Health › Re: I Think I Have An STI. Help! by BRATISLAVA: 8:22am On Feb 23, 2021 |
AutoRedux: This is no fiction bro. I never wanted to bring this to nairaland. I only created the post after I could not find any meaningful result as to the kind of drug I need and also cos I don't know which STI it is that I contracted. Why I didn't go on with having sex with her was cos of pregnancy issues. It is fiction. That's why you didn't go to the hospital. |
Autos › Re: Wrapped In Royal Blue Toyota Highlander For Sales! by BRATISLAVA: 8:20am On Feb 23, 2021 |
JayAutos05: I stand to be corrected sir... Thanks alot Will change it now. Appreciate Nice. You're welcome. |
Politics › Re: Ortom: If Anything Happens To Me, Hold Gov Bala Mohammed Responsible by BRATISLAVA: 7:11am On Feb 23, 2021 |
It has gotten to this stage? |
Nairaland General › Re: Be Careful Your Friend Can Be Your Downfall. by BRATISLAVA: 7:11am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Babymuchendu: I was at the market yesterday and decided to buy banana.
The boy I called to buy from had just two left. He was with another boy who had like five left. We concluded on price and I asked him to put it in a waterproof for me.
He told me his own just finished but let him collect from his friend.
He turned to his friend to give him nylon but his friend refused.
He even promised to give him two back once he buys. He said he's going to buy once I leave that he wants to settle me.
His friend refused.
He reminded him that he used to help him when he's in such situations and his friend told him that he's never forced him.
I watched these boys go back and forth. The small boy pleaded with me to please wait so he could run and get a nylon bag for me.
As he wanted to go, I told him not to worry that I'll take the banana like that.
His 'friend' who refused to give him nylon turned to another boy standing close to him and said "I thought she would refuse to buy from him if he didn't have a nylon so that she can buy from me."
I turned to the boy I bought banana from who had only one left and told him to bring the second one as well.
I carried the two without nylon and put inside the car.
See eeh,
The success of a friend will not and cannot stop your own success.
A small boy who's supposedly a friend refused vehemently to help his friend out in a time he needed him most because he felt his friends failure would bring about his own success.
There's a way you'll get jealous of someone and you'll push them into more good luck.
The success of the person next to you might be all you need to blow.
Little help here and there go a long way in registering you in the hearts of people for good.
I saw the look on the boy's face when his friend walked away with empty tray.
If not that his mom might not understand, what's tray that I can't buy from him? ����
I wanted to buy off everything and pepper the other small boy. . Your worst enemy is often your friend and family. Someone so "close" you don't suspect them, or you will overlook it. I've seen a lot. |
Romance › Re: Am I About To Make A Wrong Marital Choice? by BRATISLAVA: 6:51am On Feb 23, 2021*. Modified: 7:07am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Iamafinegirl: Please I need your help or view point in this matter. Am I just over reacting at is this a red flag to which I need to run far away from? My current boo asked me out for like one and half year, it was like it’s either me or no one else. His friends and bosses in his office had to speak to me to consider him as I might be missing a good man and how crazy he is about me. I finally accepted. I decided to move in with him after a while just to see what marriage to him would feel like with him. I have stayed a year with him and it’s void of sex and kissing. When I came he would say they should put on the gen anytime there was no light for me and all, he was sweet. With time he started complaining that he was buying all the food in the house and I wasn’t contributing as much as he wants. He eats about 5 times a day while I eat twice or one and half times (fruit, oat and pap) a day because me I am watching my weight. He would complain the milk he bought had finished and all...and it was with some level of anger or bitterness about buying the food stuff. Pls note that I consume 25% - 30% of all he eats. I later started buying my milk to avoid issues since I knew that’s what I consume most (with my oat or pap) which makes one of my meal for the day but he was angry about me buying it separately but I did that because I felt there would be peace that way. I would still buy milk and keep and he can say I am using more than he is using inside the milk He complained about repairs (light), complained about buying dstv subscription, nepa light payment etc. You just list any house thing he started complained about doing it. I on my path do contribute the way I spent before I came to