It was Yes or No request and doesn't need time for you to think. You are slow in thinking. Are you sure you want to be a wife?

The Nigerian Army is right and I think the Economists was wrong to characterized an entire organization as weak and corrupt. It should have been clear, the Leadership of the Nigerian Army is corrupt.

This takes the blame off the organization, which still has credible and professional men and women, but focus more on the leaders of the organization. Certainly, if the Leaders don't like the publication, then they have a housekeeping duty to make.

She will talk. Let her grow

WibusJaga:



This is sweet music to my ears. But I hope he means it 100%.

Laughs. No he doesn't. Sent his men to beat up protesters. Then visit the scene to apologize. He has achieved his objective. Disrupt the protest and calm down the protesters.

A win for the Police

Toks2008:


Some Nigerians are not smart at all. Who does a 10sec video with undies still on and then leaked it making sure her face is not too conspicuous and also hiding the identity of the guy?

Crazy publicity stunt and I just think that is too low of her...

She said the male participant made a mistake to snap chat their sexual encounter. On snapshot you can tell when someone records your video.

She disclosed the blackmailer(s) reached out to her for some undisclosed fee and she wasn't willingly to play their game. She did not report to the Police.

The radio interview has been close to 2 weeks prior to the viral circulation. No report to the Police. She didn't even reveal the name or pseudo-name of the blackmailer.

My opinion
Make a big reveal to garner attention in view of my album/singles release. Keep my name in the public mouth. So they can stream my music in support. Make money from this debacle and get support from my fellow celebrity friends.

Sick people

citygarden:
This woman no get shamed, why recording while making sex. Why your boyfriend face no dey show for the video. And she is ambassador o.

That's not her boyfriend in my opinion. A boyfriend is someone who cares. The male individual did not capture his face. Hence, his motive should be questioned.

Tiwa appeared to be aware of the video and gave consent. I think she disclosed that too. That's the reason why she was still clothed. In other words, there was some exchange of financial benefits prior to making the short clip video.

Tiwa is not disclosing the entire truth. Though we dont need it. She has her demons to fight. Now watch how celebrities and friends would rush to her when she returns back to Nigeria like she won a trophy. These are sick people.

You didn't control any narrative. To those who matter, you have destroyed your image and legacy. The video appear to be an inside job for reasons best known to you. However, you spin the story, you consented to the video being made.

The very part of your 41 years body that should be out of public view and kept private is now circulating the internet and here you are claiming you controlled the narrative and beating the blackmailer to their game. What happened to reporting to the Police that you are being blackmailed. The culprit would have been arrested. Even to this point, you have not spoken about actions to take in addressing the humiliation brought on you. Which should include unveiling those responsible and involving the Police.

This is why I said you consented to this and the only narrative you controlled is "clout". If you can expose your private for clout, then you are sick.

To hell with you.

Dalil8:
Acquired indeed.

Hiding the plate number so we cannot tell who owns.

Beebah2000:
I no understand wetin dey worry some Nigerian men. Abi, their mama no press their head well with hot water after them born them ni?

Nigerian men, why must u end a relationship if your girlfriend refuse to have sex with u??
I don't understand. E seems like say now their new motto na
No sex, No relationship

Please, u guys need to stop that rubbish mentality. So woman way open legs for u, na wife material abi? Mtchewww!!

If she no gree give u, u go con dey think say she dey give another person.
If she give u, u will still get tired of it and dump her for another girl. That is not fair.
Please, u guys should stop doing this

If u know say u no go marry her, then no expand her hole. If she no wan sleep with u, respect her decision and continue the relationship. Stop making it look like sex is more important in a relationship, it is not important!!

Later now, they will come here and say women have nothing to offer apart from sex.
And sex was the first thing u demand for in a relationship. Yeye boys
When she open legs, they'll say Nigerian girls are useless while u are the one making them act useless.

If u can end a relationship because of sex, then I think u need to go and see your church pastor so that he/she will deliver u from that unknown spirit way dey your body.

I don talk finish.
Make I sit down here dey drink my creamy coffee.

Are you a virgin? If you are not a virgin, why withhold sex when you have actually given your virginity to a man who didn't marry you either. If you are a virgin, better. Give it to your husband.

The highest honor a woman can give a man is her virginity and her womb. If you have given someone who is not your husband these things, you are trash.

Women don't know how to pick husbands and will continue to experience heartbreaks, till they return back to the fundamentals.

Saintmary:
It's all well and good to speculate about this family.
But, let's consider these:

What did this man do with his energetic years?
Was he a present dad or the 'drop money' type?
Was he a faithful husband?
Was he peaceful with his family when he was the sole authority?
How can 6 people gang up against you without an exception? (Is the mother's juju that strong?)
He decided, unilaterally, to sell a property without considering his family's opinion, is that the right thing to do?

I personally suspect that he has an away child or children somewhere and the main family is already fighting for property early before his expected demise.
Else, why would he file for divorce on a whim if he doesn't have options hidden somewhere?

P. S. Nigerians always tell women to endure horrible marriages, but when it comes to men?
'he needs peace of mind' becomes the mantra.

The man married the woman and she bears his last name. It was his decision and so if he regrets it, he can undo the decision.

Xj2020:
He is a very principled man. Very religious and doesn't play with his God been a devoted Muslim. Extremely rich and bless with four grown up children with the second of his children getting married in a month time. He retired from the bank 2 years ago having risen to the pinnacle of his career in the banking industry having served in different capacities for almost 35 years.
Yes, the wife is uncultured and ill-mannered. He knows already and has been managing her all these years.
He is presently in court seeking to divorce his wife and has vowed that nothing would stop him from divorcing his wife.
My question is what could possibly make a man thrown in the towel and walk out of his marriage after so many years together? I will like to know.

