Hello I received my dna results and they say that I am 49 percent Nigerian. I was hoping that someone would let me know which tribe my features resemble. It would be a great help in my search of me finding my roots.

Borndead:
My boyfriend and i have been dating for a long time now. I discovered that he is very close with one of his best friends. I read his whatsapp message where he was telling him that they should book a hotel to have sex. I’m so depressed right now. Please what should i do

Fortuna2:
No, men enjoy rape!

kestolove95:
Handsome guys are not good in bed

henrixx:
gray 256gb
mint condition
NO FACE ID***
battery health...100
FACTORY UNLOCKED

price...130k
location...lagos or can be sent anywhere

Sirmuel1:




Mumu, you dey find who go kill you....na only you God go punish

Sirmuel1:




Young Man, you're very stvpid and God will pun.ish you

Sirmuel1:




Which kind stvpid question be this?

mrsfavour:
I study alot on the internet,since 2010 I have never been off line for more than 3 hours

Shugavee:

There is absolutely nothing like a broke /lazy good man ,, u can never know the real him till he has some money,, u can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket !! So ladies don’t waste ur time,, if he doesn’t hv a source of income,, he is a waste ,, always remember that ur time and attention is an investment,, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you , that u go for anything , and don’t ever agree that u can only offer sex ,,, they know u hv a lot to offer , YOU ARE A WOMAN .

Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

kestolove95:
She for get one of dix church rat nairalanders make e dey fvck her, she for dey happy nd relax

ANGELMARVE:
Well she is a wife so she deserves it. no man should buy a car or even a pad for a girlfriend, unless if she is a wife and its a mistake to get married to a woman above 30, because you will just inherit all the demons and bad characters that has been stoping her from marriage in her 20s. Any unmarried woman in her 30s is irresponsible. by the order of the peaky blinders.

jamesxay:
Hello everyone, I'm kinda puzzled and feel I could pour my heart on this thread concerning what I've been facing.

First off...I'm the sex dominant guy who doesn't dick-think so I act uninterested and put myself/my job before girls. I met this girl who has a huge crush on me and I avoided taking advantage of her even when she brings herself to the table. I also didn't ask her out as I don't really fancy dating someone I would see always for over-familiarity/space based reasons(we are practically neighbours). This girl just wants to be with me always, she gets jealous when I as much as mention another girl's name and says she loves me most, shows me care and respect. I told I can't date someone who has lots of boyfriends I am aware of and sleeps with them for money claims etc.

Now I discover this girl now takes me for granted now and tells everyone I am not serious because I don't bleep her, I tell my guys she's too delicate for casual sex, it's not everything in life even though it's pretty needed for humanity. However it turns out my "delicate" girl has sex with different guys always although she says it is just for money which i was initially judgement and skeptical about,it seems she wants to use me as retirement plan. Ok I like the girl for her prospects, I am lonely and haven't had sex in a long time.

I decided to clear her doubts (still no sex intents so I didnt even get condoms, just some rocking). I needed her to stop seeing me as weak. I stared tipping her of my intents, let her see me naked several times without asking her for sex. Gradually I started teasing, and carefully/respectfully toughing her (non intimate places). But one-time I decided to move further with the intimacy levels and she mistook it for sex attempt and avoided me kissing her although she allowed me touch her. I didn't like her silence during the whole process and I felt pity for her so i stopped as quickly and apologized with a smile the next day.

It took a long time and each time she initiates intimacy when we're alone, she initially publicly shames me for resisting and now calls me a bad boy (tells my friends half-story without her own side of it) and when I make an attempt to be intimate she resists again. This happened 3 times in total and I'm fed up. This is a girl I show care for, resisted and still resist her womanliness (girl moves in undies in my presence and thinks showing me a bit of skin feeds me). I let her know I can chew gum and still bleep her...I am that bad oh just that brokeness must be eradicated.