stay with him. (I wasn’t a huge spender as I eat very small food) and so my money use to remain which he used to borrow from me when we werent together. We had a him 60k and me 40k arrangement for food fuel light etc but we never put it together and so each week I did ensure I spend 10k. But apparently he wasn’t seeing it. I would come from market and he would say what is all this, this is worth 5k. It use to hurt so much because I wld show him the list but he would still say this same thing. I have never asked him how much he bought things if he goes to market talk less if say it’s not up to a certain amount. He said later that he can’t marry a woman who works and won’t contribute for light, food, repair, gen etc.... So even today we contributed for dstv 4700, I paid half and he paid half. It looks sort of absurd and a no no to me Yesterday he bought apples 800 naira and I paid half and he paid half.... And so that’s how the current life would be.... I contributed to the rent also but he said no... that he would “dash me” rent. I shouldn’t pay so I won’t come tomorrow and say I contributed to the house rent. I even said ok use the money for food and other things you complain about, but he said he won’t collect it under the umbrella of house rent that never. I see it upside down for a man to be saying he is paying rent and see it that he is dashing me. When I can pay my rent by myself and he knows fully well. If I was living alone the same way he has been living alone, won’t I do my repair, dstv subscription etc without asking anybody? So why is it a big deal the moment I stepped in? This are things if my friend came to live with me to God who made me I would do/ take responsibility for because the dstv subscription I would have paid for before won’t change with your presence...the only thing that may change is water and food and so if they contributed it would go towards that. This is dating phase, please what marriage would become of this. Am I the one at fault? I need honest reviews so I can know if I am having problem and if I need to work on myself or if I need to run. My parents marriage wasn’t like this my dad bought food and mum did other investments for the family or so and it was never an issue or was there a specific fight that you, you are not buying enough milk on the house or I can’t see d 10k food u said you just bought...it doesn’t look it etc. He would also say me I want to be saving my money and all. Pls what’s d way forward or backward married folks, married men and women, what am I not seeing that you can see? You're dating a sadistic red pill man. He's not in love with you. He is finally old and needs companionship. Every move he takes is carefully thought out so that he always comes out on top, even if it means being extremely foolish, ridiculous and difficult. He will soon push all responsibilities to you. He's looking for a woman who will do things for him, because he cannot be a man otherwise. He thinks he's wise, like most red pill men on this forum. They don't know what love and togetherness is, like most of the men here. You should leave him to enjoy his bachelor life. Looks like he has been looking for who to pay for 70% of his feeding bills. Run from him. Fast. He's refused to have sex with you and you don't suspect a lavender marriage? |
Music/Radio › Re: I've Tried And Tried And I'm Frustrated!!! by BRATISLAVA: 6:45am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Do something else. Or keep doing what you're doing without complaining. |
Nairaland General › Re: Transgender Woman Spends Huge Amount On Surgery To Facilitate Transformation. by BRATISLAVA: 6:43am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Rodriguez Alves is finally living his dream. He was particularly ugly as a man after all his surgery. He had no choice but to become a Catwoman plastic surgery buff. |
Health › Re: I Think I Have An STI. Help! by BRATISLAVA: 6:40am On Feb 23, 2021 |
This story sounds like something out of a bad PWP.
So you knew you couldn't have penile sex because of STDs, but you could swallow whatever "pissy cream" into your mouth? So women normally carry cream that they can squirt several times into mens mouths?
Please, this is fiction. |
Autos › Re: Wrapped In Royal Blue Toyota Highlander For Sales! by BRATISLAVA: 6:33am On Feb 23, 2021 |
This isn't turquoise.
This is more of Royal blue. |
Health › Re: How To Cope When Death Snatch Your Loved Ones by BRATISLAVA: 6:26am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Sorry for your loss.
There really is no way to cope with the death of a person you hold dear.
But there are coping mechanisms until you can get over it.
Write a list of all the nice things about them that you can think of. Read through it and smile at the end of each one.
Think of ways to console their family, too. You've all shared a loss. Don't go on feeling like you're alone in it.
