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pocohantas:
Thank you! Tonto is not a saint, but I wonder why they are all conveniently ignoring the excesses of both men. No one knew Churchill or Kpokpogarri till they started dating Tonto. Tonto carries these men on her head like say na she first meet man. Yet they all cheat on her and shamelessly too.

Someone even called her wayward. If drinking and smoking equals waywardness, then a good percentage of Nigerian men would be wayward. They have never accused her of cheating or any offense not known to the general public. I just hope that lady gets her act right and finds the man that would bring out the best in her. People have gone on to find a supportive partner at the second trial. Funke Akindele did it, Toyin Abraham too. Tonto should calm down and leave these yahoo men.

And that is exactly the type of unattractive men she finds @bolded. They've wasted their sex appeal on numerous women and prostitutes from their teens, if at all they had any to begin with.

She always appears to be deeply in love with them, until they cheat on her and begin to make it seem like she's crazy. And the cheats come online with some cheap shots. Was expecting the guy to say she was a cheat, but it appears she isn't one.

She needs to begin evaluating her men. Men who look like those two are always unrefined coarse types who think they're all that. Kind of like that Boma guy on BBNaija. Unattractive men who only see women as sex objects.

She needs to drop that pattern of men. There's hope for a better relationship if she does.

It's not as if these men don't know that she smokes and drinks and has had plastic surgery. When they are caught out they use it as trump cards to sway the legions of daft men who reason like them.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Poor choice indeed! As you help her to condemn the men in her life, you should also urge her to look into the mirror and remember the saying "a crooked pot goes with a crooked lid".

It remains that she has very poor taste in men.

Only God knows what attracted her to those unattractive men.

There's a good reason neither was married at their ages.

Both are cheats who deny it with their might, and later they go with the very person she accused them of cheating with. She doesn't cheat on them. And from the way both men sound after they are caught cheating, they seem to have bad characters and enjoy wrecking her.

If she chose better men, she wouldn't be in her constant relationship dramas. A good man will hold them together, not create scandals. A good man would help her work on her flaws. Not cheating, hiding and gaslighting her.

Sounds familiar?

But what do we know? The man must be right, as default.

streetfabulous:
Ok. but it was not specified as to where and how she can help, So the man can decide where and how she can help by way of delegation. This is also why he is the head.

Forget about delegation. What are his responsibilities? Or will he keep delegating to evade his duties? A leader who cannot answer to doing anything isn't a leader.

How can a head be unable to do anything? Is it now the weaker vessel that has all the strength to carry out the delegations that the head is running from?

The way men twist and turn the Bible to keep themselves as beneficiaries of women's labor is pathetic.

Whoever told men that cleaning and hard labor in the home is for women lied to them. It's men who are to sweat and labor for their living, not women. According to the same Bible. But men don't want that, hence all the delegation talk.

Who doesn't like good things.

Sleekfingers:
Is it a crime for men to wash plate? Cuz I don't see anything wrong with it......I do help my wife to wash plates and cook.......women ain't your slave.....

The poorer men are, the more entitled they feel to using women. One can't blame their views, because that's poverty speaking. They usually hide behind religion.

socialmediaman:
In the office yes you don't say no to a boss whether man or woman. In the home, the man is the boss, it's very clear in the bible.

Where and where is this clearly stated in your Bible? Or is it the over flogged and misinterpreted passage on submission that men don't read beyond?

The failure of most marriages lies with men. They are always ducking responsibility and trying to push it on the wife. What kind of "boss" cannot accept responsibility for the organizations state of disrepair? Instead they butress poor leadership with submission in the most irresponsible and callow manner.

Reno has said something men don't like, so they will demonize him. What he said is the truth, though.

Modern men are weak and bicker endlessly. They want women to do everything for them. They cannot ever be the "boss", if such a thing exists.

Bluntguy:
I saw it coming but never knew it was going to be this soon. Tonto Dike no be typical Nigerian girl again?

Yet she was not the one cheating on him. She doesn't know how to sift the typical Nigerian broloshoes.

pocohantas:
Tonto Dikeh Ex, Prince Kpokpogri Shades Tonto, Praises Churchill.



SOURCE

He's cheating, and was caught bragging about it, but all he has to do is mention Helen of Troy and every man who sees it goes Gaga.

Typical Nigerian man deflection. And it will work.

Good luck to the woman. She has very poor taste in men.

