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Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Is Showing COVID-19 Symptoms (Pix) by Boss13: 10:35am On Dec 07, 2021 |
If she has covid or serious illness, she will not remember her phone or even think of posting. She posted because she wanted people to read her last statement. "My daddy came to see me". I thought she was her orphan. Probably - her sugar daddy |
Romance / Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Boss13: 10:31am On Dec 07, 2021 |
This thread is part of the numerous mistakes men make in selecting their wives. I have written a thread on how to pick a wife. For those still confused, go and read it. Picking a wife is one of the most important decision a man can ever make. Be guarded. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is It Bad If A Married Man Cooks? by Boss13: 11:04am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Mercychen: Learn to hear from the other side before arriving at a conclusion. This is one topic one gets limited to express opinions because first, it's hearsay from one source. Second, the full context is not known. 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: CNN Fires Chris Cuomo by Boss13: 3:18am On Dec 05, 2021 |
toprealman: Ratings are going down. He was their star man. Young people rarely watch cable news and older people are tired of CNN lies 10 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: CNN Fires Chris Cuomo by Boss13: 1:53am On Dec 05, 2021 |
This guy was CNN money maker and had the most watched show on CNN despite CNN falling ratings. I don't know if CNN would survive this because overall its ratings ain't doing well and the people are moving away from watching CNN due to its leftist propaganda and constant lies portrayed by the Cable News. Bye Bye CNN - Fake News Station. 108 Likes 7 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: I Am A Wealthy Gold Digger — Tonto Dikeh by Boss13: 5:07pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
jimcaddy: This is how women operate. A lot of guys are unaware they are in a relationship with traumatic women. These women rather than heal themselves would jump into a relationship as quick as possible. There are also cases of women dating multiple men at the same time. Also, young men don't question these women to ascertain compatibility. Guys not all women, regardless of what you think or feel, is compatible. Many are traumatic walking machine that will bring nothing but chaos to you. Engage in the practice of asking prospective girlfriends questions such as how many relationships they have been in. If the relationship is more than 2, ask them if they have gone for therapy. If the question is no, do not enter into a relationship with such women for your own good. Don't be the next nairaland headline. Avoid traumatic women. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: I Am A Wealthy Gold Digger — Tonto Dikeh by Boss13: 4:10pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
The entitlement of this old single mother is way out of proportion. She is still playing young folks game at her age. I guess mid-life crisis is taking a new turn. She always want to make the headline just to get attention even if such attention discredit her. I hope prospective admirers and wannabes boyfriends are fully aware of their outcomes if they decide to elope with her romantically. You have been warned. Don't come on social media to scream. You can also take a look at your predecessors and your outcome will similar to theirs or even worse. |
Family / Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by Boss13: 1:42pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
frozen70: What a shame. Justifying silliness. If the woman is unsatisfied, let her leave her marriage. At least she is free to conduct her affairs as a single woman. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Boss13: 1:39pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
flokii: I would rather say his mother should know her place. She had her family and won't allow her son have his own family. This is victim mentality of women. The ladies on this forum screaming foul would end up last this in the latter phase of their lives. They live their lives through their children. His mother is afraid of abandonment and loneliness and in this fear creating havoc in her son's marriage. The son claims to be a matured man but a matured man will understand his family comes first and your mother has had her family. Many Africans continue to be bonded to the families of their past instead of moving on. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 3:12pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Legendoo: It is a shame my brother. Your comment is spot on. If a few of us had not picked up her ignorant comments, she would have pushed a false narrative. Guess what! Her clique of lowlives would protray it as stigmatization and continous oppression of Nigerian women. That is the narrative she wanted to paint with this thread. Woke Ramota (very funny expression, I had to borrow it) has not seen Murtala Muhammad International Airport in a long while, but wants to dictate how things should be. Thank you for also speaking up. There are lots of young kids on this platform that deserve to know the truth. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 3:04pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Loreettaa: I could tell the OP is young, unmarried, uncultured, ignorant and not exposed when she was trying to justify her poor lifestyle choice. She excitely said she doesn't mind getting married to a smoker too. These are silly views made by inexperienced individuals. She didn't not contemplate the impact of such unhealthy lifestyle on her children, the social cost, the health cost, and financial implications such lifestyle would have on her family. These are the kind of girls that think marriage life is happy times, restaurants groping, vacations, clubbing, and shopping. I know some smoking couples suffering their irresponsible lifestyle choices. Some of them are no longer together. Others blaming each other for their miserable lives. While a few detesting their wives openly and in public for smoking and even calling them prostitutes. