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Magnoliaa:
This confusion is confusioning my head.

Stay at the back seat, but operate from the passenger seat?? ?? ??

The more you look at their logic the more you can tell their mental acrobatics to stay on top are failed.

Magnoliaa:
This is what morality means to you?


Are there anything on your list here that a husband can show to his wife too, or it is forbidden for men to express these qualities as you've described with their wives?

Should a husband not be peaceful? Should he not be understanding? Should he not show support for his wife and deal with her with great understanding? I you think these things are okay for men to imbibe, why are you calling it submission for women?

No.

The bible and its laws were made for women. Always preaching about women. Meanwhile the men are over-lording themselves to perdition.

There's this guy who every Sunday preaches tirelessly against women, demonizes them, rails against them and doesn't even think he needs to preach about sexual purity and heaven to his bros. His message is always that women are witches, destroyers etc etc out to get these innocent guys who don't have any interest whatsoever in women . So they tend to think it's all about the women doing right, meanwhile they are nothing to write home about. Women are responsible for them being sexually perverse. Women are responsible for them being terrible husbands and fathers. Women are behind all their failures.

Just watch them creating threads about women and commenting and you'll realize they're empty, demented and brainwashed.

Magnoliaa:
If I asked you to oblige me on your Christian journey and faith now, you will chicken out like your fellow guy above. If I asked you if you've had a personal experience with Jesus Christ, I doubt if you'll have something reasonable to tell me.

When you got saved? When you got baptised - both in Spirit and in water? Or how diligent you've followed the Great Commission?

Your moniker alone itself is sus.

Because you want to take the Bible on what it says about marriage, meanwhile you probably haven't taken other things it says about salvation, condemnation, etc., as truth.

The only verse in the bible that determines ones fate and takes everyone to paradise: women be submissive to your husbands.

According to Nigerian men. No other men are so hung up on it.

They don't like the one verse that actually determines their fate: any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

Magnoliaa:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


There are about 200+ countries in the world today, and only less than TEN of them are involved in 'formal war'. In contrast, an average of 250 babies are being delivered per minute, running into hundreds of million in a year, with maternal deaths between 200,000 and 400,000 per annum; women do 65% of all physical housework, putting in about 2 hours daily; toddlers are nursed for roughly 5 hours in a day, give or take their age differences. These are things women do actively, everything. All year round. And we've not even considered corporate work.

The last world war ended in 1945; that gives us about 78 years until now and no other war has been tagged the third.

For a population of 200 million, Nigeria has less than 500,000 soldiers. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Even if we add all the other paramilitary personnel, dem no fit reach 10 million, and that is me being generous. So the rest of us (including millions of men) are civilians and non-combatants.

The last war we fought in this country ended ended in 1970.


So you're SERIOUSLY, like SERIOUSLY comparing labour, pregnancy and child- and home-rearing to war?


Since they've given birth to you, which woman have you gone to lay down your life for? Have you ever been conscripted for occupation?

Who is the woman you are sacrificing your life for in big 2023? I can't believe this not-so-bright comparison you tried to make, LMFAO.

Lol. Stop it, please.

Wars that being creates daily by men are what he's complaining about laying down his life for. He thinks it's women he is doing that for. But it's for old men.

PoliteActivist:
I don't see what's funny. If you work hard and finally have some money, tell me something more satisfying you can do with some of it than give it to a woman

It's funny because what you are telling them is the truth. Give a man money and the next thing us to have 20 girlfriends and if none of them want him, it is 20 prostitutes to lavish his new found wealth on. Or to marry women to spend the money on. Half of their fantasy constitutes having a lot of women. Women to spend on.

It is only here they come to demonize women for wanting money, when all their validation is to give women money as a show of strength.

It is funny because why are you making such posts all over the thread? Lol. It's polite, but what is the activism there?

Magnoliaa:
Won tun gbe tun tun de.

A life without pussy = a life of loneliness and bitterness for men? So men's happiness and fulfilment in life is intricately tied to access to sex?


This is what happens when you swallow agenda buzzwords without no thought and mental filtering of your own. You end up regurgitating rubbish.

