Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:12pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: I can never go back to seeing this word for what it actually means. 😭🤣
I was shocked for a minute seeing you and Kobo discussing politics, until I checked again.
Lool.
Well, that's a whole new take on this subject matter. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:11pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: Just like Israel, people are already anti-God, so people were already headed to being atheists whether people talk or not. Ask any atheist. Most of them were christians facing problems that prayers never solved. The accusatory attitude of other christians doesn't help. Someone tells them his life is miserable and has been since kindergarten, and the best thing they can come up with us that he's not a real Christian, that he's a sinner, that he's not been praying to God. Excuses for God, as if any of them know why God doesn't answer him I think the OP has tried all that is believed to be the silver bullet of Christianity, and it hasn't worked. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:10pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker: That is where every person starts from. God is just being good to us in that He even gives us a chance to escape by listening to us.
But if you blow it, it's bye bye. What happened to mercy? I'm sure if the devil said it wants to repent it would be forgiven, but why can't this guys prayers be answered? Is he worse than the devil before God? Serial killers are forgiven but not this guy, or what? |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 6:35pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. There's no such a thing as self-righteousness where God is concerned. You either are - You meet God's standard -- or you are not. Your churchian ideas of self-righteousness mean absolutely nothing where it comes to God. 
2. Pay attention! God said He does not answer the prayers of sinners. Job was not a sinner, and Job was certain that God has answered Him on many occasions before the trial came upon him. For what seemed over 7 months, the same God cared for Job before finally answering him and then bringing even his friends to bow before Him. According to Op, God has never answered his prayers, so how you think it reasonable to compare OP to Job is beyond me.. 
3. Look, I used to think as you do until I realized that the problem has never really been God but me. Somehow I didn't trust God in my beginning so I made a decision to trust Him and work towards being in compliance with His Law. Things changed after that. Since then I learned that God had in fact been waiting on me to step up to His standard - live my life in continuous submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments, just as He commands, in order to be set free from slavery to what are my own sin debts. It has been some years now since I have been at this exercise and God answers even more of my requests as time passes. 
Am I some of the most successful in the world? Far from it since success in the world is measured in terms of acquisition of wealth and status whereas success in Jesus Christ has to do with abandonment of your worldly possessions - desires, etc.. so when I mentioned the Eunuchs, I did so to express how far one may have to go in order to achieve the Will of God given that Jesus Christ equally said that God gives men permission to do so for the sake of His Kingdom, something that is not available to the married among them. All this, again, is in order to instead obtain treasures in Heaven,which clearly seems the opposite of what you seek for yourself in this.  Dishonest ramblings. You aren't a eunuch, so why tell him about eunuchs, as if his problem is of a sexual nature? If he is permitted to suffer, why aren't the remaining billions on Earth not entitled to it? Why only him? You're out of touch with his prolonged issue. You don't understand what he's saying. Every man to his frustrations. B for bye. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:40pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. See how silly you are being there. What has being a Eunuch to do with being hellbound? 
2. In Jesus Christ, you are expected to abandon everything you have--- your possessions, your family, business, career, reputation, etc., in order to be saved. If what you and OP are instead focused on is acquiring the wealth of the world for yourselves, then you are definitely hiding your frustrations behind the mentions of God. 
3. Have you ever actually read and digested the book of Job for yourself? Did you know that Job was able to list all of the good works He had done in obedience to God's Law. OP has not even been able to proclaim himself sin free so why are you thinking to compare him to one righteous as Job?  You don't understand the OP. And like all self-righteous Christians, you don't want to. If he lists them, you'll say his problem is self-righteousness. There's nothing religious folk won't twist to blame the hurt person. You would even hazard to say that he thinks he's holy and yet can never be. When you've dropped your silly approach to responses that you don't agree with, I may be able to read your stupid epistles about eunuchs. You're in the eunuch phase, you who cannot say if you're saved or not. Hilarious. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:39pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Carcholce: What does this mean? Unholy sinners. From responses to him, you can see most people are self-righteously accusing him of being unholy, irreverent to the things of God and being a sinner, thus an unholy sinner. Nothing new. Job got it worse. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:35pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
As I said, none of you here understand the guy. As such, this is just a back and forth of misdiagnoses from religious folk who think they know everything that happens in people's lives. Your approach to people life issues results in atheism. Most atheists were born this way.
