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Some men go open eyes pick wahala for themselves.

This is obviously a sign of no male guidance in his life. You don't make a prostitute a wife. That's a vital rule in the streets.

Women and their victim mentality is out of this world.

Not shocked about this. I have fact checked most of his claims and they were lies. From him not borrowing any funds only to find out from Debt Management Office (DMO) that Anambra had internal and external debts during his tenure and he passed them on. To not paying Water Corporation Salaries for months. To his tax havens matters or remaining as director for one of his companies for 10 months at the same time he was governor, to investing state funds into his family business. To lying to the Code of Conduct Bureau.

The man is a criminal and liar but he is running on a Saint ticket. Honestly, he disgust me now giving his recent tribal remarks and liars about him being attacked.

Obidient1:
Big disgrace of a man who called himself a SAN and a minister, you see that's what happens when you are against a man with Grace Disgrace follows you.

Before you comment, you must first put on a thinking cap. The concerned individual is a current Minister and active politician. He is privy to more information than the public. It maybe false but I doubt this. Anyways future events or occurrence will let us know.

I was thinking the same - Peter Obi relinquishing his race and ambition to Atiku. I first noticed this during the NBA conference. Peter Obi referred to Atiku as his leader. He didn't say I want to acknowledge the former Vice President whom I hold dearly and have a huge deal of respect for.

Also, a Peter Obi in the race and the huge popularity he has with the youth mostly in the south and Abuja creates a difficult problem for Atiku with southern votes. BAT will be able to muscle more than 25% in some of the Southern States if not be the majority winner in the South West region, but this may not be the case for Atiku. He still needs to wrestle with BAT in the Northern part of the country. In this part, Peter Obi will be coming a distance 3rd or 4th.

I have also monitored Peter Obi's current movements. Though the campaign has not started but I noticed he is not pushing hard enough in the North. Though Obidients will suggest otherwise. He is currently abroad speaking to Nigerians in Diaspora. These Nigerians, including myself, cannot vote. This is clearly a waste of time and resources. Pay close attention to the heavyweights, they are currently discussing with power brokers, leaders of regions, traditional rulers, former presidents, including past military rulers. These are important members and leaders on the Nigeria polity that have direct or indirect influence on how people vote. Also, with the in-house friction between Atiku and Wike, it only weakens the PDP chances to claim power in 2023.

In conclusion, I think Peter Obi will step down for Atiku if such talks is not currently ongoing. He has clearly demonstrated his political value by rallying the youth and this cannot be discounted. I see him encouraging Obidients to support Atiku during the elections. I am anticipating this happening during the campaign exercise. If this is not the case and he continues to be actively involved in the election, then there will be only one winner - BAT.

Stupid advice. An unmarried woman giving advice to married women.

Men want to Bleep as many women they can afford. If women know this they will have peace. It has nothing to do with maturity. Men just want to Bleep, married or not. If you are a wife, don't let this bother you or try to control your man. You will only create tension.

Just legalize this stuff and put regulations on the amount people can consume. This will eliminate the criminal elements involved in the production and distribution. Put a heavy levy and tax on companies involved in the production and distribution of cocaine to cater for the social and health cost implications that will arise from the consumption of the drug.

People love to get high. It's a lifestyle decision and it seems the war on this drug is not working. In my view, I think it's because the raw material is mainly sourced from tropical climates and westerners are unable to replicate the production of the drug that's why the pretentious fight is ongoing.

Cannabis has been legalized in many western countries and this is because it can now been grown locally in the west. If thr west can profit, they will continue to criminalize it.

Currently, opoids is now the drug of choice by middle and low income westerners. Cocaine consumption is even safer than Opoids but opoids is not illegal.

Due to tax implications is may be difficult. However, nothing is impossible

Peter Obi's populist movement and its lack of coordination will ultimately be its demise. It appear some selfish individuals want to hijack the movement for their own selfish purposes.

The aftermath of the electoral process in 2023 will speak volumes. Infact, this may be the deathblow of any populist movement in the country.

Edwin Clark, Nigeria's number one identity politics playmaker. This is the same person that swore and pressured Jonathan not to step down. It is strange Buhari never islamized the country during his tenure or Jonathan never made the country a Christian one.

How does the religion, ethnic group or tribe of politicians aid the development or impede the democratic process of the country? I am yet to know.

