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Kobojunkie:
1. You want a woman who was raised in a rich home to come and experience poverty with you? Was that some sort of agreement you both made when you got married that you would both live solely off your money and not a dime from her own family money?

2. The business they are planning to open is for her, abi? Not for you? Why should they INCLUDE you in the plan? She is from that family so should she not at least get her share of the family money for herself or something?

3. When you were dating her, did you not notice this same thing about her?

RosyIsBlessed:
Why are you feeling intimidated? Her family is doing what you can't and instead of to be grateful you want her to succumb to poverty just to massage your ego. You need to work on your self esteem

Lordatkinson:
I'm currently experiencing this too on my marriage, but mine is not as bad as this. May be, is because my own wife's family are not as rich as you have depicted your in-laws.

Apart from the fact she is a spoilt brat, do you think she actually loves you? If yes, then, there is a way out.
My candid advice is that, don't fight her. When she needs your attention, like talking to you, just ignore and don't go far away from her. Your countenance will signal her that something is not alright in her home. I think that should bring her mind back to you.
However, if she actually loves material life than her marriage, my man, just cool temper.
When you carry proper, you will pay her in the same coin. For now, face your work and hustle more.
Gbam!

YouAreNobody:
Lolzzzzz....I like how you didn't include cats in best friends

Urheadmaster:
Please don't kill it.


Allow it to move freely and watch it becomes your best friend

Kobicove:
Is this a real incident that actually happened or one of those Twitter lies?

AfroBeatDiary:
Nigerians calling owl a strange bird in this century.

jaephoenix:
You still don't understand.
Someone with viral conjunctivitis has hyperlacrimations(excessive eye secretions) and gritty eyes, and thus would rub his eyes to clear them and reduce the pain, itchiness and fluid. Now he'll come to the hospital and open the doors with virus(and bacteria superinfection) laden hands. The next patient with something different like malaria comes, opens the same door and picks up some virus. Then rubs his eyes or nose, few days later gets it. He may also pick it if he borrows a pen or a personal object from the conjunctivitis guy. Would you say the second person(malaria patient) has poor hygiene?
That's why I regularly wipe down my consulting room door handles with spirit swab after I get these cases. To prevent the next patient picking it up

jaephoenix:
Its not about hygiene. You can have the best hygiene and have viral conjunctivitis every day. Why? It's spread via body fluids and droplets. So you can pick it up from door handles, exchanging pens etc

99thEnemy:
You are also a 'wee wee' doctor I see.

airsaylongcome:
Fight it off for the kicks. It's almost like enjoying the triumph. The sleep is too deep and it's not as refreshing as a non-induced sleep.

jaephoenix:
If you notice, I added viral conjunctivitis (aka Apollo by laymen) to my differential diagnoses. It presents with eye grittiness which may explain the ibuprofen.
I'm not defending his prescription tho. There were mistakes there.
By the way, hope you know viral conjunctivitis is now prevalent. Take precautions

99thEnemy:
Quack Quack Quack.

EMCHIZ:
Chloramphenicol eyedrops,
Tetracycline tablets 500mg
Ibuprofane tablets 400mg

99thEnemy:

airsaylongcome:
Hahahahahahahahaha....I don't "like" the drowsiness per se. I like the "fight" to overcome it. When I was younger (and as long as I wasn't driving) I could take a tab and fight off the drowsiness. But these days (age is a "bastard" even half tablet is by the grace of God. I've figured out that a 90 minute snooze will fix the drowsiness

jaephoenix:
Could be allergic, vernal or viral conjuctivitis

99thEnemy:
Chloramphenical eye drops, piriton, Ibuprofen, tetracycline...

And you mentioned flu?😳

Chloramphenical and tetracycline are both antibiotics of which non is used to treat flu.

Piriton is for allergy and reactions only.

Ibuprofen is a painkiller ..Yes can be used for headache but also for other types of pain too...

This your medical condition prediction from prescription get K-leg.

lovediehatelive:
When you press you nose, that white White thing that comes out of the pores on your nose.

Naturally, I have an oily skin. Before it only appears on my nose. But now it has started appearing on my face. Like my whole face. It's in the pores of my face.

How do I reduce it?

What dietary changes are needed? Or any other method?

From Google, it seems it is sebaceous filament

Please advise, I don't want to use any harsh thing on my face o.

Reminderz:
possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

kapelvej:
😁😁 why qualify the headache with big ?

airsaylongcome:
What's that scribbled between piriton and tetracycline? Do Piriton and Loratidine work for allergies? I've got very terrible allergies to spores and dust. In full allergy mode, Actifed and Otrivin for me to stand a chance

Nopretence:
nooo,the patient had eye issue

dchamp234:
How you take know? Amebo.

EmmyMaestro:
Let him watch his back, if he does anyhow she will do the same thing to him

EmmyMaestro:
So after killing him what next

YoshihideSuga:
Toks2008?

Kobojunkie:
Why is the woman to "gift" her husband this but the husband is not equally considered to owe the same or similar gift to her? Why?

2. Many of our mothers suffered needlessly in the name of marriage. The majority of them eventually abandoned in marriage. So many of their teachings turned out to have been born of delusions they had regarding marriage and not of their actual experiences in marriage. Fortunately, many of their children never forgot the lessons they learned from actually watching their mothers slave away in the name of holding up marriage.

Nazgul:
Exactly.

This is one of the numerous action most females make in their relationships and end up remaining single.

Some girls might choose not to cook for a man, and he'll marry them and even hire a cook.

You might try it, and your boyfriend would dump you.

I know a girl during my university days, who cohabitated with her boyfriend from year 1 to final year. They're happily married today.

Some girls might try it and end up having series of abortions, STDs and a heartbreak.

The issue here is to understand your man, and make decisions based on what's best for both of you and not because another lady said so.

Never compare your relationship with others.

Kobojunkie:
For 3 years, the welfare of the kids have not been tops on the man's mind, according to OP. But you suggest she continue to drag him along for the very welfare of same kids. How so?

As expected. You are more interested in passing on another delusion to OP than giving her advice for her current problem.