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Peace081:
Freedom

Which Freedom abeg??

The passers-by and the passengers would only notice a spoilt vehicle.
Only the driver can say what exactly that went wrong with the vehicle.
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Now, imagine a situation where the driver sef no even know say the vehicle he is driving have spoilt, not to talk of knowing what went wrong with the vehicle

Reference:
Everyone imposes.
The so called 'strong men' in each of the leading parties climbed up the power ladder by being dictatorial, absolute and feudal.
And have remained powerful by trampling upon the democratic dictates of their parties across board.
No one in the APC or the PDP should cry foul at the top.
They are the same thing and will do same if they were in Buhari's shoes.
Have they not dictated in their states and regions.
See what Mr. Tinubu has been doing in Lagos and the west since 1999 and see what emperor Wike is doing riding roughshod over the PDP landscape in the south since 2015.

Abeg, the black man just doesn't know how to organise viable, just, equitable and prosperous societies.
We love and gravitate towards strong men, kings and emperors.

All these things just taaya me..

BUHARI IS KILLING A.P.C..
Why is he imposing a leader on the party?
Why can't he allow the internal party dynamics to prevail?
The other time, he imposed Buni.
Now he has come again.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

Everything you listed here is one-sided..
Everything here is all about YOU YOU YOU.

Animegirl:

Just One Question.

How do you see ugly guys with money?

mignone:
But wait Y must there be a round table meeting before sm women can support their families, even while they earn reasonably?
I just don't get

It’s because of the natural mentality of such women, that it is the sole duty and responsibility of the man in their lives to take care of her, whether she is working or not.
Hence the popular saying that was attributed to such women: “His money is Our Money, But My Money Is My Money”.

Emmanuel30a:
O Man...D wife is working...He also buys bags of rice everytime it finish...D problem was caused by d man...U shd not marry without agreement on how&what u&ur wife would carry.U dont discuss that after marriage...Well, pple are marrying 4 various reasons with different mentality.D victims' marriage was not built on CHRIST d solid rock...Marry who u can carry...

Even if they didn't discuss such before marriage,, What then are “NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS” for
He can introduce his new plans on the 31st December Night, or on the NEW YEAR DAY Morning.

Aguodo:
I really don't know why some behave like that. What does she do with her money? They prefer to answer widow and begin to whip sentiments and perhaps pity from the public. That's the time they will know that at times two is better than one.
We know things are getting harsher by the day, but common sense should tell her that this calls for dialogue with a peaceful mind instead of throwing tantrums.
Please my brother add small thing say 10k to the upkeep money just for your dear life. My worry is that you just started biz and trying to stand. Do your best. This same issue is what my friend just complained about yesterday. Woman are almost same. I give mine 140k/month even with me doing bulk purchases for the family of 6, in fact I buy things already included in the 140k, yet she complains. No be only you dey the shoe bro.
Find happiness.

My brother, continue trying your best.
God is your strength.

dre11:
Trader reportedly ‘kills’ sleeping kidnappers



https://thenationonlineng.net/trader-reportedly-kills-sleeping-kidnappers/

The rifles with police inscriptions is my concern

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

So now, na today go be the Ghen-Ghen day??

MPESA:
Please irrespective of your modification, how much are you giving to your wife every month if 50k is too small?.
Apart from 50k for feeding another 30k for her transport on daily totalling 80k per month...


Hopefully you are giving your family more than 80k per month, if not kindly delete your post.

He is not married yet.

Thinktwicemybro:
You are wrong. Your are obviously not married. The problem is the man. 50k a month is average of 6k every market day. That cannot feed a family of 4 when you have to buy rice, oil, grandnut oil and beans out of it.

Why I say the man is at fault?

He should not make his wife a full time house wife. He should open business for her. If what's the business brings a month is 30k profit for instance, that will make the total 80k and she won't complain again.

A man should not complain when they make their wife full time house wife, except she is lazy and refuse to work, then the man can complain.

Mista-man, go back and read the original post again

Tannhauser:


The video was public and has since gone viral
Methinks it makes common sense to name and shame the officer and to also make his punishment public to serve as a deterrent.

They won't.
If you watched well, the desk is a highly-placed desk, so the officer is definitely a highly-placed officer.
They have learnt their lessons, and they are now covering up for the crazy highly-placed officer who did the funky recording

Political Brouhaha

fergie001:
A notice of appeal doesn't indicate a Stay of Execution but where a notice of appeal has been filed at a superior Court, the Lower Court hands off.

He has a Stay of Execution from the Ebonyi High Court. If that one expires in 2 days, it can be extended by a maximum of 7 days, then.....legally, he is no more Gov

And what happens after that??

Kwanza:
https://guardian.ng/news/court-strikes-out-umahis-motion-to-stop-execution-of-judgment/

Aaaahhh..
What is this one again??
So, what will now be the situation in Ebonyi State?
Ok, I now see it clearly..
Since he had already filed for the Appeal, the Status Quo continues to hold.
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Fergie001..
I guess that's the situation here?

Kobojunkie:
The man is your typical African man thinking there is a reward for what is his foolishness. Hopefully, commonsense reaches him before it is becomes too late for him and or his marriage.