Lack of money will not lead to a life of bitterness for men. Poverty will not. Unfulfilment will not, broken relationships will not, childhood trauma will not, a lack of support system and community from family and friends will not. Work pressure will not. Mental illness will not. Social anxiety and low self-esteem will not. It is pussy, of all things, that will lead to a life of loneliness for men.

Can we also go further to hypothesize that the bitter men we see all over NL are the way they are because they're not getting any pussy? It's not as a result of heartbreak or women not being good people. Nope, they're incels because they're simply unattractive to women.

And you say you're the superior gender, when you've unwittingly attributed this much power to the pussy. So much so that a man's life can breakdown and get derailed from not matching sexually with women.

Lol!

PoliteActivist:
It is not what you think!! Mostly we're helping you be a man by collecting that money, though we have our own. If we're not there to take it what will you do with it?? If you work hard and finally have some money, if there is no woman to give it to, what good is it to you. We prepare ourselves and make ourselves available to be given the money - something you should really thank us for if you think about it

Lol!

Kobojunkie:
Where is the statement in bold though?

So, a man will pick any woman — even one without an ambition for hustle — and then turn around and mandate she must have a hustle while committing to him? Doesn't that sound a tad... I don't know .... abnormal to you?

Lol.

You are dealing with Nigerian men. They are so logical they sound stupid.

Look, this thread is a plea for a woman from the west. But he will be ready to become her slave and forget he's a man when she not only helps him with the finances, but he helps her with birthing, rearing and everything else beneath him as an African Nigerian man.

He would gladly clean out her toilet pots with his tongue once she has no financial demands from him. It's a gold digger thing.

Poverty and its misogynistic "logical" appearances.

It is inappropriate for a man to make financial, emotional, supportive, cooking and cleaning demands in a relationship.

Just go in there, have s*x and walk out. It's the only thing you would want to contribute and gain from relationships anyway. Anything beyond that and you really want your mommy.

The other things you expect from the people you won't financially fend for are the things you get as your birthright in the Nigerian patriarchy. Start crying divorce and she took everything from me. Then humbly wash the dishes because your "money" means nothing in the real world, and you will be true equals outside of finances.

Farfalla:
Is selecting not part of courtship/dating?

If animals in the wild have the luxury of selecting their mates, why shouldn't humans?

Lol. You have a very good point.

Help us ask them why it's so wrong. Maybe they are hurt and want to mock such women because they didn't select them?

I'm surprised that animals do courtship thingies, but Nigerian men will dare not let women do so. But they are free to themselves.

Impliment:
Ladies with no conscious. You sit down in a restaurant and allowed your fellow human being spend 70k just because he asked you out. There is God!

Who took her to the restaurant, herself? If he knew he can't afford it, why did he take her there? He should've asked a guy out so that he would spend nothing and be equal with him.

Preservedfish:
Most people don't have any idea what a date is


I marvel when men choose restaurant as a date


C'mon man


There are a lot of dates even low budget ones you don't have to spend much as a man


Date is an avenue to know the girl more not to gallop more food


When I was in uni , I took my girl back then to love garden
I bought Ice cream for both of us at the rate of 100 naira
We enjoyed it and discussed various intellectual topics.

And you married her and had 11 babies with her because she is the best women on Earth for helping you pay nothing, and the most intelligent woman for sticking with you when you had nothing, right?

What stopped you from meeting her in a library? Where is her woman of the year award? Didn't she give you peace?

LilMissFavvy:
She is a very good woman.

And she's going to suffer from it.

But he has done it with all the other women in the world, so what is his announcement?

Mimicry of holiness.

LilMissFavvy:
Marriage contracted under deceit . If she wasn't considerate and stops having $ex with him, they will say women are bahd. . Totally wrong to hide sensitive issues.

If she were barren you would hear much worse than this.

descarado:
That is the origin of homo.

He will get a man that will give it to him through his bum.
And tomorrow come and tell us he is liberated.

LMAO.

Are you a man or a woman? Lol.

AlexBells:
Let everyone be mad na, since they constantly remind him that they are older, let him remind them what is expected of them at their age

Lol.
Maybe they're frustrated at not having any source of income or marriage, so they are taking it out on him.
He shouldn't provoke them to curse his daughters to suffer the same fate.
He could try telling them that they're bullying him, whatever they make of it.

