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Misogynists.

Last time it was a guy with halitosis. Instead they will say it's because they were broke that they were rejected and now they're rich they will buy every girl who rejected them. That all that girls want and need is money.

This is one of the numerous reasons you're rejected.

Fuckyoumod:
you are very lucky. @ 36 with 4 kids? What's still left of your body for that man to enjoy at 4 kid s? Once married?

Women far younger than you are still fast and praying to find a man that is willing to commit to them.

You are lucky, but the choice is yours, however I want you to know that it will never come again if you miss it. It's life a time opportunity.

Go and prove to people and families that your first marriage was never your fault.

It's easy to bash men and demonize them the moment you are no longer together even when it's all your fault and making that things went south.

From all indication, it's clear to me that, that man wants a companion, a woman in his life, somebody he can spend the rest of his life with. Somebody who he would call a wife. A woman with less drama, his children are grown up, married and far away.

See, my advice to you is simple, if any day you make up your mind to marry him. Prepare your mind that he comes first in your life before anybody even your children.

If you know you can't put in first in your life as your husband, don't marry him. Else.... It Might not end well.
Taking another man's children in and standing up for them as their father is a massive price and sacrifice only few men can make, you must reward him with love and care first before anyone else in your life, because he is your husband.

Lastly, I will not tell you to accept him or reject him. It's only you and your decision alone to make.

What is left of his body to enjoy at 57 after two children and who knows how many wives? Seems a lot of you don't know what a woman in her thirties looks like.

A lot of growing up needed with the sort of comments we see from male posters.

RosyIsBlessed:
Focus on raising your children and forget marriage for now. Let it not be from frying pan to fire situation. My advice!!!

She should know at her age that she can have a partner without marriage.

ValCon888:
Firstly, a single mother of four is a steep hill to climb for any man. You're lucky someone is ready and willing to accept you and your four kids into his home.

Not to cohabit, but to make an honest woman out of you by asking for your hand in marriage.

At the end of the day, the choice is yours. If you don't want to then don't. For me, I'd advise you to for the security and companionship.

One thing's certain; offers like this only happen once in a lifetime.

I hope 20 years from now you won't look back at this moment and be gnashing your teeth.

When will you people get tired of the bolded? You don't know anything about men. Because a man did something you've sworn they/you won't, it means it's a steep hill to climb? It's not.

But of course, it's another opportunity to contribute fanning the flames of the false scarcity/value of men and try to make her desperate because it's a WiDoWeR (give us all a break, didn't he kill his wife too?) asking and she should be desperate and glad that a man is looking her way. What bloody offer that happens once in a lifetime for Pete's sake? Men will always look the way of women, the way of single mothers and married women. Go to any mall, any park, any office and tell us it isn't true. It is not as special as you make it seem.

This is another ego-fanning cum woman-shaming session. It's not about what she wants, rather it's about forum males perception about the "anomaly" that a man actually wants an older mother.

Half of you on the forum need to grow up. Who told you that this is a rare occurrence? Who says she must take it and feel lucky about it? Who says if women don't accept men they will gnash their teeth? Is it not what men do?

His response proves that prophecy can mean anything at any time. Who will interpret his David analogy? To avoid being like the person who falsely predicted Hilary Clinton winning, we now have this.

Congratulations to pastorhood. More fun threads ahead.

Magnoliaa:
Hey, dear.

I saw your mention of the other moniker up there.

I was banned. Just coming out of it on both accounts.

Welcome back!

How was the vacation?

Looking forward to more of your amusing yet deep takes on matters arising.

Penthomi:
People, I took some minutes to go through this human being's previous posts, nothing positive, so much bitterness and hate being churned out from one person.

I shudder to imagine what his insides must look like, not to talk of smell. This in my opinion is his way of crying out for help, maybe he can still be saved.

Please take a minute to speak peace into his storm, maybe there is still something of value, no matter how little, worth saving in him.

God bless you, Mr classrep that is not morally bankrupt but has sniffed the stinking underwear of all Nigerian girls and has been with all the women in world to know that Nigerian girls are the worst.

May your circle of relevance extend beyond the screen of your phone.

Lol. Preach.