You want to fix it then you must be sincere and honest.

Call him - express your vulnerability to him that you were so into him and was worried about your emotions. You wanted some days to be sure that your emotions weren't playing games and needed those days.

Apologies to him and be sure to make him know he wasn't the problem. Assure him that you have definitely confirmed you like him and you are into him. You have to promise him it would never occur again and no more mind games.

Finally, let him know you'd like to call him and express your emotions to him verbally. Then, pray to God he understands because you blew your chances with silliness. Please know the brother has options and lots of beautiful younger women and even more successful than you want him too.

Good luck.

RedMac:
I salute this man courage... But he should know that if he dies now, nothing will change...

Laughs

emeernest:
I have an uncomfortable feeling this man will eventually be set free or at most convicted for some small degree of domestic violence.

Because her cause of death maybe an illness

There is an evil plan to destroy the nuclear family and the institution of Marriage in Nigeria and to take away the rights of men in this country.

Men open your eyes you have enemies.

oz4real83:
An advice to my fellow guys, when a babe gives you gifts that are supposed to have receipts but she doesn't give you the receipts along with the gifts claiming she will bring the receipts later or she forgot them, my guys, she has a plan for the future ooo just like this lady . Always learn to request for the receipts which must bear your name along with the gifts to avoid stories that touch. If na phone, collect receipt, if na car, also collect receipt.

I think you mean gift certificate

Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me. I don't take rubbish from anyone.

Here goes the sayings of a masculine woman. Avoid this one. Let her be. She will learn from experience.

Is there a whatsapp group for Canadians living in Canada that I can join

This man decided to marry a woman rumored to have slept with multiple popular men - why. Why are you creating problems for yourself Chief?

Mumusaphire:
Taking Panadol on someone else headache. Can't dey mind their business ni.
The woman sef na mumu. Are u not a Muslim, so u should know that Muslim married many wives. Even mercy on her own, will get second wife.

It is the humiliation and embarrassment for her and not the husband's need to have another wife. She is ashamed her friend, whom she brought into her matrimonial home, took her husband.

I don't know how the man convinced Mercy. Maybe she got pregnant or Mercy saw a financial opportunity (mostly likely) or Mercy has been secretly wishing to marry the man.

Asquare84:
hi naira landers,

I worked in one of the financial institution in the country, sometimes last year I was promoted to head the department at zonal level, (good News right).
here is the problem and challenges I have been facing on the job, I have almost six superior that are above me in terms of ranks, but I was made to supervise them. this superior don't send their report to me or seek my opinion on anything.

I know they are not happy with me. my regional manager on sensing that this may be a problem recommended that I should be promoted ahead of all my superior yet our management is not saying anything about the recommendation of my regional manager.

most of this superior lobbied for this position but I was picked because of my ability's to deliver on the job.

experience peeps how do I handle a situation where I am supervising my superior yet they are not reporting to me or can I issue queries to them.

Call for a meeting. Be respectful because life is transient and you never know. Seek for the support and promise them you have good intentions. If the insubordination continues escalate to your supervisor to straighten things out. However, throughout their stay in the organization be nice and respectful to me even call them Boss just to acknowledge they were once your supervisors.

With time they will get over it

Lagos State should implement the Court Judgement. Give them their land

Her Sugar Daddy is making her pompous

I was wondering why Burna Boy responded to Shatta Wale. Apparently, it appears they have a long history that have never been swept away.

Burna Boy trash his own image. A grammy award winner stoop so low to engage with a local artist. He should have ignored Shatta Wale but because of their history together he felt the jab and rant was for him.

They will share everything but not share their man.

shantti:
Our weather is very bad. The sun is horribly harsh and causes migraine and the harmattan dust is just bad and your body turns dirty white with painful cracked lips. I prefer abroad weather. Cold is better than harsh sun

I have experienced both. I know the difference. You don't want to experience winter. Winter does not only split your lips open like harmantan, it also affects your internal organs. It affects the bones because there is less sunlight.

Nicklaus619:
Eyahhh, I can imagine, but I rather flex my Christmas in snow, if my heart like make e froze e no concern me, rather than to stay in this Buhari Nigeria .

