On another episode of stories that did not happen. Your boss fiancee is making advances towards a delivery boy.

You just don't understand women nature.

It's funny how women have convinced men money is necessary to be in relationship but the man has to bring the money and not women.

For women, they should bring nothing but themselves. When you tell them this is transactionary, they would scream to the heavens. This is how you create entitled women.

DamnnNiggarr:
I don't care about what transpired between them but my concern there is why some men prevent their wives from working, in order to make both ends meet and also be financially independent.

Do you think with your ass. Nobody can prevent anybody to do what they want to do. She didn't want to work. It may have been an agreement between both of them, but because things ain't rosy anymore and she possess no skills she wants to blame the man. You probably have little or no experience with women. They will blame everybody and anybody but them.

What she wants is for the man to continue taking care of her till she die. If this is an agreement between them in the past, I think he should pay up. I just don't believe her saying her husband PREVENTED her from working.

HeadNigga:
I will wait until the 2023 elections are over. If obi wins I stay, if they rig him out I move

You better move because Obi won't win.

Nonexisting1:
Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back.

People keep saying this nonsense. How can a prostitute make a good wife? A woman who have commoditized her private part for money is never a wife. However, silly men who have no regards or respect for themselves will consider marrying prostitutes.

He is too expressive and this keeps getting him into trouble. They will stiffen his access to the financial market, cut all contractual obligations with him and threaten others not to associate with him.

He should have kept his mouth shut, build to the point where no one can tell him nothing. He should quickly organize funds to buy a Bank and grow it.

There is a reason why the Jewish community are gatekeepers.

As this point, I would be thinking rich Black folks in America coming together to do stuff like buy a TV station and Media house to control narrative, buy a National Bank for black people for access to the financial market.

Fair reportage.

owobokiri:
They waited all these months to find something to nail him

You're right. The victim was not cooperating with Law enforcement. They had a weak case but the mistake he did was to allow her back into his life and they continued living together. I don't know how law enforcement got to know they are together in the same house, but he violated his bail terms and this is the only evidence they have.

He is toast. He should have avoided her till the case is appropriately adjudicated. Sad, but men should learn from this. Women will play the victim game without anticipating the repercussion and damages. Later, they pretend or cry they are sorry.

kingyakos:




Why una fear Obi pass Atiku?...

No one is scared of Obi rather experienced politicians, analysts, columnists, journalists, and other concerned individuals are advising Obidients.

The APC know who their main opposition is and that is the PDP. Peter Obi, Labour Party and Obidient movement group are just making noise.

The comments on Twitter and here are laughable. Popular columnist have told the public that Peter Obi is a regular politician. The evidence is there

- He is still a card carrying member of the PDP
- He ran alongside with Atiku as Vice Presidential Candidate in 2019. If you don't agree with the vision and objectives of another person, you won't join them.
- Peter Obi publicly said on ARISETV that his vision, mission, and ideology are not different from Atiku.

These redflags are there from the very beginning, but Obidients either decide to forget or choose to ignore them or completely want to deceive others.

To the obidients, Peter Obi is not your messiah. I have repeated it multiple times. He is not different than others. He will not win the election (evidently shown in the Labour Campaign List). Get ready and brace yourselves for a monumental lose in the forthcoming Presidential election in February 2023.

MrBanner:
Any sensible person knows that Wike will work for Jagaban, it's only a matter of when. Kwankwaso too will declare for Baba in due course. Who doesn't want to join the winning team? PDP is a sinking ship, LP is just PDP lite , the earlier Mikano boys realise this, the better for their Blood Pressure

Nobody can step down now. They can either tell their members to vote for other parties. I see Kwankwaso doing so or having a good showing in areas where Atiku should win. Infact Kwankwaso seems to be working for Tinubu. I also see Wike doing similar acts too. This is why I strongly think Tinubu will win the election.

The governors have clearly stated they won't leave the party. Many have bought forms for Senatorial election under PDP with the exception of Seyi Makinde and Nyesom Wike.

