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yyba:
Mteeeeew very ugly daughter

And yet she just got married and her father is quite rich. What else is new?

donleo92:
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

The most insulting and abusive people, even on this forum, are men. Men also give a lot of verbal abuse and get away with it due to the lies that only women nag.

Tell us why.

Sons of Adam.

Raping monitor lizards and killing women. Insulting and fighting. Hating and destroying. What else do they contribute to their world but pain and evil? Swallow red pills?

Over to you, sons of evil.

(Naijacoverblog truly There Is No Single Day That Will Pass Without Coming Across One Bad News Or The Other In This Country Nigeria.)

ibechris:
U cant buy property in your baby mama's name now...but I have purchased property on two occasions with my wife's name without any need to regret it. But u dare not with your baby mama or girl friend
I have kept all my life savings in my wife's personal accounts which many of u dare not do with your baby mama's out there.

On the day of my wedding I got a jeep from my brother but u can't get it from impregnating a baby mama.

Guy,I still maintain my stand,that marriage is good. I and my wife have made 6.6million naira in three months just for working together as partners in our side hustle. But u can never achieve that with your baby mama's.

You're trying to explain something to single boys from scattered homes, poisoned by the red pill. Beyond their indoctrination they have no idea about life. They have been told they have nothing to benefit from marriage, and they have swallowed it hook line and sinker.

Can't you see they've already determined to fail at relationships and marriage with their selfish reasoning? How can they enter marriage looking for exclusive benefits, why not marry themselves then? How can people be so myopic? Who on Earth that wants to be married goes into marriage with such a mindset? No wonder marriages are crashing. These boys crash them, then say they are crashing without dealing with their attitudes in marriage.

Eveezy:
Even in humans, when menopause is reached, monthly cycle ends. Same with dogs, if a bitch is completely spayed, she may not come into season anymore, only in rare cases do spayed bitches still come into season. And in this part of the world, it is not so common for female dogs to be spayed, so the common diagnosis or guess is either wrong timing in mating or an underlying fertility issue, which could be infection.
However you are right as an history of the said bitch may give a better streamlined diagnosis after eliminating probable causes

He should try to do @bolded.

Otherwise this will be interesting to know about animals. I once had a dog that repeatedly escaped the gate but never once got pregnant, though there was a stray male dog around. I don't even remember it menstruating.

Eveezy:
Dogs are different and like humans they ovulate at different time period. Not every dog ovulate during the popular timeframe that we usually assume which is from day 10, some ovulate as early as day 5, while some only start ovulating as late as day 16.
To monitor your dogs ovulation period, you may need to do a progesterone test, or atleast use an ovulation microscope.
There is the common misconception that once a female is flagging, it means she is ovulating but that is not always so, there are bitches that flag without ovulating, and some ovulate without flagging.
Recently I had a dog that came on heat, I started the ovulation testing from day 1, from day 1 to day 14, I saw nothing, meanwhile she started flagging at day 9, I was already fraustrated, and then finally on day 15, she started ovulating, she was eventually mated at day 15, 16 and 17, which are days that most people would have even stop mating thier dogs, as most people do day 9 to day 14.

Note: once a bitch is ovulating, only one mating can even get her pregnant

What if the dog has had its reproductive organs removed? He has not given us the history of the animal.

PeaceJoyLove:
Deep!

Hypocrisy of the most pathetic order. A false Christian by his abundance.

There are many people you've posted abuses and insults at, without them quoting you, but this is the one that will break you. The one that will leave you in a deep pit.

[quote author=PeaceJoyLove post=112025247][/quote]Fake Christian.

You will give account of those words you used on me.

[quote author=PeaceJoyLove post=112025177][/quote]K.

Aren't you a "Christian" anymore?

KingDamzzy:
Another stupid cretin on Nairaland.

I do not even blame you, you can access the site with your 100naira/1 day data plan to type rubbish.

Can you blame them? When they post other idiots give them likes and praise them.

sircatherine45:
Everybody is laying blames, without thinking on the next thing to do. Throwing insults and tantrums like silly kids.

The next thing is this: WHO DO WE ESCALATE THIS MATTER TO?

The Nigerian Consul is not helping matters. Abike ain't doing anything. Reducing the hotel's standards on Google won't do Jack. It's to diplomatically escalate this situation till the country sets up a committee to investigate the case.

And for those thinking to spend vacation in an African country, better use that money and enjoy yourself here. If I tell you what happens in this countries, you'll cringe to death. I'll put a story on this soon.

