₦airaland Forum

Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?

Run ooo!!! No talk say dem no warn you!!!

Davepal:
This is scaring. But then and again, we don't know Obidients here.

In 2015, I supported GEJ, He lost.
In 2019, I supported ATIKU, He lost.
In 2023, I am Supporting TINUBU.

NoToPile:
See what I have been reading on page 1 and 2. 160- 200km-275 km/h

I thought speed limit was between 80-100kmph on expressway. I don't think can't sit in a vehicle driving more than 110kmph max, doesn't matter if the road is smooth like Lagos Ibadan expressway.

I hope some people won't be encouraged by this thread to do fast and furious with their vehicles, sha remember we barely have emergency response oo and there are other cray people on that road.

Kojuma ribi

Lol, if you are not the driver, you no go know. Sometimes, driver sef no go know until e look speedometer.

chibuking1:
165kmph... hyundai elantra 08. Manual gear. benin-ore..... felt like feather.. was trying to overtake a Siena nd he actually increased him speed... I had downshift nd upshift to overtake...he actually slowed down wen I passed him.. me sef slow down too...

This was my previous car, but automatic. The steering on that car is as soft as Butter. Electrical issues are its downside, engine also very expensive.

Lagos Ibadan express 160km/hr Lexus RX330 SUV. While coming back today, the right back wheel shaft broke at around 120km/hr.

Abdul05:
Chief Arthur Eze was right then..

Obi cannot win any state in south west or north..

Because he has no political agent l mean a powerful political agent to lead obi to the war front...

Across the south west and north... so let obi wait for Atiku

How many politicians are more powerful than OBJ in the south west?

Image123:
Is squatting a criteria for leadership?

Good health is a criteria for leadership? Would you elect a mute person if he/she runs for presidency?

Pojomojo:
Team JAPA are among the lazy and irrational citizens. I wonder why many don’t think of the reason why they found themeselves to be citizens of Nigeria.

JAPA mentality IMO you have no plan to influence your nation or your society, it appears you’re not in tune with the purpose of your existence but only focused on your personal interest.

We’ve been lied to that life is what we felt it is when actually it’s extremely the opposite of what we’ve been told.

Don’t be surprised that citizens of civilized countries are tied of their country just as we’re tied too. Strict laws we don’t follow here, you’ll get there and comport yourself meanwhile, their citizens are tied of such laws cause they know some countries are lawless.

Wow, humanity on the run to nowhere when nothing is chasing them but themselves and they lament it’s life.
This money for relocation is enough to set up a micro enterprise to meet the fast growing population in Nigeria / Neighboring African country, with a plan for upgrade of the business as the cash flow increases. There is no free launch any where in the world. Africa has a lot of gap and opportunities to be filled and harnessed. All the same relocation is good with respective individual evaluation of the opportunities and risk.
For every thing in life, there is time and season for every one, so it is always good to get prepared for the opportunities.

My advise is that individual should relocate on personal reasons and not because your close friend or family member has travelled to the UK or Canada, The case varies and individual potentials, opportunities and luck varies.

A family of 4 that have truly "Japa" to the UK knows your total initial cost is highly exaggerated for the popular one-year masters.

1. School fees can be paid at an official rate (less than 500 nairas) and some schools require a 2k or 5k pounds deposit. This drops the tuition deposit to about 1m to 2.5m. If I assume a 5k deposit, it saves 2m nairas compared to yours.

2. For proof of funds (in interest), you need tuition balance + living expenses. Most school tuition is less than 13,000 pounds, and there are schools with less than 10000 pounds tuition. If you deposit 5000 pounds (2.5m nairas) for a 13,000-pound school, you will need about 8000 pounds (4m nairas) more for the tuition balance. You will also need 29,000 pounds for living expenses for a family of 4 outside London. (29,000+8000) pounds= 37,000 pounds (about 17.5m naira). At 3.5% interest, 17.5m naira will yield 612,500 naira. Saves about 1.9 million nairas compared to yours.


To-be continued..
All the best.!
Peace

Wait till a sickness turns you to a pauper, or 1 year strike turns your 4 year course into a 5 year course. Nigerians are wasting away by just being Nigerians. Productivity is under and moving from point a to b in almost everything in this country is riddled with corruption!!!

God1000:
This is amazing, I'm still mystified by China's rapid technological rise.

Why can't we build something like this in Nigeria?
Where are the nigerians that went to Harvard, Oxford, Cambridge, MIT, Stanford, etc
They can only speak big English

Just shows you know nothing about business. When the Nigerian middle class is able to afford brand-new modern cars, then we can start talking about flying cars. Innovation follows money.

