₦airaland Forum

Samantha123:
Only few young mothers die before the age of 30 and such death is referred to as premature death because the person is still young.

But if 50+ person dies, we throw a party because we consider it to be his or her time.

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Samantha123:
Fine, I'll let the selfish old woman live, even though she should be preparing for her departure, in case it happens, instead of making babies.

Still on that redundant point?

Everything you think she's doing wrong is being done wrong by younger mothers.

Young mothers die before they get to 30. Is that now a case against women having children because they are young? Is that how you are going to logically face that?

Live and let live.

Bye Felicia.

sotall:
You dont have to display your stupidity for all to see.
Sometimes just pretend like you have sense.

You have a lot of deep issues.

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow at all!

You will, Miriam.

Samantha123:
She could've just adopted when she turned 40.. Imagine a child having a grandmother as a mother, this is embarrassing.

I'm sure that child is also going to be embarrassed to call her her mother when she's with her mates.

Shifting goal posts, and redundant points. The woman who gave birth knows more than you do about her own motherhood.

Forever young woman, live and let others live.

Kobojunkie:
You decide that for your own self. I am simply inquiring as to whether she used donor eggs or not. Sarah, in the bible, who he compares her to, didn't.

You are falling in line with my post gradually.

Things that Nigerians would've thrown into fires and roasted snakes on centuries ago, because colonials made them valuable, they've been acting like they were stolen from them.

Kobojunkie:
Did your aunt use donor eggs for her pregnancy?

Will that make her not to be the mother of the child? Or shall we praise doctors and not God, because IVF doesn't even work on younger parents?

Cubalabloo:
Somefellow chose to parade their stupidity publicly without shame. The problem of this country is not just our leaders, but a whopping rate of 95% of Nigerians.

Dumbs Thumbs up to your likes.

You'd have to believe it's trolling or has an axe to grind with you.

Samantha123:
Say whatever you want to say, but that old woman is selfish.

Already she's punishing that innocent girl for an offence she knows nothing about.

Nothing compared to the punishment many young parents have given and continue to give their children every single day the sun rises. How many children who are suffering were born to older women?

Say whatever you want, but she's no less qualified to be a mother than you are simply because she's old. Your sentiment will not stop her and other women who wish to be mothers from being mothers.

One would think the problem of older women would be misogynists and teenagers with no understanding of life. Alas. Trolls.

Live and let others live.

Samantha123:
Even if she lives past 90, she'll be useless and a vegetable.

What if the daughter ends up doing prostitution because of hardships and lack of financial support at home?

You can't compare the Beatles with an old selfish African woman who probably doesn't have any investments to leave behind for her child.

And what if all you think will happen doesn't ever happen? There are a lot of active 90 year olds. Go out some more.

Who told you a woman who has spent 57 years getting her life and finances in order won't be able to care for one child? Because she's an African woman without any investments? Really? So what makes you better than her?

People have gone into prostitution for various reasons, and it is not because of having an older mother.

You are running faster than your shadow.
Live and let live.

Samantha123:
Why would I be jealous of a selfish old woman when I'm still young?

Even if she doesn't die soon, old age has already kicked in and soon she'll just be nothing but a vegetable, leaving the daughter to suffer.

You don't know more than the woman who had the child. You can't tell if she will live to be 90+, something those who birthed at a youthful 20 and died at 30 couldn't do.

After all, she's alive at 57 and has given birth at that age. Live and let live. The Beatles have had children at much older ages than that.

Extensions of her husband on the Forum won't like this

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Nice..although that position is not too academic..it looks ceremonial, political and administrative
But nice one from those women
I wanna see more of this...

Women can be intelligent with high mental strength but just that most don't wanna go that way and stress themselves

They prefer the easy life...and those annoying characters like being Dramatic, manipulative, money conscious, attention seeking, clingy, jealous spirit, emotional, possesive and stubborn.

If it's not academic, how come they're professors?

Say the truth and shame the weed.

jmichael259:
This not an argument. Neither i nor you is related or privy to Boris Johnson family.

This is characteristic of any family that has more than one child, one son or one wife. So we should impose the chinese one child policy?
If a Polygamous man has shared his properties among his 15kids, How will he experience this? Pray, tell.

There are millions of families across Nigeria with this exact problem and polygamy doesn't make up to 30%.
Personally, I have a case of 2men born of the same mother. The older one and wife had clamored for the younger brother to leave. The younger brother stayed put reminding them that it is their father's purchased property &not willed to anyone so, the worst that could happen would be a division.
Everyday we get news of people encroaching or selling their siblings' assets just because they were schooling/working in the city.
It is a result of greed occasioned by not sharing things on time a.k.a NOT HAVING A WILL.
QED

A characteristic of polygamous homes is the opa post.

