Politics › Re: Christmas: I Have No Regrets Forgiving Tony Kabaka Adun – Gov Obaseki by Bluffly: 8:11pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
soliddust2020: Obaseki you sure say you don forgive Kabaka so? Na long spoon with the devil |
Sports › Re: Napoli's Lawyer Threatens To Sue Osimhen If He Travels To AFCON With Nigeria by Bluffly: 7:57pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
ogbiwa: Recuperating Napoli striker, Victor Osimhen, may miss the fast-approaching Africa Cup of Nations if a report from Italy is anything to go by.
Napoli lawyer, Mattia Grassani, according to report, warns clubs could sue to stop their players participating in the Africa Cup of Nations.
“Considering the epidemiological situation, there could be legal action, because this tournament takes away valuable resources from the clubs,” Napoli lawyer Grassani told CalcioNapoli24.
“It is a particular historic moment, so it would be different if we felt 99 percent confident of the situation. The clubs invested a lot of money signing players like Victor Osimhen, so if he were to become infected, that’d be tough to deal with.
“The first step would be legal action to prevent the call-up, then if there were concrete elements to sue because the health standards are not the same as in European competitions, then there could be more appeals to gain an exemption for Europe-based players.”
Cameroon has only five per cent of the population vaccinated, there are fears this could turn into a super-spreader event for the continent and the entire football world.
Clubs are increasingly concerned at the idea of letting their players participate in the competition, citing health worries.
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/napoli-plots-to-end-osimhens-afcon-dream/ What an insult |
Sports › Re: Meet Jose Mourinho's Daughter, Matilde & Son, Jose Jr (Pictures) by Bluffly: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2021 |
pastie: See breast uncovered as a father I wonder how he feels walking with her in public.
That moment trying so hard not to get caught staring at your daughter unavoidable breast.
Chaiiiiiiiii very awkward
Where that Wills Smith meme pretending not to look  I tire o. My daughter can't dress like that not to talk of next to me |
Travel › Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Obtain A Nigerian Passport? (Photos) by Bluffly: 7:04am On Dec 17, 2021 |
When you apply online, you have deprived the officers from making money, so they frustrate applicants. |
Politics › Re: FG To Stop Customs From Revenue Collection by Bluffly: 3:30pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
baralatie: It is customs that you will meet at first contact! You will run into serious problems if at first contact the only thing you are showing customs official is a receipt that they themselves cannot verify!
This is one of the reasons why tinapa had serious problems! People why presenting unverifiable and frivolous receipts! By the time customs did investigation (people were found to be defrauding the fg) That is not a problem. All that is required is a verification portal to which the customer will have access to verify or a barcode to scan and verify. A system is required and not just a fantasy |
Politics › Re: Gender Equality Bill Anti-Islam — Northern Senators by Bluffly: 8:30am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Frigga13: Is not only Islam.. The Bible placed man as the head of th family. Same with our traditional custom.
Which one come be gender equality..
Real end time.
Maybe righteousness will have some to say Leaving religion out. It is not possible to achieve equality. It should be the word equity. Na women go still suffer |
Politics › Re: FEC Okays New Salary Structure For Police by Bluffly: 7:37pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Will their senior officers allow them to benefit from the new structure |
Career › Re: Police Officers' Salary Increased By 20%, Approved By FEC by Bluffly: 6:34pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
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Properties › Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by Bluffly: 8:38am On Dec 15, 2021 |
NCE1: I'm currently having issues in the place I stay, I am a student that rented an apartment close to school, and ever since this landlady and her children have been a thorn in my flesh and even other neighbors.
Let me narrate what happened. I'm not a perfect grammar person and please read to the end.
In the place I stay, there's a well we fetch water from, so last week Sunday the well was locked up, which was very unusual... It was locked up from morning till night, nobody in the compound could access water.. I couldn't cook nor bath, so in the evening I decided to go ask the landlady why the well was locked and ask for the key so I can get water.
On getting to the landlady's place, I greeted her and asked calmly why the well was locked up, before I knew what was happening her son came out and told me to get out of there... I was very shocked and surprised, that I came to ask for the key to the well and he just tells me to walk out like that.
