₦airaland Forum

Too much of Hollywood movies

luvinhubby:
Born again Olu.

It's s not a game of optics but respecting the stool

smallbigman:
They said MONEY alone doesn't sustain LOVE and LOVE alone is not ENOUGH, PLEASE can SOMEBODY tell me what SUSTAINS marriage?

Godliness, Willingness and determination, Understanding and Wisdom, Selflessness

Machinegun91:
Please God I don't want to marry and rebecome single again, holy spirit take control

Learn to live right and with understanding and wisdom and all will be well.

jimyjames:
Lola and Peter have their own problems just because they are too scared of what people might say remain in the same marriage doesn't mean their marriage is perfect

Paul and his wife Anita are more mature and civilised to head for divorce than do police eye service Peter and Lola are doing


Keep your ugly afonja sister no Igbo man will come for her, the only reason Peter married Lola it's because of her family background her money

My friend. It is well with you. Everything and Everything relationship is filled with ups and downs, dissagreements and agreements etc. Those that stay true to their relationship knows what they are doing and those that backed out knows what they are doing as longs as we are all doing something. It is best above all not to build a dysfunctional society.

iamyemiakins:
Wife wey family accept don dey divorce while the other one wey dem no accept still dey kampe, this life no just balance!

My brother na so me dey reason self

I'm 100% sure that those abusing Biden has no single loved one on the long stretch of military grave from the 20 years of US presence in Afghanistan

epondudu:
Will our president flee if Bokoharam overan this country?

You people should stop adding meaning to nonsense

Yes, they've surendered but they remain prisoners of war. Please arrest them and prosecute accordingly

What kills most in the management of COVID-19 is the abandonment of other ailments and medical history

jesusjnr2020:
Some women who God has used to greater effect as Smith Wigglesworth's wife actually questioned their husband when he had strayed from the faith and began to demand things of her that were not of God.

She told him that he was her husband but that Jesus was her Lord!

That was the saving grace of the husband as he was hence restored back to the faith, and would never play with his wife afterwards. That's probably why we hardly have women of such such spiritual calibre these days, because they have made their husbands to take the place of God as the Lord and Master of their lives, hence God cannot use them for much because He cannot share His position with any man.

Moreover, the wife of Abraham questioned her husband concerning Hagar and her son Ishmael, that it was said to have grieved Abraham much, but God told him to hearken to his wife's voice.

Genesis 21:12 (KJV)

And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.

So you can actually see that even though it's what men love to hear, this saying of a woman not questioning her husband and being demonic is not of God but of men.

God bless

It is not of men but of God. God himself knows that we are not perfect. It is the authority that should not be questioned not that you cannot advice.
Sarah never questioned Abraham.

"But Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, playing with her son Isaac. So she said to Abraham, "Cast out this slave woman with her son; for the son of this slave woman shall not inherit along with my son Isaac." The matter was very distressing to Abraham on account of his son. But God said to Abraham, "Do not be distressed because of the boy and because of your slave woman; whatever Sarah says to you, do as she tells you, for it is through Isaac that offspring shall be named for you. As for the son of the slave woman, I will make a nation of him also, because he is your offspring." So Abraham rose early in the morning, and took bread and a skin of water, and gave it to Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, along with the child, and sent her away. And she departed, and wandered about in the wilderness of Beer-sheba."

Where is the questioning?

It was Sarah that gave the Slave to Abraham and if she says cast out, let it be.

Your second instance is also out of place. She reminded her husband to restore his path. That is not questioning

We have animals as law enforcers

Slimslimqq:
Good evening elders.

A friend of mine needs urgent advice before taking a bold step.

He relocated to south Africa 6 years ago, and since he traveled he has been sending home some amount of money to help his father complete his house.

So last year, unfortunately his father died and has since been buried.

He just arrived from south Africa since then. Now he wants to renovate his fathers house to 3 bedroom flat because he's planning to marry next year, He's not returning to south Africa.

But, his mom declined and said she won't allow him take over the house from her, though he promised to rent an apartment for her but declined.

Now this has caused a lot of problem between the mother and son, because the son claims he built d house to that stage but the mother is claiming she is his mother and the wife to the late owner(father).

He's planning on taking drastic steps which I have advised him against, but he seems not to understand everything I'm saying.

I told him about nairaland, that there are experienced people who will give him d best advise and he's given me a go ahead.

I will be sending these page link to him, so he can hear from d public and then know what to decide.

He needs your sincere advise.

Thanks

Please help us help a brother

Tell him to go and rent a house. His contribution was a natural God gesture from son to father and not an exclusive right to inheritance. Why on earth will him go and rent a house for his mother. The father and mother are the major stakes of hat house until both are no more.

