for the life you created to thrive. Your life was created this way too.
Back to the energy waves, This makes most people get irrational and irritated because they don’t understand what is happening to them. The females get this too. For a man, the moment you see an erotic photo of a lady or you unfortunately let your mind wander to how Sandra rode your dlck the last time. The energy automatically hold onto that thought and expresses it sexually. We have a choice to make at this stage but we mostly end up with no choice than to call Sandra or a new catch to express this energy in the form of sex or masturbation.
And immediately you finish having this sex or masturbation, there comes a feeling of “fulfillment”, whereas feeling of fulfillment is supposed to come when you achieve a success feat. Success doesn’t have to be becoming a millionaire, any work you successfully completes is success. But instead you get fulfilled just from releasing semen. Most times the zeal to do other things dies immediately.
If you feel guilty after sex or masturbation, your subconscious mind is actually talking to you but you have no idea how to communicate with it and understand what it’s saying. Religious people calls this sin.
I have come to realize that Bible and Quran teachings on fornication and abstinence is nature’s law and not some religious jargons.
I’m not telling anyone to stop having sex, I’m just telling my observations as to why do I keep having sex, unfulfilled and endless sex, trying to understand what this sexual urge really is.
Being a redpiller is deeper than anyone thinks. Women are never the problem and will never be. I have started to see women as women and not the problem but as an agent that depletes my energy, but this only happens when you allow it, because you are unknowingly using your energy against your desire to create feats for sexual pleasure.
I have also started looking to make friends with women that are on no sex friendship, ladies that you can’t discuss sexual topics with and they will also know you are a hard nut to crack. A woman will only manipulate you and turn you into a simp when She notices you express your energy on sexual related stuffs. She can notice this just from mere interaction. A simple YES or NO to some of their questions can give you away.
About paying for sex, I’m guilty as charge I can be sentenced to life imprisonment. No CAP. A man that has made up his mind to pay for sex is vulnerable to manipulation. He is Vulnerable to all the women he finds attractive and wanting to lay. Paying for sex is bowing to the pressure of your sexual desire. You are already manipulated.
As a redpiller, if you don’t remove sex from the equation and learn to make platonic friends with women, you are not a redpiller and you will never fully understand what it means to be a redpiller. And even if you maintain a platonic relationship with a lady and one day you see a crack or a vulnerability in the friendship and sex is readily available, can you reject it and be the one to end the relationship by telling her she’s trying to take advantage of you just as the way women do men?
Sorry for the long post. Na everyday I Dey learn from the thread, I just thought I should contribute today. Bros I have bookmarked your post. Very inspiring and educative Can I PM you Sir? |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Blueelf: 3:26pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Ronnnie: Dear Redpillers be careful of this women around you...You might be getting all the sex you want,but when this women want to Destroy you can,it's as easy as breathing...Al they need to do is to accuse you,then everything you ever worked for goes down the drain...Even in the Quran it is stated that alot of women are in hellfire,the Bible also advices young men to stay away from women siting the story of Samson as a good example,yet most men here don't listen(stilll claiming redpill) Look at R.kelly,he was accused then of sleeping with underage girls back then but he kept killing the case Kos he had the money to bribe them and was settling each girl financially,but now that he is broke and can no longer settle them,he is being charged and sentenced to life in prisonment. Look at Frank Ribery,He slept with a prostitute who forged her age to be 19,not knowing she was just 16,Frank Ribery was accused and even lost his spot in the France national squad,but no one accused the girl for wrongfully declaring her age. Look at Neymar,he fell in love with a single mother in Brazil,bought her and her kids gift,sponsored her child school and even paid for her flight to Paris and back just be spend time with her.How did he repay her by filing a rape case when she got back to Brazil..Neymar saving Grace was the WhatsApp chat he released where they were both sexual with each other. Look at cristaino Ronaldo,He went to a club in network,had few drinks with a girl he liked there and they went to the male tiolet and had sex,when he returned to Manchester in 2008,she filed for rape but Ronaldo and Manchester didn't. Want the matter escalating so they paid her off with 7 million euros....Now she has filed another case again stating she has not mentally recovered stating she now wants 50 million euros in settlement. I can mention other Cases like Benjamin Mendy(of man City) who is now in jail, Johnny Depp who his wife claimed was physically harassing her but video evidence showed it was the opposite but still he lost his place as jack sparrow in the popular movie pirates of the Caribbeans,We all know the story of Tiger woods..Even look at our own Dbanj who a lady(forgotten her name) came up and said he raped her in an hotel room but wtf did you follow him to do if not to have sex.... To those Redpillers who think money is enough to keep your girl...look at the marriages of tiger woods,bill and Melinda gates,Jeff bezos and his wife,Dr dre....this will tell you that no matter what you have or what you offer,you can never satisfy a woman...
