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Flamemignon1:
I've had this banter with you before and we agreed to disagree so that's what I'm gonna do now

We've never had it. On the contrary, you gave me a share because that day I was on your side of the invisible divide of hate you created and revel in: you versus straight.

Flamemignon1:
The homosexuals you so badly want burnt at the stake.

Exaggeration. To what end? It is witches who own that claim.

Flamemignon1:
Can't have this Convo buddy,not today

Yet you're all over the place having it. Except a few that you know would deflate that balloon.

Flamemignon1:
Huh,you again. Have a great Sunday

Something you're avoiding?

You too.

Flamemignon1:
This is just a piece of advice,next time learn to make extensive research before coming out to assert your theories as facts,it makes you look dumb especially in the 21st century where we have the key to knowledge in our hands. Homosexuality is a normal sexual variant in animals

No animal is homosexual. No animal picks another to begin a homosexual life with. That you have to compare humans with animals is getting tiresome.

You're entitled to be homosexual, it is legal in many countries of the world, it is your right, and you should be free to live it, but to peddle the mistruth that animals are homosexual is eye-roll worthy.

It would be better if you produced a homosexual gene than this argument of animals. And humans are supposedly higher beings.

what won't one see on a religious thread under such a topic

laskab:
Consult elders in your church or mosque

Worst advice ever.

These elders are people who are largely illiterate in counseling, but are ready to use religion and their interpretation of it to shake and oppress people who put their trust in them.

pocohantas:
There is another one. They are always so high valued that women are somehow not falling at their feet. I am sure he expected babes to break down the walls of his DM at the mention of America. E better to dey Ogbomoso get peace of mind, than migrate to America to marry a narcissist demon.

Toks is way better than him biko. Toks is approachable and has his sweet days.

The guy is insufferable. Any woman who ends up with him will be miserable. He's in his hoe exploratory phase, and it will continue till he's 70. Some of them are perpetual bloomers. He's one.

Toks is approachable? What?! Because his manual in impossible desires has not been going smoothly personally? He is one of the worst on that table.

They are very similar, if not the same persons multiple personalities. Both guys are looking for perfect women to use, narcissistic and above being flawed, toeing self esteem and delusion in the sand, are getting past expiry date with their antics and keen on sharing the love in their dark hearts. Twins.

"Touch not my anointed" the pastors license to sin and do evil. Only in effect on people who believe that.

omolola100:
Good evening my brothers and sisters
There is something I still don't understand and I need a clear and better explanation.

I attend a white garment church and the doctrine does not allow us to sit with the congregation because of the stain, there is a place packaged for us to sit and the corner of the church....
The issue right now is that my menstruation started last week Sunday and I don't know why it hasn't stop till this present moment.
I'm just thinking if I should go to church tomorrow because I don't want to sit at the corner of the church tomorrow because people might be suspicious something is wrong with me.
I haven't seen anything about this in the scripture, I just want to know if it's a sin to sit with the congregation while on period...

Sitting in a corner is like an engraving on your forehead that you're menstruating. Is the place a sex orgy temple or a brothel that people who your menstruation doesn't concern need to know? Is it to signal to them that you're not ready to copulate with them or what? Unless that's the arrangement, why do you need to sit apart? Why do the men there need to know?

Religion is the enemy of women.

If you have read any of his previous threads, it is easy to see that the need for constant validation from himself and strangers alike thrums in his blood and pulses in his veins. When you read his previous posts— arrogantly healthily bragging and bloating his value as a man to epic proportions—it is no surprise that he is still making a post on the same topic and cannot seem to see why. Perhaps it is his raison, or perhaps he is truly red pilled and lost to the reality of what he wants or needs.

The last time we stumbled across his thread, he was closer to 40, living in America and looking for persons to run through and marry on a trip to his village at Christmas. Understandably, he's the Benjamin Button of the decade, now that he's in his early thirties. It was always odd that a man of his then age would be a red piller, but we are readers of his flights of fancy, and not EPL age detectors. Then he was quite confident that ladies would fall at his feet, after all, there must be a truckload of value in a guy who believes so much about himself, especially one who constantly touts being an America resident, right? Right. Self esteem and delusions are a fine line. Some time after that, when asked about his strung up ideals, he alleged he was in a relationship with someone. Of course, if you observe his posts, it's always something like that, yet it really isn't. He was so self-assured when he told us that he was getting what he wanted. Alas, this thread!


His approach to relationships is the reason he still claims to be searching. If he were a woman searching at his age, he wouldn't let her live it down. But he's not, so we will let that slip in this episode of his unending hunt-a-wife saga.

