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ameen,thuma ameen. |
^feel free to pop ur questions and share ur worries here. Can't boast of myself but i can guarantee we hav competent hands.Tbaba,mac,ayenny,zayhal,deols,etc.don't we? |
sister S4e,you are most welcome to d most sensible way of life.I congratulate you for d bold step you took not minding d adversaries.I must say,you hav d most important ingredient in ur armory to see you thru ,that is, willpower. Coming frm a muslim home is laced wt its challenges if you are to practice d deen in a way alien to them,so I can imagine how a christian home will perceive the change. My lil cent will be dt you take it one step at a time.don't shove it all down their throat at once.tendency is dt you are learning new things daily and you are eager to conform,slow and steady wins d race my dear. change of any form(talk more ofreligion) is met by an initial rebuff by mankind,so be prepared for resistance frm kith and kin. Lastly,patience and communication are invaluable virtues in this phase of ur deen....Hope to read testimonies frm you when dis phase is over.#cheers |
well said bro.May Allah reward d effort. For me, being thorough is an issue depending on how much d task weighs on my scale of importance.....may Allah make easy our affairs. |
chakula,come finish up now.We,sorry,I'm gettin impatient.......May Allah strengthen you |
@katty,I so much feel ur concern and understand ur dilemma.You seem to suddenly realise the need to be at peace wt ur creator without compromising ur individuality. Your best bet is to use a khimar.That way, you can wear anythin,just abt anythin underneath.you please urself by dressin up to ur delight and cover it up from d prying eyes of Men wt a plain cloth dt is less attractive.That way you're cool wt urself and ur creator. Belive me,you'll get tired of those long skirt and longsleeves very soon going by ur high taste for fashion.They hardly come in variety and d few real stylish one are hard to come by,that's if the bright colours don't deter you frm wearin them.....wishin you the best in ur quest. |
much as i can't fathom what the maestros are bickering about,I enjoy d semantic gymnastics displayed by the two. The chagrin by soludo was uncalled for, while the rejoinder by the Mallam only confirms d former's accusation. Both appeared to have a latent fury buried, maybe, for d sake of dr common boss Obasanjo,only to be fuelled by El Rufai's unpragmatic pen. I hope the politics that joined them together can quench this flame of nothingness come 2015. |
wonders shall never cease,at least not on this planet earth.next time when your 4year old wants to drink dettol cos it looks like fanta and cries over it, you should allow him.mtschew |
wonders shall never cease,at least not on this planet earth.next time when your 4year old wants to drink dettol cos it looks like fanta and cries over it, you should allow him.mtschewww |
mind blowing! more knowledge to ur coffers bro. |
@ kawthar,how far?any green light? if no, pls reply my email ASAP.if u've gotten a convenient place, u may not bother.wish you Allah's favour in ur endeavour. |
madam Z, dt is partiality o.why would u care for ur husb and leave d kids out?if anything, he is less of a baby than those kids. At OP,it hurts. especially when it gets incessant.Personally,i may not feel like eating at times,cos of time,mood,health,.....etc but i cook for others' sake dt might want to eat.Imagine such compromise nd u come back to say u aint eatin without reason,d least u get from me is a sneer.by d way,I'm not married,neither am I a mother,but I'm in charge of cooking when I'm wt my family. I think telling aforehand will be nice for both parties. |
nice post tbaba(Dealing wt zina).But walahi,u slip into some of those things before realizing.Chat medium springing up daily is a major challenge. I agree dt ur kind of company will either help u out or further sink u into these acts.May Allah grant us d iman and wisdom to stay above shaitan's ploy. By d way,mac went AWOL or did he exchange himself wt deols. |
Really nice story and a bit of comic there. |
Yay ...times 100.Already composed a poem for u but cldn't post it for reasons.i'll post it later IA.luv u sis |
Say what? 55!...... |
@devoted one,i guess u didnt watch d bilal philips u posted.you've just put a banana peel in ur steps,don't blame anybody for ur slip.In football i think it's called ESCOBA. @devoted one,i guess u didnt watch d bilal philips u posted.you've just put a banana peel in ur steps,don't blame anybody for ur slip.In football i think it's called ESCOBA. |
just d spiritual dose i need.something different and real.May Allah continue to be wt d sister......Truly we don't knw d value of what we have until we loose it. |
Deen4me, It can't be said better.sadly the number of ignorants outweigh d no of knowledgables in dis matter.Even among d ones wt d undertanding, implementation does not go without raising dust. Sincere steadfastness we ask for, Ya Rabb. |
poster of d year? T-ba-ba. Guess u shld create more awards for others too o.I gat a template... Spice of d section-deols. Opomulero :maclatunji Arbitrator: muki Observers club chairman:myself and d bunch wasting mac's teslim in introduction thread.Lol |
Oprah or not,there are hard facts in there.Take it or live it,life is abt making choices. |
Yesss.I do remember.first learnt abt d book frm my mum when i was young,albeit she didn't own one.I hav ever since longed to lay my hand on one. Infact, I just purchased a copy recently.Call me oldie,even though d soft copy is available, i just like to fill my library wt some things. |
Eh!Gay mosque or wat did i see?.was sure someone is up to some game before i opened it. you can't even be gay and still claim to be a muslim.The zahed guy is more than deluded.He had better find a name for his new doctrine,even d pagans agree that is not islam.You can't pretend to purify urine,it will remain an impurity!. |
1.of course,Yes. 2.The same way he had like to be corrected,i run on oxygen too.no nagging,bossing,redherring.just straight to d point and subtly. |
'Fear(protect yourself from) d fire,even if it's by giving out a fraction of a date,if u can't find,then speak good.' I love dis hadith because it depicts d limitless mercy of Allah. Also connotes how we get rewarded for things we don't even regard. |
I luv this |
Abi I have stayed ni? I'll sprint out of such relationship not walk.If he bullys at dis stage, when he pays d bride price wt all d yam, what will he do? |
This article is touching.if we owe d absent ones that much,wat of d ever present, toiling parents.The ones dt sleep hungry for us to eat,sleepless just because we run temp., change wardrobe once in two years for us to have new arrivals, or d mothers that endure all sort for child sake.....we can never repay these wonderful duo.may Allah help us. |
@poster,any of d FMC,state or teaching hospital will do.The problem isn't abt d medical personnel but accessibility to drugs in dis part of d world. I believe dt shldn't be a problem if u gat ur money and can order for them. ##@adefash,u hit d nail,i don't think any sch is worse than o.o.u. in dt regard.I wonder what NUC regulates if they can't fix dis. |
I'm feelin dis thread....got some my queries elucidated. |
piragirl: Hi Doc,i just notice a little lumps in my armpit close to my left breast&its on my neck too,but i don't feel any pain.but am vry worried.pls wht culd be done.^dash to d nearest hospital and hav it examined by a doc.it's likely to be a minor thing but an assurance from ur doc may save u future troubles. |
This is rather funny.A man graduated from d university wt support mainly frm mother and maternal family members.The father was a rich goldsmith so didn't believe in education. As a grown up he summoned d courage to approach his father to fund his masters degree.Alas d old man was so ignorant as to accuse him of failing his first degree, he actually made a firstclass!.According to him university was d peak of education so he must have failed for wanting to go back and study. Now,He shakes his head when his children get whiny or see education as there right.After all,earning firstclass was not enough to convince d father to sponsor him. |
@devoted one,i guess u didnt watch d bilal philips u posted.you've just put a banana peel in ur steps,don't blame anybody for ur slip.In football i think it's called ESCOBA.