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GhostWisperer:
lazy unmotivated, attention-seeking emigrant.

Shameless hairly got looking for a woman to give you gift.

The real men never made it to the 21st century.

He's exhibiting the typical local Nigerian men behaviors.

He's met a foreign woman for the first time in his life. Allow the coal-faced doctor to enjoy himself. Golddigging is permitted if it's the man doing it.

Welcome to toxicland, forum for broke men with local comments.

KevinDein:
Hahaha
Murderers? They have opinions you do not like and you tag them Murderers and all, hahaha . I bet you enjoy it when your fellow misandrists spew hateful comments. Cos we all know Nairaland boys are learners when next to the likes of Bratislava.a, chocolate, etc. Thank fvck Se.un is smart enough not to fall for your hypocritical bulllshhit.

Is there a reason you're mentioning this moniker in one of your embittered misogynistic spewings?

So many of you on this forum are murderers, rapists and woman batterers. It's easy to get away with it until you are caught.

Direct your attention to those men referred to whose comments you like. You're allowed to like the above class of men. Professional courtesy is allowed.

But do it without bleating monikers.

TheGidRedpiller:
You will be shocked by the real gender of devil when you get to know.

That's for you to know. Bye.

Ishilove:
Demonic thread. So many demonic threads on Nairaland. I now finally understand what someone has been telling me about Nairaland and demonically possessed people on a mission.

My skin is crawling with the negative and polluted aura in this entire thread. I pray God opens people's eyes to see.

Interestingly, these threads are usually created by men.

After all, the devil is male.

Offpoint1:
I'm speaking from my own point of view. If I was that deformed at birth and my parents let me grew to the stage of self awareness, I'll spend my whole life hating and resenting them.
Ending me at birth would had been the greatest love they showed me.

So many disabled people will disagree with you.

You see, they have a deeper understanding of life. Otherwise they wouldn't try so hard to keep living and integrate. They have dreams of getting married and having their own children. They want to do big things.

Yes, they are aware that they look different and have difficulties in day to day life. But I realized they are happier at their core with acceptance. The same way you've gotten used to your face and your intrinsic disadvantages, is the same way they've gotten over theirs.

To you who is 'perfect' that is not a life worth living. To them, it's theirs to treasure and live.

This baby should be given a chance at life. Let us see what value he will place on it.

Ever8090:
this one na made in Japan..

That is why it's the Chinese athletes complaining. They would do well to bury their hatchets and forget the past.

Chinese can be needlessly divisional.

Offpoint1:
Those are people from a working society who understands emotions, unlike Africa which they'll be named all kinds of things.

All disabled people face abuse worldwide. I have seen some sustained abuse on a guy with some problems I won't state.

But it's his family support system that matters the most.
These are humans, they have dreams and ambitions just like the rest of us. They should have a fair chance at life, too. Nobody deserves death because of how they are born. His mother needs encouragement and intervention from an aid organization. His father ought to have helped him.

Even if people are emotionally dead, they can see least learn empathy. The comments here are too disgusting.

blaise26abj:
This is an insensitive and disgusting thing to say . Do you have nuclear or extended family that are disabled . Like blind , deaf, limps , arthritic etc . How would you like them to be put in a cage and people pay to see them ?

Don't mind the kind of stupid teenagers we have on the forum. You'll wonder if animals have been their only company with the kind of things they post.

Offpoint1:
Keeping this baby alive to me is worse than death... It'll traumatized the mother daily and the child will be in pain daily. If he manages to grow to the stage of self awareness, that will even be worse. He'll suffer alot abuses and rejections leading to daily constant emotional trauma and possible suicide at the end.

The funny thing is that people who live like this don't seek suicide as much as the physically "perfect" ones.

We can't tell what value he will see in life, if given a chance at it.

There are more people with worse defects than this, or similar ones, and they haven't committed suicide. They live through the abuse and see value that we can never.

WhatCanIsay:
I know it feels good to be able to joke...but bro I do not think everything and everyone are candidates to be joked with.

Can you imagine what that woman and the child that didn't do anything to be like so are passing through?