How soon?

Because I have stories of African countries, especially the deeply religious ones. Have one about Nigeria, too.

PeaceJoyLove:
You need those 30 keys to destroy poverty in your miserable life. Poverty turns brain upside down. When you get cash, you will never in your miserable life go after your father inlaw's property.

Poverty must die in your miserable life so you can talk and write like person wey get sense. Poverty no get shame, so you are allowed to display your shameful act of dragging your father inlaw properties with your son.

Werey like you will send your sister inlaw and her kids out of her husband's house. Na still poverty. Werey..

Na poverty. No be your fault.

What are you even talking about? Your transgenerational poverty has rotted your thinking. Just look at what you can post out of the blue.

Keep displaying your degenerated state of being for all to see; wretched, unwell vermin.

Ayinke93:
One would have thought you had a point, but no , you brought up some archaic views, and dirty opinions on how women should live their lives. Had it been you grew up in a developed country where seeing young people going on vacations isn’t a new discovery for you, you won’t be here defending your dumb views.
Instead of focusing on the issue, call out the hotel for negligence on their part and the nasty men that lack morals trying to take advantage of a vulnerable woman, you are here calling her selfish.
Like I said, I blame poverty, lack of exposure and religion for the stupidity you people display on Nairaland.

It is definitely poverty that has made them devastatingly stupid on this forum and wherever else they operate.

The degree of misogyny is directly proportional to poverty. The more wretched, the more misogynist.

And the rest of them are rapists themselves.

Hopefully this expose gives the rape apologists some reasoning into what happens when they decide to rape a lady.

The "she didn't fight back" part in particular.

apatheticme:
Don't mind the emotional fool!

Just imagine someone's hussle selling fake covid-19 certificate for people to bypass set of rules meant to keep the population of humans healthy, there by endangering everyone.

Someone that ought to be behind bars still having mouth to yap nonsense here.

I have his time today, it's a long weekend and Easter holidays, he should keep coming at me, he's the one that would get tired.

Rubbish vermin.

It is always the vermin that are opinionated and want to subjugate and kill women.

cuffee:
why do you hate men? The same men that released their sperm for you to be born. Why? Are you okay?

You're assuming a lot of things.

Why do you look down on women and hate them, the same women that released their ovum for you to be born. Why? Are you okay?

Angelfrost:
In the absence of a will or bequeathal... Yes, it is the husband's by right!

Did you properly read my response?!!

He wouldn't have made the thread if she did any of that.

Did you read any of my earlier submissions?!!

Owologbo:
how can the father own something the wife inherited from her parents?
imagine giving a land (for example) to ur daughter, who has right to the land between your grand children and the husband?

I've seen a case where a family member tried to sell a land that belongs to his late cousin brother (from the father side), he was asked to back off because the land does not come from their fathers side.
The mother inherited the properties from her parents, it's only the children that's entitled to such properties.
If the mother didn't give birth to the op or any other child for the husband, those properties will definitely go back to the woman's family.

Is that a local law? Like a law of the place they come from?

Angelfrost:
Which of the Nigerian laws?!!

If it is legally and rightfully bequeathed to him via inheritance, his father has no claim to it except it was stated in the Will!

Funny thing... Many of you guys castigating the Op would have said otherwise if it were reversed: if it were the mother dragging his inheritance with him!

Which will? Which inheritance? Which bequeathing?

Visit a court and stop your online outrage. The property is the fathers by law. Unless they are visiting a local chief, it is the fathers.

PeaceJoyLove:
You are not OK. which Nigerian law? Which lesson he wants to teach the useless man at his old age? Anyway, you are an illiterate, so igs not your fault.

It is you who is not okay. You are clearly an unwell idiot from your post.

Manners won't kill you, it's the absence of them that will.

santos123:
have been following the both of you. I must say the both of you are intelligent despite the funny insults. Lol

You will admit that that character is unwell. Evaluate the content of his posts.

I don't even have time to respond to his usual insults about sex organs he has never seen, and other garbage he frequently posts. They aren't even funny, just repetitive and boring.

When he has something new to say I may respond. Right now he's posting trash about himself to himself. Expect his long boring posts full of his insane ramblings. Something about this moniker unsettles him. Beast to himself online, offline the worst of vermin.

safarigirl:
According to which Nigerian laws?

Whoever is in the woman's records as Next of Kin is the owner of the property, and most women have their children listed as NoK

The father is just a shameless opportunist. He should go and find the property his own mother left for him.

