₦airaland Forum

Baawaa:
Bello Matallewe really want to finish PDP in zamfara.This mafia is very bad after finish eating with PDP, he want to destroy the pot

He is bittered because many did not follow him as he thought would be

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Give you life to christ and repent genuinely and live a christ like life

lalasticlala:
As shared by Nike Adexa @naikiadex



https://twitter.com/naikiadex/status/1460605285865828357

You are the cause of your predicament. If you die 2 days into that marriage, will they bury you with that money? Live and let's live. You were not patient to exercise trust. You lived by the society norm without understanding. If he is the leader and you the help meet, how else would you have proved to him you are a help meet. You call your money your money and his money our money. (Silly chant).

Kenneth10110:
if its club football you see them giving all their best but come to national team they play as if they don't want a jersey stain and that's what we don't the likes of Mane, Salah and Mahrez doing they give it all in both club and country.

Is the country concerned about their welfare? If they sustaun injury will the country in question do much for them. A country that denies them rights and emoluments

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Which honest contribution as if we know her better than you. If you cannot dwell, move

Sheriman:
My brother na Naijiriya we dey oooooo. Just managed the little ones they provide for us. At least they shall do something. Na Naijiriya we dey oooo

I understand jare.

Road construction with no plan of alternative means of transportation. Do these people think only Vehicle road construction and expansion decongest our roads? No Pedestrian plan, no tram, train plan, no wide bus route

Good food, Sex and above all character.

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

You are dumb with this and lack understanding

Lazy society looking for government subvention

Please we should have 100% Civil engineering works by only female team. Let females build bridges, Power dams, Space rockets, Skyscrapers, only females. Only Men have done all these over and over. So females should do theirs and likewise build their own tractors for use.

MRDEE01:
What engagement sir?

You said you are a bolt driver meaning you have been driving either yours or you were engaged. So which one and what happened that you are no longer engaged

MRDEE01:
If you do the crime
serve the time.


Hello nairalanders.
I am an experienced bolt driver based in abuja.

I am looking for a partner who can provide me a car to drive on Bolt platform,either on weekly remittance or hire purchase basis.

Thank you.

What happened to your previous engagement

Eriokanmi:
Must people sue over small issues ? It's an error and they'd correct it. Period!

See Mentality. Small issue indeed. Obviously you have not left the shores of this country to see what suing can be like

Did they not have the road blue print before setting out

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Go and buy water based lubricant

Mary08134:
Please did you mean I should clean it with toothpaste or what sir
I just bought oral b close up

Use tooth brush that can brush your tongue deep to the throat.

googlepikins:
Something in me say I shouldn't say the word AFONJA

It is the same everywhere. Africans in general are still below the threshold of enlightment

PrinceOfLagos:
MKO abiola betrayed obafemi Awolowo from reaching his political goal so it's nothing new


Tinubu kept quiet because of his selfish 2023 interest when the Fulanis invaded ibarapa community , killing people , raping women, grabbing and destroying farmlands until Sunday Igboho came to the rescue only to be betrayed by the same people he fought for.

Yet the Yoruba sees Igbo as their problem

Stop dragging nonsense. Yoruba's does not see Igbo as their problem. Problem over what exactly.

Nigeria does not need conference on Climate change but conferences on Leadership change. Climate change is not affecting us here in Africs

IcyAutos:
Nr be only Dangote dae find money, Otedola too still dae find money.



That's because they're smart enough to keep investing, a poor man would rather waste it on some frivolities.

My friend you don start ba. There making was with government romance and not investment. Investment after that is just a stroll for them

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

I begi. Is it your right to sit at the door? She doesn't want wahala, she kept quiet and you are questioning her as if you are the one that brought her to the park. She choose that seat before you got there, so respect that. Which law or morality says she must shift

SLOVFO:
Primitive people. They couldn't accord his remains any dignity...they just lay the bones out in the public like some pieces of sticks

Must you whine. How could they have presented it. If it was the whites you would have marvelled at their doggedness to locate without but rather you decide to put your own down.

yuskel:
I heard they could cause serious electrical issues by eating the car wiring.
Reason why I am bothered.