People have become so insensitive and thoughtless with the things they use to make fun. What a sick way to play around.

hakeem4:
when your parents keep asking you if the person taking first in class has two heads.

but this is the head shape of the person taking first

This is heartless, callous and uncalled for. Can't you see the baby's tears?

Is this how you amuse yourself on the suffering of another? Just for likes?

You need reorientation.

bukatyne:
Hmmmmmmm

What was the father's reason for objecting?

Did the court override the father's decision because the daughters were support of it? (who by the way don't look too euthanistic about the marriage// perhaps it is their conservativeness at play)

The woman leader sounded like she was 'saving' the girls from their father however they don't look happy. The one in green looked like she has cried her eyes out.

We need more background to understand what happened.

Tears of joy, perhaps?

addictiv:
If the embassies thought trust and word of mouth alone was enough verifiable proof then they won't bother to request for dna tests. Why should a man stake the future of his geneology on the words of a woman that a child is his especially when there are strange and unanswered circumstances that surround the birth of the child?
If organisations that have no blood ties or vested interest in the welfare of the child or family request these results and it is made available without stress, argument or bad blood why should it be a problem when the said man who is expected to bear to major brunt of providing and catering for the welfare of the child till adulthood and independence requests for the same document? Children are not developed in the factory( at least not all) , they are made by the conjugal relations of men and women. So saying men are their own enemy doesn't change the reality that men are being deceived to raise kids that do not belong to them. And the only way a man can protect himself from falling into such circumstances is by either not getting anyone pregnant and hence having no offspring to propagate his genes or carrying out a dna test to verify if the said kids are his. Anything aside this such a man has left his genealogy to chance and should be ready for deep despair and grief should the choice be unfavourable.

Is the man an embassy? Let's not avoid the question. How is organization suddenly equated to a man in love with a woman? Once a man does such transactions with his supposed wife, he must get the result of transactions.

Next, is the man certain he's not responsible for paternity fraud?

In as much as men sleep with people they aren't married to,, there's nothing so terrible about paternity fraud. Men have children with other women all the time, and the world is yet to end.

This is just an emotional topic for men. It isn't about heirs, because people adopt children and make them heirs. This is another male ego thing.

All men should do paternity tests on all the children of their exes and address the man on man fraud that's been going on.

Women are naturally polyandrous. Even if you do the test, the next one treated as a transaction will deliver dividends of transaction.

smile11s:
I have no problem with anyone being gay or not. I have come to the conclusion that it is a natural thing to have sexual feelings for same sex.

If we humans can be truthful, we will legalize it all so we men or women can be sure that our partners are really sexually attracted to us and true to themselves. We do not have to live in a pill or put on a facade. That’s my point.

It's best to let people find their love and togetherness by whatever means they can. If they need to be gay to meet their own person, it must be better than a lifetime of loneliness and brokenheartedness.

That being said, if he cheated on her with his boyfriend, she is right to call it off.

But I'd like to believe he's bi if he's anything but straight.

larryking540:
what's the definition of feminism pretty lady .
do u believe modern women or female have character
if you can't endure in a relationship ,are you really worth been in a relationship Bec from your quote it seems you believe relationship is a smooth sailing drive ...
I will appreciate your response without insult attached so others can also learn atleast if u can convince me ,you have also been able to convince another male about what feminism is all about.

You can rest assured that you won't be insulted first, unless you begin it.

There are 2 types of relationships, and each person is entitled to their choice. The problems in relationships arise when people try and blend them.

1. Traditional relationships - this is where the gender roles are strictly from the good old days where women worship their husbands as their lords and the men take full responsibility for the well-being of their family. One was educated and extroverted, the other uneducated and docile. Usually what you have is a bread winner husband and the housewife. It has its benefits, but then it tends to be skewed in favor of men lording over their wives. It can be good if the two of them want that Daddy and Mommy relationship. You will never hear them talk about feminism. It doesn't exist in their world. It's a man's world. Both want that.


2. Modern/Western relationships - this is where the gender roles are not necessary because there is an understanding that both genders are capable. The man or woman can be lord, and there generally is no need for lording. There is no housewife, because for both to be bread winners there can't be such. Both have to do house and earning responsibilities. Both are equal by capability. You will never hear them talk about feminism, because they both understand that they are equal partners in their lives. It's a world for everyone. Both want that.

