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kimbraa:
I painted you black? Sorry, you're already black in that context.

I looked at your profile too, and all I see is a lady who lacks self-worth. Who did business with you?

In all honesty, you look like one with esteem issues. If you don’t know a marriage is a long period and you think your husband would be faithful to you? Please don’t be dumb. Except you’re married to a wimp which would also be bad for you. Please grow up

Princess4ng:
exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! after all the small years of mine on earth...i have discovered men cheat!!!!!!!!! wheather Negro,Asian everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are right. Only women in fantasy world would refuse to accept that. Go and have some peace with yourself. You have only said the truth and as we know the truth is bitter. It is only women who don’t prepare for the truth go about killing their husbands or thinking divorce is an alternative. You divorce A to meet another cheat B.

kimbraa:
Keep kwayet! What kind of home did you grow up in that has skewed your mindset of what marriages should be? What kind of marriages are you advocating for when you think it's normal for men to cheat? Do you even know the psychological trauma men/women go through when their spouses are cheats? Your types of women are used as doormats if you go on with this mindset. "Cheat on me, provided, you don't bring it to my matrimonial home, I'm ok with you"

I think you should be the one to keep quiet and listen to her. She has more maturity than you and would make a good wife because she understands power dynamics and her role in the family. What are you going to do if your husband cheat on you? Divorce him or stab him? Have you forgotten that you are in Africa and that a man can marry as many wives as he wants which is suitable to the custom of the land.

Don’t let western movies and western religion confuse you. I would say it to you whether you like it or not. Only weak and broke Africa men don’t cheat. Infact I won’t call it cheating, it is the custom of the land.

Ha people can lie oh - 30 million ke. Liars

dingbang:
This is not a matter of one minute man or whatever, the facebook poster is right. People have slumped and died as a result of marathon sex

1 hour sex - is it an occupation? Do you get paid for it? What are you doing there for 1 hour? Na wa oh

frbona:
Congrats to her
Let's wait for those detractors who would call her names and slut-shame her from their negative minds. Because they don't believe hard work pays

Hard work of how much- the average amount star actors get is N250k per movie. That’s not a monthly payment, it is per role. Factor in regular bill payments and feeding that’s not sufficient to buy a house and a car at the same time.

Dami12345:
Yes thank God for his life.
A lot of men live in silence after been scarred by such evil women.

They need to speak up now! The era of silence is gone. I can imagine the trauma they go through

sarahade:
You are not ok sir.

Who is this one. Was he not sexually assaulted. That’s a crime please and he should also go for therapy because he may be emotionally disturbed for the rest of his life

Kingosytex:
Despite the fact that no politician is a saint coupled with the fact that they are all there for their selfish interest, i respect this man for being able to curtail the tyrant from daura and also curtail the broom wielding thieves

What are you respecting? These men are destroying Nigeria politics. Their selfish acts to hang on to power by all means is killing democracy. Yet majority of Nigerian would scream that the same set of people are still in politics. It is decisions like this that keep them there. There is nothing to respect here.

My question to the OP is - do women really understand feminism? I doubt it. If they claim is equality, I would rather disagree. We have seen women pick or choose when to be feminist and when not to be especially when there is strategic advantage towards being one or not.

I also think the OP would made good use of her rant by assigning the proper name - Prostitutes rather than Runs girl. I have no issues with prostitutes, especially those who sell their vaginas to the public, but with the undercover ones who pretend about being a prostitute. Women have been selling vagina since the beginning of time and I don’t think that trade would stop. Well except there is a shift in demand from the male counterparts.

The OP is right about lazy women being the fore runners of the vagina sale industry. If they have kept their heads down to study and graduated with a good grade, many would be in the office with a full time job and not seeking out men for their sustenance.

highqueen:
as long as I'm concerned,nothing like dating a broke imp or being in a relationship that the guy won't know that I change hair or stuff.


it can never happen, rather stay single then.

So as you big finish, you don’t have money to make your OWN hair. Your own don finish!

Stallion93:
Ahh Ahn! Despite all the Otedola for the money, this girl wants to Occupy this foundation scam too who created Nigerians sef? Somebody tell her to leave that thing and allow us the Hustlers to benefit from such

It’s a money laundering activity. She also wants a piece of the action too.

I know she was acting, but I’m yet to see any recent movie she was in. What does she do now?

If you no go boarding school, you no go understand. I feel you Bovi

Not only South African women, Kenya and Ghanaian women too like Nigerian men because Nigerian men don’t talk too much, then pursue women with money. However, when it comes to western women, you go miss road for that one. Many Western women don’t want their attention to be bought by money.

yvelchstores:
They must be so happy. She did a good thing reuniting them. Beautiful kids

Or she did a bad thing separating them in the first place. A child needs both parents to function. You can see how excited the kids are

bejeria101:
This guy is on a special drug. I have followed him for the past 4yrs yet he keeps changing date,soon it would be Dec 32! Olodo.

I think I remember. Obama was still American President when the OP made his prediction. I told him then to check into the next available mental facility. I can clearly see he refused to heed the advice

JONNYSPUTE:
This is one of the problems most married men make in their early marriages. Trying to please ur in-laws at all times will only make them see you as a sissy.My in-laws tried that rubbish I walked them out of my house and even banned them from coming unless its something official or a get together like thanksgiving or child dedication. I don't visit them but I call them once in a while just to know how they are faring. My wife is not happy about that but just to let her understand my kind of person I equally asked my people not to visit my home except on special occasions too. Since your wife is supporting them,do not even think of divorcing her,stay put in Abuja,don't even bother contacting her but send money for upkeeps to her account directly and keep the evidence. If her brain didn't reset,forget about her she will be the one that will divorce you and by doing such,she will fall into her own trap. Do not abandon ur kids,always provide for them but I repeat don't you ever visit her or call any of her relatives on phone. They will look for u for peace. Its not going to be easy but be a man. If she is truly ur wife,she will come for you.