Clear bush, gutters. Keep environment clean, park away from the wall. Heavy funmigation

humilitypays:
May nature and time give you reasons with life experiences that will open your eyes and make you see evil and call it evil without bias

Still doing the same thing. You can't even engage in a discussion without throwing stones

humilitypays:
Remove Northern Nigeria from Nigeria and you will have a thriving and prosperous nation that will be based on merit.


Igbos and Yorubas will only be competing in who would make their region more developed and advanced.



Northern Nigeria is dragging Nigeria so backward and it hurts a lot.


The only reason Igbos criticize Yorubas is because Yorubas out of fear or cowardice like to side with The North just to get some crumbs that fell off Northern political supremacy table, except that, Igbos dont have any single issue with Yorubas.



Northern Military Heads of States consecutively destroyed Nigeria and looted Nigeria's treasury dry, shared Nigeria's crude oil wells to their family members, friends and lovers, and created a useless constitution that further held Nigeria on the floor and the same North has refused to allow honest constitutional review and restructuring to position Nigeria for greatness yet Yorubas continue to align with them out of fear.



Dear Yorubas, dont you all know that a purely Yoruba nation will be a developed nation than the dilapidated Nigeria you guys think its better for you today just because of the federal favour Lagos is getting under Nigeria and because you want a Yoruba President

Those things can never be compared to having a total Yoruba controlled nation with your gallant Yoruba youths being solely in charge of your security and territory that no invader or land grabber or terrorist can dare enter to kill or rape your women


What makes a nation prosperous and great is the love and passion the citizens have for it not the population it has or the amount of natural mineral resources it has. Human capital development is far more richer than natural mineral resources. Does Switzerland, Luxembourg or Japan or Taiwan or Singapore or South Korea have any crude oil or gold or diamond yet they are among the richest countries on earth?

Yorubas please think! Igbos are never your enemies like most of you ignorantly believe. Igbos are only asking for equity, fairness and meritocracy for all tribes and peoples of Nigeria. Can you as Yoruba man or woman point to any evil Igbos collectively did to you aside the usual political propagandas against Igbos. Ronu oh

What stops Igbo from forming an alliance with the Yorubas if they are the sincere types. Igbos are not even united anongst themselves. Point of correction, never say Yorubas align with north for crumbs. Before you were born, there has always been political affiliations and it will continue even are you are gone. Southwest and North has strong national interest compared to you south east and south south guys. Unite for a formidable political force, and take your place, na lie. Na to day form victim of circumstances up and down.

Error. Cooking times varies from food to food

Blue3k:
I'll give you guys a few hints. Ask yourself what percentage of farming is mechanized, how much of farming subsistence farming, how does the land use act affect farmers ability to borrow? These factors affect rise production. I could go but I already have threads I talked to boredom about the topic.

It is not about itemizing the hurdles but resolving the issues to making achievements realistic. Thailand solved theirs not that they lived with it, we can solve ours as well

Islie:
.........Self-sufficiency in rice production not realistic in 2022



https://www.newtelegraphng.com/rice-thai-merchants-slam-300m-rates-on-nigerian-importers/

If Self sufficiency is unrealistic, how is Thailand meeting up with these request from more than 4 countries

tonye33:
Gov Ezenwo Nyesom Wike's giant strides in infrastructural development in Port Harcourt city is a huge legacy to his people, and an envy to other states!

You showed one particular area and call it giant strides

Odidigboigbo:
NCAA had claimed the masts, erected at different locations within the country close to the nation’s airports, are obstructing flight safety and could cause accidents if not removed.
So if they pay the levies, the mask won't obstruct flight safety again.

The thing tire me