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Mrlola:
Are a learner? You seem not to understand how traumatic this can be for a man. I am not surprised you're asking the obvious!

humility33:
Lets her other side of the story for the paternity fraud Cheating is not the only issue here but deceiving the man to believe that the child is hers is a fraud with no justification

LilMissFavvy:
Sad. He should have handled it within the home, this is not the kind of issue you throw on social media. Is he going to divorce his wife or what?

addictiv:
For me it's Compulsory DNA tests after childbirth or no kids at all.

daddytime:
Thank God say all my shidren carry my signature forehead luckily for me. DNA na just extra to fulfil all righteousness.


This guy think say God dey craze to give we humans some special and outstanding physical features.

These special features aren't for decorative purposes but to serve as our autographs/trademarks.

God and nature bless you with this kind kpomo lip. Woman come tell you say him born pikin for you. As a sharp man, your first assignment na to begin investigate whether the pikin upper/lower lip carry your signature.

Some might think this funny or senseless, but it's a simple fact.

Snake must give birth to long thing.

SonofGod231:
When last you go hospital...Just dey thank God for good health.Because this days hospitals,just for ordinary malaria,Dem go tell you to do irrelevant tests,run scan..At the end of the day dem go just give you anti-malaria drugs and antibiotics.
By thing you realize it you must have spent more than 10K on nonsense.
Cipro tab plus lonat Ds no reach 5K mason.

Angelfrost:
It's a shame honestly....

The level of quackery in this nation is mind-blowing!!!

Sonnobax15:

Not far from the truth...

In other words,most women are looking for puppet-like husbands

But thank God many pussy ass niggas are already getting the redpill stuck in their DNA.

A man ought to be a man always and must know how to put his woman where she rightfully belongs.....No dey mumu around

chatinent:
So all these big names on Nairaland are empty bayi. They can't own up to their non-faking lives.

Angelfrost:
What exactly is the correlation between Scabies (a non bacterial parasite) and Erythromycin (a bacteriostatic antibiotic)??!

I don't understand you Nairaland "Doctors" o!

Sebastine1994:
Ok oh sorry no vex

Sebastine1994:
Guy,

I think you were bitten my millipede or centipede. You must have been bitten and you didn't notice quickly.

It's not as dangerous as it seems. Get a good antibiotics and thank me later.

It has all the evidence of milipede, they can scratch till thy kiñgdom come. I swear, get antibiotics, a good one

ijoba222:
mostly below my neck though, but i will try benzyl benzoate and bisham ampiclox tomorrow, what other drugs do you recommend sir

RedEnergy:
Fake photoshop picture.

https://smhoaxslayer.com/false-picture-did-donald-trump-really-shook-hands-with-osama-bin-laden-no/

Magnoliaa:
But why will their answers be the same? When no two person is the same? This would be a very nice research to carry out sha. With a bigger population, not a few women from one socioeconomic state. Oh. And the background will be extremely important here... we need to specify the kind of single mothers, because if we choose any single mother who is a single mother for just any reason, especially for a bad decision she made (or the death of her husband for instance), we might get a skewed conclusion.

So based on the premise of this thread, the kind of single mothers that should be interviewed should be single mothers who became single mothers not of their own doings. As in, yunno, a single mother from a one night stand is different from a single mother who left an emotionally abusive and cheating man... Ehen. So the framework of the research should be the happiness level of: married women with cheating partners vs. single mothers who left a cheating partner. My own judgment (bias), I'll say here, tilt towards the latter being high. I'll bet those kind of single mothers, who left a cheating partner, NOT BECAUSE OF A PERSONAL MISTAKE, would experience much more relative freedom and from STDs, and peace of mind and everything.