Ask him if anything I've said about his predicament isn't true. He's here. Ask him.
I would recommend he drops all the religion and stops listening to religious accusers. Call it frustrations or whatever you may. You don't understand anything he's said. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:31pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. I don't follow. The 144,000 were righteous men of God in Jesus Christ, men whose prayers were answered by God. What has being most successful to do with this? Or who told you that having God answer your prayers meant you would be of the most successful? 
2. Stop deceiving yourself abeg! What OP wants is clearly not God but the world. What you also seem to desire is also not God but the world. And God never promised the world to any man in Jesus Christ. So, you should probably stop hiding your frustrations behind God and focus on upping your game as the rest in the world do. 
3. Job was a righteous man of Old, not Jesus Christ, and yes, God was behind His predicament.  Then you're hellbound if the standard is eunuchs. It's not about frustrations. If he's tried and experiences bad luck and prays about it and your God never answers despite your claims about answering, then what is the point of him praying? Is it not clear that God is not for all? If God was the scourge, what makes you think the OP isn't innocent in all this? |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:29pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. How did you arrive at your claim that OP is obedient? 
2. God declared that He does not answer the prayers of the disobedient aka sinners. Jesus Christ made this abundantly clear in His Gospel as well. So, how did you arrive at this claim of yours that God is the one answering the prayers of those whom you admit live in disobedience of God aka sinners? 
3. What people are having their prayers answered by God? The same ones you openly revealed are in fact sinners aka those who live in disobedience of God's commandments and teachings or what? The devil is not a sinner so let's leave Him out of this and focus, shall we? .
4. Oh, I definitely understand what OP is saying. Only you somehow think that in your confusion about God, and the things of God are concerned, you have a better grasp than anyone does. God said He only answers the prayers of those who are not sinners meaning that all the sinners out there do not have their prayers answered by God. They may work towards and achieve their desires by their own will like the unbelievers do but that doesn't mean God did it. Why? Because God said He only answers the prayers of those who are not sinners. It doesn't matter whether you think yourself worse than others or not what matters is He does not answer the prayers of sinners. Simple! 
5. I am not making any excuses for God here as instead I am simply asserting what God has made clear of Himself. His Word is everlasting so why you expect that to change is beyond me. He said He does not answer the prayers of sinners but you obviously don't believe that at all since you have continued to assert that God answers even the prayers of your sinful pastors and mogs, and so should also answer the prayers of OP who does not deny being a sinner. All this while completely ignoring God's Truth which which that God does not answer the prayers of sinners.  And where did it say he's not obedient? So all the people who are more successful and fulfilled at life are all obedient? You can't be serious. You're more interested in unfounded accusations. Did he ever tell you he was not obedient and that he has not tried all your formulas before? People suffer because God wants them to and is at times the architect of it. It's all over the Bible. The devil isn't omnipotent or omniscient, it's a singular being, so who is in charge then? If God has chosen you not to suffer like the op, you will go on thinking his suffering is as a result of his sins. Meanwhile, others living the same supposedly sinful life and doing worse are better off than he is. There is nothing like a sinner. Because even the worst sinners get their prayers answered, people living in perpetual sin. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 5:22pm On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Well, he simply has to keep trying like the rest of the world if he intends to do it all by his own might. There is no way around that for those who are not of God. 
2. Those who want God to answer them are expected by God to do as He commands. You sound like you have thoroughly swallowed the deceit of your pastors and mogs who lie to you that, against God, it is indeed possible to live in sin while stil having your prayers answered by God. And I am telling you that contrary to the lies your masters have fed you with, God has never changed His mind regarding His decree that the prayers of sinners -- those who live in disobedience of His commandments and teachings-- are an abomination to Him. He has not changed His mind even though your conmen pastors have filled your heads with lies to cause you to believe that He has. 
3. Look, let me give you the low down. The religion of Christianity is an idolatrous system of beliefs set up by men using the name of God to deceive and delude the gullible. It has nothing to do with God or Jesus Christ. What you lot claim to have experienced isn't God or Jesus Christ but the idolatrous fumes your mental have been pumped full of. And as long as you are attached to that system of lies, you are against God aka of sin, and your measure of God is not according to the standard set by God Himself but according to the doctrines and traditions of your pastors and mogs who rule over your lives. God's mandate is a straightforward and simple one. It hasn't changed in more than 2500 years. And He will never bend His mandate and Law for any man. 