Joy2003:
I recently got a remote job that pays in dollars but the exchange rate on their payroll system is very low. What payment system do they use for you with people you are working for? Picture attached below

picture 1
there own rate
picture 2
current rate

If you have a valid driver's license, national ID (not NIN) or international passport, create a payoneer account, and generate a checking account from payoneer for free if the people you work with are in the us, UK or Canada. Give them the bank account number, and get paid to payoneer. You can link your payoneer to your nigerian naira account and withdraw at cbn rate, or if you have a DOM account, link to it and withdraw dollars to your account, then sell to BDCs at black market rate. Alternatively, there are people on nairaland who buy payoneer and will buy it at rates slightly lesser than black market rate.

squash47:
They left Obi's Anambra to come and enjoy the peace in Tinubu's Lagos... The Yorubas will rule Nigeria through Tinubu and we shall enjoy maximum development. Not the type Anambra is experiencing in d hands of unknown gunmen.

Painful tears!!!

kenzysmith:
Asamoah Gyan, mutari,badu,Suarez, and other super stars went back to their and played at least a season to give back to their league but our players no go ever come back how the league want take grow setting bad examples no be your fault baba na okocha and them KANU wey dey feel too big to come play for our league

Make una kindnap am ba?

Supreme01:
I will vote Peter Obi even if he win or not.
paraventure po wins this election...the two god forsaking parties will frustrate him. They'll be the dominate parties in the House. They may likely impeach him That is the structure they are talking about...That is my fear gentle men an ladies.

He has been impeached...twice...AND RETURNED BOTH TIMES!!! Fear not and just vote Peter Obi for President!!!

P1PrinceKT:
Oga freedom of speech is free.
He has the right to express it.

Interesting. Why then are you people shouting blasphemy? Doesn't the girl that your ilk killed have freedom of speech?

abbey621:
You're a bastaard, go back and read what I wrote and the numerous times I've condemned the people who did it. You want to pin it on Islam rather than your inept govenrment and the extremists views from the North. This is where we disagreed, stop spewing rubbish and GTFO!

2 CHIEF IMAMS HAVE DEFENDED THE ACTIONS OF THOSE PEOPLE and said they ACTRD ACCORDING TO ISLAMIC TEACHINGS. Are you a Muslim scholar that your opinion supersedes the opinions of chief imams?

Eriokanmi:
It's his opinion which doesn't hold water if true. He's not the govt

These are the people that should be arrested and replaced with non-salafist imams, but you support them and see no wrong in their actions.

Kestolove:
if the idiot girl had respect other people relign this rubbish wont be happening, christains always call the shot nd will b forming victim

Who gave you the quote in your signature? You are not intelligent enough or articulate enough to come up with that false quote. Do you even understand what it means?

abbey621:
What do you mean it is not a stats discussion, you made the claim, why can't you back it up? This only goes to show that you think with your mouth and not your brain. How can we discuss intellectually when you predicated your claim on false data? LMAO.....you didn't expect someone to call you out on your Bullshit did you?

I don't have time for bullshit discussions. The simple fact that Sanusi was once CBN governor and Patanmi is a Minister today validates my argument. Did you see your chief imam's statement? That you are posturing and trying to divert from Deborah's murder also validates my assertion. The whole world knows your hypocrisy, has called it out, but you and your ilk defend it nevertheless! Try all you can, you are a murderer like those who killed Deborah's as long as you do not outrightly condemn her murder. She was defenceless and innocent, and you killed her for a dead Arab man, and think you are sane.

abbey621:
Like I said I deal with data for a living, you can't just make a statistical claim without conducting the proper research. You said 1 billion Muslims support jungle justice/killing when the prophet or Islam is insulted. So my friend, prove it! Show me your data that supports your claim otherwise shut the f*ck up! I'm not here to defend Islam or Muslims and I acknowledge the extremists within the Islamic community but I will not sit here and watch you pull stats out of your ass mister, have some dignity!

This is not a stats discussion, stopattemting to divert the discussion to something that it isn't about. Do your Imams and top respected Muslims not support the murder of Innocent Deborah or not??

abbey621:
Guy I just got one favor to ask you, go to Kano and insult the prophet and spew this rubbish there, even if your papa na SAN, you go know say the Nigerian Constitution does not protect you. I just dey pity you ni, go ahead arguing rubbish, your theorethical analysis holds no water to real life application. Hisbah people go just use you do practice.....KONTINEW!

If dem born you well too, go to Onitsha and pray in the middle of the road and see what happens to you. As I said earlier, you and every Muslim that doesn't outrightly condemn Deborah's murder are co-murderers!! Simple and straight.

Murderer!!

Connected1:
Hmm

Because an armed robber got Scot free doesn't mean we would allow others do same.

Even Bashir Ahmed supported this act, I am sincerely ashamed for supporting one Nigeria, two things can be done now, ban religion or split the country.

If this had happened to an Igbo Girl, you would see heaps of dead female Muslims on the flyover at nightmile in Enugu where you go to Benue.

It's not like the old days oh, people are not smiling, that act is too barbaric and foolish.