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 2:55pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Wrecxman: He highlighted the ignorance of the OP citing society don't frown at women who smoke in the west. It clearly shows the OP has never traveled or lived in the west. It is harshly frown at. Smoking is not a cool habit in the west. It is an expensive dirty habit that even affect the chances of having quality people around you. I completely forgot the expensive health insurance premium smokers are subjected to and the subtly discrimination such as not being allowed to smoke in social places or even in front of kids. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 2:50pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Legendoo: Exactly - they have no idea. These ignorant Nigerians are not aware that some smokers go for therapy too. Your last sentence is extremely important. Hollywood and Social Media are both doing a great disservice to many Nigerians who have no idea of how the world truly operates, but continue to imitate extreme behaviors. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 2:44pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
HeyCorleone: It is irresponsible for anyone to smoke. It impacts negatively on one's health. It is a dirty lifestyle choice. It is addictive and also an expensive habit (if you calculate the amount spent on tobacco from day one). It is for those who lack control or discipline. Juxtapose these characteristics to a woman who is expected to nuture, care for children, teach, transmit, and transfer culture. What do you think will be the outcome - a world of smokers, irresponsible, and impulsive humans. 1 Like 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Boss13: 2:32pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
TheNoble007: Thanks for your comment. I get to read so many ignorant comments and threads on nairaland comparing Nigeria with the West. Many of the individuals have never traveled before or reside in the west. They only get a window view of the west via Hollywood and they think that's how the west operates. To the OP, smoking is a detestable behavior everywhere in the world. Smokers are not allowed to smoke in public spaces and are usually confined outdoors even during winter. Such lifestyle choice is frowned at by the larger society in the West. Don't let Hollywood deceive you. It is an addictive behaviour that attracts addicts and like minds to you. This is not gender related, but women who smoke get the long stick of the cane. Smoking indicates the lack of control, insecurities, and impulsiveness. It is a dirty behaviour. The larger percent of western women who engage in this classless lifestyle choice are usually low-lives, prostitutes, homeless, and addicts. You can pick your lifestyle choice but you cannot determine how people would react towards you. Your choice! PS: To those who continue to make comparison between Nigeria and the West and their only experience is via Hollywood and tales from tourists, please snap out of it and get a life. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Changed All Our Property Documents In Nigeria To Hers, Plans To Kill Me by Boss13: 9:26pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
okoroemeka: You can't try this abroad. You would end up in jail and your wife will end up in another man's bed. |
Romance / Re: When Someone Gives Your Girlfriend N500k, You’ll Realize True Love Doesn’t Exist by Boss13: 1:06pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
I think youngies of these days must understand life is transactional. Such amount of money would entice any lady who is broke and even the pretentious ones. In this era of social media, many women are now hooked into the materialistic adventures of life. The moment you mention the money they already conditioned their mind on how and what to spend it on. With a one night stand and N500,000 reward on the table, even married women and your favorite celebs would be scrambling to be first in line. Hence, not just the money alone, the conditions inherent to the deal matters. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: When Someone Gives Your Girlfriend N500k, You’ll Realize True Love Doesn’t Exist by Boss13: 12:56pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Cashsteady: And you think the white women don't like money too? Your post is for someone who has not traveled outside the country. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Boss13: 3:28pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Angela62: I'm glad you have a turnaround but it took you having male kids to have the rethink and that's selfish. If you had only female kids, you would have continued in your line of thinking. A lot of women are like you especially young women. They hate men for no other reason but for merely existing as men. They champion causes to ridicule men and portray men as the architect of their problems. However, they have never thought of a society without men or a society with WEAK men. Like you rightly said, each gender has their own specific challenges and it would be fair to treat everyone right. Shalom 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Reaction As Nigerian Lady Amara Records Altercation With Mom Over Her Sexuality by Boss13: 3:23pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
The mom is right. You gave them breaking news. You gave people topic to discuss. I thought she has a partner already and I don't think people are really interested in her relationship even if it's heterosexual. People only comment when you bring your relationship to the public 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: Ataga's Murder: Chidinma Ojukwu Lied To Hide Her Identity - Witness Tells Court by Boss13: 5:30pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