He's not some unlucky in love good guy toxic chronic bachelor. The problem lies with him, but his issue is that he does not wish to change. He wants to continue writing fables while trying to bend the will of others to his games.

He reminds us of Toks the tokunbo (Magnoliaa that's the word right?), another aging male writer of fable and the impossible desire genre. But of course, let him write and delude younger men. That is permitted.

This guy is still alive!

He had to congratulate his friend, just like the very clean Kenyatta. Makes one wonder who he really is.

Shampoo. Conditioner. Oils.

Gaabasky:
She met me playing with her senior which was my junior n friend in secondary school n due to some issues he became my senior at work.Prior to them I have never met her before and we greeted casually. So to her I was rude and arrogant. U knw some ladies behavior

Because of that she hated you? Lol. People have all kinds of issues.

What would you say about the men who hated you, their behaviors?

Farfalla:
What is wrong with an already-made man?
And why do you think it's wrong for women to go for them?

They want them to marry angry poor men who will one day kill them.

If he were poor they would ask why she didn't meet good poor men like themselves. They're always good once they're poor.

Gaabasky:
U based your conclusion on someone that never see anything good on someone else? Don't allowed someone emotional derangement to deranged u. Something happened to me where I was working before, this particular lady for no reason just hated me not dislike I means hate n worst aspect she convinced others to do the same until one day I was posted to her department n as expected all of them were already waiting to deal with me in fact anything I did no matter how good to them it was the worst. Until something happened n with God I was able to proved myself well n my number enemy then is my closest friend today. They not only loved but care now The whole department came to begged for forgiveness.

So u may not understand what joined Farooq and Tinubu together and don't used his words to base your own judgement.
Who will think Aregbe will betrayed Tinubu and Omisore will become Tinubu right man.

Did she ever tell you why she hated you? Any of them say why they did too?

Obaaderemi2:
I noticed too. That guy's writing skills are above average.

It was beautiful to read. He/she delivered something hard to find on the forum.

othermen:
When you look at his records on google scholar, you would have a little premonition.

While anybody can get their articles on google scholar, users or consumers that know their onions are as well concerned about the publisher or journal.

Is it indexed in Thomson-Reuters or Scopus or Scimago or another recognized index? What you find is that his publication is an offshoot of his own fictional book and little invested in academic rigor.

But then he has the charisma of a dogged Cornel West. He could have been more successful than Philip Emeagwali.

He presented himself as such and accrued benefits by such associations. He was invited to other institutions on the basis of such associations and he allowed himself to be so identified. He got the honorary doctorate as a result of these misleading associations. How no Nigeria scholar could look a little within as to his credibility is actually not ridiculous. It is even the aspiration of the genuine local scholar to get a reference from him.

But he was smart, he was no Moses Ochonu, or Farooq Kperogi or another in diaspora that had a critical opinion on ASUU. But his association with David is just one of those anti-climax movements. That association is perhaps his most prominent hamartia. He was trying to win the space and gain more influence on the back of David. He also associated with Linda Ikeji, but David is the one that has smart detractors: he is a popular fellow who has given a fight to the BBC and accused it, to such extent, to destroy its reputation. Oxford providing their platform for him, legitimizes such accusations, and the smart fellows David Hundeyin has crossed by his manner of journalism are much interested in his disastrous end. David didn’t lose out from this. Onyeka did. He perhaps lost all; folks would now review his books and find misogynistic nonsense and plagiarism and incompetence. He is not a film maker on the level of Mr Macaroni, but by his association in the past, there were those who’d considered it an honor to work with him, now he has lost that too, and all his credibility. And his reputable name will be associated with fraud. Don’t build on sinking sands.

I hope he gets all the supports he can get from those around him. And that those who used him as a ladder, do not genuinely abandon him. He can get a genuine doctorate degree and earn himself a genuine comeback in 2-3 years from now.

Also, he shouldn’t have had an opinion too on who was the better singer between Seun Kuti and one of the P Square brothers. Without earning David enemies, the dissatisfied lots from such a decision, could have as well get interested in ruining his reputation. Even if Farooq is not careful, the dissatisfied lots can find a post, where he subtly endorsed the Quran and infer he endorsed child marriage and women as subordinates. Thus, he is careful too. Or do you think Farooq can talk about homosexuality as haram or have an opinion that is traditionally from his place of origin or his religion, without getting the kick? That’s just one of the prices to pay.

