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Zaggadhat:
If there is no pictures of mama boko haram then that says alot

What use would there be having numerous pictures of an ATM receipt slot?

saintbillion:
This is to inform the general public that the list of shortlisted candidates for 80RRI has been released and screening will commence on 2 Dec 20. https:///n69fAeCsXR

http://saintbillion..com/2020/12/nigeria-army-released-names-of.html?m=1

What about your falcon, Kiki?

Womanizer:
Arrest him on what basis? Which crime did he commit?

He spoke to an engaged, but unmarried woman. It's a crime. To him. Aren't you not surprised by the number of idiots who liked that comment?.
In places where she went to brush outside. Isn't that kind of like David and Bathsheba? Why is she brushing outside? How sure are we she didn't open her towel outside too? That woman should be arrested for indecent exposure. Imagine brushing outside. What happened to the toilet if not that she wants to show herself?

Nazgul:
There's nothing to worry yourself over. She won't do anything with him. And if he keeps disturbing her confront him and warn him that you'll have him arrested if he doesn't stay away from your wife.

If a woman opens up to you that another guy is asking her out, just know that she has already rejected him and doesn't find him attractive enough.

If she found him attractive, believe me, she wouldn't tell you. She'll be doing it secretly behind your back.

You will arrest him for approaching a woman? What kind of reasoning is this? When last were you arrested for talking to a woman who has a man in her life?
The things you can read on this forum, and see the number of people liking it lol

kenzysmith:
who told u done y won't rub the children cream to hide their real colors from d public are u seeing d wife at all? I no bleachers dey bleach their children too

The wife looks naturally fair naw, that's why the kids are fair too. If she was bleaching they would be black and we would doubt their paternity. They don't have blackened knuckles.

kenzysmith:
The bleaching crews

The children wouldn't come out that fair if they were bleaching. Not every light skinned person bleaches.
The only objection is the faces of the children. Who gave them those noses?

tstx:
He doesn't sound ridiculous.. What he said is nothing but the truth... You just don't want to see things from his point of view. Which isn't surprising.

if the woman was so bad, she wouldn't be crying, she would've pulverized the house girl. But she didn't. And the girl was asked why, repeatedly, and she couldn't give a reason at all.

This means she was not maltreated. She's just a sick young girl with sadistic tendencies. This type can poison her husband easily.

Dkyz:
Wowwwww... Meercats

Sad tho... Those were very intelligent creatures.... They also kill snakes for a living. Your loss.

How can bushbabies be meer cats? The way people say things they don't know with so much confidence is appalling.

Samueltemi337:
I'm still looking for the beauty in this ugly creatures

Lol
They look much better as adults. All baby birds are very ugly

Kriss216:
School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!

If he has the money to spend, it's hardly an issue.

Only poor men make such a big deal of such things.

She didn't hold a gun to his head, and he could afford to, so why is she suddenly a fish brain?

Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.

If two do not agree they cannot be joined together.
The friend of a killer will be a killer. The friend of a prostitute will be a prostitute.

If you think lady B is any different from lady A, you are simply lying to yourself and just using lady B.

santakris:
Will you harm this bird if you have the opportunity to kill it in your garden?

Why not? It's a duck. And ducks are edible.

Gayatri:
What are the red flags please??... He loves his girlfriend but he does not want to let me leave him because i help him get focused than his girl aside the feelings he has for me... Please make me understand...

Lol. You really believe that with all his complicated stories about his state of love that he's been sincere with you? You are the side chick. He uses you to soothe his ego.

How can he love her but be chasing you? Is that how love sounds to you, cheating? Sounds like side chick work. He wants the two of you vying for him. He will later come on nairaland to tell us how he's a player and can handle any number of women at a time.

MissEfe:
That guy is broke and down. instead of u helping him up 2 his feet again u want 2 leave him and u are telling him to his face after everything he has down 4 u. You are suppose to encourage him and help him grow again. Or just ieave him without him knowing since u cnt date and manage a broke guy. You are just adding up 2 his frustration. You b INGRATE. After stayin at his house for 5yrs, bcus he is nw broke u want 2 move out and dump him? You practically drained that guy. Some gals self eh. SMH.

If someone does something for you, it means they can curse you, beat you and blackmail you? Because they did something out of love for you, you cannot change your mind later on.

Imagine you entered a car, in the hope of buying it. You take it for a test drive like everyone else on the planet does. But when it's time to come down, because you don't want like something about the car, the car dealer begins to beat you up, that you must buy the car because you sat on it. You will be an INGRATE, unhelpful, you are supposed to encourage the car dealer, you have added to his frustration, right?

