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Good. But what are the "extreme" cases they look for that can make a court dissolve a marriage? So one can't just divorce a cheating wife? Na wah. I'm having some hatred for court weddings already.

What if the partner is such a bloody liar?

5minsmadness:
Just like she should thank him for every single thing he does for her, to show sign of appreciation! He may be her husband but that doesn't make him her ATM.

Exactly. Respect is reciprocal.

oliidell:
FocusM, Let's do a SWOT analysis. The objective here is to choose whom to marry.

Peter
Strenght: 2.1 graduate, funny, sociable, honest, average height, great personality, 2 years r/ship
Weakness: drinks, smokes, frugal, not too fine, no definite date.

Paul
Strenght: better pay, generous, caring, christian, fine, definite date.
Weakness: boring, short, 3 months r/ship, not open, not sociable.

Your friend:
Strenght: Attractive, reasonable
Weakness: indecision
Opportunity: she's in a good position to asess them both and make a choice.
Threat: she can lose them both if her game gets out & age is not on her side.

Some home truths:
GF didn't stop seeing peter after meeting paul so she consciously prefers peter and is obviously seeing paul for the money.

She likes peter's swag and company even though he drinks and smokes and just endures paul cos he is finer and more caring.

She dosnt give two fvcks about paul's christianity but feels more secure with him cos he is not demanding and has named a month.

She'll be happier with peter, but he might never become generous and might cheat. Paul on the other hand would be a doting husband but he'll bore her to death. Some things about men don't change.

None of the guys fit her picture of Mr. Right. She wants a tall, handsome, funny, generous dude.

My advice:
GF should strip the two guys of all secondary qualities and ask herself who she genuinely prefers.

Then she should decide what she wants from marriage and what she can and cannot live with.

She is obviously more equally yoked with peter, so I'd rather she sticks with him and try to make him work on his weakness.

2 years over 3 months any day.

i like your analysis. I totally support Peter. I don't know how she would be comparing a 3month relationship with that of 2years.

oloyede252:
you and your slave mentality
maybe he should name their child thank you.
So he can always be calling his wife MOMMY THANK YOU

This is 2015. You don't treat wives as slaves anymore but with courtesy. Remove that ancient thinking from your mind.

UnknownT:
lemme break mine. How much you wan buy am

lol. 7k. I'm serious tho. I need something on the motherboard.

Na wah. You write school exams; waec, jamb, postjamb, university exam. Na to dey write exam for jobs. Why have things come to this?

Anyone with a broken z10 for sale?

mashnino:
hahahhahahhahahaha...

Oh my God....PDP...

So na lyk dis e dey pain Una....

OP... nothing you wrote up there is relevant...

wai forming parallel government.. you must be very stupid for that statement..

Do you even know what parallel government is..?'

Why does he need to form parallel government?? i mean... he is the new Government...

Bunch of PDP robots..una go die of hate... na hate go kill una...

Tiny are jealous of the recognition he's getting and how everything is going smoothly for Buhari. Don't mind the pigs.

OP, why did you have to mention 'Ibo' in the topic? That's quite tribalistic.

Its actually ungrateful of you not to atleast thank her. You think its easy to cook? I'm sure you're not used to that too. You should thank her for every single thing she does for you, to show a sign of appreciation! Plus, she may be your wife but that doesn't make her your slave.

Mzflexydeeva:
so all those. Designers shirt& all is 4?

Basically to look good. We buy good things when the money is there for self satisfaction not to impress/oppress anyone.

Mzflexydeeva:
hmmmmm! Just like guys dress to oppress each other abi?

guys don't do that. We really don't do fashion competition, except for the gays tho.

They do it to impress other ladies.

Nothing good comes out from PDP. Delta people should bear the brunt well...

You want those gals to start asking for pictures of fingers now. Continu.

CR77:
LONG LIVE OUR GREAT PARTY PDP

keep dreaming.

Mogidi:
Great appointment, nice to know the outgoing government is putting in position those with balls to checkmate Buhari when he veers off course.

