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omoyankee3:
One of my friends in the US married a girl from his village. Same story.....he brought her to America, paid for her nursing program, gave her papers etc. After all that, the girl showed her true colors. The guy I'm talking about is very humble and nice, and even though he treated his wife like a queen, she still went ahead messed him up. That's when I realized that no matter what you do, a woman that wants to become a tiger abroad would become one.

But there's a saying.....Since men have learned to shoot without missing, Eneke has learnt to fly without perching.

Hassanmaye:
Lol they hate good guys but they like Randy men, naso one useless girl I love for university dey do me yanga up and down, while she will be calling my roommate just to intimidate me, the idiot finished university up till now no husband she don old at home, continue misbehaving babies when good men approach naso menopause go teach you lesson.

vickydevoka:
For bleaching to make make sense u must be fair in complexion

drlateef:
Wear firm bras. Do chest exercise and wear good clothes, cover yourself up and nobody sees your breasts or the shape. Observe my advice and you will be happy.

vickydevoka:
She's not mix abeg . Shes fair jst as I'm black period. If u see me u go think say I be mix self. Ghana n 9ja lol

Oracleforce:
How I wish all men can be like me....by jettison getting married, most of those ladies could have really known guys worth.
some of these guys can die or kill because of this hoe in-between the legs of ladies...

Ardar:
Nna the tears flowing from our Alfa mails is enough to flood the sahara desert

Reading their comments here shows how bitter and utterly useless they've been, are and always will be.

Mikehot:
I never see woman o.

I took my mind off marriage, was looking at babymama

Mikehot:
For me alot of men abroad comply to the culture of equal rights, equal works.

For me i don't have problem with ditches, cleaning the house where i live.

If my wife comes up with a better argument why resist it?

If she wants to work better because i only respect you when you bring something to the table.

But you have evaded the main issue raised by op that their are higher percentage of men with the characters above.

They are good to women and respect them, they probably do odd jobs for a living (so no reason to form big at home).

They just looking to go home and find a decent wife that to start a stable family free from the chaos of western women.

Only for such women to come over and take opportunity not necessarily because the man did wrong but because she want to be free off marriage (come home when they like, have nobody to explain to etc).

The man is bound to be on the wrong end of this decision.

The man would naturally want to question the moves, his physiology may be hurt, he takes decision and every justice cripples him the more

jajeri3216:
Y'all need Jesus, watch less porn, listen less to liberal news.

Read history books, watch documentaries less Netflix.

Have a nice day

I'm done..........

jajeri3216:
See what I meant. Low iq means easy to indoctrinate.

You gulp up everything you see as fact's.

I'm done, you can't educate ignorance.

jajeri3216:
Poverty of the mind.

jajeri3216:
Only in Nigeria are things like bdsm taking seriously, for most European's (real life), bdsm is for the unhinged, another reason i stress why you folks should stop copying.

As far has being myself, you're spot on, imagine having a partner that doesn't care about your money, car and what she gets from you?

That's the missing link in the black female brain because our environment raised us to have a poverty mindset.

kenzysmith:
Make we rest abeg na una first marry! We done tire! the kind cream d gal pack full body no be here o

Mikehot:
you don't get my point, I have no business with whatever my wife wants to pursue as a dream, many African men are like this.

I don't mind sweeping, doing chores (did i not do them in my father's house) unless we are beyond that level we can employ house help.

I never for once have like the idea of someone doing my laundry for me (it's like my privacy)

Child rearing is for both parties.

I would support my wife on her dreams when i know she is with me with all her heart.

However i would file the documents so i don't get my heart shattered after everything (both parents should have equal custody of children not the loopsided justice to the woman).

My money is my money, the woman money is her money, i am the one to decide who takes it.

This isn't using the woman, we already shared responsibility 50/50, as you know a man responsibility exceeds the 50% sef.

jajeri3216:
Thank goodness I'm not with a black woman(original preference is black) , my oyinbo partner is home doing the laundry and cooking as we speak, she doesn't see herself a slave but a trad,(Type trad Western women into twitter.) , I'll gladly do the same for her.

Bills are equal, everything is based on reciprocity not abuse of power.

Like other couples, we argue but no violence or police troubles.

Gifts fly both ways and lastly the relationship isn't based on our rich or poor status.


Compare the aforementioned attributes to an egotistical maniac from one village in Nigeria, wastes all the household funds on useless thing's, hates house choirs, love's collecting without giving, irresponsible child like baboon behaviour , who will call the police on you at the slightest provocation.

All these equality fights is only going to damage the black family as we see in black American.

Now tell me how I'm mentally damaged?

Mikehot:
somebody asked why the basic stuff a woman does in her father's house becomes slavery in her husband house?

It doesn't. But in his father's house, was the man subjugating his sisters? You see, in the face of oppression, there will always be rebellion. Everyone should treat everyone well. Most women do it in their fathers houses because their brothers do it, too.