Have their been those who have been able to, through submission and obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ been able to have their prayers answered by God? Well. We have stories of the disciples along with the 144,000 to go by, and these as I already mentioned, went as far as choosing a life of celibacy in order to see this happen in their lives. So, the question here should instead be if God is really who you want.  The 144000 were not the most successful men in Israel. None of you have understood the OP. You're all more interested in pontificating self-righteously and claiming he's an unholy sinner. Was Job a sinner? Or was God behind his predicament? |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 11:38am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Barims: What do you expect when you are talking to something that only exist in your brain? What do you expect when you talk to ceiling  Start working, don't pray. It's has been shown in studies that it's make things worse as it makes you relax while you wait for nothing to happens Who told you he's not working? He's probably more enterprising than many people accusing him of this or that, but for some reason it's not paying off. His creation of this thread is more than you guys see it to be. Yes, we know you're answered by God because you're all so righteous, holy and obedient. But when he followed your formula, did it work for him? Probably not. Or he wouldn't have made the thread. I don't know why Christians believe there's something the next person is doing wrong when they can't get the same results they do. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 11:31am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. God says, "I will only answer your prayers if you abide in me and I in you" meaning only those who live their lives in continuous submission and obedience of His teachings and commandments, His Truth, will He give ear to. Those terms haven't changed in almost 2000 years. 
2. Clearly, your understanding of sin differs entirely from that expressed in scripture. How can your pastors and mogs who you describe as blatantly sinning against God be described by the same you as living in obedience to God? No be crazy be that? 
3. I didn't say anything about grace-- which actually refers to Eternal life--- since what I have instead insisted upon here is the message of Jesus Christ , God's Truth, which emphasizes personal responsibility. Every one who comes to Jesus Christ is responsible for stopping his bad ways, making the decision to no longer disobey/transgress God's Law, resolve his sin debt in order to become pure to then obtain eternal salvation that is Jesus Christ - Daniel 9 vs 24 & John 8 vs 31 - 36.  You described obedience, as if the OP isn't obedient. I'm asking why God is answering their prayers and not his. Are they more abiding than the OP? You mean over 500M-2BN people are more abiding than him, even the terrorists and baby killers? Why are these people having their prayers answered and not him? Why? Is he worse than the devil who even has audience with God who answers his prayers to torment people? Besides, I don't think any of you understand what he's saying. All you're concerned with is what you think he's doing wrong, accusing him, trying to speak for God. Let God speak for himself why he's not answering him. Op can't be the worst, most disobedient human being ever created. Any time I see people make excuses for God, then I know that God is wicked. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:45am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Mccallistas: As I dey read this your comment tear drop my eyes. Cheer up. I don't have solutions to your problems, but I can see them. You're not a bad person, or more of a sinner than anyone else. You're not faithless as some would say. You're just a person going through the wilderness of life that you cannot understand how you got there or why. They don't know why it's happening to you, too, and because of that they will never understand you. Forget about all the iron rules and regulations. All that religion does nobody any good. Live your life in the consciousness of God. Don't pray too much. Don't cry too much. Don't read your Bible too much. Doing too much of those things will only get you depressed. Don't tell religious people these things, because they will always blame you for the circumstance you find yourself in. They're like the friends of Job in the bible. Keep up with life until you meet someone who understands and can help you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:40am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: God never said prayer is the resolution. God stated in clear terms that obedience is the key to overcoming one's sinnee status. You can pray from the day you are born until the day you die and never once receive answers from God because what moves God is not your prayers but you obedience, which is opposite of sin.  You mean to tell us you're more obedient than anyone else who doesn't get their prayers answered? Let's get this right, as a pastor you can fornicate with your flock on the altar, provided you're obedient enough to repent. You can lie, and provided you're obedient to the Bible you will live a happy and fulfilled life. But a person who has not done such things and is not obedient would suffer through life. I like your message of grace. The David message. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:33am On Feb 26, 2023 |
jaephoenix: Whoa. What an analogy. So the more a Christian fights the devil, he suffers, and keeps suffering everyday? But if he chills with the devil, he'll be enjoying? I love Christians. They are like kids that argue with the first notion that pops up in their mind anywhere Rather than admit they don't have the answers, they will begin to give excuses for God. If the creator of the universe sees fit to disregard certain of his creations and make life unbearable for them, who are we to say that the person is a sinner or that the person has not genuinely repented, or that God's time is the best time? I've come to realize that it's not everyone that God loves. It's not everyone he cares about. It's not everyone he will answer. No matter how much the person seeks after him or follows the formula to get in touch with Him. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 9:27am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Mccallistas: Nnaaa... I don't know how to appreciate you.