BigJoe19:
He didn’t name them same name, one is King Andrea and the other is King Churchill Jnr, he always add king to all his male son’s names.

Why name both king when he's not royalty? How many parents name their children with the same name from different women? Even Nick Cannon doesn't do that. Clearly he's trying hard to spite his ex, and while at it, create enmity in his household.

Mindlog:
You know very well you are the least human before God and man to advocate for virginity because you groomed a 16 year old minor, began having sex with her at 17 and still sexually active with her but your disillusionment convinces you that you have moral rights to advocate for sexual purity in women before marriage......you are a sad excuse for a human being.

What makes you think he only began that when she was 17? It probably began since she was 12, but he doesn't want to face the music for paedophilia. From his posts, it's clear that children aren't off his radar.

sexy74:
You are writing with emotions them not staying with you don't stop relationships but helps cut a lot that will happen.
When elders talk listen and learn .

Cut a lot of what? You don't cut off your friends when married, you don't cut out your umbilical cord, but you believe your family should be cut off, because the only way a marriage can work is in isolation, by your standards.

The problem is that while trying to be "unemotional", you have painted the world black and white. And it is only when you are grown you will realize that all those extremes are pointless. It's why more people need EQ.

Even people who keep their family out still have failed marriages. And by then they don't even have anyone to carry their snot coated faces to.

Odewaleadesoye:


Should I keep it as pet or let it go through my stomach as pepper soup.

Eat it, green man. Looks very fleshy.

Wasn't this guy a guest on the forum some weeks ago? How come he didn't attend his question and answer session except 3 or 4 questions? If he did more than that, that's a mystery to us all.

sexy74:
My advice is call your mum and have a gear to heart talk with her, what led to the sudden quarrels.
In as much based on what you said I don't like what your mother did, you cannot trust all of them they are women.
I believe there must be something your mother has seen that is heavy for her to talk with her mouth.
I support that idea which your mother said that your mother inlwas should have gone nad come back, it's for your own good you would not understand, but you will as time passes.
Another advice don't let your inlwas stayore than one mont h I. Your house, e get reason.
May wisdom never depart from you

Really? Why? Did your spouse drop from the moon that their family can't stay with them for a bit? Are yours allowed to? Or perhaps because you got married it means you don't have umbilical cords any longer?

You sound like his mother. Is it a religious or tribal thing?

At this rate you will read that nephews/nieces and cousins can't visit each other at home. Because their uncles and aunts are married, and married people must live in isolation to make their marriages work.

All these juvenile preconceptions are what cause problems in marriage and between in-laws. Bigoted and unreasonable rules. Poor socialization and understanding of life.

LMAO

Vegetables have really seen it all.

In-laws must not like each other, but at least they should be civil. It can't be that difficult.

pocohantas:
She opened a YouTube page specially for that.

Lol.

You have to give it to her, she's dogged.

pocohantas:
In her defence, she actually posted receipts.
So, she is not lying and I know she isn’t.

What complicated people. Why doesn't she just add them to her rant?

Ever8090:
And the way hungry Nigerians and hungry Nigerians drag each other on social media, you will think Nigeria and Ghana are sworn enemies.

But why didn't you tell us when he was alive so that we for thank am....

What happens on naraland when someone donates and they find out who it is?

pocohantas:
Yes, they all are unclean. From the first to the last. However, when they separated, Tonto clearly said she doesn’t want him to have anything to do with their son. She said he is capable of killing the child as he is diabolical. He reserves the right to fight if he really wants to, but he chose not to because he is indeed deadbeat. She is not the first wife and forget her reference to his other wives, she never cared about them. When she unveiled him, bloggers came up with receipts of his past ways and dubiousness. Tonto insulted everybody and went about posting gifts he supposedly bought for her. Now she says he never bought them.

Churchill does a good job gaslighting her. But I really do not care about both of them. I said, I would never coparent with a partner like Tonto.

Both of them should produce receipts or else they should keep up the stress relief/entertainment.

Their problem is deep. His silence is not innocence. Her rants aren't all lies.

They even have similar looking mouths.