I told him I'm here to ask why the well was locked and collect the key, and that I cannot just walk out like that.
Before I knew what was happening, the boy started getting aggressive and he was threatening that he would kill me and was making all sort of threats, before I knew it... He attacked me, both the mom and the son with their last daughter.
They pushed me to the wall, which I sustained an injury at the back of my hand, the landlady was trying to get me naked by pulling the short I was wearing... I wore this short because I wanted to collect the key, fetch water and take my bathe.
So as she was trying to pull down my shorts and get me naked, I had to bite her a little so she could release her hand from my shorts.
The neighbors gathered because of the noise and saw the three of them against me. Then I left there and went and open the well which they padlocked, then they came down and insisted that nobody would use the well.
It was then that someone told me the reason why they locked the well was because the son of the landlady had an issue with someone early in the morning while the both of them were fetching water and he locked up the well to deal with the person... Thus causing inconveniences for the remaining tenants.
The next day they(landlady and her son) went to the police to report the matter.
And they lied to the police that they locked up the well because the tenants were polluting the well. Then they reported that I came to their house to attack them and I bite her.
Then the police came and took me and the neighbor that had disagreement with the son that resulted in them locking up the well.
We left the police station that same day and we went back in two days time for interview.. At the interview the police asked us to settle the matter amicably, but they proposed that they want to go to court and if we don't want to go to the court, that we'll have to pay the sum of 50k.
The 50k is for the money she used to treat herself, which is a lie. One of the neighbor in the compound overheard her making arrangements with a pharmacist to manipulate the bill of drugs she got.
And aside that, up till now they have refused to open the well for the whole compound to use, but they themselves are still using it, despite claiming that it was polluted.
Now my Daddy had to call her and beg and he told her to calm down that he would pay her 15k but she refused, that it's the 50k or we go to court.
Now my question is.
Was I wrong in the first place for going to ask of the key to the well that was locked up without proper information of why it was locked, and this well is the well we've been using since we packed in?
The second question is, if we go to the court now, what are the penalties I would have to face if I was wrong?
And finally, is it right for a Landlady to lock up the well that everyone uses because of an issue with one of the tenants?
This place is in Enugu State. Thank you as make you various wise inputs. My friend gather evidence and go to court. Video them while they are fetching from the wall. Get evidence from the pharmacist by engaging in talks to be secretly recorded. Never be afraid of court. All Neighbours should come together as witness except they are idiots |
Romance › Re: Groom Criticized For Allowing Pregnant Bride To Kneel To Feed Him At Wedding by Bluffly: 6:16pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ateamblezing: she is pregnant, might cause knee pain. Did she kneel down for long? Just one or two seconds na him go cause kneel pain. |
Romance › Re: Groom Criticized For Allowing Pregnant Bride To Kneel To Feed Him At Wedding by Bluffly: 6:02pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ateamblezing: Why tell a pregnant woman to kneel, you wan buy market, it seems this guy does not cherish his wife, interpreting culture in a wrong way. Show me the review where pregnant women can't kneel down. Is it kneeling down for a single honor that will cause issues |
Business › Re: Goods Bought In The UK Vs Nigeria: The Difference (Pictured) by Bluffly: 10:11am On Dec 10, 2021 |
gasparpisciotta: You can still return the bag of rice if found to be defective.
I have returned a defective toothpaste in a major Nigerian store and heaven did not fall.
Don’t create unnecessary comparison Oga ade
Customer service issues abound in Naija but goods can be returned if found defective.
Moreover, if one understands the retailer, wholesaler and manufacturers product flow then you will realize that major stores can accept defective products while retailers who don’t have any warranty from the manufacturer may find it difficult to accept goods sold Infact I have bought a sour chicken before which I have a bite on. I took my receipt and returned it. They apologised and gave me another fresh one. |
Family › Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Bluffly: 9:28pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar: My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me. Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? You've just told us |
Family › Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Bluffly: 9:27pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar: My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me. Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? You've just told us |
Romance › Re: Beautiful Lady Dating A Ghetto Guy Living In Dirty Room Causes Stir by Bluffly: 10:17pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by Bluffly: 3:24pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
pmoye: This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.
Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.
I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.
The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.
Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.
If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.
Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.
Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it. Please ask all women to resign and stop competing with men in business, and career, so there can be many more men with more money to take care of them. What a nonsense analogy. Please what happens if the wealth and riches of the man perishes after marriage |
Crime › Re: After 10yrs Of Practice, Fake Lawyer Arrested In Port Harcourt Court (Video) by Bluffly: 4:00pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Penguin2: My man go don build house and train all him children  Na so private practice easy |
Celebrities › Re: I Have It All At 27 - BBNaija's Ka3na Brags (Photos) by Bluffly: 8:39am On Dec 02, 2021 |
EteBabaagba222: Can you explain sources of your poverty? Envy crew What a dumb personality |
Celebrities › Re: I Have It All At 27 - BBNaija's Ka3na Brags (Photos) by Bluffly: 10:14pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Ask her what the source is. A country where people just make it and no explanation as to how. |
Politics › Re: Drama As Senators Walk Out On Panel Over ‘Lopsided Recruitment’ In Army by Bluffly: 8:33am On Dec 01, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Drama As Senators Walk Out On Panel Over ‘Lopsided Recruitment’ In Army by Bluffly: 8:30am On Dec 01, 2021 |
Those two senators that walked out should be suspended. There must be orderliness. He wasn't invited because of lopsidedeness in recruitment, why try to push it in. Touts |
Christianity Etc › Re: Tithe: How Would You React To This Picture? by Bluffly: 6:56pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Sundaypaul12345: Why won't u help the needy That's pure madness mehn, you can still recover your tithe and give it later on. Meanwhile FTC today, Seun how far?? make I send my acct number Is the Tithe the only money on you |
Travel › Re: FG Lifts Ban On Emirates Airline After 10 Months by Bluffly: 9:21pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Muyiwaipere: If you know how much cotonou has generated from this government stupidness What should have been done? |
Food › Re: Which Of These 3 Meals Would You Remove Forever? (Pictures) by Bluffly: 9:15pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Food › Re: Which Of These 3 Meals Would You Remove Forever? (Pictures) by Bluffly: 9:14pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: INEC To Comply With Electoral Act Amendment Bill Once It Becomes Law by Bluffly: 5:58am On Nov 25, 2021 |
Direct primary gives a level playing ground and can possibly affect godfatherism. They should focus on the benefit and not the cost. |
Crime › Re: 482 Impounded Okadas Crushed In Lagos (photos) by Bluffly: 6:59pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
fotadmowmend: Nobody is against banning it, the problem is the crushing..... They have seized and released back several times and same menace continues, so wil they now keep them and occupy valuable spaces? |
Crime › Re: 482 Impounded Okadas Crushed In Lagos (photos) by Bluffly: 4:58pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
fotadmowmend: It has been very high and that's why we are saying that govt ought not to add salt to sore In Akwa Ibom, when Okada was stopped people where shouting but today, do you know that people are grateful for it, because it drastically reduced, nuisances, bag snatching, easy cultist target among other okada aided crimes. |
Crime › Re: 482 Impounded Okadas Crushed In Lagos (photos) by Bluffly: 1:37pm On Nov 21, 2021*. Modified: 2:17pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
fotadmowmend: Pls tell us the motive..... There is no justification for this at this point. The crime rate is high already and government should not be adding to it with their actions and in actions Before destruction, has crime been at its lowest elm? Abating crime requires another strategy while nuisance eradication is another |
Crime › Re: 482 Impounded Okadas Crushed In Lagos (photos) by Bluffly: 10:34pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
fotadmowmend: So we must crush because developed countries do abi You don't develop the habit of criticising your government at every turn, rather understand their motive behind such action |
Crime › Re: 482 Impounded Okadas Crushed In Lagos (photos) by Bluffly: 8:08pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
tillaman: Whats wrong with auctioning them bikes instead of doing this? Abi what am I missing ? Nigeria is not the first country to engage in crushing. To auction to who exactly |
Family › Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by Bluffly: 1:52pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Glory be to God in all things |