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IYANGBALI:
Her only problem is her armpits odour

How did you come up with this?

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

You so desperately want to have sex with a 19 year old girl. It's all you want, once you do it, you'll remember loads of things about sex and her that you don't like. You may even claim you were lied to.

Why don't you find someone that you don't have to persuade to have sex with you, or are you that low in self esteem?

elantraceey:
Yeah, I would never say that..... She was being very careless.

Maybe she trusts him too much to tell him such. What he needs is someone who lies to him. He would value that more.

slimjosh231:
Omg, and this nonsense is making front page? How do this caliber of people manage to even get into a relationship?

Ask us again. The type of people that enter relationships today, they are confused before they even get started.

COdeGenesis:
It is better you on the advantaged side. It is better someone loves me more and I love them less. When someone loves you less you at a disadvantaged situation as u can be tossed out at any time

So who do you think wants to be the loser?

All the men claiming they want someone who loves them more, who do you think wants to be the one that is loved less? Just say you don't know what love is, and that you are untrustworthy. Don't say you want someone who loves you more.

While they waste their time loving you, they will be getting your substandard love in return, while you feel good about yourself that you are wiser. What selfishness.

Keep looking for who will love you more, so that you can love them less. No wonder marriages today are a sham. People enter it with greed and selfishness rather than true love and understanding. Me, me, me!

henry007:
Nokia 8.3 5G Unboxing and Review after 2 months.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWuk4NTzHGg

HMD Global's latest flagship is supposed to be uphold their show stopper smartphone camera reputation and it actually does so, with its new cinematic mode . The camera output indoors is by far the best that I've reviewed on this channel. I compared it side by side the GCAM shot (see a few of them in the screenshots below).

Nokia 8.3 5G weirdly spots a fairly powerful midrange chipset (Snapdragon 765G) and honestly, in my day to day use, I don't have a lot of complaints about this chip other than the fact that it's just not as snappy as a flagship chipset and can't play PUBG on Ultra HD setting. As at the time of publishing this review, Android 11 update has not been pushed. Be sure to get to the end of this video for my conclusion to know why you should not buy the Nokia 8.3 5G just yet. Unfortunately, I could not test the 5G speed on this phone because 5G is not yet commercially available in Nigeria.

Price: N243,600

At that price, and still resembling 5? I guess you're paying dearly for the 128GB. Would you think a Samsung of this range can compete with it?

Covers and ear phones are back, shall we celebrate?

Karemarealty288:
Very ruthless Armed Robber caught during Fashola's tenure.

Even his name sounds scary. Is he still alive?

triple996:
chaii
this is bad
these is very bad
y can't all northerners just join hand together and bombed these fools to pieces

Look closely at their faces. They seem to be smiling. They don't look displeased or distressed.

This new business of the North is by far worse than militancy. Those ones had sense and primary education. These ones are a little more exposed than farm animals, go and see for yourself. Sanusi should've stayed on to talk about these things they don't want to hear.

tonididdy:
They are littered all over Edo... The governor and security agencies know their hangout (it's not hidden, it's in broadday light).


So many of them you see 'shadowing' passengers for bus drivers for N50 only. They fight themselves for this opportunity, they smell and are very rude.


They are at chicken republic entrances, market Square, central church at ring road, the museum roundabout ground... They are everywhere.


You just wondering, where are the parents... Well the parents are alive and give no damn. Their own na to phcuk and born and the rest is the child business.


If government does not control such parents, Edo state will be a mess in the future.


This 10yr old knows no other life, rehabilitate him all you like, he will scale the fences to continue this life. We Nigerians are another breed of humans walahi

unfortunately, you are saying the truth in such a hopeless state.

sweetonugbu:
you are right, this is a made up story to justify police brutality against end sars protest

Hopefully you're being sarcastic.

dotedote:
A made up story huh!
The boy's lips were also made up or you haven't seen the video. He probably had his lips made up by a makeup artist. Bro, that's weed on his lips. Take it or leave it, it's as real as it gets.

Don't mind them. Some people want to play victim once it involves endSARS.

Karemarealty288:
His journey into Nigerian prison is like going for his PhD......will come out worse than 10Shekau+ 20 Ogodogodo.