Which records? The ones that the courts will overturn in favor of actual legal documentation?

edoairways:
Was Osinachi Nwachukwu not submissive yet she lost her life

That's the point: submission doesn't determine what men will do you women. It's just something they talk about to control women, meanwhile they aren't genuinely loving themselves.

A monitor lizard?

Always raping something. That poor creature.

Magnoliaa:
Cow-dung-induced rants most likely.

Lol

postmann:
You didn't read something you invested over a thousand words in reply to, C'mon! You can do better than that dumb lie. And why, why is that the best of expletives always ended up in claims of not being read by you female snakes?

This cheap dumb lie was what made your endless list of boyfriends leave you. You just couldn't cover your cheating tracks and they soon found out you were a public toilet and a sperm dump. Even in the twilight of your market value, you still haven't changed. Are you destined for the grave dick-less? I can hardly see a man finding a partner in a lying, deceptive and bitter soul in the mould of a woman.

We're not intellectual peers to begin with, neither can your broken frame accommodate my literal proficiency but your pride and stupidity stirred you to go into this contest with me.

The best you could do in hurting me is giving me a few love scratch on my back in response to my severe pounding

Let the dice roll on. It's the weekend. MY MONSTERS ARE REAL by Shinedown blasts in my ears, my blend of Stout and Farm Fresh yoghurt tonic trickle down my lungs while you serve as amusement.

False bravado, as usual. Stale.

More fantasy and lies. You're digging yourself deeper in your self-made pit and you will realize it too late.

Expecting more hollow epistles and pained emojis from you. Predictably dry. The exact same comebacks of last time—your weekends in which you fantasize yourself a beast. Blah blah.

Go and heal. Get help.

apatheticme:
Hmmm, copy cat!

Reference the original owner because your brain is incapable of putting this together!


So you go dey eavesdrop for person house to listen to what his wife told him?? In your desperate attempt to paint women black, you didn't bother to find out what made the woman tongue lash him abi??

So the woman was just there minding her business, and the man was just minding his business and the woman started tongue lashing him?? Haba, you sef read your own story again!

Notice how you conveniently generalized again with your fake ass family visit that all the women in Nigeria tongue lash their husbands!

So according to your philosophy, of supporting DV, he's supposed to beat the woman so that his deflated ego will become inflated back!!

How come you never visited any home where the man pummeled his wife and possibly shot her just like you're planning to eventually shoot yours??

Guy stop visiting people's homes uninvited! That's the only moral of this story! Or maybe the woman was angry with her husband for entertaining a fake covid-19 certificate seller

Carry your fake ass made up story commot here or better still, create another thread for your own for men.

Tonye001 has finished work in his write up, you go and start your own thread and write examples of women tongue lashing their husbands! Yeye dey smell.

Just look at the very emotional post and his deeply emotional reaction to it. His whole argument is based on one teary story by some guy.
No statistical approach, which would be logical. Just male emotions.

Many males who seem to fight against domestic violence on men are doing it to score emotional points and trigger misogyny. It's an old tactic. Stale diversion, actually.

apatheticme:
Of course it is "hear' to stay in your relationships and home since you are always permanently broke and will take out your frustrations on the women around you!

Confused human being!
Nor go face your fake hussling, keep crying in my mentions! Your tears are a delight for my pleasure.

Imagine selling covid-19 certificate for people who actually did not take the vaccine or test as a hussle. Why you nor go dey frustrated?? Now coming here to form obodo oyibo based, guy getat!

Imagine person career! How you nor go dey beat women?? Mumu!

'You hate being controlled, you are a Pisces blah blah blah". You're basically defined by hate!! Everything about you is hate! I hate this, I hate that. Women are not the cause of your frustrations bro!

White man's slave wannabe!!

Lol hear

tensazangetsu20:
Nigeria is still the cheapest African country to live in.

And one of the worst.

Magnoliaa:
Okay, I thought this was a one-time shit initially and cruise, but it seems as if you want to be moving MÂD. If you don't respect yourself and stop giving me needless mentions, I'll make you.

What is he saying?

Magnoliaa:
Ehen now. Na why I dey always thank God every morning say I get priik. You know how many babes I don smash without CD release inside? But watin be my own? That one na their headache.

But I go don abort them comot plenty times sha I no go lie. I can feel for our ladies. Na why I dey always laugh them anytime dem deg drag this equality matter.

Lol. This post.