Onyeka’s claim to authority was in Africa studies, a white person evaluating his methodology or reviewing his credentials would be less critical in their comments, else they are racist lots. At least as a future yahoo boy, trying to become the next Philip Emeagwali or Onyeka you learn the lesson in how to navigate their world through an intellectual endeavor. Don’t do the sciences where you can be easily disproved or rebuffed. Do an African related course, be an authority on the people of Sambisa, no one would question you that much, especially abroad.

In the end, he is a different Yahoo Boy.

Who do you write for?

GorillaApp:
Well, I'm on the other end of the spectrum. Since last year, I have been cutting down on alcohol. My wife is even shocked. I have had over a carton of can beers in my house since the beginning of this year but I have only drank two.
Years back, there would be days I would return from work with a burning taste for a can of beer. I drink responsibly every week and enjoy buying for others.
But nowadays, I'm becoming more pure. I hardly hang out with friends or visit the bars and lounge near my hood. People are beginning to think that I'm a pastor.

Op one word- quit!

It will end in tears

Social drinker?

The last person I met who got into his drinking midlife crisis phase is buried.

Old age isn't the time to pick up habits your body can't withstand. Drinking comes with the risk of dementia.

ShaqFu:
Ah ah. Na WA oh. Imagine David Hundeyin with all his self righteousness and holier than thou attitude.

I've often maintained that most Nigerians who insult politicians, do so out of the fact that they're not eating or benefitting directly from the politician...

And those who don't must be beneficiaries.

Which are you?

Coolabbie:
So America should come and do what?
Have they finished sharing money and bombs to Ukraine?
Common gerrarahia

Lol.

It isn't that black and white.

Successfulben:
Getat fool, are you not almost thinking suicide now that you are 45 and no man to call your husband?

Ás a discombobulated fool, everywhere you look you keep hallucinating fools like yourself. Try to get well.

Dtruthspeaker:
When you are sure and happy that your son is intelligent you grant the prayers of your wicked uncles, neighbour and WAEC to test him.

When you are sure that your wife is loyal, you grant the prayers of your wicked mother/friends and relations to test her.

When you are sure your employee is faithful, you grant the prayers of your wicked friend to test him.

And when these all pass, how greatly happy are ye that ye love them even more.

Not very convincing.

The more excuses you make for God, the more WICKED I know he is.

If he could punish the most faithful man on Earth to prove a point to the devil, a man you said was his friend, then the OP is righteous and loyal.

Cut him some slack.

Dtruthspeaker:
See how you guys prove you are blind. I said it up here that God has already shown him and all of us mercy in Talking. It is now up to him.



You people are really blind. The Bible clearly shows that job was already a friend of God which is what made God so happy that He use him to boast and taunt and challenge Satan.

And you and this guy are not job.



Just say that you are here to blaspheme God because of your frustrations and the great pains of living as prophecied in Revelation 16:9/11.

Even loved Esau, Saul, Solomon, Hezekiah were cut off forever so who are you.

Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded;

25 But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof:

26 I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh;

27 When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you.

28 Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me:

God spoke to us in Proverbs 1:24-28 and obviously, like you, he did not listen until it was too late.

Wait. Because he was a good guy, a friend of God, God answered the prayers of the devil to punish Job? And after punishing Job, have his wish on the next person that is good?

Make it make sense, please. Is that the work of a loving, merciful God?

Is that how your own friendships work?

Yes, I am pained and aggrieved. Yes, I am spiritually blind. Now, answer me. I don't need more epistles about why God hates certain people yet loves the devil.

Dtruthspeaker:
What happened to him happened to everyone, but some us listened and got out. But obviously he didn't listen his fault.



Is this not obviously the Job scenario which we have all noticed?

Every normal person has noticed that once they decide to do the right thing, life and living gets worse and when we agree that we are not doing again, it returns to normal.

It was this observation that made me know that Satan was real. So, anyone who wanted to get out of Satan's kingdom of sin, would have gotten out, if they wanted to for it is a very obvious sign as you yourself has noticed.

So just say you are here to blaspheme God because these are the days that He had foretold that He would begin punishing you devils and sons of devils since you chose not to get out and stop being devils.

For God has already been too good but you devils love being devils and now it's your time to burn. You people ain't seen nothing yet, you are going to scream to the point that you would be unable to blaspheme no more before you continue in lava. You kukuma have lava in your name, so you know your destination.

You sound like God right now, don't you?