Technology in itself is a new way of doing things that automatically includes innovation. So what the heck are they doing

ahnie:
We should practice these type of weddings in Nigeria.

Aanofia

Is it about managing pollution or revenue drive. The constitution does not say manage pollution with a permission levy. If you will get rid of pollution, implement things that will ensure compliance to make Gen set is within a given noise decibel and likewise no harmful emission from the exhaust.

But no, it's all about extortion and embezzlement

ProfAmaben:
Ha!!!! Malami in armed forces council? Was he a general or had any previous military experience? Can't Nigeria emulate other progressive nations?

Come of it.

ruggedtimi:
The driver no try Sha.... report to bolt app that "client didn't pay" simple...it can be frustrating though on the driver side, all the stress and few mins of being someone else's driver yet no payment. Bolt job ain't easy.

He needs evidence

FeliciaOja:
Men who yab us for watching bbnaijA
Are the same ones that will baff,dress up and go to game center, waste money on beer just to watch players run around with ball for 90 mins!! And their team still lose
Some will even waste money and bet and loss.

They do this every weekend for 365 days
Women don't complain
But 1 month of bbnaijA is now seen as a thing for lazy people. Una no get sense at all

There's creativity and hard work in football and you understand what been disciplined can get you and what indiscipline can give you. What do you get from BBNaija other than porn and gossips

boykas:
Sure, but not all... Even when the truck is empty accident may still occur..

My comment is not about accident happening which is an umbrella for Ill events. Overloading increases the travelling distance of the brake and the rate at which they overlaod exceeds 20% of the recommended load

boykas:
from maintenance sir,

there are two sources trucks gain their brake.

1, from air i.e the air must be fill up the bar before moving to avoid stories.

2. from the pad, which all cars and trucks used, but recent trucks used both. that both the pad and the air...

Overloading causes break failure and Nigerian truck drivers are found wanting for that

Our military personnel's don't have personal defence tactics. Don't allow people to get close to you on duty. Maintain a barrier and do your interrogaton. Any attempt to invade your boundary you shoot.

They were just stylishly pardoned and not because Falana had a valid argument.. Why didn't the judge award a compensation for the unjust incarceration since nothing can be established against them.

LebenNG:
Do you really know what is voice-over?

Mr lecturer. The fact still remains, that the paparazzi of voice over video watch is useless without real time monitoring, which would have prevent the calamity and the girl would still be arrested.

pocohantas:
The time they are using to do voice over, they would have used it to put off the fire before it escalated.

Nigerians would install CCTV, they wouldn’t employ security personnel to watch it 24/7. In fact, they think it is a waste of staff to have one person watching the CCTV. They will be so angry to pay that person at the end of the month because in their mind, the person no work anything. But once there is a petty robbery or fire outbreak, they would release videos and start making innocent Nigerians fight themselves over who is guilty or innocent.

That said, the NPF mode of interrogation is really shameful.

I tire o. I was about to say that as well. If someone was watching the CCTV in real-time, the calamity would have been prevented by putting out the fire early enough. Moreso, it appears that they do not have fire extinguishers well situated in the supermarket for quick response.

We have direct insurance coys and we have agencies. Majorly you find agencies in that category. Direct employments with the direct coys pay salary. But employ less marketers

Idiots

Aboks:
If you check the story well na her step son

No woman wey carry pikin inside belly 4 9 months will do such a thing

Let them put her legs also in a pot of boiling water

Wicked woman

Who told you.? Many are sick

Mynd44:
Voted already.

Those of you who like to argue and criticise, this is your chance at change

Change what, when their choice candidates are already the flag bearers

don4real18:
Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story.
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Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.

Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.

Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.

We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.

I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.

Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.

I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.

She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.

We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.

I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.

I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.

God bless us all.

I think you were more focused on physical attributes other than innate attibutes and societal values.
Thank your maker that it went that way. Thank God your business went down just to show who she is because if it were to be in the marriage, you would have been living in hell on earth. Never be lustful again but be attracted to innate and positive values.

It is the Lords doing. Go and do Thanksgiving.

Sundaland:
https://citizentv.co.ke/news/james-mwaura-left-home-to-buy-rice-but-disappeared-47-years-ago-facebook-just-brought-him-back-12773118/?fbclid=IwAR3fgKy-CJWJQdSUIvTVuu-Jvxvt4cURomIvPeZSRJWn2UlbSgJ8U8rXYoI

Nonsense. 23 years old lost his way from just to buy rice. Make una continue lie lie