Now this is the person that understands my plight.
Why must I find it hard? Why?
Did God create me to come here and watch others live their lives.
I'm just existing.
Is it until my parents no longer have strong teeth, will I be able to buy them meat
Why will people always tell me thank you. Why can't I tell them thank you or don't they find me worthy of favour
Chai! The people who are telling you these things don't understand. What is the purpose of your life? Why do these things only happen to you? What caused it? Why you? Why doesn't it every seem to get better? Why are you always the spectator to the lives of others? Aren't you a human being too? What did you do wrong that is so unforgivable? Even the devil would get audience if he wanted to repent, but why never You? In all this: where is God? You'll see people say, cry to God like I did and he will answer you. You probably tried it, maybe even fasted for 7 days seeking forgiveness for your sins, you were genuinely penitent, but still God doesn't care. Why can't they answer that, except to vomit the old riddles they told them are the reasons why prayers aren't answered? God is for some, not all. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Only Way The Church Can Be One Again by BRATISLAVA: 8:42am On Feb 26, 2023 |
jesusjnr2020: Nothing is impossible with God. Yet a lot is impossible. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Teach About Speaking In Tongues? by BRATISLAVA: 8:41am On Feb 26, 2023 |
xynerise: People speak in tongues today because their pastor told them it is compulsory. "Just say anything that comes from your mouth and God will interpret it for you"
They really don't understand how speaking in tongues works Why should they? Nothing in the bible comes with a manual. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How You Can Pray And Be Heard !!! by BRATISLAVA: 8:38am On Feb 26, 2023 |
All these things don't work.
Some people are destined to be heard by God and others aren't. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 8:26am On Feb 26, 2023 |
CaptMarvel: when a prisoner doesn't struggle to leave his Prison he have peace with his captors and remain a captive, but when he does struggles, troubles ensue, and if he continues victory is certain. Think about it. Why should he have to struggle all his life? So the other people praying and getting answers are humans and he isn't one? What happened to praying to God and getting answers? Or is that a lie peddled by the chosen few? |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 8:25am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Jackanda1: Your sincerity is zero. You are just an atheist trying to discredit God. Maybe. Maybe not. But I know that he isn't lying. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Prayers Has Never Been Answered by BRATISLAVA: 8:21am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Mccallistas: How many times do I have to repent?
How is it my fault that God doesn't want to answer the prayer requests of a little child (His little child). You're going to hear a lot of excuses for why God doesn't answer you, and it will surprise these people that you are probably more holy than they are. Later they will tell you it isn't Gods time. At other times God doesn't answer the prayer of sinners. There are just some people that God has never and will never answer their prayers, right from kindergarten as you've said. Just live your life as you can. God is for some people, not all. Why create some people to suffer and use some random form of favoritism on creations? One day, you will get to see why. Maybe everything you read in the Bible is a lie. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Floors Tinubu, Atiku In Jonah Jangs Polling Unit In Jos by BRATISLAVA: 9:14pm On Feb 25, 2023 |
This guy has found his calling: online politics. |
Romance › Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by BRATISLAVA: 1:07pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
1Alex: This I have been saying. Till you want to get married, you will know there are few wives out there.
Op, you are even lucky you are looking for a wife. What of guys who are hopeless about getting married because they have no resources to marry and manage a family.