What is that last one?

Globalistic:
This is a cooked story. Police is driving at something.

Yeah, they forced that boy to say those words. They forced him to say everything he said. It was cooked. Him killing 2 people is the police driving at something.

Lexusgs430:
Because men like you have refused to marry them.....

Not cutting of families, but respect your space and their space..... From the way he spoke, his sense of entitlement is massive........

Widows got no right to suffer, if their husband's put his house in order....... So blame the clueless husband's.....


He waits for his own life to happen, when his brother is not a bachelor.......... So if his life never happens, he becomes a lifetime pest and pet........

It is cutting off families. If you only see eat Christmas, you might as well be strangers. If they cannot live with you, they must be strangers.

He could be entitled because he says he owns what his brother owns, maybe he's the one who pushed his brother and helped him, so much that a woman got interested in marrying him.

You talk as if everyone is destined to become wealthy, if so, why are widows suffering and why are there poor people. Let's be realistic here. People aren't clueless because they couldn't get money in life.

Allow him to wait for his life to happen. He can't force things that don't come to him or do you think wheel barrow pushers don't fight for financial freedom, though it may never come? If they die and their widows suffer, they aren't clueless.

If his brother doesn't want him, he can leave for him. Everyone is a tenant in the life of another person while they wait for their lives to happen, not always physically. Not everyone is fortunate, no matter how much they struggle. Let's be realistic again.

HopeVictor:
You say I support men always and say bad about women but you're doing the same thing.so we are the same na

I'm helping you to equalize it.

If men do evil always and it is good, allow women to do the same evil without complaining.

KevUnique:
Exactly...they don't understand how one feels, cuz they are not the ones feeling less satisfied..I don't want to use the words ugly, per say.

People look ugly when their attitudes/acts are ugly. For instance, one criminal they put on FP. He was deeply ugly and evil looking.

Physically, people are rarely ever ugly. They are just different.

Lexusgs430:
Yes she has a right..... What are you still doing in your brother's house?

If you both struggled for it, time to request your share and move on........

What some females are still doing in their father or siblings homes.

You people act like life is Rosy for everyone and as if marriage means cutting off entirely from your families.

This is why widows suffer, because they were always staking claims on their husbands and acting like their in-laws are useless people to be living with them.

What is he still doing there? Waiting for his own life to happen.

24kmagic:
I hope and pray for a good sister in-law in the future, I really do. But in the event that we don't like each other, there's going to be some serious troubles.

I will try as much as possible not to encroach her space. But in the case of kitchen affairs, she dare not.

Who told women that the kitchen belongs to them only? As if they even know how to cook mtcheew.
If my sister in-law tries this rubbish with me, I will make sure I frustrate her life as long as I live.

She'll never wish to step into our family house again I swear. Even that my brother I will deal with him.

The only people I will spare are their kids.

But both my brother and his wife will not have a happy marriage, cos I will turn the whole family against them.

Rubbish.

Ah, hope you're not the OP?

Richy4:

I can just imagine what would have happened assuming OP dished out the food she (the sister in law) prepared by herself to his friend ... His luggage would have been at the entrance gate to their estate.. .

All we wanted for them is peace my brother nothing more..

what I disliked in some people's attitude here on Nairaland is that sometimes they seems good at playing 'culture card' when it suits them perfectly.. like in this case, majority have already became Europeans all of a sudden, They have started forming nuclear family on OP.. they have seen OP as someone who has committed a great taboo by staying with his married Elder brother... But did the African culture permits that? that's a question for another day...

But when situation shifts bases, and sh!t hits the roof in a relationship between married couple,, the same people dishing out Europeans style advise; that were forming nuclear family will be like why not call his family, don't u have uncle, sister, bla bla bla..They just remembered African culture when it feels convenient...It's just annoying..

Thank you for your last two paragraphs. Women tend to be hostile to their in-laws in Nigeria, like it's some kind of manual they give them. Suddenly he's their husband, theirs alone, they own him, he's theirs, and nobody should interfere; but once there's a problem they go seeking his family. This could be why the in-laws are never sympathetic to her. In staking her territory on the man, she must have done a lot of stupid things that make them hate her.