AlexBells:
Don’t leave oo, talk sense to them, are you the only son? Remind them that you have long expected them to be married but you are just enduring and they are not helping. You are the man, don’t let those girls push you out, it is not funny out there, next time get a loud speaker and play music and develop thick skin and don’t let anything they say get to you, if your mum trouble you, remind her that you did not invite her to give birth to you and henceforth tell her that she MUST take care of you or heaven will fall, where their madness start is where yours should start and now is the time.

Lol. Don't know why this seems funny.

usagee36:
Religious backwardness. Better look for someone to get you pregnant. Marriage doesn't work anymore. Besides, you are 39. After wasting your youthful years selecting

How do you know that she wasted her youthful years selecting?

olisaEze:
Not a single one of them is acting like who has lost a loved one. No thought for the future of his kid, they're instead just bickering over property and what who and who should inherit! Shameless people

But it's the wizard who began it.

He made sure everyone heard the worst if the widow, and clearly it's worked. All the men are blind to his moves.

pafun:
Just go and do DNA testing. Shikena.

What's stopping him from exhuming his son and snatching his grandson to do the mythical test, since that is so important to his claim to undeserved wealth?

He looks like a backwater village man, so of course he's at perpetual war with women unless when he's fornicating.

Poor men and misogyny are inseparable.

Shyboyk:
Nigerian girls would not understand this

If they do that, you will be the first to scream that they are liabilities and leeches.

Nigerian boys don't know what they want.

More fodder for the boys. At least seun knows what sells, kind of like how Tate knows what he's doing to them.

That woman looks like she would love nothing more than to be killed by her husband. The type that has relations while nursing a split lip and black eye and feels like she's a good woman and still doesn't know why she's enjoying the battery

Pepperdemisback:
Sorry, I can't trail it. Alleged to hang herself with a wrapper. It doesn't make any sense at all. People are committing murder and using the economy as a cover up.

It really doesn't make any sense. The constant suicide is now a trend for clicks.

Barims:
And the award of the dumbest person of the year goes to you.👏👏😆😆

No. You are the dumbest person of the year and next year. Always.

Originalsly:
The UK has culture? ... he is talking about African culture period... the culture of not abandoning your parents. Is this not the reason "Senior Citizens Homes" are are veryyyy rare in the whole of Africa?

Who are the homeless old people we were shown on this here forum being fed by Mr. T Joshua? Aren't they part of your mythical African culture? Why are they committing suicide all over the forum headlines?

There is no African culture. There's just subjugation. These are people who believe in everything except the parts that put them on top of another human being.

This culture thing is a crutch for African men with outlandish behaviors. Same culture they deny when it's time to pay bride prices, because it doesn't favor them. Same culture they deny to provide for their families because it will mean they have to work hard, and it isn't favorable to them. Same culture they want because it will ensure their family sits on top of any woman unfortunate to be with them. Same culture they want for polygamy because that's their favorite fantasy.

African culture, the crutch of selfish, callow men.

Originalsly:
Isn't Davido American?... guess he should never be saying anything about African culture. What are his insecurities that need support? You seem to know more about him than he knows about himself.

A person who doesn't live in a culture shouldn't use it as a crutch when it suits the ridiculous thing they want to do.

Originalsly:
The UK has culture? ... he is talking about African culture period... the culture of not abandoning your parents. Is this not the reason "Senior Citizens Homes" are are veryyyy rare in the whole of Africa?

What African culture? Isn't he British? Or has he been living since birth in Nigeria to talk about his non-existent culture, but that he needs a way to support his insecurities?

Pepperdemisback:
I saw one 7 year old commit suicide by hanging, how can that be possible?

7 year old? Link to the story, please.

Pepperdemisback:
All these suicide everyday need to be investigated. They seem like murders to me with suicide as cover ups.

Kind of like the time innocent wall geckos were killing Nigerians everyday. They would kill a person then throw one into their pot.

Or people selling poisoned suya meats. They would kill people and say it's what they ate.

Nice cover ups.