And these single mothers sample must also include single moms of the upper and middle class. Ehen. Make e for balance. So you won't interview girls that stay in Amuwo-Odofin and say they are representative of an high class single mom that stays in VGC. We'll study both single moms who went on to get a degree and relocated overseas to the ones who couldn't and ended up opening a kiosk - both of them after they left their cheating husbands. My point is, for the unhappiness you'll record in both categories of single mothers, how much of it is caused by money, lack of access to opportunities, low education, etc? So it won't be enough to conclude they are unhappy SIMPLY because of single motherhood. (We may also look at their belief system and personal ideologies and how this shapes their concept of happiness). And then, the reference group is women married to cheating partners, right? We'll study them too and see if the (financial) struggles they face are much less biting than if they were alone. Asin, what financial/moral/mental support do they get from their hubbies that they can't get alone? Are there any recognizable differences between the earning power/financial worth/self-esteem of a single mom struggling alone after she left a philandering husband and the earning power/financial worth (or self-worth) of a married {single} mom staying with a philandering husband?

I cum in piss. I'm not disagreeing with or arguing with you o. I'm just lending my chikini knowledge to the angle you're coming from, yunno, taking it higher by suggesting a more refined way of enquiry ((a systematic) research) than a guess work. Filled with the usual human biases.

E.g

larryjonze:
Low esteem on naija men are you kidding ... do those men in BBhouse portray low esteem.
i think naija gurls are tew focus on what they stand to gain that they bearly try to understand the men.
If we say we want an intelligent woman, we meant the ones that will come into our lives to compliment us not creat some rivalry shit.
if a babe drop ideas that will upscale her man prospective ideas why would he reject them ... buh a typical naija intelligent woman won't build on her man's idea most times she brings ideas that will overwrite the man's plans.

Saao:
what will take a reasonable person to Afghanistan?

PrimadonnaO:
We weren't dating. We were just good friends, so the planned surprise proposal was shocking

When I got a hint of what was happening, I didn't show up.

When we talked about it later, I still didn't want to. The man had identity crisis, plus a patriarchal disposition I wouldn't be comfortable with in a life-long partner.

CharisEleos:
They were not my spec

He had keloids at the back of his head.

Another one was so thin and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.

Romanoff:
Nope. He was handsome in the Nigerian standard, taller than I am, he had a decent job, soft spoken and doing well for himself.

I was single for almost a year after turning him down.

Who looks epp?

When he throws me out for not having a male child, will his looks help me?

dalass:
This is so true.

You see a thread on Ladies, na men males, immature males go full am, trying to intimidate them

Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

Redpillar:
Thread for ladies, 95% comments would be from men. Spits on this generation of talkative males.

catwalq:
When I talk: You want to show me that you're intelligent.

When I don't talk: You think you are too intelligent and this is beneath you.

lilvicky68:
Ok oh..

But I can't see you loving a poor man..

lilvicky68:
Money can't buy love??

Oga..Money can create love..

haslaw:
Why are you such a bittered person.

Fasindo:




Beautiful daughters of a failed president.

I wonder why he keep marrying his daughters out to men who are old enough to be their father.

The only good thing about the mannequin is marrying a beautiful wife there by giving birth to beautiful daughters.

trevorhorace:
I don't think you read to comprehend. 48k per month in 2007, when naira dollar rate was still okay, was a sizeable amount. So they were quite comfortable and could afford 4 kids if they wanted. They don't pay rent or bills and didn't have much budget. The kids didn't come at once and what would a 16 yr old mother know about family planning then?. Then he got promoted and started earning 60k and life was going smoothly and would have continued that way before the sad fate. The major problem I see here is the diversion of funds to her husband's family because if that was in place there would have been no issue. The man didn't put his home in order before his demise and not because he had 4 kids.

Humanoid01:
I don't know where in this country, with the current situation of things economically, a salary of that amount would be considered enough for a family of five. The kids' school fees are there to pay, feeding, home bills and other miscellaneous expenses are there to cover.

Those factors are too important to consider before deciding to have not 1, 2, 3 but 4 kids. I am not saying they are wicked for doing that, they just didn't make the right plan. This is not a case of their plan hatching up exactly the way they wanted, it is about making the right plan for the future.

While she can come out of this alive with her kids later on getting good lives, it is still not advisable to reproduce in large number without considering your financial status. This is one of the reasons child abuse is prevalent today.