3. Then we have people who say they are modern, but they want to be traditional. They want to be traditional with the benefits of modernism. They don't want a liability, they need a working woman. Yet they expect a housewife. You ask them: do you want the traditional or modern? They want both. Usually it is men who want both. Weak men seeking to benefit and dominate all at once.


But it doesn't work that way, and they don't want to realize it. They are more concerned with the privileges their birth gender has given them, and they want to enforce it. This results in one party realizing they are being sidelined and speaking against it. To silence that complaint, they tag it feminism, a stubbornness and refusal to follow the traditional. They call it hatred of men, anything to let them run over the existence of another person, just because it benefits them. They wants her to do traditional roles and still be modern, but you can't have the two together —resulting in differences that cannot be resolved. If you want her to work to pay for her bills, who will have time for babies and the home? And if you tell her to stay at home, she has a life and ambitions she wants, too. Why on Earth would she give that up while the man can live out his dreams?

But what really is feminism, since it's not the above?
Well, the internet will help the search for that. Nigerian men cannot redefine feminism, they can only try to demonize it by painting it was misandry.

Feminism isn't the cause of modern marital problems. It is a result of treating women like second class humans. One day the slaves will want freedom. And didn't they get freedom by today?

The solution is to pick just one side of the coin. Only one.

TheSupleemLeada:
He looks like someone who would take it for the team.

Lol. Funny.

What are we reading?!

So these people have been generously cooking for them? And we are asking how they advanced on Kabul that fast?

Too many sympathizers.

wman:
Why do couples look alike after years of marriage?

They really look similar. Aging is a beautiful thing. And 50 years is quite nice.

flokii:
Where those mum.u feminists to come and learn.. there is a reason you're female and feminine, to honour and support the male not to compete with them on who will be the head in the family unit and society.

You can't have two captains in a ship.. it's not just possible.

Mama is celebrating 50years because she got married and stayed true and committed to her relationship not like those emotionally wrecked women out there leading young girls astray.

What exactly are you saying? That the woman is the head of the home who carries everything called marriage so that the marriage lasted? Or that it lasted because the man was not one of the irresponsible modern men who are looking for women to give them a soft landing in life?

Modern men are some of the most confused about what masculinity and feminity are. Worst is that they don't even know what feminism is. They are just looking for someone to offload unrealistic expectations on.

The reason modern marriages seem to last a short while is because women are tired of the excesses of men. That's what is tagged feminism by men who don't want to end their bad ways in relationships.

As a man, work on yourself and your character and you will have a long fruitful marriage. Don't think that because a woman has endured long with you that she is enjoying your attitudes or even happy to be married to you.

Congrats to their parents, though.

TheSupleemLeada:
Alex ekubo is a known fagg0t..... probably caught him bending the knee getting fvcked.

Being one means that he must be the one getting fuc_k_ed on his knees? What if he's the one who is doing the poking?

The way some of you conclude that the guy you're suspecting must be a bottom is exasperating. Surely he must like to stick it someplace, too, you know.

smile11s:
I know someone that dated one of his ex

What if the ex was being bitter? If she were truthful, she would state who his gay partners are. And what would be his gain in dating women when he can hide behind the red pill to conceal the reason for his apparent bachelorhood, and many people would think he's living the life of a single player? So many gay guys hide there.

This is how many people claim UTI Nwachuku is gay, but can't point to any one of his gay partners.

Maybe they're bi. But if they are, who are their boyfriends?

Coldie:
U and I know kiddwayas father is not a billionaire.

Very true. That's why he's the golddigger.

Good luck to their friendship and whatever else it could be.

smile11s:
She got tired of his gay life already. She knew he gets it from the back a lot and she thought she could sleep with him while he sleeps with men. All Na choice though. I think she no fit do am.

They should just legalize this gay stuff already so that gay men can be happily married to men and not fake a marriage so they can find their happiness and live in their truth

What proof do you have that he's gay?

Coldie:
Is kiddwaya the son of a billionaire?

Nah, he's golddigging a much richer girl than him.