My people all this hit home for me because I am actually a good person at core and I feel rejected and played-with, I have this feeling that I am paying for having tried to be physical with a girl I didn't ask out and I now feel that this girl has successfully made me show her a part of me I keep hidden. I have destroyed my defenses and showed her she's special to me sex or not, kept other girls who are interested in me/ I'm interested in at bay for her sake and I have been offering her my attention, myself and more.

I feel I do not need to be with this girl again because I have been played to see if I was human.

What do you guys think of this?

A305:
Early this year, I met Sandra (Fictitious name) on IG , we flowed well, went on a date and every thing seems great - she's so beautiful with curves, big boo bs, curvy big butt just like I love them, well read and adventurous.

She respects me being Atheist even though she's hardcore MFM member- she works and earns, she's quite a fashionista.

On the third day after our date and beginning of a new relationship - I had to call her up to break up because she was a high maintenance chick, insecure and isn't as intelligent to satisfactory personally.

She asked me - "A305, Did I ask you for any money yet for you to say am a high maintenance chick?"

I replied - "Nope! But it will happen in the future"

Her - "So you mean I will make you broke?"

Me - "I don't even have money to start with and not ready for a relationship now" and hung up.

Babe be posting break up lines on WhatsApp status like .....All I want is you but you causing me chestache.

rex444:
awwww my petite ...Ella...with bubble butt that can kii d world...madt to d core and very smart ... but I told her no lies before we started dating ....3 years after she started to tell stories that don't add up...started putting some calls on silent ...

Kiddogarcia:
the way she was supporting maryam sanda during her trail was frightening. she kept blaming the husband for cheating.the thought of her words couldn't stop echoing in my head,I just had to let go of a very good girl

OmoAlakija:
Because I fckd her in the a*ss while she was sleeping

Ofemmanu1:
The way the elderly extol their good old days leaves the youth almost concluding that there were no rascals. The reality is the absurdity that they are the remnant of men who with impunity plunged humanity into the impurity of putridity and calamity.

References:
It was reported earlier today of a young man who attempted to commit suicide at the infamous Third Mainland Bridge.
https://www.nairaland.com/5709100/another-man-jumps-cab-into#87002119



https://thenationonlineng.net/updated-jilted-28-year-old-jumps-into-lagos-lagoon/

Jabioro:
Idiot, idiotic fellow a man with low IQ..is she the only woman on Earth fool? The scum boy..if you're in my position whi met another man on top of my wife in matrimonial bed/ room I hoped by now you might have committed suicide 100 times death after death to uneding death.Come let
me teach you how to overcome, overlooked and get over sudden and unexpected issues.. Foool..Go and grow and stop behaving like you extra life

victorian:
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Who is looking for husband?

Ode!

Ekpa!

I'm balling my life with fine friends around me, u are talking of looking for husband.


Sho fe gbo?

I'm balling this weekend in Lagos with one of the most Handsome and frosh guy, that's one . I feel like spending. You have a problem with it? Useless orangutan smhhhh

I'm balling next month in US with my child hood friend, for like a week. He's also most handsome over there, all bills on him., ticket and all.


So, Just STFU!

And stay one side with your miserable hungry looking Self! Smhhhh.


Lemme jaye ori mi with nice cute people.

victorian:
Guys of these days? Lemme not say what's in my mind.

Anyways on whatsapp, I was browsing my friends and family's status.

Then my eyes caught one of cousin's status, I was like lemme see what this babe is up to.

She's a top executive in one of these banks. I tapped her status, she displayed pics of herself shopping in a mall abroad, I could see the environment is not naija. I was like Ufuoma! Big babe! Babe is spending money. There was definitely someone at the background taking her video. After shopping and paying, she waved, smiled at the camera.

Then next video, She was in a robe, dancing to a song playing at the background, in a posh room. I guess it's the hotel where she's staying. She held a bottle of Baileys. Poured in a glass, was miming a song, seeping the baileys looking at the camera with a determined look and smile, winked and seeping her drink.
Then shaking her head again, pouring more drink into the glass, dancing slowly and smiling.

I was like wow! This is what I call freedom and enjoyment!
No stress,No Stingy guy breathing down ones neck, no hassles. She was just feeling herself.