Without any reconciliation, they will work against Atiku during the Presidential election and inform their supporters to vote PDP for Senatorial election, Gubernatorial & House of Representatives.

Options available - Advise supporters to either vote APC, LP or NNPD for Presidential Candidate and PDP for other elections. The only outcome from this is a straight win for APC. Recall, Tinubu met with Wike twice an part of the discussion was a Senatorial run for Wike which Wike rejected. Also, Wike also requested APC turn a blind eye in Oyo and Immunity from corrupt charges.

naikeboy:
No wahala e remain 8 months make them enjoy as Peter obi wins he will reverse all that budget

Peter Obi will return back to his importation business and his house in Ikoyi, Lagos. He will not smell Nasarawa State, talk more of Aso Rock.

quentin06:
2023 Budget is for the FG alone, in the era of internet and online newspapers why will they spend 8bn on newspapers?

The height if financial recklessness, offcourse this is what happens when there is zero accountability. And the people who lend these monies dont even ask what the borrowers do with it, why should they when we dont ask?

I believe this will be distributed across all the offices and staff members working in the Presidency and this will include all National dailies. However, I still believe this cost can be trimmed down and only designated individuals like the President, VP, Chief of Staff and Special Senior Advisers should be allowed to get all National Dailies. Their staff can either go online or borrow from their bosses.

This may also include online subscriptions for National and International newspapers like Businessday and Financial Times. If this is the case, then it seems reasonable. These staff members in the Presidency need the information for their work.

TimeArena1:
The way these people assign these huge amounts on inconsequential things is sickening

It's a budget and not actual spending and it is based on previous actual expenditures. Yes we can say trim down some cost allocations but I think the budget is reasonable in my opinion

67.1m for internet is equivalent to 6M per month for internet. I don't think that's excessive. The average cost of good internet service is N50,000 per month.

The presidency includes the VP, Special Advisers, Senior Special advisers and their staff. All these individuals will be on the network. I think the budget is reasonable.

Diligent1:
What did you budget for Youth Empowerment and Education, I want to know?
Because 90% of crime committed in Nigeria are from youths, if they are not engaged there will be problem.

The government is already subsidizing education. What more do you want? They should feed you?

NoToPile:


Na still the same tori na, oga gave an expanded version, besides Nairalanders don tell the wife say she's wrong.

As for the bolded Nairalanders and aproko na one and 2

I read the comments. However, does she acknowledge she is wrong? I doubt that else she would have amended things with the husband. She brought her marital issues to the general public and the verdict of wrongful behaviour have been assigned to her.

Maybe she has a new boyfriend and is tired of her husband.

The wife has developed a bad habit of keeping grudges for a long period of time. It's quite sad they are both tired of their marriage and living conditions.

The husband has said he has experienced hell throughout the duration of the marriage. I don't see any reconciliation or a change of behaviour from both parties. I think they can both call for the dissolution of the marriage and discuss how they will cater for the kids.

An unforgiving wife is a bad wife and can kill. She is not the victim here but the abuser. I recall advising her to call the husband and apologize instantly because it appears she would lose get marriage. Apparently, as per the husband, she has not done so. This was last week. Madam, you are a terrible individual.

Your Spirit Guide saved you. You would have been on Punch or National Dailies for your deed. Get a grip of yourself and move on. There are numerous women in Nigeria

OKOATA:
Pride they say goes before a fall, your marriage is as good as dead. I see a narcissist, vengeful, bitter, malicious, not virtuous, evil woman.

You are that type of person that can't forgive easily, you are too toxic. God knows I can never marry an evil being like you. Because of a small issue you cut your husband off for weeks. Like the world revolves around you?

Go prepare for a divorce, heartless being, I hope you eat your pride along the way. Getting angry over senseless things. Hope it adds money into your bank account.

Wow this is an over-kill but I get your point. It's just plain put ridiculous and the characteristics you highlighted probably suits her. I just don't get it or explain this level of silliness. What was her end goal in all this? Who benefits from this childish behaviour?