Daveambition:
Only Jah knows how many manchi, both locally+international wey don nyash this Cuppy...
This one no go stay husband houz reach betah 1-2yrs, her own na to test every BBC globally. Una see that 2nd pic wey she throw peace-sign? That left hand don perform more sloppy BJ than any blows from AnthonyJoshua boxing glove

Are you her P.A., or are you just angry there's a young lady with a lot of money and time on her hands?

Before you men would say it's clitocurrency once a female gets loads of money without your approval. Now you're just angry and bitter that she's getting everything you could dream of without lifting a finger or letting you see what's between her legs

It's not her fault her father is wealthy.

Why don't you tell us more about the man beside her, that angelic virgin man?

TWLifestyle:
lol , unfortunately she can't- I'm sure if she could she would - most women habe no intention to cause you so much heartbreak - she probably just wanted to cheat exactly the way you people cheat - and she brought home a child instead of a disease like you people normally bring home. Is she supposed to abort the child ? Of course not .

LMAO.

What a post.

Susily:
You're wrong, infidelity (both in the man's part or woman's part) is a ground for divorce even in the Bible

It's his responsibility to dissolve the marriage let everyone go their separate ways, that's what a Worthy man would do

Anyway he's wrong by posting the girl's face, she's innocent of all these

His responsibility is to hold his family together. If a man can't do that, what is he called the head of the home for on the Bible?

Can't understand a childish man who is posting the girls pictures online. And posting the wife's pictures so that what will happen, people will kill her in the streets or what?

He's not behaving worthy. He could easily move on. Everyone gets heartbreak, but only foolish ones will carry it on social media. To what end?

Susily:
Yeah you're right, the best thing for them to do is get divorced and let the woman return the child to her biological father

The man is lucky he discovered early, he's not at loss. He can still HOPEFULLY get a better woman in the future who will give him his own kids

Yeah.

The woman can as well return to the strong loving arms of the girls father and hopefully they get married. She deserves a chance at true love. She made her mistakes, but may fortune favor her.

addictiv:
There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be polygamous and father kids by different men, however why commit paternity fraud? Why lie to a man about the origins of a child that is not his and make him commit emotionally, financially, spiritually etc to the upbringing of the child? Why not just tell a man, look this pregnancy is not yours and allow him to decide on supporting you in raising the child on his own free will?

How many men tell their wives until the wife finds out?

They commit child fraud, if one can call it that, at an alarming rate.

They make the wife think that they are loyal while servicing and fathering other children outside the marriage and sneaking to see them and give them money. Making their wife pour her heart out in a fake relationship. Isn't that a great deception of the age?

Why so much outcry about parternity fraud? Is it that men like duping women, since they can't get pregnant, then get so strung up that women are doing it to them?

Men should be made to take paternity tests on the children of any woman they have every slept with and stop the charade.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to verify ones true children and not have someone from somewhere come up to challenge ones children from nowhere.

addictiv:
There is nothing wrong with wanting to verify the origins of one's supposed offspring. Only a little minded person or guilty party will look at wanting a DNA test as casting aspersions on the integrity of the mother of the child. If organisations and embassies can request for these test results and we provide them willingly how much more the very man to which these kids are supposed to propagate his genes and possibly inherit his wealth

Is the man an embassy?

If every man is to be tested for all the children of his exes, it will become obvious that men are their own enemy. And if made a requirement before marriage or having children, it would be interesting to see men comply or remain single. If men got pregnant we would hear a lot of dirty stories and fear them. Somewhere the real father is hiding and acting like a saint.

If you don't trust someone enough to get married and have children with them, why bother when it's a transaction of insecurity? Be ready for transactions to always fail.

Crowwejihadist:
See what this useless Biden has caused.
I will boldly repeat it again Joe Biden is very weak compared to Trump

Biden is airlifting them without checks.

Welcome to America.

Haphazard, full of lies, and poorly thought out.

LilMissFavvy:
It's really a sad situation, poor little girl. If only the man could forgive, especially if his wife is truly repented and has apologised.

Yeah, God hates divorce. It's his responsibility to hold his family together at this time, that's what a worthy man would do. Not running to social media to post the girls face as revenge.