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|Family / Re: Oga Landlord And Marriage Life: One Of The Reasons I Hate Marriage! by Boss13: 12:19am|
Mind your business
|Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy: My Dad Calls Me “Ms Abena” by Boss13: 4:15pm On Apr 25|
Trying hard to promote the song. Not a great song but I see and respect the effort.
|Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Boss13: 2:02am On Apr 25|
Why are you interested and bothered in your ex-husband’s life. Do you understand the meaning of “ex”
|Religion / Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Apostle Johnson Suleman New Private Jet by Boss13: 12:57pm On Apr 23|
Genuine question! These men are attention seekers.
|Religion / Re: Apostle Suleman's Private Jet Confirmed By Omega Fire Ministries Dubai by Boss13: 12:56pm On Apr 23|
This man is living his best life. His Heaven is actually here on earth.
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|Family / Re: Boyfriend And Family by Boss13: 8:19pm On Apr 22|
She is sad person. Her opinions depicts one undergoing excruciating sadness
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|Romance / Re: Why Are Younger Ladies Marrying Old Men? by Boss13: 8:16pm On Apr 22|
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 5:52pm On Apr 22|
That’s very good for you Sir. However, if she falls within any of the categories listed, you would be coming back with a different story
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 4:26am On Apr 22|
Good to know you are admitting being a child. A huge step. I’m sorry I do not patronize the products of kids because I have outgrown them and they will be of no relevance to me. I wish you well as you seek help to grow. You desperately need it and I hate to tell you that my kids would also not patronize any of your products not now or in the future because the ignorance you have complied into a booklet would not fit into their lifestyle.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 1:54am On Apr 22|
Learn to grow up. You truly need it.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 10:36pm On Apr 21|
Nobody is attacking you - you just talk like a boy but claim to be a man.
I can bet you $1000 that you did not gain a traction of what I experienced during my single days. However, why should I brag about irrelevant things. Men don’t do that. Men explore bigger opportunities and not how they bed women. Those are the exploits of boys.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 10:35pm On Apr 21|
I sincerely laugh at him. In 2009 he was a university student. He is yet to grow. What’s so funny with his disposition is that he brags about being skillful with sex. These are what boys do so he is still on track and not yet lost. When he gets married maybe there would be hope for him.
He thinks 10 years from now he would still have the same energy he brags about or the sex interest he so cherish and if he does then he is a pervert.
|Romance / Re: Game Of Thrones Episode 2 Leaks With Arya and Gendry Sex Scene ( Photos ) by Boss13: 10:29pm On Apr 21|
because the producers feel sex sells. On the contrary, GOT is successful because of the story line
|Romance / Re: Game Of Thrones Episode 2 Leaks With Arya and Gendry Sex Scene ( Photos ) by Boss13: 10:27pm On Apr 21|
The producers of the series are disgusting. They could not resist themselves. Utterly disgusting!
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 10:25pm On Apr 21|
Go luck with your bedroom skills and continue to conquer the world with it. You are a great achiever
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 7:44pm On Apr 21|
I have read the link you posted. Thanks for posting. However, I would say it was written by someone who is truly not interested in having a successful marriage. As each day goes by women are fighting for more rights and the world is becoming more sympathetic to the feminine cause. Women are not disposable toys. The advice on that post can be successful for dating and not marriage.
The woman would leave you and take the kids with her or even worse leave the kids with you. Your wife is your partner and not a footstool to kick around and disrespect.
Men don’t accept bullshit during dating as they screen out potential wife materials. In marriage, women don’t accept bullshit. This you will come to realize when you marry. Trust me on this. Also, note people are watching. The way you treat your wife is the way society will treat you.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 7:19pm On Apr 21|
Enjoy your youth. Bragging about being good in bed is equally not an achievement. As you age, these things become less important. As you get older, a woman will not sleep with you because you are Superman on the sheet but because you can guarantee her financial security.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 5:56pm On Apr 21|
Very well said. A real man chases and accomplishes his dreams. I didn’t want to tell him that because I believe he is still a boy who would grow up. Sleeping with multiple women is not an accomplishment. It’s a total waste of time and money. Bragging about sleeping with numerous women is plain stupidity.
|Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Friend I Have Been Dating His Ex? by Boss13: 5:35pm On Apr 21|
Yea you should feel horrible and even more for paying her tuition.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 5:23pm On Apr 21|
Yes you cannot ignore spirituality, but again I cannot delve into that aspect as I am not adept on it.
|Romance / Re: What Would You Do? by Boss13: 5:08pm On Apr 21|
Wow - it sounds like a fictitious story. However, he doesn’t owe the vicious woman a dime. Let her carry out her threat and end up in jail. Maybe that’s the place for such kind of people. He should be lucky and grateful to the UK Home Office for saving him.
|Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Friend I Have Been Dating His Ex? by Boss13: 5:02pm On Apr 21|
Absolutely ridiculous! My Goodness. I just can’t advise such a young man
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 5:00pm On Apr 21|
Yes - the moment you spot the red flags, quietly remove yourself from the equation before you complicate matters. These advice is the same I would give my son when he is of marriageable age. I still read threads on Nairaland involving young men who are about to mortgage their future. Avoid these pitfalls
|Romance / Re: What Would You Do? by Boss13: 4:45pm On Apr 21|
Is this super story or true story. If it’s real, I did a thread on how young men can pick their wives. Go and read it and apply both your present scenario and that of the vicious lady to the categories listed
|Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Friend I Have Been Dating His Ex? by Boss13: 4:40pm On Apr 21|
What is wrong with these young men paying school fees for ladies they are not married to
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 4:36pm On Apr 21|
Laughs - you see the shades of happiness that wants to be shown.
What I wrote here is what elderly ones don’t tell or don’t know how to tell younger ones.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 4:22pm On Apr 21|
Please note that first, I’m not your age mate. Second, to involve my late mom into this, depicts your upbringing.
You can critique without being ridiculous. To answer your question, yes you can find women who don’t fall into these categories.
I will tell you a story for free. I was deeply in love with a lady and was considering spending the rest of my life with her. However, she was from a broken home. The father was never in her life. The mom was out of the country and only sent money for upkeeps. She was brought up by relatives. She graduated school, but I noticed some form of unserious behavior. I got her a job and also tried to motivate her.
Recall I said I was deeply in love with her. Logically I knew marrying this woman would cause me future pain, but I was in love and didn’t want to lose her. I assessed her family structure and financial well-being and it was not healthy in all ramifications. She wanted me to introduce her to my parents, but I couldn’t and then the problems started. She decided to get involved with someone else and told me she wasn’t interested anymore. I was deeply hurt.
Guess what - her marriage is in bad shape. The guy she left me for married her and I would have been that man. Both her and the husband are terribly unhappy and are considering divorce. I am not mocking her - Hell No, but I am highlighting that if I had followed my heart, I would be miserable and may have divorced her.
Love is not enough for marriage - Young man.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 3:55pm On Apr 21|
Thanks for your opinion. I’m very well versed in love due to age and experience. I can tell you all about it and the fantasies. What I have said is the reality. Don’t marry only for love. If you do, then be ready for rough consequences. Why
- It would hurt you to your soul when the person you love call you disgusting names.
- It would hurt you to your bones when the person you love ignores you.
- Men who are so passionately in love with their partners do not end up well. They are the first to commit crime out of passion.
Those who are married understand what I’m saying. You can choose to ignore the advice. However, when you do marry, you will see the pitfalls before your eyes.
|Romance / Re: Men & Marriage - How To Pick Your Wife! by Boss13: 3:50pm On Apr 21|
The advice was not for you. It’s for young men. Are you a man?
|Family / Re: Boyfriend And Family by Boss13: 3:44pm On Apr 21|
Very disgusting especially from sisiloge. She sounded like a stupid Arrow. You don’t know this people or the relationship dynamics, but want to sound like an expert. How stupid!!!!
|Family / Re: Boyfriend And Family by Boss13: 3:42pm On Apr 21|
Please ignore the stupidity you read here. This forum is a terrible place to get advice and negatively affect your relationship. Can you imagine the advices you are getting from people who really don’t know and care about you.
|Family / Re: Boyfriend And Family by Boss13: 3:40pm On Apr 21|
Don’t say this without providing evidence. It’s really dumb
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