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Donkmore:
Depend not anyone emotionally physically spiritual ore any Cally. If she want to go let here go. What makes you think that God can't give you something better?

Remember the prodigal son. Some have to go to realize where they should be.

Just be nice, and learn the habit of depending only on God and not human.

If human wan move funny
Shift for them make them move pass

God will not give him another woman because this woman is his wife. Unless you and your god suddenly became lovers of divorce. He should reconcile with his wife, pray hard, brush his teeth and hit the gym.

You tell him to depend on God, get he should not pray and become the spiritual head of his home?

It's good it's just a tale, otherwise some of you will destroy the marriage of another man while reasoning carnally.

canDy4eva:
He (DEVIL) comes to


STEAL

KILL

DESTROY...

Face him head long and hard with your prayers!

What the devil wants is for you to panic, do not succumb to that!

WE LIVE IN A GENERATION WHERE MARRIAGE IS NO LONGER HONOURABLE and most people will not see anything wrong in what you are saying. Just like your wife they will call you an insecure man!

don't be discouraged, you are in my prayers.

Love her like never before. Keep praying for her. This too shall pass.

The Lord hates divorce, but you need to see what men of the day are turning the holy institution of marriage into. This is a man who should hold his house together as the head and priest. But instead he's online selling fantasy to his viewers.

He needs to watch the War Room and figure out that he is under siege from the devil and pray his way out of marital deterioration. He needs to upgrade his physical approach to loving his wife and become more caring. All these online tales aren't helping them stay together.

Lonestar124:
My brother is not your fault nah, or is there something you are not telling us..

Pls allow her go, sure your kids stay with you ...

Perhaps his cat in his tale birthed them for him, thus they are his kids.

dejavubobo1:
Anytime my mechanic works on my car despite cheating me in materials he purchased. If I owe him 500naira. He ll become restless and start disturbing me. Had to stop using him coz I sense he's like this guy desperate and ruthless.

They can kill for peanuts. But what makes people so evil, greedy and ruthless? It's like they see other people as their personal fountain of money. If they can't have you, nobody else will.

If you have anyone doing any type of labor/work for you, and you sense that type of greed and theft/scamming, pay all their wages but make sure you never engage their services again. Don't argue with them, just pay them. If you don't, they're more dastardly.

NOETHNICITY:
Nobody can be cruel to my parents while I’m still alive. This is an established fact that everyone (including my wife and my siblings) around me know.
My parents are my earthly gods, I worship them. They shall live with me until their passing

That's the best form of care for the elderly. Keep up the good work.

GorillaApp:
Let the mother have her peace. She can send money for school and other stuff but she should not take him across. It will end in tears for her

Do you think the manipulative father turned the heart of the son against his mother with his version of his side of the story?

Because the antagonists are male, let's see what advice will be available to them today.

Now it is the season of your female relatives.

Men abandon and disown their entire families and it isn't a disturbance. Maybe her bad husband caused it. A lot of men only show their true colors in marriage. He should pray for the restoration of his family.

Next.

iyababs:
Haba! I think he was talking about himself,everyone is free to express his or feelings. The truth is that it is not compulsory to have kids

He seems to be taking shots at the OPs parents for having children because of the story they tendered. Give him ten years, when he's in his thirties and over the childhood aches and he will want or have children contrary to his preaching.

It's not compulsory, but he sounds like he's a juvenile who needs convincing that it isn't.

mikaael:
Mumu…if ur parents had this mindset will they have u

He will tell you that he didn't ask to be born.

Rumundele:
Read the second paragraph again, the marriage lasted for a year and 4th paragraph the last part say she was a mother of two boys.

Call for clarifications, no offence please.

Maybe the guy has made up the whole story. The sister could be bad, but he's adding too much spice to his curry since he's hated her since they were children.

She could've had one of them out of wedlock.

Rumundele:
Two boys in the space of one year, please can you throw more light.

Lol.

acewines:
No mind them, naso them go dey deceive people online

It's their style.

Afterwards they will begin to backtrack, then boom! They will have children, but not in Nigeria. Then, okay, I have a kid now.

Simple stuff. Online assertions of character are often lies.

dejavubobo1:
Illitrates are diffcult to do business with. They can be unpredictable and can kill fr the littlest reason.

Especially illiterates they can kill for peanuts, but some of the literate ones are the worst. Those ones are constantly scheming to compete with their friends, so they can do terrible things.

tessiko:
You are right getting workers from agencies are good but a wicked soul is already damned.

True. But it should reduce the likelihood of encountering a wicked soul.

acewines:
Naso

If we check now, she or he get like 6 kids for ground

Lol

AndroidAI:
This is why I am a proud antinatalist.

Kids can be adorable, but they are nothing but liabilities.

And there will always be that black sheep that will keep you awake at night.

I can't deal. Childfree is the way!!

You don't want to have children or you don't want others to? Because of your traumatic childhood conditions or because of theirs?

Once you become an adult, you will go on to have children and then join Extinction Rebellion and the other greens to condemn other people giving birth and talk about eugenics. It's the template for "antinatalists". Some of you are even trying to have reversible vasectomies.

The real antinatalists have irreversibly sterilized themselves without shouting online that they are antinatalists to convince themselves that is who they are.

GloriousGbola:
Agency in Nigeria is bs as far as I am concerned.
There is no real way of vetting people and for all you know they picked the helper off the street. This is definitely the case with private security outfits.

I am not sure if agencies even have liability in the Nigerian environment

It's the best bet, rather than picking up dangerous scum whose only life goal is how to obtain the wealth of others without working for it.

