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TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

She's full of drama.
She would be doing a lot of things for no reason, just to be seeking unnecessary attention from you.
End that relationship..

angelfallz:
All those that sent fake alerts should be traced and arrested!

How did they confirm that they were fake alerts?

Maxymilliano:
https://punchng.com/obianos-wife-declares-senatorial-ambition-apologises-to-soludo/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1648685285

Shame.!!
Shame on you all..!!

Islie:
SOURCE

So, if he brings money now, he would leave?
What about the other members of his gang??
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This policemen are too feeble

Mynd44

Lalasticlala,
Seun

Skyfornia:
The most common silly question asked by Nigerians is 'When you go marry?'

Hahahahahahaaaaaaa

Bad Staff always does anyhow he/she likes.
Doesn't care about sales.
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Just counting days, and expecting the end-of-month pay.

“What exactly are we doing?”
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(The deed had already been done and dusted,. And she didn't even object a-bit while we were about to start.)

seunmsg:
Yeah, PDP will win with votes from Nnewi.

You're not in Osun, so you don't know what is locally happening in Osun.

NaughtyBrainiac:
How exactly will PDP's victory be landslide in Osun?

I don't know which party will the Osun Guber Elections but it is preposterous to see people make baseless assumptions.

You're not in Osun.
So you don't know what is locally happening on ground.

Tareq1105:
When you wake up from your sleep pls let me know.

This time around it's going to be straight win for APC.

Dancing Senator will only win in Ede area.

People have tried Oyetola and they've seen that he's not Aregbe, who was the issue then. Therefore, wahalahi victory is sure for Oyetola.

RIGGING PLANS IN FULL FORCE.

gentiles:
But Akin ogunbiyi is not the factional gubernatorial candidate of the pdp. What kind of report is this?

Oohhh Boy Eehh..
Please,, who is??

NoIgboSoundTueh:
Na IPOB will vote for PDP in osun?
You better go collect your PVC and line up for Atiku.
Previous experience must have taught you that Social media support count for nothing

We still remember the Aregbesola/Omisore inconclusive Handkerchief saga...
It won't repeat this time.

TheNiceGuy:
The factional gubernatorial candidate of Peoples Democratic Party in the State of Osun has dumped the party.

His letter of resignation was addressed to the Party's National Chairman, Iyorcha Ayu

The Coast is now clear for ADELEKE to capture the seas unhindered.!!

hotwax:
Thank you. But to those threatning to come and arrest me. I know I will come out free. But I hate police arrest. I have never been arrested by police in my life.

If you don't like wahalla, then you're not a true Nigerian.
Police Wahalla is the number-1 wahalla of a true Nigerian.

AWKA that used to work normally on Mondays experienced a Sit-at-home on Monday all over again.

Penguin2:
My own greatest fear right now is that Nigerians are getting tired.

Nigerians are getting tired of complaining.

We seem to now be used to this hell that APC and Buhari have been putting us through.

We seem to have lost the will and strength to fight.

We seem to have submitted to fate.

This is what Tinubu helped foist on Nigeria by bringing an illiterate bigot out of retirement and give him power all because of his greed and selfish ambition for power.

Another question now is:



“How are we sure that this is the very minimum which we can ever go??
Are we really assured that we are not going to have things worse than we are having them now, that is, after we finished surviving this Buhari’s era??

Someone once said that it is so depressing to be living in Nigeria at a time like this.
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Honestly, I just don't have much other options than to believe him.

The recent events in NIGERIA had caused a lot of people to start asking heartbreaking questions.
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(See the attached complaints)
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THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT US...
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THEY DON'T JUST CARE ABOUT THE HUMAN LIVES..

SATANICALLY666:
This is the most heartless, most vile tweet I have seen regarding this tragedy.
Is Joyebeneza even human?

joyebeneza: 'I wanted to type RIP Chinelo but I realized she had blocked me for whatever reason. Well maybe she deserved what she got.'

She is a Woman

WhizdomXX:
Alex, Alex how many times did I call you?
Please leave this man alone and let his money be.

Na the man wey go find Alex

E resemble snake in any way.??

Candidlady:





What do you think bout the bolded(s) ?



Works for A don't mean it will work for B.

. The bolded(s) shows that to some it is a distraction and to some it is not


°°°°°°withdrawn°°°°


Idedicate this FTC to iamdbull kindly download his song NEVER LIVED

Dbull on this one.
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Dbull got a fan here

Redstorm:
I see that a lot of people take pride in addressing or introducing themselves using their job titles, for example like Pharmacist John, Nurse Grace, Builder Idris, Architect Biodun, Barrister Okoye etc, instead of just Mr. X or Mrs. Y. The most annoying is the ubiquitous title Engr. used by every tom, dick and harry who knows just a little about a certain technical vocation.

When I compare this to what obtains abroad (Europe and America) I notice that the only common job titles in use over there are Dr. and Prof. I've seen a full American professor address himself simply as Dr. (something that will never happen in Nigeria). And they are supposed to have more technical know-how than us, right? Yet they don't flaunt their job titles. So why is our own different?