In this case it's a bit difficult, because the person being thrown out contributed to the brothers life, perhaps even the kitchen utensils. We can't rule out if the person was arrogant and annoying himself, but I don't understand all these wives being hostile. Will she react the same way if it were her sibling? The brothers should sort out themselves and the wife should be given her limits. One doesn't have to become stupid and inconsiderate just because they are married women and an inlaw is living with them.

I think it's best married people stay on their own, and they don't bring any issues to their families for mediation, since they want to be islands of their own. That way they are for themselves and nobody will interfere. Just them and their children alone.

naptu2:
Amina Mohammed did not just surface as Nigeria's minister of the environment.


She was working with the United Nations on their Millenium Development Goals project when President Olusegun Obasanjo brought her back to Nigeria to be his special assistant on Millenium Development Goals.

At that time President Obasanjo was head hunting certain Nigerians that lived abroad, e.g. Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Professor Charles Soludo and Ambassador Oluyemi Adeniji. Amina was one of the people that he brought back to Nigeria.


Part of her job then was to use some of the money that we saved from debt forgiveness to work on rural development, girl child education, etc.

At that time her name was Amina Az Zubair. I don't know why it changed.


She went back to working with the United Nations, she lectured at Columbia University and she also worked with the Gates Foundation after Obasanjo left office.

(I remember that she also serve the Yar'Adua and Goodluck Jonathan administrations in some form, I think as special adviser on sustainable development goals).

President Buhari brought her back again to work as minister of the environment before the UN took her again.

You know your history.

ovieigho:
Dont be surprised God might probably want to show himself to him ....
I believe he will learn a new lesson that will chart a new course of his life after jail term

Like Uzo Kalu.

HopeVictor:
Really.. how does it sound to you

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Organs:
Bros, you are indeed unenlightened and i will prove it. Firstly, we are not talking of a regular anyday Python, we are talking about a python that grew to this huge size with maybe longevity due to circumstances we don't know about now that its dead. I had your belief and thought process some 20 years ago and i was almost calling in to AIT/Channels (cant remember now) on a TV station where they analized how a construction worker killed a rare antelope that was at the lekki conservation area for food. The rare antelope was brought in from i believe Calabar. I was actually angry at the double standards and how the Presenter and the wildlife conservationist talked about how the construction worker was gainfully employed and how the kids that usually go to the Lekki conservation center will miss "Tunde" or whatever name they gave the antelope. I wanted to know what kids will miss the antelope, the kids endangered everyday selling pure water and kpekere in lagos traffic or those that trek long distances in the desert or ride in overcrowded buses or Canoes. I get it @Brastilava, I equally knew then, the antelope had a better more dignified transportation from Calabar to lagos than the construction worker has going to work everyday in Lagos. So, yes i get it, that is not what i am talking about at all. I am talking about our stupidity and reactive ways of reality without pausing to look at the big picture and always doing things the same way forever. True people all over the world has always gone hunting and used their hunts as food however that has reduced drastically in developed world. People study things now before they even consume and eat them. This snake might have way more benefit than food. Think beyond your stomach and grow my brother. Gorillas are so many in African forests, they kill people and attack farmlands. Its this same channels that studies animals that found out if you encounter a gorilla, you don't have to run cos it will most probably outrun you and still harm you or kill you. All you have to do is lie down or sit down and stay quiet, the gorilla will most times just go on its way, now if youre standing, its direct challenge to the gorilla and you are now confronting the gorilla for all the gorilla babes so guess what you with your lack of education and lack of common sense will get maimed, beaten and in worse case scenarios, killed even and me i know you are just plain stupid and not interested in female gorillas..... you see where your over sabi fit land you now? Imagine, say gorilla panel beat you cos of gorilla babes then the gorilla babe might check out your penis and beat you on top cos of its small size...lol. Stop eating everything as food my broda, na so Covid take start oh.

More pseudo-education and enlightenment babble, I'm sure. I won't lie to you, I didn't read a word of it.

You are neither educated nor enlightened if that is the kind of text you expect me to read.