Don't get depressed over it. Go out and still be sociable. Remember this: the person you lost would always want you to go on living a happy and fulfilled life.
The truth is, we all have our mechanisms for overcoming grief. But we eventually get over the denial, anger, depression, bargaining etc and eventually come to acknowledgement/acceptance.
Unfortunately, death is final. We will never see the person who is dead again, even if we build monuments for them. The pain is always there. But the living have no choice but to go on living. |
Crime › Re: Police Apprehends Robbery Suspects In Abuja - The Lead Express News by BRATISLAVA: 6:19am On Feb 23, 2021 |
What is the lead express news? |
Romance › Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by BRATISLAVA: 6:11am On Feb 23, 2021*. Modified: 11:22am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Because you don't have a good mindset towards them, yourself.
Plus you have listened to too many family and marriage destroying red pill men online. Ask them why they are so against women and marriage/family foundations? Loads of devilish messages preached and propagated by men on this forum. According to livingbychrist, those are Lucifer schemes men on the forum have bought into. If you are a Christian, read in your Bible where men only offered sex and wanted women to cater to their needs. Rather men bought gifts for women and went to take care of their families, not girl friend or baby mama.
You've began to listen to online men, with their twisted misogynistic take on women, rather than the truth. Your forefathers had no problem finding women, because they were not looking for a woman to add to there lives, who will buy them recharge cards, and give them premarital sex. Modern men have destroyed what they want by wanting women to give them things. You want to divert certain things and it's not working. If men want good women, they should live good Bible lives first.
So if you're asking why, first change your mindset and they will come. Women can spot a red pill convert a mile off. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Malcolm X's Family Releases Letter Alleging FBI, Police Role In His Death. by BRATISLAVA: 6:07am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Black conspiracy theorists at it again. Don't you guys ever give it a rest?
Yes, the world hates you so much they spend their days and nights divising means to bring blacks down always. They have nothing better to do to blacks in the West. Everything is a racist plot. |
Education › Re: Mathematics Please Help Me Urgently . by BRATISLAVA: 5:59am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Your camera is too bad.
For something you're not paying us to solve for you, you don't seem to be serious about people reading it.
Good luck with the submission today. |
Health › Re: Pls Nairalanders Help Me With Tips To Restore My Damage Hair As A Guy (photos by BRATISLAVA: 5:55am On Feb 23, 2021 |
thorpido: This is a truth but not the whole truth.Genetics is complicated. While male pattern baldness is more dominant in the X chromosome which you inherited from your mother,the manifestation is actually from genes inherited from both sides of the family. So the mother's family can have hair while the baldness will manifest in the son because the father's family are predominantly bald. Most bald men have bald maternal grandfathers. However, I understand what you mean. |
Autos › Re: . by BRATISLAVA: 5:52am On Feb 23, 2021 |
uchman: You ended up giving no answer... Name one of the loan organisation Google it if you're serious enough. You haven't given an answer yourself. |
Health › Re: Pls Nairalanders Help Me With Tips To Restore My Damage Hair As A Guy (photos by BRATISLAVA: 9:09pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
thorpido: It doesn't have to be your dad That's not how genetics play out.Your dad may have full hair but maybe your grandfather was bald or there's an uncle whose hair pattern you took after Bald genes actually come from women. |
Travel › Re: Photographer Captures Photos Of 'Never Before Seen' Yellow Penguin (Pics) by BRATISLAVA: 9:06pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Tolexander: Albino sexkillz penguins Loooool this again? |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Are All Useless I'm Going To Near By Africa Country To Marry by BRATISLAVA: 9:01pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Speaks volumes about the type of men in Nigeria. You want foreign women but can't behave like foreign men. You still want to keep your Nigerian male assumptions, stereotypes and attitudes.
Small boys in men skin. |
Celebrities › Re: Actress Adesua Etomi Truns 35 Years Today. (photo) by BRATISLAVA: 8:59pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
All the womb watchers are now acting like they are happy for her. They will soon turn to number watchers. |
Education › Re: Mathematics Please Help Me Urgently . by BRATISLAVA: 8:46pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
You want us to do your mathematics assignment for you? How do you think that will make your teacher feel? Your camera is really bad, in case someone wanted to help you. Is that 156 or 256?