Trust me on this. You don't want to experience winter.

truthsayer009:
Nice one Boss13:

Based on your earlier comments by a saying a Woman is loyal to your pocket, do you agree with this post below by a lady 2 months ago:

What if you have great personality, attitude, general approach but no money, would It still be the same?

https://www.nairaland.com/6302996/men-need-realise-having-money#96855341

I read what the lady wrote and she contradicted herself. She said "I'm not saying money is not important". Chief take this as the Gospel - money is important to these ladies. It is the foundation.

She spoke about personality and attitude. All what she means is don't be rude and belittle me because you are rich. Treat me, as least, as an equal if you can't treat me special. This translates to ATTENTION. They want the attention of a rich man who treats them special.

Great attitude, personality, and approach only scores you points when you are young - teens and in University (where everyone is still depending on their parents and guardians). As you get older, to get women, you have to come correct with your pocket else you would still deal with secondary school girls, who would later dump you for better providers as they get older.

I will close this comment by saying - a wealthy man has no time to be a clown fest to women because he knows the ladies are there for his resources.

ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.
The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....
The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...
Advice on what to do pls

Boy you need to become a man. One rule - don't date your colleagues if you are not the owner of the business.

Tallesty1:
There are things you need to find out before you jump to conclusions.

There are ladies that don't keep female friends, their friends are males and they don't fvck them. They know where to draw the line. Contrary to what romance section will make you believe, some women are faithful to the core.

If she's the type that has more male friends than female, are you then saying that she will not accept birthday gifts from friends because she's dating you?

She has a life before meeting you dude, key in or leave. Don't take it from her.

What else did you see in their conversations?
Give us something to think about and then advise.

Deleting the messages is a red flag but what if you're a sensitive, jealous and insecure boyfriend?

Find out bro. Don't ask for a woman's trust in a relationship that is new. She's dating you means you came first in her list of many admirers. She will have to be very sure of you before she deletes others. She's a woman so that is what it is.


As per two weeks vacation because it was her birthday, please where are you taking Jesus t?o

Point of correction - no woman is faithful. Just like no man is either. Certain circumstances could change the narrative. However, I can understand that there some people who are more prone to be disloyal to their significant other. Hence, young men should stop throwing their scarce resources at women. Use that to build yourself and increase your earning capacity.

The woman you are currently drooling at and wasting your limited time and money would no longer be appealing to you after 10 years. In fact, if someone points her out of the crowd, you would laugh at yourself.

Tboymessiah:
Oga Boss,
On this matter, after building oneself, what are the strategic means of getting a right woman.

Another one
To some men, broke Niggar, they sometimes have one girl friend, they believe she's loyal and love them is that really possible for a man to be poor and have a mature girl that loves him, for who he his?

More respect Boss man.

A woman is as loyal as your pocket. The moment you are not financially appealing to her, she will monkey branch to another provider. This is the biological nature of women. That is why they all have a prize. Do not criticize them for this. It is of no use. It is the same rhetoric of a beautiful woman being appealing to most men.

Hence, I will be wrong to proclaim you can find the right woman. However, your income determines the kind of women you would be able to attract and likewise keep. The bigger your financial capability, the more appealing you are to women and that includes women from other countries, race, and colour.

Also, by right woman, I will presume you mean a wife. There is a difference between getting a wife and getting women. While a wife is also a woman, not all women are wives. I need to point that out. If you want a wife after building yourself and your finances, I wrote a thread in Nairaland about that - go and read it. I do not want to include them here and make this comment too long to read.

Also, if you want women for your pleasures, that's easy as long as you have the money to spend and I mean any woman. I can give you real life examples. For those women you consider top class, you need to get their attention. However, for you to get access into that social class, your money game must be big and consistent and you must be willingly to play game.

I also want to inform young men who think women stick with them because of who they are. That's a lie. Those women don't have options and are insecure. The moment they get the attention of a better provider than you they will dump you.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Go and read my thread on how to choose a wife.

orohbiro:
Help me to rejoice o my boyfriend just bought me iphone13
This shows he truly really loves me and will marry me. Am so happy I didn't expect it o we just 4 months in the relationship.

The bolded is clear evidence how relationship is now transactional and how the purchase of material things for women is the equivalent of love expression. Young men, women don't and will never love you for YOU, they love what you can offer them or your ability to offer them things. Hence, don't get fooled. Relationships are transactional, know this now and act likewise.