You are asking strangers about the predicament of your uncle's marriage and his thought process. Why don't ask him yourself?

Brown2012:

The husband is my homie, like we grew up in the same hood, he is a great guy and very calm but not a simp, I feel his plight right now, but this Kpokpogri man is too loud to be royalty. He has disappointed men as a creation and his village as a son. Shame on him

He is not. Tonto gave him that title. Just like she did to Churchill

abbey621:
In this life never put yourself in a compromising position. Tonto compromised herself by getting involved with this idiot, Kpokpo compromised himself by getting involved with a mad woman like Tonto, madam twerker compromsied herself well.......by being madam twerker. Her husband has now compromised himself by marrying her, if he comes out to deny it, they'll call him a simp, if he confirms it and sends her packing, they'll call him heartless. Finally, I've compromised myself by texting while eating, my cloth don stain now....bye bye

Which reasonable man wants to domesticate Tonto Decay the wild cat? She has to find her level and Kpokpogarri is her level

pepperdemzombie:

That's Tonto's aim since she is cursed not to be in any man's house. If she's on the receiving end now, you will hear some fools say they should not drive her into depression and suicide.
You see what she's doing to someone now?

Very sad indeed. I think this is a warning to any man stupidly considering to date Tonto. She will not only destroy you, she will destroy anything close to you. Tonto is a wicked vicious witch.

Crossroad1:
Nigerian leaches (girls/women).

Nigerian girl/women now date for money..
Love no dey Nigerian relationship again..
They love you as long as you keep providing

Same everywhere man

I don't think the husband is that stupid. Based on this voice note, it is confirmed Kpokpogarri was sleeping with Jane Mena. The husband actually forced Jane to respond to Tonto if Tonto's allegations ain't true. Jane had no choice but to fall into the trap. However, she knows it is true and was pleading behind scenes.

I guess her marriage is winding down at the moment.

Fools roaming around. Tonto always forget her reputation is still going down the drain each time she reacts to her miserable situation.

dboY1123:


Have you been disappointed Cumming fast? Like you just shook like 10times and your thing dropped/weak? And fails to stand for more than 30mins? And d babe just lay down like Nothing ever happened? Haba

I think you are more focus on impressing women rather than have women willingly to impress you. While I won't want to criticize you because life comes in phases, I will beckon on you to focus on more important things, like life goals, this will make you more appealing and women will position themselves to impress you on bed and not the other way around.

Get to a point in life that your sexual satisfaction is their priority and if they want to be satisfied sexually, they do it by themselves and would never complain. Rather they are grateful and fulfilled you are spending 2 minutes of your time with them.

Sex is overrated. Don't kill yourself trying to impress someone you may not marry. There are more important things in life.

Also, these women rating the sexual prowess of a man do not make good wife. For men, your sexual satisfaction is achieved when you ejaculate. If you get to that stage, you're fine regardless of how long it takes you to achieve it.

It's sad young men continue to focus so much on the opinions of women rather than themselves.

73% of your revenue to service debt!!!! This is disastrous. How is that country surviving?

kstyle2:
The police accused him falsely of money laundering and instead of doing the right thing if he was guilty, they demanded bribe so as to release him for him to go and continue the false money laundering scheme they accused him of
Now, he was released because he knew someone but the same policemen would not be brought to book. They'll look for another victim

How will the Police ever learn if we don't hold them responsible.

She has ruin her reputation and brand. Her team is trying to do damage control. Her game strategy was not intelligent and Nigerians largely is a family oriented country that will not support a lousy brand who cannot comport herself and respect her marital vows.

This apology is a marketing scheme to get big brands behind her. Tega thinks her controversy would sell and push her to limelight, but it backfired. Her mental breakdown is all a strategy to get sympathy. Nigerians should reject her and her deceitful ways.

Seems your son wants to be independent and live like a married. He should do that in his own house.

suffering:
The last I heard of her was eleven years ago. If she followed their plan she would have enjoyed a few years of fame and not the on and off again epileptic popularity which came her way. She’s still pretty, though, I love her feline-esque facial structure.

Well she didn't want that. I have seen her recent movie and I could tell she is big on morals and decency. Ain't we tired of fully and half naked ladies who are either confused about singing or selling their body to the world.

You're a good storyteller and will do well in it. Horn the skills and work on your grammatic errors. Good job.

Fahdiga:
Chiwetalu Agu has written his name in gold. Posterity will be kind to him for not forgetting his roots and flaunting it to chagrin of terrorists in power. Sir Chiwetalu just know that reasonable Nigerians and freedom lovers worldwide loves and adores you wholeheartedly for this heroic act and in the fullness of time you shall be honored. Keep it up sir

He is a disgrace. He wore the Biafran flag and denied it. He is a coward. Better to have a cause, fight and die for it than to be a coward. If he was not willingly to take a stand why did he wear it? Shame on him.

The message is for some of his special ministers who are attempting to break away.

Nairaland now filled with fake stories. I think this urge to post fake stories will kill the forum

Frank20219:
I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.

For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.

From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.

From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.

I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.

Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.

You are very immature and don't need to be in any relationship. You need therapy and to work on your insecurities before you reck someone else.

yesloaded:
In as much as virginity is good, I'm not in support of broadcasting it on social media

There are some things that should be secret known to couple alone

I think it's important to do so. We have prostitute broadcasting their nude pictures. We need to bring back decency.

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to this lady, and she said

She is sorry but she can't return the love

I asked if she loves me but she said NO but she likes me

I asked if I should forget about her and she said, ' Let's be friends, anything can happen'

What should a guy do In this kinda situation? Thanks

Take a walk man. She wants all the benefits from a relationship without the obligations. She is a succubus and you are going to be her SIMP. Deal with women who want to deal with you.