In mind I was like this video is for guys.

For guys to know she enjoying her money without stress.


Ufuoma is really balling.


Guys successful women no send una o

That's the truth out there ! We no send una one bit!

What's rice and chicken wey Op no allow us hear word this night!

Have eaten chicken, turkey, cow leg, ogunfe! Almost every day, that I can't even eat anymore Orelse I just want my heart to shut down. That's the honest truth. Food doesn't freak people like us.

Just yesterday, i sent an invite to a longtime friend I saw online. I chat the guy up. Guy what will u be doingthis weekend? He said nothing really. I was like u are looking very handsome these days o. Come over Lets catch up.
He asked what will I offer him? I smiled, I said some bottles of nice chilled wine ,with enough fried chicken and sauce.

He screamed and was like wow!

I smiled and I said its Nothing jare. He asked whats the merriment for?

I said nothing.. I'm just bored and I want to drink and dine with someone I'm familiar with, that's all. Nothing spectacular. And moreover u look good! He was all smiles, he said its deal.

So what's there in chicken and rice wey we no go hear word for nairaland.

Smhhhh!

julieean:

still you people cannot do without us

Barbie15:

I have never been an olosho even before I got married. But honestly I am always sensitive to touch whenever i am alone with a guy and there is blues music playing on the background. It arouses me, that has been my weak point.

Barbie15:
Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me

Drince:
Hello, good evening, i have an issue i want to trash out.
I'm married nd i gave birth to my 1st child this january. B4 my mum came for omugwo, mv hubby has been the one doing all house chores including washing my clothes and d baby's.
It took 10days b4 my mum was permitted to come cos she's a civil servant. Even wen my mum 4s around, he still continues to do some house chores. This morning my hubby asked me to bring my dirty clothes, since my mum washeq my baby's own after bathing her. My mum overheard him teling him me to bring my clothes, she brought hers and asked me to help her out too. I gave them all to my hubby nt knwing that my mum's undies were included. When my hubby noticed the pant he got provoked and asked me why i added my mums clothes without telling him.
I apologized and told him i was unaware my mum added her undies.
He got angry and threatened never to help out with any chores in the house.

Drince:
Hello, good evening, i have an issue i want to trash out.
I'm married nd i gave birth to my 1st child this january. B4 my mum came for omugwo, mv hubby has been the one doing all house chores including washing my clothes and d baby's.
It took 10days b4 my mum was permitted to come cos she's a civil servant. Even wen my mum 4s around, he still continues to do some house chores. This morning my hubby asked me to bring my dirty clothes, since my mum washeq my baby's own after bathing her. My mum overheard him teling him me to bring my clothes, she brought hers and asked me to help her out too. I gave them all to my hubby nt knwing that my mum's undies were included. When my hubby noticed the pant he got provoked and asked me why i added my mums clothes without telling him.
I apologized and told him i was unaware my mum added her undies.
He got angry and threatened never to help out with any chores in the house.

Petyprincess:
Nothing is chopping my money for nw

Ikjosh04:


Yes, I'm in lag. I sent you an email.

Ikjosh04:


Good evening sir, I also need a court order. I got scammed of 500k on 26th June 2019 via WhatsApp. Around December last yr I was able to restrict his account but first bank told me I need to get a court order to sustain the restriction cause the scammer has removed the money and the guy does not base in Nigeria. I tried getting the court order but I was discouraged and all that by the police people.

EzekielMab:
Good evening Nairaland people.


On 28th January 2020. I was scammed to the tune of over 100,000 on telegram.


I have lost several money in the past though. But I don't want this guy to go free.

He was a admin of the group with over 8k+ and 3k+ pics of open transactions.

I have been to 3 police stations including panti and they keep saying they can't do it. "I will spend too much" according to what they keep saying. That it doesn't worth the stress. That I should forget about it.

So, pls I need someone here to help me with a police officer that can help me get a court order without stressing myself in Lagos.

Pls send me a DM if you can help go about this easily.

Cc lalastica et al