The wife may not learn quickly due to bad advice and support from her family. It may take a long while and by then the damage has been done.

OP needs to take his wife and himself for professional counseling not pastor please. So that the counselor can discuss thoroughly the demerits of having and allowing external forces into your home.

Also, people should carry out due diligence before you tie the knot. Marriage is not just love. Infact it is 97% financial stability.

Who is writing this letter that cannot be properly proofread. Is the suspect going to interview the investigating officer??

Kennydoc:
Bros, the truth is that less than 20% of church goers give their tithes faithfully. When it comes to sowing seeds, only a very small percentage of church members do it. Majority do it (sow seeds) as a sacrifice to God, and I agree many also do it cos they have certain needs, and they believe they would get answers thru the sowing. Among Christians that give, only in very few cases people give everything they have. Why is it really a big deal?

If I earn 100k a month and I give 10% as tithe, I settle it in my mind that I earn 90k a month. I plan my life with the 90k. I may decide that I won't be hanging out with friends like my other colleagues may be doing. There are many uther things I can do to manage that amount that remains for me. How then have I been defrauded?

The truth is that money is meant to be spent. We spend money on different things. Those who don't give tithes or sow seeds spend their money in other ways. Maybe instead of renting a finer and more expensive house, I might choose to rent a cheaper one. At the end, I will still have enough for myself.

Do you want to know the real truth about giving? When you get saved, all your money belongs to God. The early Church didn't have to give tithe because they gave their all. People sold off everything they had and gave to the church. How many of us can do that now? I know I may not be able to give EVERYTHING so I give the 10% to God and ask Him to mercifully accept the little I have returned to Him out of the abundance He has given me.

The sad thing with these anti-giving messages is that if it continues like this, the church will be crumbled over the years. When more and more people are discouraged from giving to the church, the church will stand a risk of becoming incapacitated.
Yes, many church leaders are mismanaging funds, but we shouldn't throw away the baby with the bath water.

Churches does not even need to exist. With the advent of technology, pastors can conduct services from their comfort zones and members can attend remotely from any location in world. Church services can be interactive and provide more room for question and answer session. Members can still give, for pastors who love money and it would be cheaper to conduct services.

However, it seems churches are more interested in the funds they raised than in the mission and vision of their
Objectives. I understand churches have bills, but be sincere when you need funds. Don’t hide behind false teachings, scriptures and doctrines that perpetuate your hidden agenda.

Kennydoc:
But those that give do that out of choice. They are adults. You can use your money to buy a car or hang out with friends. You can even go for vacation. What if I decide that instead of going for a vacation, I will give that money to a pastor? Don't I have the right as a sane adult? How is it your business how I spend my money as an adult?

Do these people/members really know why they are giving? It is really a choice with the false teaching flowing daily from these fraudulent pastors and their wives? Are these fraudulent pastors preaching the truth about tithe and offerings to their members? Do these fraudulent pastors actually know the truth?

Don’t you think if people are avail the truth about tithe and offerings, their giving behavior would change? Why not offer them the truth that tithe has nothing to do with salvation or prosperity and that giving is merely a choice out of free will and grants you no special condition.

bedspread:
Some of us Think Hell is a Joke....

Brethren if u are privileged to see a Dream of Hell, you will not wish your Greatest Enemies to go there....

Everyone should Strive to Make Heaven... Even if you will be a slave in Heaven, Strive to Enter....

Hell Fire is no Joke.... it's unimaginable, it's undesirable, it's Undescribable..!!!




There is Power in our Tongue.... Lets use it Wisely!!

Quiet. There is no hell

This guy has messed his life up. He cannot practice his profession as a criminal. He also cannot travel to practice his profession because of his criminal case.

So in some people’s mind, including the people who created and move this thread to front page, Borisky is now a source of inspiration!

Na wa

Fake apostle - ruined reputation.

Please whoever is posting and pushing this to front page should discontinue it. Let them be and give them some
Privacy. Stop going to their Instagram page to stalk them. Stop putting up their lives on nairaland. If you are a blogger, please go and get some real news or get a life.

If people actually knew the conspiracy behind the HIV virus, they would ignore the stigma and go about their regular business. One of the co-discoverer of the virus has confirmed that you could get HIV and the virus can also leave your system. This can occur at any point. He confirmed that with good nutrition, the virus leaves your system.

Also, some scientists have shown through their research that HIV virus does not result to AIDS. What this means, the drugs being prescribed for HIV virus maybe causing more harm than good to the carrier of the virus.

[quote author= post=69507691]The 2 STRONGEST men in the world.
#RESPECT [/quote]Nah - what about the Chinese emperor - who has decided to make himself president for life

emperorblog:
If a girl dumps you because you don't
have money and after you have made
money... She comes back begging... My
brother... Forgive her... Promise her
marriage... Tell her family that you
want to renovate their house... Remove
their roof and DISAPPEAR

WTF I didn’t know why I read your message. It’s not related to the thread, but it’s funny. How do people think this stuff?

OKorowanta:
Make una let dis Satan rest.

I tire oh.

The man is very ridiculous. Why didn’t they consider family planning alternatives?

Wow � the words used are just too damning. Apostle has ruin his reputation