Yet some Id!ots in their 20's will open their gutter mouth to call their elders chronic bachelors. Make dem no worry e go reach everybody. Lol It's not as common as the evening newspaper commentary. Truth is, most Nigerian men marry very late in life, even older than any women, but little boys sit down to talk about "evening newspapers". |
Family › Re: Bird Escorts Bereaved Man Directly To His Mum's Grave At A Cemetery (video) by BRATISLAVA: 3:15pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
shine12: It's not extraordinary lol,the bird is called a pheasant and very common around villages/rural areas in the UK. I guess what we are not use to is "extraordinary" sha. I'm surprised to see people calling it unique. Something good for eating. |
Family › Re: Bird Escorts Bereaved Man Directly To His Mum's Grave At A Cemetery (video) by BRATISLAVA: 3:14pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
habsydiamond: This is simply mysterious... even the bird appearance looks unique ..... don't be surprised that the same thing this bird did is what Nigerians will do to take PO to the Aso Rock come this election.... Nigeria s aren't fools.. most of us have photographic memories of what all bad politicians have done. Don't be surprised when u see the result o. Cos some people will open their mouth wide like....Ah!!!! Unique? It looks like an ugly chicken.  |
Family › Re: A Widower Asking For My Hand In Marriage by BRATISLAVA: 3:08pm On Feb 23, 2023*. Modified: 9:21am On Feb 26, 2023 |
Amumaigwe: Don't you know that women also abuse minors? Who should really be afraid of who? Provide the statistics, whataboutism won't cut it. Or perhaps you already know statistically who abuses minors overwhelmingly. |
Family › Re: A Widower Asking For My Hand In Marriage by BRATISLAVA: 3:04pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
Saintmary: You see, most of these people have nothing going for them, they are insecure, so they need to bring people down in order to feel like humans.
You really don't want to look into their hearts and minds, it's too dark in there.
A 36 year old lady is just approaching her prime sexually and in terms of natural beauty.
The only issue here is that she is carrying way too heavy burden of 4 kids. That will make her look older than her age.
It's so unfortunate because I already sense that she will bow to pressure and add to her burdens, three more people to worry about making seven and she's not even 40 yet.
Why do Nigerian women like suffering? The woman doesn't even seem to want to get married. If genders were reversed, we could say he's trying to trap her and manipulate her into sharing her wealth as a mother with his kids through his marriage proposal. Who knows what happened to his wife, too? If she's ready to have so many responsibilities, she should go ahead with it. Otherwise, she can suggest they remain partners without going that extra mile. |
Celebrities › Re: You Are Just A Sperm Donor - Tonto Dikeh Calls Out Ex-Husband, Churchill by BRATISLAVA: 2:03pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
BigJoe19: Ok😞😞. It’s just like someone adding a nickname to their name. King is not in their birth certificate…….sigh It's not on their birth certificates? Really? |
Celebrities › Re: You Are Just A Sperm Donor - Tonto Dikeh Calls Out Ex-Husband, Churchill by BRATISLAVA: 2:00pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
BigJoe19: Their name are not king didn’t you understand? Churchill and Andrea that’s their names. King is both their first names. Why? Are they royalty? No. So, why? |
Family › Re: A Widower Asking For My Hand In Marriage by BRATISLAVA: 1:56pm On Feb 23, 2023*. Modified: 3:07pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
Saintmary: Someone told me yesterday that wedding rings are hard to come by for ladies, I had a good laugh, because nothing can be further from the truth.
I wonder if those ladies getting married every Saturday are ghosts
I don't understand why these guys are so desperate to feel special, it's like they just need something to prop up their insecurities.
If the poster can give it a few months, she might just meet someone more suitable. The kind of untruths they peddle to feel good are more irritating than surprising. They know that they aren't that special. It's just that they have to try and bring women down always. Going by the original poster, isn't she an evening newspaper, and worse, doesn't she have many children? Yet there is a man ready for her, proposing to her on his own. And they find it difficult to accept that, hence many long messages to convince her she's not worth it and the man proposing is doing a Herculean task. A man who has promised to take good care of her knowing her history. It's a pity she's looking for advice on a forum owned by angry little boys. In their minds, she's 36 and cannot look more attractive than a57 year old man. Ghost of Hitler, save these boys. |
Health › Re: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by BRATISLAVA: 1:52pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
Chocoleen: I intend going to the JABI specialist a Nairalander mentioned earlier after election for one more last attempt. I think to is time around I would just ask to be recommended to a Urologist Direct!
Thanks for taking your time to read through and I appreciate the advice and suggestions! It's difficult to believe you've never been referred to a urologist. How have you gone from hospital to hospital, even coming online, and you've never taken your complaint to a specialist. What sort of doctors are these? Unless you're a nice moneybag, it's difficult to believe. |