I don't expect his wife to make the move - humans are selfish beings after all. However, the man already knows how painful the situation has become and so he can be the one to take the step in the right direction and actually demand they rehash their couples agreement so he no longer bears all of the lead alone....a move towards 50:50 arrangement will benefit this man at this time.

One thing he lacks is the communication.
No doubts about that.

This is something that true communication would solve.
Let them put heads together and solve the family’s financial mathematics.
With that, they would know how much each would be contributing,, or the amount the man would be dropping.
Simple.

qekng40:
This particular issue don tie wrapper

I dey tells you ooo

Nendan:
This is first of its kind

Obiano had not been found guilty yet.
So, why this type of exposure?

Ụlọka Chukwubụikem asks on Facebook.
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VIDEO OF OBIANO IN EFCC:

I will say let’s leave the EFCC out, albeit, not entirely.

Those who have seen the clip can conduct a personal study.

1. The little knowledge I have about Security system in Nigeria is that No visitor, No matter how highly placed is allowed to go visit someone in such facility with any device. Perhaps, whoever that came to see Akpokudike wouldn’t have made it inside with their phones, camera no matter the excuse.

2. It’s almost impossible for a visitor to be left alone in the waiting or conference room with a detained suspect. It’s impossible for a visitor to use their device even if they successfully sneaked it in.

3. Looking at the clip, it’s clear that the person who recorded it, sat on a desk and perhaps, a staff in the office.

4. only a Staff or Officer can be allowed with a device in such environment.

5. The clip was recorded surreptitiously.

This is the reason I said we should not be quick to accuse EFCC, though they are not entirely innocent because the reckless act of a staff has brought them to pubic probe.

The question here is, “who was the Staff or officer present when Uzuegbunam Okagbuo visited HE, Dr. Willie Obiano.”?

Who asked the Staff or Officer to record such clip and push same out to the public.

What was the motive of the Staff or officer to have recorded the clip surreptitiously and sent same to the popular influencer who first shared it to the media.

Rather than the noise in social media, we should approach the commission with the clip evidence and Uzuegbunam Okagbuo will be of help in identyfing the Staff or officer on duty in the conference room with him and Akpokudike.

Let the staff/officer say who contracted them for the Job.

Willie Obiano is not the only highly profile person in EFCC, but why would such happen to him?

If we keep making noise in the media, same syndicates who wants Akpokudike humiliated would strike again.

The commission needs be aware officially and carry out their investigation and fish out the staff or officer who who was contracted to carry out the hatchet Job to save its name.

#ezemuojnr

Source:
https://www.facebook.com/100004877822613/posts/2001184323387476/
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The video is really saddening, and it is a big dent on the professionalism of EFCC.

orohbiro:
is the broke guys that are encouraging the rich guys to collect back their stuff back

Now you just sounded like a Gold-digger

That's what they usually tell people before releasing them..
Like, that no other kidnapper would kidnap the person again, they they have given him a password, and that once they see the password, that they would know that he had been kidnapped before.
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Na waa Ooo

fergie001:
This is because it is a procured judgement by Malami.

Wahalla dey ooo.
When would the Nigerian Judiciary ever get things right in this our nonsense country??

I'm coming back to comment.
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**Modified**
I don't think I can relate to what the OP is trying to say.
So, I have nothing to comment.

ufotunang:
Buhari and federal government allow this electoral act to rest and face the economic problems and hardship nigerians are facing and solve the problems.. like high costs of disel, fuel and fuel scarcity, lack of electricity power supply, poverty, hunger, inflation, unemployment, bussiness struggling to survive the harsh and hard economy, refineries are not working and many other things.... this is what nigerians voted for you to solve not amending electoral bill or act to favor your selfish interest

It's good this is going on.
Electoral Games had been our problem in Nigeria for long.
Elected persons would leave their jobs and be playing “politics of the next election”.
But if all these are settled well, they would stop stacking money for rigging the next election, and do what would please the people who actually voted them.

drlateef:
You didn’t put it clearly. The section in 99 constitution only talks about resignation from position. While the new legislation talks about participation, not resignation. They are two different things. You see these National Assembly guys are smart. They carefully avoided terms used in current constitution so as not to collide with the constitution. That section of constitution does not make it compulsory for appointees to participate, while the new legislation makes it compulsory for them not to participate. And this is allowed in law because INEC staff cannot also participate in election. So therefore, political appointees will not be the first to be disenfranchised from such special election of the primaries in parties. They are not disenfranchised from national elections like everyone. Even some categories of Nigerians can still be disenfranchised from national elections, examples include prisoners and security operatives including INEC staff.

Fergie001.
Is this guy here correct?

Nemere2020:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2022/03/18/electoral-act-senate-not-aware-of-court-judgment-on-section-84-12-says-spokesperson/



https://www.thecable.ng/just-in-reps-not-served-notice-as-party-to-court-case-on-electoral-act-says-spokesman/amp

Fergie001
I want to understand why the suit was entertained since NASS was not a party in the suit.
It was a document that was produced by the NASS., and it was the NASS that should be defending it.
Why were they omitted?