I don't know for other professions.
But for Engineers, once you become a registered engineer, you're issued a certificate of registration.
And on that Certificate, it is clearly written that “...You are now authorised to use the prefix ‘Engr.’ in front of your name...”
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So, how would you expect someone that was given such a prestigious authority not to excercise such an authority which he merited and deserved.?

EFCC..
So, you guys forgave and forgot the sins of this man.
But you guys had the audacity and the guts to disgrace Governor Obiano even without conducting any investigations??
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This Double Standards Must Stop.!!

Afamed:
Go and check the roads he built when he was a Gov. All but in shambles, from Onitsha road at Nnewi down to Nnobi. All are in shambles as we speak

Lies

SurvivorM:
I am really sorry dear.
That man is pure wickedness, if he isn't interested in the relationship anymore why not tell you than doing this to you and to think the relationship lasted for 5 years
It's will take time but I know you will be fine, just find something to distract yourself

She's the clinging type of lady.
She might have been seeing some dirty signs, but she chose to remain and see how things turn out.
Now she saw it.
It was a big disaster

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

You said it all.
You're the best Girlfriend one would ever have.
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Can you say that about being a wife?
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A man once continued dating his babe, until the week he married.
When he told the babe, the babe cried out her eyes, and even demanded for goodbye-sex and she got it.
It didn't end there.
They maintained friendship.
Sadly enough, the man's wife died soon after, and this man continued intense dating again with the former girlfriend.
The man had to ask her why she didn't show him this amount of love at first, and which made him to have chance to even notice another woman.. That he had just come to realise that she was far better than the late wife.
The girl increased her love for the man ooo.
She was thinking that with this now, the widower would heal fast and now take her as the wife.
But guess what??
The man still married another woman altogether.
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The girlfriend went mad.
She locked herself in her house for weeks and couldn't eat.
She got lean and unkempt.
When her friends started trying to know from the man why he had to break the lady's heart two times, he just said that something kept knocking him inside his head that the lady will not make a good wife for him, even though she is best suited for being his girlfriend, and that he wouldn't mind still dating her while he is married.. But he doesn't think he can marry her as a wife.
And he didn't give reasons for taking such a stance.

Animegirl:
As a lady, I know all too well that many men out there believe some ridiculous shit about us ladies.

1. Women are more emotional and dramatic than men. Men have gotten the bad rap that we are overly emotional (nearly always blamed on hormones!) and can't lead under pressure. What’s ironic about this belief is that when a man slams the table with his hand or raises his voice, it’s somehow perceived as strong and powerful, not emotional. If a woman acted in the same manner, she would be perceived as “emotional” or “a piece of work.” 

2.Women don’t support other women. While I don’t think catty behavior between women in the workplace is as prevalent as people often make it out to be, there may sometimes be a grain of truth to it. Because many of us work in male-dominated organizations, there are fewer slots for women to get ahead and competition is fierce.

3.Most men think we want to see their big gbola. No woman ever wants random d*ick picture. Many men are guity of this. It won't generate a reply at any given time, if it's sent inconsequentially. You will be blocked and reported because no woman wants to see unwanted penis pictures.

4. She Asked For It? With the current prevalent rape-culture in society, I've been hearing a lot of 'she asked for it'. What does that even mean? If I am wearing something that's not to your liking or if I go out to party with boys, I asked to get sexually molested or raped? That's the most disturbing misconception I've come across.

5.Not all of us are Gold-diggers or useless. Some of us, have serious big dreams and we don't want to be dependent on someone else’s success or bank balance to get what we want. We want to have our own career and success too. Funny, how men still get intimidated by independent successful women. Truly, I say unto you "men are confuse set of beings".

6. If you use your vagina too much, it’ll get “loose.” No penis, toy, hand, or even baby will stretch your vagina permanently. It might adjust to accommodate what’s coming in (or, in the case of childbirth, out), but it’ll bounce back.

7. Once a woman clock 30, she is evening newspaper, pls what is the meaning of this?

Nigeria men stop the misconceptions/assumptions about women, we are not the cause of your frustrations.

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This No.7 made you speechless??

POSmecrhant:
I have this new neighbor that packed in last three months, that talk to people anyhow. But he feels it's a normal conversation.

Over the weekend I was cleaning my house and my car, only for him to tell me I clean my car too much. And was saying other nasty things and was laughing thinking is a normal thing.

There's no single day that i will wash my car that this guy will not say this to me, how I valued my car more than my life.

Normally, this guy can not look me with straight face and be telling me this kind of nonsense if I didn't create this kind of familiarity with him in the first place.

How can i avoid this guy in a matured manner so that he won't even decode I'm avoiding him?

This last line shows that you're not ready yet

KingOfTheDamned:
https://saharareporters.com/2022/03/23/delta-governor-okowas-n30-billion-drainage-project-collapses-over-use-%E2%80%98substandard

What kind of nonsense is this naa?