You are never a true redpiller if you don't know how to control your sexual desire...Better learn from the stories of celebrities and be wise..The world is against you as a Man It's not every Hole you stick your dick into because when you get into that Hole,you might not make it back out but just keep going down..Be safe out there my brothers Best comment on this thread in a while. Usually, I'm a silent follower but I chose to comment because all you said is true. There's a reason the Bible mentions the art of "self-control" repeatedly. Not because God doesn't want sex but it's actually to protect the male from destruction. Downfall of Solomon started with his love for women. Those women led him o start worshipping their idols and he forgot the God that granted him wealth and prosperity. My guys, no matter what anybody tells you, self-control especially against sexual desires is key. Its an admirable trait. Espouse it and build it up. Selah |
Travel › Re: Diasporans How Much Do You Spend In Nigeria During Visits? by Blueelf: 1:13pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
pansophist: Guys, alot of this guys are lying. Over 2.5M in a month? That's like spending about 100k everyday. Really? Why una de lie like this? I don't know where this guys find the money sef, lots of Nigerians abroad are broke. Real time. No joke. Make una de lie small small abeg.
I understand that you intend to make folks back home miserable, your sense on worth is predicated on how much other puts you on a pedestals, and them having the consciousness that you're doing fine, but it is wrong. It means you're a shitty person. Thank you jars. You even see most of them speaking with two sides of the mouth. You hear comments like "I came back home and spent some millions and then I saw this country is not easy and then I ran back. But please abroad too is hard ooo. Don't rush over here". They think everybody here won't read their comments thoroughly. |
Travel › Re: Diasporans How Much Do You Spend In Nigeria During Visits? by Blueelf: 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Rtk5: I spent about 1.2m on my last visit to Nigeria that was in April and i didnt stay for up to 2months. I just advised myself to go back. Thanks to my friends who are all doing well so no much expectation. I wish people could be enlightened to know that abroad is not as they think it is. You go suffer ooo. Tet you tan back to abroad "that is a place of suffering" Loll.. You people sef |
Family › Re: What Weird Experience Have You Had With A Pregnant Woman? by Blueelf: 5:58pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
chatinent: Pregnant women that will useless your life with errands?
Well, my own is after delivery.
I didn't visit my sis when she delivered cos I wasn't around...
When I came in, after a lil time.. I don't know what she wanted to go and buy. She gave me the small uncle to feed.
Feeding that uncle was the slowest moment of my life.
He will still vomit it.
I nearly give am slap.
The thing pained me.
I spent up to two years feeding that guy I won't lie.
I hail all women who do this.
#Bows. So sweet tho. I'm sure you're very close to "small uncle" |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 10:00pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
I know some families are currently in mourning
However, I want to ask about the state of training of our troops
When something becomes too frequent, then it means the troops are not learning or the leadership is purposely aloof
When the rate of ambushes begin to rise, it may start to reduce the gains made by our troops and dampen morale
I am not a soldier or a field officer but if I am to be sent out on patrol, I would've thought out measures to take to reduce the risk of ambushes.
I am just thinking out loud but I may be wrong |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by Blueelf: 9:56pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
cutievik: We have to do something against them, it's one too many... I don't support them but there's something called freedom of the press Gagging them doesn't make the Govt any better Two wrongs don't make a right The fact that people aare beginning to see them as crude and heartless is okay |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Blueelf: 8:37pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
jiggaz: Why Women Kill Season 2 Is it a documentary? |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Blueelf: 11:30am On Sep 24, 2021 |
BTW, you guys should check out "THe Wonder Years". Narrated by Don Cheadle
I am hooked already |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Blueelf: 11:30am On Sep 24, 2021 |
Achilles100: Omo to start Sex Education dey hard me o, I have the entire 3rd season on my phone.
I started it, but I just exited it, but I am watching other shows.
 Sex education is shit |