Now she is on nairaland narrating her family problems to strangers instead of doing a self assessment or evaluation. I would be hoping she is calling the husband, texting him and apologizing profusely and admitting she was childish and silly.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a married couple should look at making sure that their family AND children is the most important thing in their lives... mummy and daddy not talking to one another (for months on end) is highly childish. i understand that the husband is repaying back his wife with her own medicine, but at the end of the day, only the family&kids will suffer.

sometimes women are very childish, irrational and emotionally incoherent, but you have to accept that this is how this gender is, and live with it. giving the silent treatment to your spouse is ok for a few days, but for weeks and/or months is very immature. sometimes you just have to be the bigger person in the room.

I would rather think this may not be the first time and the man wants his wife to grow up. How long would he continue to tolerate the disrespect. If she is not ready to be married, come forth. Please let's stop cutting slacks with these women. We only encourage them to continue in their bad behaviours.

Is this a real situation? � wow. What's wrong with you poster? It was very disrespectful of you to ignore your husband over slight issues and this has escalated to a break down in communication which may lead to a divorce if you don't apologize to him ASAP.

There is the stress of long distance marriage and communication which should play a huge role in keeping the marriage intact is now a concern.

Madam you are wrong here. Apologize to your husband immediately and get your family together.

Tinubu going to London to discuss with Wike again. I think to make him a deal he cannot refused. From all indication, Wike will not support Atiku for the 2023 election. The media chat confirmed it and was an open invitation for APC to come make a deal.

Penguin2:
I’d prefer Wike becomes the Chairman.

But the truth is that head or tail, Wike and his men are not going to work for Atiku.

If they later work for Atiku after giving him these troubles, Atiku will crush all of them when he gets to power.

What Wike wants to do is to grab the party chairmanship and mess Atiku up.

Wike and his group are aware of this. All the noise about Ayu is a mix bag of betrayal. Wike will not support Atiku and he doesn't want Atiku to become President. Wike is fighting for his survival and political relevance. An Atiku presidency means doom for him and a first class ticket to political asylum.

maxzzo1:
All to Peter Obi advantage cos SS, SE and Half of SW in his bag already

I guess you didn't learn anything from Ekiti and Osun election. I wish you well.

IboHausaYoruba:
This election is done and dusted. I feel APC strategies are working. I havent seen any serious candidate to match up with that political wizard called Jagaban.

I predict more PDP members moving to the APC or secretly working for Tinubu emergence as President. That of Chimaroke is not a mistake.

Wike has successfully de-marketed the PDP and Atiku. He has directly or indirectly told Nigerians that Atiku cannot be trusted. Also, he has indirectly told Atiku he will not be supporting his candidacy and as such is not involved in the PDP Presidential Campaign Council.

dazzzz:
Now I see the reason why dey called Obi social media president, how can obidents got angry because of picture � is it that the crowd pictures will make Obi become president?
You guys are not serious �

Truly, they are not serious. Rather than convince you to support Peter Obi, they shame or insult you. This is not a way to run a campaign. They wanted a million March, they got 40,000 despite importing people into Abuja. Instead of assessing the low turnout, they are busy fighting the Twitter handler of Labour Party.

mach7:
Apparently Peter Obi and his running mate have chosen to discard Femi Falana's advice to desist from visiting those who "destroyed" Nigeria.

We dey watch!

I told Obidients that Peter Obi is a politician. They shouted NO. They said Peter Obi is a new breed, a messiah. What's the difference now? It's even a shame Obidients are posting these pictures on social media.

According to Obidients, these are the men who spoilt Nigeria. Why is Peter Obi meeting with them and begging for their support?

Hypocrites!

nerdfrost:
I hope he doesnt regret it though

I don't think he would escape it, the regrets. This is a marriage. A union for the long foreseeable and unforeseeable future. This is not a short time get together. I think his brains got twisted.

I wonder what his trust levels would be when she is out late at night.

Some men go open eyes pick wahala for themselves.

This is obviously a sign of no male guidance in his life. You don't make a prostitute a wife. That's a vital rule in the streets.

Women and their victim mentality is out of this world.