Some of you don't even understand relationships, and that is why you are beaten and you enjoy it. You have no human rights and you love it like that. Imagine all the assumptions in the post quoted. Judges with no other manual but their warped judgement.

BayMc:
you kept typing "...the guy loves her for not letting go of her".

the question is " how does the guy in question goes about not letting go of her?"
hasn't it been "by making the OP feel guilty coupled with cursing"?!
where's the love in that?!

the guy's brand of "not letting her go" is toxic, the OP should better opt out to save her sanity.
On second thought, it's perhaps "karma" at work. Maybe the OP deserves no pity, after all she deliberately wrecked havoc on her erstwhile boyfriend's emotion before this.

He's the guy, or another beater. He says it's love. Lol

toye440:
Young man i speak from an endless wealth of experience, as i hv counselled more severe cases than this. I believe i know when love has gone awry and stale, i know when to hold on and when to quit or let go, and i can tell u there is nothing to salvage in this relationship.
If he laid his hands on u when u single, trust me he has the tendencies of knocking u out when u r married to him.
I want to believe this young man calling me out shares thesame proclivities as our pugilist boy friend.
He that has ears let him hear.

You've said it all. The way he's everywhere in support of the boyfriend makes it credible that he's the violent boyfriend looking for validation here.

Bbliss24:
that was before but he is okay now

When men are poor they are good. Give them a little money and they are too good for the woman they always claim they want her to struggle with him.

But you, madam, youdon't want to leave him. It's written all over your initial post. You are still debating leaving a violent man because he's blackmailing you? Because he's a good guy.
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If he's so good, why are you here?

Shortyy:
Things I read on Nairaland ehn. How can you live with someone for 5 years?? Someone you're not married to??

They are cohabiting. They are the ones who oppose marriage yet still want to play house. Of course they're tired of the relationship.

A man she's not married to is beating her, and she's still there listening to him talking about how much he spent. What hold does he have over her? And she's still telling us so many times that he's a good guy.

She doesn't need help or our opinions. She wants to be with him by all means, this good guy who beats her up. So romantic.

Arrewa:
Hypocrites!!

But they're free to call A northerner onye ugwu, call a Yoruba man afonjaa or ndi Ofe mmanu!

People that are filled with hatred and bitterness!!

That's how they once attacked Teni for calling Erica omo igbo.

These people can't take 5% of what they're dishing out to other tribes on daily basis.

You've pointed out a lot of things, but you didn't point out where and when they named any one song onye ugwu, or afonjaa, or ndi Ofe mmanu. Try and keep the balance with a reasonable argument.

grandstar:
A pedophile is considered a monster by people.because he takes advantage of minors, and some as young as 6 months. Calling it rape lightens the degree of the abuse.

I feel pedophile carries a bigger sting

6 and 9.

Pedo may not rape its victim, but rapist always will violate them whether young or old or male or female. That was rape more than pedophilia, because a pedo is attracted to young children, but it may channel its evil through child pornography. But a rapist will do its type of evil by acting on its attraction. Pedo is more a pervert than violator.


A rapist is by far worse.

phemiee1810:
Gone and I’m very fine. Tho I lost my job in the process but God dey and we muuveee thanks so much for the concern God bless you��

Bless you too. Good to hear you have made complete recovery.

vickertony:
The ear is a delicate organ mate, I had no idea if sickness like this ever existed until it happened to me.
They said it's probably viral infections that caused it, because I've never ever had an ear infection.
Sometimes washing ears could be dangerous, you mean syringing?
I worked on my anxiety, I wanted to take drugs but decided to go natural.
I just tell myself, it's my brain over working, trying to keep my balance.
The symptoms is still there, I feel off balance especially in the night, every other symptom has gone away.
I still have ear crackling sounds, comes and goes..
Still have slight anxiety sometimes....
The person had vertigo? What was the main complaints? Vestibular system disorder are of many types...

Wow.

Not only syringing, just washing and letting any water into the canal can cause infections of the ear leading to vestibular disorders.i was shocked to know this. because water has entered mine a lot. Some are autoimmune even.

The person had vertigo and was on drugs, but like you decided to go natural, and said they were finding themselves walking to the right even on a straight line, unable to walk, talk, anxiety, headaches etc. No crackling sound was reported. I'm just surprised to see anyone experienced that, because it was so strange when I heard it.