They are trying everything to divert attention from Deborah, and make it an ethnic issue instead of a religious one. Additionally, they are trying to pull Igbos who have no business with this very issue into it. IGNORE THE DIVERSION AND FOCUS ON DEBORAH!!

abbey621:
Who are you to argue? Your government says it is legal, you're here on social media arguing....lol. From OBJ to Buhari, every single president continues to support Sharia in some parts of the North. You think say na beans when dem talk say na North dey rule us all?

As I said earlier, selfish politician. Ask any lawyer, there isn't any provision for religious laws in Nigeria as NIGERIA IS A SECULAR STATE. THAT IS IN THE CONSTITUTION!!

On the North ruling everyone, I only laugh. You will soon know reality beyond your mosques and semi-literate politicians.

Arrewa:
These same people that justify the killing of this family somewhere in Anambra because they are Muslims north are everywhere shouting Deborah!!

My problem in all of this is the hypocrisy that comes with it. It’s not like we were not all here when pictures of burnt and butchered Muslims flooded twitter and nairaland.

Lol, tell that to the Nigerian army that turned a non-violent, unarmed group of agitators into armed ones by both intentional negligence and extrajudicial murder!!!

Ask your government what they did at MNK's House where 20+ people were murdered, or what they did at Onitsha Bridge head. The Nigerian government is the director cause of the violence in the South east. On the other hand, Deborah's death was caused by what your Imams teach you, and you who defend and divert attention from it. If we look at historical data, the story stays consistent.

Islam is a terrorist religion, and you support it without remorse!!!

abbey621:
YES! Your question is like asking can an American be prosecuted in China. The law of the land reigns supreme, whether you are a visitor or an outsider, when in Rome you do like the Romans.

So Sharia law supersedes the constitution You realise that Sharia in itself can be argued to be illegal in Nigeria It has no backing in the Nigerian constitution. Na selfish politicians make am still dey.

TheNiceGuy:
Of course I did just as others.

What I'm just saying is we should respect whatever is sacred to everyone of us.

Or else what? You'll kill them?

adenigga:
Source: https:///NIN-Registration-Hits-80.7-Million-19-Days-After-SIM-Ban

See why Patanmi fought to control NIN registration? Look at these numbers! They know what they are doing.

AntiChristian:
How will a sane mind enjoy that show? How many Muslims have you seen burning?

When you guys see an action done by some tribe who are Muslims, even without them saying they did it as part of Islam you quickly call them Muslims and their actions are from the Qu'ran.

IPOB/ESN has been killing cows and herders before starting to kill their Igbo brothers why not say they are killing for Christ?

Or have Christians resort to killing humans, cows, beheading and burning them?

Go on Facebook and twitter, you will see almost all Muslims there support it!!! Till today, honor killings and infidel killings still happen in all Muslim nations, whether at war or not. Those at war have it significantly worse. YOU CANNOT SEPARATE ISLAM FROM EXTRAJUDICIAL MURDERS WHEN YOU HAVE CHOSE TO REMAIN IN THE STONE AGE!!

AntiChristian:
Anyone who is guilty of blasphemy should be arrested and tried in a competent court.

Islam doesn't permit jungle justice.

The perpetrators should be brought to justice.

Why would you burn people like that?

So wrong!!

And Christians should also mind their uterances especially in those regions. Tolerance should be two ways!

There's no pastor that can raise a burnt corpse today!

Why mind their utterances? Have you heard what Muslims say about Christians and Christ everyday? Nobody lifts a finger to even acknowledge them, let alone attack them, and yet you spew rubbish!!!

So you will burn me if I insult your moronic prophet right? Until you and your ilk change your ways and outrightly condemn what is clearly wrong without any colouration or whatnot, una don buy market ooo!!! And I promise that any Muslims that attempt to burn me will get burnt first. Id*ots and nincomp*ops!!

Abdulhakeem7:
You're completely shameless, why calling Muhammad (SAW) shameless rapist? Did he rape your daughter, wife or mother?

Are you planning to kill him too?

Nigerialabalaba:
Wetin consign me with your punching bag Garba. Shiorr.

My own be say Jack don use hin pride kill hin dream. Na Nigeria send Jack into retirement.
CEO of a perpetual loss making company dey carry shoulder and even wan control government of other countries.

A non-entity who never woke from dreaming is saying a multi-billionaire Jack's dream is killed. Can you hear yourself? If Jack's dream is killed and he got almost a billion dollars IN CASH, your own dream was never conceived in the first place!!! Remove the f*cking log from your eyes!!!

MrBrownJay1:
is that martial (aka kung fu) bed...or MARITAL bed?!?!!? as much as you do a lot of bedmatic fighting in the bedroom, i doubt it is a MARTIAL bed!

btw your wife is right... i wouldnt want to copulate with the door wide open while my MIL sleeps in the next room, with the door wide open too.

A dunce has an opinion!

These ones definitely hustle NGO money sha!