You and the Mpi seborrhic made no sense on this topic.

My point remains:

It is not only Nigerians that have been killing and eating snakes for countless millennia before national geographic started and, yet, there are still millions of snakes crawling worldwide.
Give them your methane meats if it bothers you so much.

HopeVictor:
Cheating is for men women are supposed to be faithful unless they get money

Assumption without basis.

What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If men should cheat, then women should cheat too. That way everyone is happy with what they're doing to each other.

EmekaA125:
Shut up and stop supporting evil. Ezi

Ezi, You should shut up first. You can tolerate evil if it comes from a man, but not from a woman. Why not tolerate all? Evil hypocrite.

seborrhic:
My post isn't for your type because you clearly don't know that snake doesn't kill or attack humans and plays a role in the reduction of diseases people like you would never in 4 lifetimes have the brain to understand.
Zoom off,mpi!

It's funny when you think you know everything, and yet you know nothing. You know nothing, sebo.

Snakes don't kill, but what happened to the word pest and those killed by snakes? Why haven't you began a snake refuge yet? Have you met families of people killed by snakes? Empty barrel.

People will continue to kill and eat snakes if they please, seborrhic the Mpi. Too much TV has damaged reasoning in the younger generation, especially you. Behold the idiocy of the current crop of youth in this fellow I've quoted.

You and your type need brains to function, rather than insults. It makes one know that you have no point to begin throwing insults. Dork.

Liposure:
I know but women are expected to be decent wherever they are. It's a big deal when a man cheats, it's an abomination when a woman (a married one for that matter) does the same.

What makes biology abominable? Who said women are supposed to be decent? Lust isn't the sole possession of men, and cheating doesn't belong only to men.

The sooner society let's go of such unrealistic expectations of women, the better it will become.

Organs:
@Serborrhic is correct. You actually sound uneducated and unenlightened. This is information age, you don't see a python this big and this massive around. This snake is neither poisonous or venomous, it's a python. All the guy needed do is take pictures and videos, share widely and i guarantee you there will be interest. I know all this from the same wildlife and national Geographic of people that took efforts to study these animals, understand their behaviors and patterns while I and you is still in our ignorant state and we cannot even study mosquito efficiently and find a cure for malaria.

It's so easy for people to throw around words like unenlightened and uneducated nowadays, especially the people that are actually uneducated and unenlightened.

Tell us if it is wrong to eat meat because you watch national geographic channel. Maybe you didn't watch the documentaries on methane? Or maybe it is more accurate that you are uneducated and unenlightened.

A channel I've watched for over 2 decades, and yet people still eat sharks and whales and snakes. What a small mind you have if you believe everything you watch on TV, and cannot use your brain afterward. If sponsored TV is your education, you must be uneducated and unenlightened.

If you think a little TV will stop people from eating and living as they did years ago you must be joking. You aren't going to give them alternate food thus you are quite ignorant to expect them to stop eating meat available.

Go and work on your human rights first before animal rights. Feed people first before telling them not to eat snakes. Snakes are eaten worldwide. You just want to make noise with your pseudo-education and TV enlightenment. Where are all the pics you've taken and submitted on behalf of Nigerian snakes?.

TIDDOLL:
This is indeed large enough to constrict a man of Avg height and swallow.

And swallow?

djsjxjfjdisjdjb:
how can? that snake go fit swallow the man wey dey there sef..

But it looks rather small. Unless it's going to tear it's belly doing so.

mattmogan88:
Will you keep quiet

If you can express yourself, so can I. You keep quiet first.

Big deal: men cheat, women cheat.

seborrhic:
You could have made a lot of money if u hadn't killed that snake.
Catching it and sending the pics alone to NatGeo or conservation groups worldwide would have even earned your dad, family,town and state fame.No joking.
They would have called and done research to find out if it was an endangered species to preserve.
Nigerians are very ignorant and poorly educated when it comes to widelife.

Always these lines. You watched a little national geographic channel and suddenly you know everything about this.

Who do you think earns money from these animals, except people who kill and sell them in Africa? Every time you people will come out to say imaginary things about animals that are food worldwide. Or do you think it is only Nigerians who kill and eat snake meat?