Nightstalker:
Not at all this isn't hollywood

I just don't like hugs from men or a fellow man touching me at all or standing close to me

With women I am good

But I get violent with men very easily

I can inflict severe injury in a man for the slightest reason

You have taken the right approach. Because all those small touchings are sexual to some sick people. Human contact should be limited.

grandstar:
The fault lies with your parents. They should have educated you about pedophiles and admonished you to report the pervert to them.

Your parent should have told you to feel free to tell them your problems. If you were free with them, you'd have told your parents your uncle hurt you.

How can you call rape pedophilia? Are you scared to call it what it is?

grandstar:
Why didn't you speak out?

Yes, why is he saying it many years later? Why didn't he say it when it happened? You know the other questions we should ask. The ones usually used to rubbish women when they come out to say it after years.

korilala:
Hmmm
Unforgettable...
BBHS...
Woke up in my bunk in the middle of the night to find my school father trying to apply some kind of lubricant to my anus hole...when I jolted out of bed he started begging...
Reported him when it was daytime and the motherfucker was expelled...
Good riddance to bad rubbish.

It seems male homosexual rape is very common. Why do men hide it? Why don't they learn how to control their lust? And yet people think women who say they were raped are lying. Yet this act above could happen in secondary School!

Kudos to you for reporting him, and kudos to the authorities for believing you.

Akamariner:
I don't know if they are trying to confirm if i am a gay, cause i rarely talk about girls, do not have a girlfriend either, and i am quite handsome.

There is one of my room mate, that just decide to share my bed with me (that is very common) but what is odd is, he tried fiddling with my penix, not once or twice.
And he only stop when i angrily speak it out in the front of the rest of us, although, we are a little family, and no one really makes it a big deal.


There was another bully also, who is wildly known to be a gay, who tries to molest me severally, but i just avoid that one, cause he is a known gay, and was even expelled when he raped a junior student.

Terrible! Gays!

DrKlever:
Yes. I had a senior who was my bunk mate but he stayed on the lower bunk. He bullied me so much i felt uncomfortable staying in the hostel. If by chance i stepped on his bed while climbing up, he beats me up. I was wandering why he hated me so much then one night i was fast asleep and felt some movements around me. Only for me to wake up to see my boxers pulled down and dude trying to stick his penis in my butthole. It was disgusting, i pushed him down and threatened to report him the following morning. He begged till i gave him some conditions after paying with his provisions and money. Since that day i became his senior, cause he washed my clothes dressed my bed. Fear of being reported to the principal

So he wanted to rape you?

vickertony:
No severe pain bro, I just had this feeling of swaying, rocking while walking.
I felt like I would fall while walking, before sudden onset of severe vertigo.
The vertigo was so severe it looked like I had a stroke.
I couldn't walk the first day without holding on to walls and chairs at home.
Gradually I started walking, the hospital diagnosed me with vertigo, vestibular system disorder and I was give drug to stabilise me.
Different symptoms including feeling like a drunk when walking, its worse in the night, severe dizziness, anytime I move my neck I just lose balance, red eyes which gradually went away.
Cracking sounds in the ear while talking, fear of going outside the house, severe anxiety and fear.
Right now I feel better but still have slight off balance feelings and I do balance excercises.
Are you asking for someone or yourself?

Asking for someone else. Saw someone give such complaints and thought it was an odd sickness. I felt it could've been a stroke or brain disease. I never knew the ears could be responsible for that. Seems that taking injections and even washing ones ears can cause this disorder.
Has the anxiety reduced as the symptoms have gone away?

phemiee1810:
Started with headache then dark if not black stools dark urine (color like concentrated Lipton) overall body pains and so on. Back to your question I ran some tests which includes widal,liver function, hepatitis, scan HIV and all that was when they discovered the inflammation of the liver then I was placed on new sets of drugs minimum of 3 drops daily and 4 injections

Wow. This sounds serious. Are you better now? All symptoms gone?

Jodha:
See I don't want to insult yhu...but please don't ever move mad in my mentions again....

Take yhur mental instability elsewhere...

A woman chooses what she wants in a man: she's picky, let her wait for Shiloh, go and make him out of clay, there are few men, take any one that comes your way, lazy looking for made man, help him grow

A man chooses what he wants in a woman: a real g, he knows what he wants, don't settle for less brother, she must have hips, huge breasts, flat stomach, she must be productive and contribute to the family, dump that liability, cook etc etc

Men lack brains. So empty. And they feel good about it.

ChoCho54:
I'm congratulating the red pillers, the 39 idiots.

Lol