Carry go GEJ, anyone to stop Buhari bringing 53 suitcases through the ports is fine by us

who told you Buhari can't remove him when he gets there?

Haha! Good old days! I remember my first wooing experiment experience (even tho I had girlfriends), back then in December 2007. Twas much easier than I thought. That babe is now married and has a kid.

Check webmd.com

Nice

swizken6:
Me too.. i will spend 100million for that

So much on such an ugly girl

Xena01:
Naija guys are stupid for thinking a lady is all about money.... Ladies need love.... The money is security

hypocrite.

nawtibownie:
Some ladies will never fall for these. Never!!

but most would.

RedEboe:
1. Are you a fine boy? Forget all you've heard, the truth is NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE HANDSOME MEN. Though many do end up with not-too-handsome dudes, and it's not their fault. A lot of good-looking Nigerian men rely more on their looks and invest little in character and other qualities. 'Ugly men' on the other hand invest a lot in character,wealth and other qualities unrelated to their physicaL appearance. If you are a good-looking guy,but also focused more on character, making good money, God etc, A Nigerian girl will pick you ahead others.

2. Be Bold and Blunt: This may sound ridiculous, but a Nigerian single lady will register a total stranger in her subconscious if he walks up to her from nowhere and says, "I think I want to marry you". This does not mean she'll say "Yes" or that you (the stranger) won't get a dirty slap (very unlikely though), she'll most probably laugh, hiss and walk away. This scenario is in the event that you met her at a random public location. If you met this Nigerian lady say in her office, and told her you want to marry her from day one...with subsequent, persistent and follow up visits, she'll say "Yes" in 3 to 6 months.

3. Let your first date be in her parents house: when you've seen a Nigerian lady that you want to marry visit her in her parents or guardian's house first before taking her out to cinemas, malls, beach etc. If she's not staying with parents or guardians, insist on meeting them first (even if dem dey village) . This move/gesture has a psychological effect on Nigerian ladies, makes them let down their guards and take you VERY SERIOUSLY.

4. Ensure your current house is at least a 2 bedroom flat with no male squatters. When a serious Nigerian lady comes to visit you, and she meets a mini-flat with mattresses on the floor and one or two of your guys wearing boxers and 'hailing' her, chances of her marrying you diminishes by 60%. If a more serious suitor walks into her life at that moment,and he lives ALONE in a 2 or 3 bedroom flat, SHE WILL MARRY HIM.

5. If she's already wearing another man's engagement ring then your chances are brighter: Yes, this is a very controversial point but Nigerian ladies that are already engaged tend to be very vulnerable, relationship wise; they tend to feel as though being on the edge of a cliff and waiting for a 'reasonable voice' to tell them "DON'T JUMP". You can end up being that 'reasonable voice' when you fall in love with a Nigerian lady that is already engaged to another man. Hey, she hasn't said "I do" yet, hence all is fair in love and war. If you really love her, take advantage of her vulnerable state of being engaged and sell yourself as a better product. SHE WILL LISTEN and there's a 49% chance that she'd say "Yes" to you. 49% is NOT a bad probability ratio at all considering the circumstances.

Comments and insults are Welcome.

LOL!!!

Lol. This is a really nice piece. I particularly like number 2. Straight up.

This happens alot. It just doesn't come out in public.

Matttthew:
All those er baseless n pointless....
Having good reason would be better like....
To promote God love
His existence
To get a real second.... A real helping hand, an advicer.. A prayer one... The one dah encourage.....





Everything no b sex or materialistic now.....

That marriage would be soo boring.

Always keep them moisturised.

Nubian113:
Military, policemen and firefighters. I just love men in uniform. It's because they're disciplined and assertive especially the military men by far my favourite Alfa males

Alfa males lo, Iman males ni

omolami:
Another big lies from the devilish pit of APC hell and Lie Mohammed. PWC are not like Nigerians you can bribe. See d report and do your worse. You are being awaited. Stop the sickning threats nigerians are sick of them.

Why did you just decide to be foolish like this? Are you so retardedd?