In the first question... You are supposed to notice the exponents are similar and figure it out from there. They're even all xs. The next one requires you to get x value and use in the log part. Etc etc. Can't really see the rest. |
Health › Re: Pls Nairalanders Help Me With Tips To Restore My Damage Hair As A Guy (photos by BRATISLAVA: 8:41pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
fablouzLeged: even if I will go bald this is not how it should be at least my hair most thin Considering I am just 22 And I have my full hair by January February July 2020  If it makes you feel any better, prince William, one of the heirs to the British monarchy began balding at about that age. Maybe even younger. |
Pets › Re: Maggot Disturbing My Dog by BRATISLAVA: 8:35pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Take your dog to the vet.
How is it that it has maggots? Try and treat sores before insects lay eggs in them. Try and take better care of you dog. |
Autos › Re: . by BRATISLAVA: 8:30pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
There are so many loan opportunities available from the government. There are some grants, and some loans without collateral. |
Education › Re: Self Learning Is Key To High Performance Among Undergraduates In Researches by BRATISLAVA: 8:27pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
They prefer copying and being spoon-fed, even in the exam hall. Nigeria has changed, too much corruption even at the lowest levels. Hope one or two learn from your write up |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Uncovers Cannabis Warehouse In Rivers (video) by BRATISLAVA: 1:50pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
HopeVictor: Seems you don't know much about PH I only know they are aggressive, always killing, tattooed, cultists (both male and female) and high on drugs or drinks. God save anyone who lives there. Even the women look so rough. |
Politics › Re: Scarcity Of Beef, Tomatoes, Onions Loom In Southern Nigeria by BRATISLAVA: 1:43pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
htdot: If we can still get food from Benue state, then we are good to go..... We have saltwater fish down here in the south.. To hell with their beef... You should not be worried about them not wanting to supply beef, because they will kill themselves with poverty and rotten meat and vegetables,if they choose to do so. The only worry is that they will resort to their usual terrorism to have their way. |
Politics › Re: Miyetti Allah: You Will Leave North If Your Governors Insist On Evicting Herders by BRATISLAVA: 1:41pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Lamasta: I weak my brother they are just releasing statement regularly The militia that want to fight them should register themselves as corporate bodies too, because that's the trick they use to spread a lot of hate and evil suggestions. |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Uncovers Cannabis Warehouse In Rivers (video) by BRATISLAVA: 1:40pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
AKWATGOLD1: Not surprised with the discoveries in the two area : Slaughter Market (Trans -Amadi Area) & Abuja Estate in Portharcourt.
I suggested that NDLEA should go and raid Trailer Park too along Portharcourt - Ogoni Road. Absolutely unsurprising. People there just move around like drug and drink zombies. |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Uncovers Cannabis Warehouse In Rivers (video) by BRATISLAVA: 1:37pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
HopeVictor: Not everywhere though.. depends on where you visited Only Bonny was free of those vices and scary looking men. Once you're out from the AC, the heat is something else. |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Uncovers Cannabis Warehouse In Rivers (video) by BRATISLAVA: 1:35pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
HopeVictor: I'm there na God help you. The place is full of black dust and very stuffy, hot. Then the people are so rough and wild. Even the old men. Too much drugs and drink. People drink at the ATM even. Even at the so called serene areas you will see them roaming |
Politics › Re: Miyetti Allah: You Will Leave North If Your Governors Insist On Evicting Herders by BRATISLAVA: 1:34pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
hammerDK: AS LONG AS KOGI, BENUE, TARABA AND KWARA IS NOT PART OF THAT NORTH, IT IS FINE.
EVEN PLATEAU, SOUTHERN KADUNA, ADAMAWA, ABUJA AND NIGER SHOULD NOT BE PART OF THAT NORTH. But they are. There are already 3 ruga zones in Abuja alone. Kuje, abaji and one other place. |