₦airaland Forum

ArcSEMPECJ:
Once a lady comes into his life now,.....booooooooooooooom

He will change that decision......or may be the mother is protecting her son's money ....

She might even be the one he willed all his assets to....

Hakimi fantasy on steroids.

Culture? Whose culture? The UK culture?

Anything to justify their masochism. Small wonder he's single.

Farfalla:

Magnoliaa:
This I have noticed.

You may be right. It just might be a man. I wouldn't put anything past that gendar.


You remember folly's matter lol.

Who could forget that crazy repeated comedy?

Women desperate to be called Mrs. The man was devilish but she was plain dumb. Or maybe it was their carefully orchestrated plot to garner sympathy and funding.

Magnoliaa:
I kinda doubt about that one. She's been a regular commenter and the few times I've come across her posts, I don't get the feeling that's it's a man.

It's a man masquerading as a very desperate to please woman. He often gets commendations from his bros.

I've never come across any of his posts that don't give off the same vibes of man-pleasing.

If it's not a man, that would be hard to believe. Or she could be like the wife of follykaze who was in a rustic relationship yet belting out what she thought would change the man.

Magnoliaa:
Are you okay? You loss your way come inside my mention?


If you don't get this smelly pickmeism away from my front.

It's a man.

LilMissFavvy:
He looks dangerous. Sad that she had the wisdom to get degrees and certificates, yet lacked the wisdom to chose the right man.

Probably inexperience. This is why parents shouldn't cage their children.

But inexperience shouldn't have made her that blind.

2mch:
You made the claim. You have to prove it. So you are one of this mad people on the internet who say things like they have mental problem?

You clearly are the one with mental issues since you cannot give proof but expect it.

If you have herpes, don't disturb me with it.

Keep talking to yourself about yourself.

Danmisra:
The lesson I learnt from this hot drama is that keep sensitive information and anything that doesn't concern your spouse from knowing it. Pls learn to keep a secret and correct it before it goes out , not every grown up person is matured and know how keep his mouth shut

Exactly this.

But those things were revealed to damage her mother's reputation irreparably. For selfish reasons.

lapintoz:
This na serious family matter o.....some bonds don shatter irreversibly. I feel for you.

Your pursuit of projecting the truth and vindictiveness towards your mum has really damaged some of your family bonds beyond repairs. Try and salvage what you can and leave the rest to God. Nobody is perfect.

The hate is clear to see.

People will give her a pat on the back and go back to their families.

airsaylongcome:
They are paid to. ₦30k a month for the foot soldiers I hear. May have been reviewed to ₦50k with the biting economy. $50 per month to parrot nonsense is the height of it if you ask me

2mch:
Prove your claim with a medical publication. Don’t just speak out of ignorance.

Have you proved your ignorance with a medical publication?

Stevenbright:
Just ignore all of them for now. Time will surely heal all concerned!!

Time doesn't heal everything, not even until death.

If your family tells you something, you don't need to go spilling it about like a kid. That is how family bad blood starts. It takes one reckless person trying to report to another person what this or that other person said about them, for whatever reason be it revenge or stupidity, not knowing the person who said it has moved on. The recipient of the news will carry it about like a club foot of hate forever.

Clearly the OP hates her mother, so expect her to spill some more things that are best left unsaid to get her siblings on her side. People like that are difficult to love.

2mch:
Herpes does not cause cancer. Please show me a medical publication that states that. Yes 99% of people have herpes. If you have ever had a cold sore on your mouth, that is herpes.

Herpes causes cancer. It is present in cancer patients. 99% of people don't have herpes.

airsaylongcome:
Stockholm syndrome I guess. Cos I don't get how they would believe a loan would solve the underlying problem of scarcity. USD is scarce because we aren't earning enough of it. A loan just kicks the can of worms down the road. Dollar is still going to to depreciate to ₦1300 in a matter of months loan or not. What even infuriates me is that they took a loan for consumption! To buy cars and all other kinds of consumption for themselves. And some e-rats are running loose celebrating the "economic genius" of a Tribulation.

Lol @tribulation.

That's why they're sheep—they actually, really believe politicians. And worse still, they can repeat what the politicians said with conviction.

Or maybe they are paid to.

2mch:
It’s a skin infection. It does not cause cancer. It just cause blisters it does not itch. A lot of people carrying it don’t even know they had it because they never had a breakout so they are just going around spreading it. HPV causes cancer not Herpes.

If you collect and give MouthAction, chances are that you have herpes. Herpes on the genitals is same as the cold sore you have on your mouth and 99% of people have herpes. Especially the one on the mouth. Most people even get it as babies from their parents kiss. This is why I let no one kiss my children on their mouth. Or they get in big trouble.

Herpes causes cancer, and is present in cancer patients. 99% of people do not have herpes.

yewit37486:
I'm surprised a few people here see the guy as good looking, absolutely nothing attractive about him.