She is done. Seems like premeditated murder. Now I wonder what those NGOs were up to 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife And Her Troubles by Boss13: 6:13pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Klass99: Sometimes because of the slimy nature of women. He rebukes his wife, she accused him of sleeping with her. If she kills the maid, both him and the wife would go to jail. On the other hand, women are hypocrites. They would violate, dehumanize their maids but scream "Man beater" and domestic violence if their husband slap them 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife And Her Troubles by Boss13: 6:10pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
SmartProf: Spoken like a real man. Take charge of your home and if the wife doesn't fall in line, quit the marriage. Men you marry women and not the other way round. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:45pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
enirock: I will suggest you like her know before taking her to the altar |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:42pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
ThickSharon123: You are not married yet and not a mother which changes your hormonal balance, body structure and focus. Sometimes your husband may not even be interested in having sex with you. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:39pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
jay89: Your eyes don open. You're welcome. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:35pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Angrymode: Our ancestors knew this and kept their wives on rotation. However, these women want to control men and weak men encourage these feminist to control them. For suckered men - women don't like weak men. 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
justli: Oh they are pushing the boundary and they will continue to push it. I live in the west and one major concern is liberal and progressive propaganda which have created weaker men and women despise weak men. As you can see feminist are pushing for agenda that give rise to produce weak men they hate and won't elope with. Yet you see suckered men agreeing to confused propaganda that generates chaos. A wife or traditional woman would not agreed to the nonsense publication because she understands men better and knows what marital obligations means. She also understands the risk of not fulfilling them because another traditional woman will occupying her space without a blink of an eye. Currently in the west, the most single women are the ones with feminist ideology. These women who grow up and regret their past can't keep men. Also western men are no longer queuing up to marry western women. Let the silly Nigerian feminist pursue their agenda - the end game is there waiting.... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Maryjane001: I understand your writeup, but just want to highlight the contradiction. The word "Obligation" which you include mean - the act or course of action, or commitment an individual is morally or legally bound to do. To translate - it means something an individual MUST do. So when you say nobody owes each other sex and it is an obligation both parties must engage in - that's the contradiction. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 4:53pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Another feminist publication to absolve women of marital obligations. Marriage is responsibility and I know responsibility and accountability to a woman is cryptonite. Women, there are days you don't feel like working but you drag yourself to work because you have an obligation. The same is with marriage. Now, let's flip it - you want your husband to understand your sexual mood and will only have sex with him when you're in the heat of it. This is EXTREMELY selfish and inconsiderate in light of the fact that a man's sexual need is 4 -12 times higher than a woman's. While it is understandable that a woman's libido is lower, consideration must be established that a man's libido is higher. If he is to express such understanding to only have sex with a woman when she wants it. Then such understanding should be extended to the man that he can have sex when he wants, but probably not with the wife. Aha! The feminist movement will scream "I don't want a cheater". "I WILL DIVORCE HIM". Can these women see the irony, the selfishness, and despicable silliness. You cannot take care of your husband's sexual needs - agreed. Then let him take care of it. Stop pressuring men to become women. We are not women. Men, if your wife is refusing to fulfill her part of her marital obligation and this includes satisfying you sexually, divorce her. If you do try to go get it outside, she will divorce you or be irritated by your mere presence. Such women are not ready for marriage. Let them remain single and die alone. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared Of History Repeating Itself by Boss13: 5:34am On Nov 14, 2021 |
You probably should not judge her based on her upbringing. However, people usually don't give what they never had. If she has never seen or was raised in her structured family and observable marriage structure, she will never give you that because she has never seen it, doesn't know what it looks like, does not possess the skills and is not in training to learn. Many people go into marriages hoping things works out. No, it doesn't work that way. Marriage is like a job employment, if you don't possess the skills, you will have nothing to give. If you are not willingly to learn as fast as possible, you make some many errors that can't be corrected. Unfortunately, this is an important decision that only you can make. Its up to you. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Obi Cubana’s Continued Detention By EFCC Illegal – Lawyer, Festus Ogun by Boss13: 10:25pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
Fahdiga: Yes if your riches appear to be from illegal source. If EFCC have a case, they will let us know 1 Like 1 Share |
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