Any gender to fear here today?

pocohantas:
Churchill is far from innocent. In fact, when Tonto started flaunting him, she called him “Mr X”. She was hiding his face and people told her he is a yahoo boy. No be today Tonto own start. Same with Malivelihood, her bf before Churchill. Then Kpokpogarri. She can’t be dating all these men, calling them rich and flaunting gifts. Only for them to break up and she starts claiming she fed them. All of them!

I wouldn’t know if it is true or not. I said if I have someone like Tonto that denigrates me and changes the name of our child to her name - I WON’T PAY ONE NAIRA.

It could be that she attracts that particular type of man, builds them up and scrams when there's heat in their kitchen. She's no saint, but looking at all those men, they clearly have no observable source of income. She could be lying, but not all the time. All those men have huge skeletons in their closets too.

They all look unclean in varying ways. It's hard to tell what attracts a woman to such men physically. She shouldn't be surprised with the outcome.

Isn't that deadbeat-ism? Name or genetics should matter? Is that a legitimate reason? @bolded

Oh well, his Instagram fatherhood. Their baby.

Adakintroy:
I have. they are good people. What about ur dad?

What does anyone else's father have to do with what you said about your mother?

Did you see anyone else writing about their parents in order to rubbish the next gender? You see why I told you it's stupidity what you're doing here?

I mean, you're the one rubbishing your mother publicly in order to score virtual points with the brigade who don't give a sh8t about her, except that we all know what sort of place you come from. Clearly she isn't good, as you've so enlightened us. But the word on the street still remains: handle your female member family matters and stop projecting them on everyone else.

Now we can see why kids here post hateful unfounded comments. They're suffering. Try and heal. See past your pain.

Adakintroy:
I know you not a bitter soul. You nice somewhere down there..but fear no let you show am..no worry men a Good people. We here for you. I. You can come out now. We won't hurt you.

Usual rubbish to expect from red pill boy.

Go and face your mother and sisters first.

Adakintroy:
Stop de act like mumu if you be my girl or sister and you de near me now Na small
Konk I for don rubb for ur head.

Men don't care how? Am sure you were raise by a man so was 95percent of families worldwide and across human time and space. Exceptions exist but those are the remaining 5percent. Generalize with exceptions and show ur mum u more.

Go and witch-hunt your sisters and mother because of her actions and stop projecting your life on half of the world's population. That is stupidity.

samsam2019:
Churchill is living peacefully with his new wife and here you are; songle and bitter. Quite clear now that you are the problem

Lol.

She was once the new wife too. How many are there currently?

Adakintroy:
Madam stop the winchin. Men are not afraid of their children . Most men who do run is because of the financial burden. Our swear na the hunger for sex. Many men hate to do this to themselves. It judges them deep. Tonto just De yarn rubbish. Cuz she hate the nigga..using the child as a sword to fight.

One day that child go grow. He go fit designate who De lie or tell truth. For now
Lets not judge further. We too far from their huz.

Address the message and stop projecting your upbringing on every man, woman and child. You need to stop your witch-hunting and projection issues.

Men run because they actually don't care, and they aren't trained to care for their children and wives from childhood. While girls are learning how to play tea and house before they can grow their teeth, what are the boys doing? Destroying toys in the garden.

If a woman can stay on with financial difficulties and train her child herself, what stops a man from doing so? Men shouldn't be afraid of their children, but they should stop lying to them. What lies do you think he will tell his child when society has blackmailed him into looking for him?

1Sharon:
You only need to know Churchill's family to know where she's coming from

His new wife will soon leave him.

The guy uses silence to conceal his previous child, his cheating, and the issues she has raised. He tells you he's a private guy. To Nigerians silence means innocence, that God is fighting for him. He's very private yet is all over SM via his most recent wife and the twice named son. Doesn't celebrate his non-celebrity birthed children.

More likely his pretentious silence irritates her. No smoke without fire.

Adakintroy:
Keep infusing hate in that poor child by fire by force. Deep down that child would want to see his father and the father also the child and probably take him l out. But it will shock you to know she is the one preventing.

Don't ask me how I know . I leant it from my mother first hand. If she De quarrel with my papa or neighbor everybody must quarrel or De her side..na woman be that..if she catch you laughing with the enemy, no food for you.. Its not about right or wrong for them. Its about winning.