Parisian:
Typical rhetoric weak defense devoid of an iota of common sense.

You should pick up a book while also putting your brain to good use.

Lol.

Finish him.

dkenny4lyf:
Oga man....

No safe phone use...
Nothing of such for any parents of intellectual discipline blood type.

A goals to be achieved should be set in parenting...

Like...
A reward for a well behaved character

And an admonition to any perceived misdeanour in early stage..

This will then graduate to promising them of it after their academic success e.g jamb and post-utme etc..

All above mentioned would of effectivess after being underlined with consistent prayers

The same way there is safe sex, there is safe phone use.

Because they will still learn it without you, no matter how intellectually you wish to discipline them. Even God gave a Bible and a choice, no pressure. But does everyone obey their Bibles?

When I was young, anyone could listen in on telephone calls to ensure they were safe. But nowadays you can only teach safe phone has, unless you prefer to control their phones like the TV.

colestephan86:
They will always have access to my an their mums

They will become wiser to that very thing you're trying to keep them from.

That's just how teenagers are. One should stop panicking/bugging on what they do once they have the proper instructions. When they children you can monitor them. As teens? They will find a hole in a wall or make one.

Lollittaa:
He's not worth a ban. Just ignore him

You're right.

He was on that male red pill rape thread. He must be damaged in ways only he knows best.

neyoohhh:
Feminazis or should I say western whaman be like "ouinnnn evil patriarchy"

Pick up a book stupid, you'll figure out how.

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[quote author=colestephan86 post=105489228]The exposure to social media detailed many children.
I told my children they will their first smart phones after secondary school[/quote]

Rather than doing this, and realizing they will always find a way around your rule, why not teach them safe phone use?

thesicilian:
You forgot to add prostitution, teenage pregnancy, abortions etc

How do these destroy the society?

Compared to armed robbers, gangsters, ritual killers, hired killers, Yahoo boys, plussed boys, defrauders, smokers and hard drug users, rapists, MTF crossdressers, sodomites, abusers what you listed is child's play.

You people are only obsessed with the sexual function of girls. And who is having the sex with them in your list?

Another misogynist thread.

GboyegaD:
Since the story sounds strange, shouldn't one refer him to where he can get a solution?

Depends on what he wants to hear. He's in and he's out. Can't say he wants a solution as much as he wants to stir the pot.

modsfucker:
Are you saying that from experience?

I say it as a fact: sex with your wife is the same as sex with all numerous others before her.

If it were sacred, you would only have it with her on the first place.

modsfucker:
You'd know the difference when you habe the cause to go for HIV test, even when it turns out negative.

All are the same sex. Nothing special or different. Many married people get HIV in their marriages.

modsfucker:
So there was this girl that always want me to have unprotected sex with her, but I opposed, and asked her to go do HIV test and she turned out to be negative, then I raised the question of pregnancy and she mentioned this drug, but I still refused, because it shows she's into raw sex with random people for her to know all these. No amount of sugar coating will make me have raw sex with someone who's not my wife.

What's the big deal? Or isn't it sex you have with the ones you didn't marry?

If you can have sex with anyone, they are as good as your wife. Nothing sacred. Same sex. It's all in the mind.

His nails and knuckles...

alphabbey1:
I don't know how you reason but am baffled why comparing a divorced man with a married woman.

He has terrible a character. Yet his wife didn't open threads about it. But if it were a man, he would come up with a story like the OP and tell it to everyone so that they would call her names as if he's a saint. Plus the woman is as good as divorced. Her husband cheated on her. An unforgivable sin, right?

Men always like acting like they're seeing things— even the OP could've been part of group sex. But he needs to whine. Modern men are something else.

GboyegaD:
Since you are a church person, pray to God for guidance and follow His leading.

He's a church person who is discussing sex with the intent to commit fornication.

All these stories sound fake.

Why is it that there's no woman who comes out to say she's dating a guy who was part of group sex and rubbed substances on his penis? Or the guys who do that don't encounter any woman who knows that they are equally as used?

MrBrownJay1:
that girl was a hoe and sold herself to yahoo boys for money/comfort... is that the kind of woman you want as the future mother of your children and/or future wife? she has no moral and was willing to be shared for money.

What if she's testing him the way men are always testing women to see if they would stay with them if they were broke, sacked, etc?