Assuming you all went through it, why have none of you given him any reasonable solution except accusations? Or is the brand of Christianity you wield the wicked sort that your trials of divine brimstone put you through? I don't see why anyone should make up excuses for God if the case of Job exists. Is the OP the only evil person in this generation?

Wouldn't it be amusing if you were to end up in hell too? Lava is lava to even those who don't have it in their name. We shall all burn eventually, if you are anything to go by.

We are all sons of devils.

Kelechi009:
I don't know why you ladies say this, most of my relationships have been no-sex based. To net a man is not that difficult, just tell him what you would allow and not allow. Also do not Bill him like he his fully responsible for your livelihood, then you have no problems. As opposed to popular belief, there are so many people I know who got married virgins, as they claimed though.

Let's face it: men love wild women. He liked the fact that she appeared moral but in fact was not. His only problem is that he can't control her any more.

The next misconception is that a man doesn't like to pay the bills of the woman he wants. He really, really wants to actually. Unless he's poor, he does pay them. If he's poor then he will cry blood about doing so.

These people could be telling you the truth, but depending on the age they got married at it could be a lie.

Ishilove:
Theirs was a SU courtship. No fornication and unnecessary touchery

Where in the tale did he say so?

One must commend her for playing the game well. It isn't hard to net a man. Even an orangutan could do it. Goats, dogs and cattle have done it with ease, even. If it has an oven, they will fall for it.

All the preaching they normally do is to get women like this. Here she is, a virtuous non -slay queen in a letterbox dress.

Dtruthspeaker:
The Mercy is that God, Inspite of His great hatred for sinners, still pushed through our sins and reached out to us to talk to us, which He does not have to do for exactly as we treat out phones where we destroy and throw away our damaged phones. He could and can still always do that to us but He rather chose to endure the pain of our sins and talk to us, that we may get out of that place and not be destroyed.

So, God has been very very mercy giving to the full.



It is because of mercy you could say this for if God was like us, Satan would have been in tormentous punishment since and every new Satan would be going the same way, no matter how many they are.



As I said, God has already done a lot in talking to us, but if he does not listen to God nor do what God has Said, that is his fault.

Why doesn't God want to show him mercy? The devil has audience in heaven, enough to wish harm on people and God grants it. But why can't this guy get answers to his prayers?

Same Job was told he's a sinner and terrible person that his life was not as good as that of his friends, yet God was behind his predicament. I'm sure he prayed and still suffered for many years without any answers. So why act like the OP did something wrong?

Why are you guys afraid to admit that God is also the torturer? What if this guy is just another victim?

Dtruthspeaker:
We all know! But I always ask them did you do anything different from what others before you have done?

Since the missionaries landed here, people have always acknowledged that they have prayed so much and did not get answers, then one day when they were tired of praying, then their prayer got answered.

This should tell people something, but people never listen and never pay attention and most importantly they never learn what God teaches and that is the problem with church goers and those who think that church going means "Christianity".



Unfortunately, it is the Truth and the ground on which every man is born into. It is the clear proof of God and that He did curse the man.

He is not the first to have experienced this, we all have and therefore, we are all speaking from that knowledge.



If people have been cooking Edikaikong Soup and yours did not turn out right, it means that you did not do it right.

So all he has done does not work because he has not done what he is supposed to do!

Out of all the different, evil people on Earth, it is only his sins that God sees? Is it him that will make a difference to the world? Make it make sense why God hates certain people. I realized that people who have this problem are those who try to live their lives right, then God decides to be most evil and merciless to them. Makes sure to make them suffer more than anyone else. It's like the parable of the prodigal son. He's better off being that prodigal son.

When I see people try to rationalize when God is actually the scourge, then I know that God is truly WICKED.

I'm sure half of what he's been through, none of you have experienced it before, even in your most sinful state.

God is not for everyone. When I hear of the love of God, I realize the speaker must be out of touch with reality.

jaephoenix:
Blatant lie. A bleeped up stereotype theists put on atheists. It's so stupid and myopic. Who told you that's how atheists came up?

What lie?

Ask atheists. Even the few here.

They were mostly theists before. For the Christian atheists, that's how they were born. Not just because God let's people suffer, but because they were suffering too, and no God helped them out of it. Or do you think they dropped from Mars as atheists who never heard about God? Be scientific. Conduct a poll.

To think otherwise is the stupid and myopic thing.

When you lot have learned to be civil, you will be finally seen. Crude uncivilized and uncouth atheists, crude uncivilized and uncouth Christians. You're all the same, in different clothing. All in need of civility and anger management.

Truly, cats have no loyalty.

Nice tale.