How did you manage to project your life on over 500 million other people? How?

Isn't it this same forum someone tried meeting their long lost father and discovered their mother was wise to have dumped the liar?

Successfulben:
Only a fool will believe Toto Dick-eh's emotional story that touches the soul. I pity Churchill for all these mess and only wish him good luck in his new home. Don't marry ready made women, most of them are prostitutes and don't have regard for their husbands.

Lol.

That's what you say, the next moment your crew are asking what a woman brings to the table and if she's productive. Don't marry or date down. Hating on hypergamous women.

U35 men are some of the most confused men alive. Esp U-30 ones.

cococandy:
His two sons have the same name? the same name?

Say Sike right now!
So he technically replaced the one son by the other.
What’s wrong with him

It's part of her rant where she claims the man did not name him King. I think the 3rd or 5th image.

Weirdly he has another son also called King. She's reading voodoo into it. It's probably just spite.

pocohantas:
IF I WERE HIM, I WILL DO SAME AND MORE.

You can’t keep rubbishing me on social media and at any chance you get and expect me to coparent with you. No, I won’t do that shit with an aggressive ex. What I won’t do too is post his picture on IG. His mental health is important and anyone that thinks they can deal with a partner like Tonto, should go takeover.

Would he be co-parenting for her sake, or for the sake of the son he claims to love on Instagram? Are her allegations about him not paying child support true? Because even if she complained online, he would have his receipts. It's not like she would block his deposits, would she? Hiding behind mental health is dubious if that is his excuse.

It seems like she makes a lot of noise, but it's exactly how she she accused him of cheating on her with his current wife. He played his usual silent card, yet as unmanageable and unstable as she appears to be, she was right.

Their problem is rather deep. His silence is not innocence. Her rants aren't all lies.

Leoniine:
So pray tell, which mad man of a rapist did your mother fuked and gave birth to your unfortunate excuse of a human, huh?

Because your mouth is driving rough and you're getting a high out of using words on me and I am looking at you.

O da bi wipe o ti ya werey de iran ikerin awon babanlaku baba ati idile aja iya to bi e lomo.

But I promise you, whatever frustration you're experiencing in your tattered life, you WILL NOT pour it on me.

Oya, come and put me in line. I double dare your forefathers- become a dedicated troll towards me on this site henceforth and let me see you try standing up to my feminism and my defenses of women like Tonto Dikeh, Ehi Ogbebor and Tiwa Savage.

You will ********* a very slow and painful ***********(**(** if you do not continue with your crusade of attacking my feminism.

For the record and effect, you should continue this with me on my Magno liaa's moniker when I am out of ban and I leave here.

REMEMBER IT O! Since you want to run mad and dance naked on the express, because as I told you, you're too inconsequential of a being to me ordinarily. So do make sure to remind me of your burnt existence and always keep coming into my mentions, challenging me... Since you have appointed yourself to the duty of keeping women online in check.

Ko ni ragba fun e any day you ever fail to quote me to put me in check.

Look, I highly suspect you're that Lanre toye or Paku te from the politics section who has been always, tenaciously been coming into my mentions even as I go out of my way, soooo go out of my way to always avoid you, but you will never back off.

I do not know whether I am responsible for the ori buruku that runs in your ******* generation that you're always coming after me unprovoked.

Either way, if you're not the one, but you're a troll who chose to embark on this your "crusade" from some spill-over argument from that section; I promise you, and as I have always said to you, as you've have chosen to be restless over my matter, looking for what is not lost in my mentions by attempting to deliberately provoke me, may that your obsession over me kill you.

Unless I am guilty of anything here.

Aje oshi.

Sweet heart, is this Mango?

cococandy:
Does he make efforts to be part of the son’s life and tonto stopped him? If not then he has no excuse.

She has some strange revelations, but if true his silence is the tricky type some very vindictive men employ, as it makes them look peaceful and unconcerned when in fact they are the actual vipers. Such men know that their host of supporters will not evaluate facts but focus on their silence. The fact that he named his next son with the same name indicates he has some serious issues. What man wants two sons competing with the exact same name?

What sort of condolence message is that anyway? The receiver didn't even respond.