It's not as if anyone would open up with such a story genuinely, knowing how judgemental Nigerian men are.

This is another concocted story.

You guys should demonize the guys who rub things on their joysticks. Or are they saints? Fake story.

Everyday another woman bashing thread.

Everyone was condemning the BBNaija contestant Tega, yet the one called Boma is divorced from his wife and she said his character is terrible and cannot be concealed. He has been displaying it, but men don't need good character or anything. Assuming his wife was to open threads about him, and every other woman followed suite, we would be sitting to say "fear men".

Yet such threads never make it to the front page, in a move reminiscent of propaganda. Men don't want to be exposed, so to cover it up they spend time posting negative things about women. Predictably.

Pretty soon there will be nothing to see on this forum, Seun.

jesusjnr2020:
First of all, it's good you're here, because I've had a message from God for you in a few days but was waitng for you to show up. While praying for your mum-inlaw, God told me He going to punish you. I kept praying that He doesn't take you seriously, because you're ignorant of what you're doing, but He insisted that He's going to deal with you. So I'd advice that you ask Him for mercy and henceforth stop all the foolishness, if He'd change His mind towards you. Just so you'd know, this has never happened before, since I came to this forum, so you don't take it lightly. If you do, I assure you, you pay dearly for it.

As for your comment, is it that you now take dreams seriously, because i've always known you to see dreams as a joke.

Moreover, what do you mean by if i had the opportunity I would be worse than the Taliban, because I've had many opportunities to curse you during our bitter exchanges but have never done it. Or have I ever placed a curse on you Lordreed since 2018 October when I came here? I know you've had several Christians do that to you but you can confirm if I have also ever done that?

If not then your accusation is baseless and purely based on sentiments.

By the way, you must have come across my threads when I have times without number spoken of my burden to end ritual killings and human sacrifices in the nation, so how could someone with such a selfless desire be inclined to ending innocent lives?

Just so you'd know, if those in the dream were actually real people, they're the ones that have filled this land with much innocent blood through such abominable practices, so would you have a problem if God uses me to put an end to such activities in the dream by taking them down in it? Remember except they repent, it's either their lives or the lives of those they kill. One has to go, so which one for you?

I didn't know you had specific messages to specific people.

This is like the healing on the Sabbath day.

Keep up the good work.

God bless.

Tomahawk99:
That idiot is beyond redemption. He insulted him own mother with his statements. I made it known to him.

Thanks for clarifying.

Tomahawk99:
Begining with your useless father you blockhead!

Why were you quiet when the other guy was pasting his own useless statements? Or was he not born of a Nigerian girl?

pocohantas:
The interviewer is so dull and his exclamations are ********

Whether Tuface married her or not is not our business. What we know is, Annie thought she could pull a Disney love story with a community gbola. If our husband were a human being, it would be Tuface.

Pero done kuku do breast and nyash. We die here. Na unofficial second wife she be.

Annie should take heart o. Naija men no fit retire from brolosho duties until they are old, broke and sick. They will now find their way home like the prodigal son. Straight into the bosom of the virtuous wife. She would have to spend her retirement posing for family frames, reminding him to take his drugs and cooking unripe plantain swallow with oilless vegetable soup.

LMAO.

Wickedly, truly hilarious.

Yes.

fattprince:
It's complicated because they later married. Why have plenty baby mamas when you still want to marry. If he didn't marry Annie. There wouldn't be problems or complications like where of whose child he was with at any time.

There will always be complications whether they marry or not. Baby papa/baby mama are both dysfunctions, except if they are partners and are together with fidelity but not married in a court.

Lollittaa:
BRATISLAVA, was this the guy you thought had some modicum of common sense? I actually laughed when I saw your reply to his comment last night on that thread

I didn't know!

Lol. I've never encountered him before. I wash my hands of that comment.

Actually, I don't. He was quoting one stupid guy that has been salivating after me. When he's dealing with that guy, he's ok.

wany:
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I laugh when guys applaud mercy Johnson and her husband,this is a guy that left a wife and two kids his last baby was just 9months old,just to marry mercy and secure the bag.her day of reckoning is around the corner,I always laugh when never guys call women fish brain because in truth men have frog brain

You're the first person who wants to say the truth about Johnson.

But we should ask how a man with a wife in that condition managed to bail so easily and get into photoshoots every week to defend his decision by smiling with another family as the camera flashes.