Even in Naija you have cohabiting relationship it is even the girl that is eager to come to the guy place to do chores (in anticipation of been iyawo)

Yes, they're desperate to be married. Not all girls. The desperate ones, or the ones who think that is the way to snag a man.

Is cooking for the family, dishes if no helper not the responsibility that we Africans have gracefully embraced for centuries?

Where then are these slavery activities (is it wife beating that is already outlawed).

You need to see the comments of men on this thread. Some women are used to rear children(yes, like animals), emotionally used to satisfy the insecurities and bitterness of some men. Slavery occurs when one partner is not accorded their full human rights, and has to live on the terms of another. You sound like you have grown past the stage of wanting to dominate women's lives.

African men so care for their wives they didn't allow them extra burden beyond house.

Not anymore. They want them to bring money and handle the house.

How exactly is the man controlling his wife life, can there be two captains in a family ship?

You want the woman to be making decisions on behalf of the family or what.

If she has a brain, she can make decisions. What did she go to school for? Why was she born if not to live as a human being?

Alot of the time decisions are actually deliberated on by both sides, it is abnormal if the man perspective happens to be better.

The best perspective should hold.

Middle East women are thriving in their marriages abroad because they don't think like African women who loose their culture because of a white man culture

They aren't thriving. They are enduring. I dare you to interview any 20 such women honestly. Pretend you switched bodies with a woman from the ME. Now, pretend to enjoy not having freedom and not having an escape from it because your cultural society will give you back lash. Remember how happy women in Saudi were once they were allowed to drive? You can't tell me they were happy not driving because that is their culture. They simply couldn't escape it.

Mikehot:
I would be going into estate business abroad soon, its not about me not being faithful, infact i am one guy that doesn't get freaked by sex let alone cheating because of it.

I want a one that can love me for me, i don't go for her financial status, but the reality here is that so many women here see no big deal with a man that brings a woman abroad only for the woman to frustrate him because the law can bend to her.

I don't mind giving my woman my wealth but is she loyal?

Is she married to you because she can bring up any flimsy excuse and cash out on your sweat with one other guy?

JovialJune:
I wonder where you see in my write up that my sons will be taught to worship women? Where exactly?

If my saying I'll teach them how to treat women right means worship, then I have no words for you, seeing as you are a woman.

afroxyz:
It is only nigerian women that this bullshyte is predominant. Forget all that talk about being trained to be submissive in nigeria. Asian women are also trained to be submissive, yet they stick to their husbands when they go abroad. Why naija women own come different.

Hathor5:
Imagine advising married couples to live separately and even not considering the wife's opinion but treating her like a child who has to stay put the way you decide she should. A good husband will always consider his wife's well-being, her feelings, whether she feels lonely or not in his absence, her sexual gratification, her need for company etc. Let me not start with the children who only get to see their fathers for 1-3 months a year.

Your kind of mentality is why many married people suffer and smile. It's not the place you choose to reside or not reside, it's the kind of attitude you people think is normal. With this kind of mentality you should never get married in the first place.

Mitsurugi:
I don't have any other term to define it except rearing, which is what it really is. It's not marriage. But the guy is just scared based on stories and cases. Worst case scenario if he returns to Nigeria and finds out she's cheating, he just takes his kids and leaves her. This is how it rolls in Nigeria.

Mitsurugi:
That's why there are a lot of women rearing kids in Nigeria for their husbands abroad. Guys have wisened up. A girl close to me has been going for endless vigils so her husband can bring her and her two kids over to Switzerland. For where? He comes back every two years impregnates her and jets off again. The funny thing is I took time to observe the girl here and her behavior 'get as e be'

juman:
The write up is one sided.
Painted women as devil.

In reality its not like that.
A man that went home and took a wife abroad, when they reached abroad the man believed he is now the wife's God.

That's the basis of many problems.
The wife will fight back to liberate herself.

jajeri3216:
To solve this, redpilled men have to confront simps first. Women are trend follower's and will respond to strong male leadership.

Grooming must start right in Nigeria***

Simps, feminist's, western copycats are all useless in building strong civil societies.

Mikehot:
I tell you bro, when i find a woman to settle down with she is going to be a foreigner who we both share love.

Even as at that i would file up documents that explains how the children should be handled including how my money should go

WarriIntellect:
My uncle that is in Israel got married to a white lady over there,with 4 kids they are doing fine,after like 16 years of marriage......If it was a nigerian he got married to over there I'm pretty sure the marriage would have been over ....

captainamiedi1:
When ever I see guys coming home to marry, I begin to ask. Is it difficult to marry in their country of residence? What's the rationale behind marrying from your country?

Chii59:
See this one o. Na hair you dey talk? Go buy am Brazilian wig na.

ejanla077:
The same way your pains envy and hatred resumed..

Cousin9999:
It's all clearly staged.

The hairstyle is so fake and racist. All the interactions and behavior is racist.

Disgusting arab pieces of s***.

This is propaganda to support human trafficking.