Really, anything goes for them.

popesco123:
It doesn't cause cancer.

quote author=BRATISLAVA post=126842535]

It causes cancer. But all viruses are dangerous. And none have a cure.

Ok.

popesco123:
Although I heard it is a killer disease like HIV.

quote author=BRATISLAVA post=126841886]

It's a virus.

This is how some South African snake oil salesmen claim they've had the cure to HIV since 1997.

It causes cancer. But all viruses are dangerous. And none have a cure.

Roboto11:
Guy looks mixed-race to me.

Might be the photograph.

He doesn't to me. But he also doesn't look attractive.

airsaylongcome:
Lol! Some of you really believe the propaganda hook, line and sinker

They love the propaganda. And you have to wonder how humans became sheep that deeply.

legitnow1:
GOOD FOR U.


AFTER U FINISHED bleeping WHITE WOMEN, U STILL HAD MIND TO ALLOW YOUR DAUGHTER GO AND FVUK RACIST WHITE MAN.


U THINK FVUKING CURE THE HATE.


JUST LOOK AT YORUBA AND IGBO, BOTH TRIBE HATE EACH OTHER WITH PASSION BUT WE GET SOME MARRIAGES.


MORAL OF THE STORY, SEND HER BACK HOME AND EVEN USE YOUR HAND FIND MAN FOR HER.

BLACK MAN, SHE NEED SOME MELANNY BACK.


RIP

But she's dead.

VULCAN:
What a sad story.

A rich businessman without sons has nobody to continue the business legacy.

This is an extreme of what I have seen on numerous occasions - a successful businessman sends his daughter to the best of school but they get deceived by a silver tongue and lose staggering sums of the father's money to a so called boyfriend or husband.

If you are a rich bisinessman and you don't have a son you can train amd leave your business to- then once you get to a certain age, sell the business and give some assets to the daughter/s then enjoy the remaining money because male gold-diggers use radar to locate and sweet talk dumb rich girls.

Imagine how everything her father taught her fell on deaf ears ontop a stranger that was mistreating her.

Just like Eve fell to the voice of Satan disregarding all God had done for them.

And the yeye mother did not slap sense into her.

What a waste!

She's a dumb rich girl because she dated a struggling broke boy with a bright future? Someone she could grow with? After all, don't men only remember and celebrate women they struggled with? How is what she did wrong? Isn't it the submissive fantasy loved here?

Or has the suffering anthem of Nigerian boys suddenly changed, because it's a thing that changes to suit the narrative and this time she needs to be blamed for the coercive control of the boy?

Roboto11:
No be her type and colour be that?

Stop projecting your inferiority on others.

Her type, but definitely not her color. Her father is a Nigerian man.

baralatie:
narcissistic behaviour in relationships is not gender based though.
There are women who are also narcissistic.
But this is coerssion

You are right. But for certain posters to read it and then claim something is sketchy or that she is guilty of being bullied to death—they don't believe it because it's a lady that is dead and their bro must be innocent.

...Emphasis on narcissistic men.

Godada:



This reminds of a time I got a lady home. I was hot and ready to go.

We got down to the business of the day then, I took of the bra......

I found out the bra was padded. Nothing dey up.

Even the pant dey padded.

That was it for me.

I gently disengaged and discharged her off.

Padded tale.

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

If this isn't a fake story, you know why she's tired of talking to you but you're coming here to play innocent. You know what you did to her that is causing it, but you will claim you don't.

popesco123:
But herpes can cured traditionally

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=126832527]The guy is a strong wi*zard. He gave her an incurable STD and still manipulated her finances. I pity her father, God save us from having a fooli$h daughter.

It's a virus.

This is how some South African snake oil salesmen claim they've had the cure to HIV since 1997.

mysticwarrior:
You are right, I don't see any reason why she didn't report to the police that she is being blackmail, If she wasn't actually doing anything sketchy.

Have you never heard of coercive control, a form of domestic violence wielded by narcissistic men, or is it just that Nigerian men need a woman to blame always?

It's right there in the article.

Sketchy indeed.

LilMissFavvy:
The guy is a strong wi*zard. He gave her an incurable STD and still manipulated her finances. I pity her father, God save us from having a fooli$h daughter.

Looking at that guy, he looks unattractive, self obsessed and dangerous. Typical billboard advert of men to avoid. He's likely a misogynist. And because he thinks he's such a stud he probably has more than herpes. The usual reckless narcissistic tendencies.

You'd really wonder what some women see in certain men. What they think is worth dying for. And his ears are too big. A huge red flag.

Kobojunkie:
Stop writing rubbish Abeg!

Trying to connect the celibacy of women to her post and subsequent ones. Trying to draw a clothesline from Earth to Jupiter.

Kobojunkie:
Later become beautiful at the end?

Yes, you just read that. Another advocate for women to war room and die in it