Most of these people would avoid agencies because it would involve some form of identification. And if they are past criminals, they will know that their details would be made known. The burden lies on the agencies to ensure its real names, guarantors and details of the person being used. And that's the hard part.

NOETHNICITY:
About six years ago, a gateman killed an elderly couple and dumped their bodies in a well in the compound.
It’s is best to keep the dregs of the society at arm’s length. This is my new year resolution.

I’m already making preparations to accommodate my parents when they get very old and unable to cater for themselves.

Same story in care. Unless you want your parents to live with you, they aren't safe elsewhere. And even at home, ones spouse could be cruel or the hired help

Nowhere on this thread will you read that you should fear the devil after fearing men. Even murderous men like this one.

That being said, how much were his wages that he tried to get a loan from them so that he could bolt? Some people have a lot of money or the capacity to pay more but will never pay their staff well, leading to resentment and evil in the end.

There are entitled staff, and there are antagonistic employers. If you don't pay well, let them know that there will be no wage increment or review from the first day.

I encountered a dangerous young man aged 21 employed to do a particular job only in the morning, and he made sure he stole a lot of money in his three months of laziness, sloppiness and arrogant entitlement. When his cup was full, he was given an extra month of expected wages and was told his services weren't needed again, and that if he was seen on or around the premises, he would not like the outcome as he would make himself a suspect. He took his undertaking in good faith. That kind of boy was the murderous type, because he had a lot to lose (free stolen income), and it's best that type don't work personally for one.

Use an agency for personal staff. And please, look at their ugly, dangerous and black faces long and hard. Don't ignore their faces. Especially if they're men you're employing.

Waywardson6:
Always remember? That it was the same Europeans that colonised & introduced religion in Africa. So? They definitely know best. Truth will always prevail, no matter how long it's been covered or misinterpreted. Love is Love, Love wins. God bless Europe.

Europeans brought Islam, Buddhism, Jainism, and other religions to Africa? What religions are there with origins in Europe apart from neopaganism and a few others that aren't practiced in Africa?

Generalizations are a cankerworm and a form of mental laziness.

Buying diabetes and obesity seems to be a favorite pastime in some countries. You would think the USA would make each can cost maybe a ten, and perhaps make cooking fats more expensive. The other set prefer to make diabetes tea and obesity pastries. All taste pretty good, though.

madridguy:
You don scatter their love. Na love portion package be that. As usual na the lady go lock the fine bobo inside bottle.

Read the note and stop the misogyny and assumptions just because you've been trained to think it's ladies who do such things.

Read it.

VULCAN:
It's now clear to me why most of your posts make no sense.

You either don't read or you can't comprehend what you read.

First off, it is a woman not a man giving the update. You goofed there.

The story ended happily with them gaining custody of the child since the child was in foster care. Adoption takes a while but at least they have custody.

At the age of 5, it is still possible to wipe away the trauma the child has faced with the wrong parents who neglected the child and the negligence that comes with most foster care kids.

With the money they won in court, they are resettling elsewhere for a fresh start.

For now, that's a happy ending.

How claiming your switched kid ruins everyone's life is something that only you can cook up.

Lollz

Your posts are generally foolish. Once I saw your moniker, I didn't bother reading it. That you quote a post usually means you have a textbook of nonsense to type, that is if you bother reading and understanding.

Take your misogyny to the next poster. You can preach it to them.

Like Sam Smith like Lil Nas x

Mercury12:
Both families should just adopt their biological child. It is better that way.
It is selfishness for one family have have both child.

It will potentially ruin the lives of everyone involved. The children would've enjoyed their respective lives, why shake things up just because of genes? Sometimes, children need parents, not a father and mother.

But the guy has given an update that works out. If it is true.

Beremx:
Your mum is too quick to judge your girlfriend. Instead of discouraging you from marrying her, why not your mom advice the lady as a mother to stop wearing such in public? If she refuses to stop, then you can stop the relationship with her.
Some mothers sef?!

What on Earth?

Nigerian men!

They always condemn women and preach the exemplary qualities that every woman should have, such as conservative dressing. You would think they would be attracted to mother Mary/niqaab wearers, or have sisters who are like mother Mary/niqaab wearers. What you will see them dating will tell you why good Christian/Muslim girls finish last in the relationship field. And it has everything to do with appearance and nothing to do with their character. When you see them mocking an unmarried woman, you would think she is the devil, meanwhile, look what their sisters and wives look like ideally for them. But they will preach against women who dress as they please constantly. It's some kind of hypocritic mental illness they have.

His mother is funny.

gaby:
No hospital fit swap my kids make I no code.

The gene gallant wella.

Once I check the forehead...I don confirm or reject am.

Lol. This guy.

Big deal.

Adoption is the same thing. If they try to get back their biological kid, they're going to ruin all their lives. Unless it's the fantasy update that he gave, it won't work.

Niceguy06:
This was the reason I refused to take my girlfriend of 5yrs with me to Canada. Left her in Nigeria. I used my intellect to get there, and I want her to do the same. I'll rather find a woman here than bringing anybody from Naija. If a woman is in my shoe, she'll do the same. I've been advising my friends against bringing their wife. Leave her in Naija and get a woman here

Yes, it's tit for tat. No woman should take any man out there, especially if she's worked hard for it. Some partners can be lazy. And it's the worst thing to see a man who has no constraints sit and expect money and riches from anyone. It never ends well to the giver to such a man.

Imagine this guy opening a thread as if he didn't have an education too.

LoL, your type , your vagina will be sweet to Bleep. You're bitter and terrible feminist. Women are nothing but for our enjoyment

You are even a gay guy. Stop hiding behind false bravado and claiming to "enjoy" women.

And still manages to look ugly and is overweight.

Hardworking Nigerian man like reddingtonblack