Anyone claiming otherwise is in denial.

Another one.

jmichael259:
It isn't EXCLUSIVE to polygamous family. It is a result of NO DEFINED WILL! Sometimes pampered (ajebo) kids, ostracisement, neglect and mainly greed also contributed.

People are killing their parents/siblings all over the news. Greedy people na greedy people and are mainly lazy golddiggers.

If all individuals were established and aware of the man's will, this nonsense wouldn't be happening.

It is a characteristic of polygamous homes. Boris Johnson will experience the same thing.

africandollar:
Guy bone! -11deg is nothing compared to -25deg where I am, the fact that she’s not covering her head and ears whilst making this video shows it’s bearable else e go be like say someone put knife dey try cut the edges of your ears.

Abeg which one be 7 clothes again na North Pole the person dey stay?

Ask them.

Places get really cold and people don't make videos and ugly expressions to prove it.

omonnakoda:
Is there anything in this life to justify complaining or making ugly faces

Ask them. They say they're cold.
Nobody else is cold at their complainers kiosk.

James Brown and Bobrisky

Litmus:
United Kingdom

Google quotes the following number of South Africans living in the UK:

South Africa is ranked in ninth position, with an estimated 229,000 people currently living in UK.


approximately 178 thousand Nigerian nationals residing in the United Kingdom in 2021



Australia

In Australia, there were 145,683 South African-born people living in the country at the moment of the 2011 Census, having an increase compared with those 78,444 recorded by the 2001 Census.

The latest Census in 2016 recorded 8,488 Nigeria-born people in Australia, an increase of 87.8 per cent from the 2011 Census

That Australian one is something many people don't seem to know.

DivinegiftofGod:
You have not experienced that kind of cold that is why you're talking this way.

Do you know what it feels like living inside the freezer? Someone said she wears nothing less than seven clothings everyday before she can go to work yet the cold is still biting.
Can you be doing that stress everyday? How many clothes do you even have to be changing with seven everyday.?

We always think its better on the other side..

The people who live in these countries aren't humans, are they? Or do Nigerians just want attention? It's called winter. You're wearing layers in winter, doesn't everyone else? Or isn't everyone else there feeling the extra wintry bite?

From time to time, winter gets colder than usual. It isn't enough reason for people making ugly faces in videos.

jmichael259:
This is not exclusive to polygamous homes but a result of having no defined will.

Even if na one bicycle you own, Get lawyers and write will now while you are physically fit. Update will every 6mths or when get new assets or offspring.

Everybody's Will should clearly authorise agency or employing people for hospice and rehab in case of accident, stroke, disability, terminal illness or being in vegetative state like this man. Many people in today's world will abandon or even terminate their parent only to come drag property.

It is a characteristic of polygamous homes.

Without a will they can bicker, but you won't see 3 women and their faction of kids trying to tear one man apart.

Greystone:
Your own is better.
For me, I’d only leave money to pay for my childrens’ school fees ( up to master’s levels), not accessible in cash to them but to be paid directly into the school’s accounts as well as money for their upkeep.
Asides from that, everything else goes to charities.
On my sick bed I for quietly call my lawyer and changed my will seeing this sort of nonsense.

And you think such products of polygamy won't contest your will?

Polygamy is good. More men should embrace it to reduce promiscuity in the society.

Polygamy is good.

Don't invest in a meaningful relationship. Make sure you gave children everywhere one you have the money to do it. You will enjoy life very, very much. You are the prize, after all.

Vinex4uba:
Mumu dey rape with condom, that one no be rape abeg, na consented sex..
Checking the size of his manhood means she enjoys it too

A lot of men who were raped can describe their rapist. Harvey Weinstein would give the same defense as you.

Jozilinn:
Nawa oh it's looks like consented sex to me oh, since condom is involved with lubricant...

If a man uses a condom, it means it can't be a rape?

Did you read the article? Or are you eager, as usual, to trivialize rape because it didn't happen the way you think it should? Her account isn't what you feel it should've been like, right? No wonder you're not the judge.

A lot of you need help.

Randy100:
The story no clear
At a point he wore a condom, at a point they said there was traces of sperm in her birth canal. Someone is lying.

Yes, they must be lying. The two women. They would just invent this story about him raping them and the condom tearing. Maybe they want to be court stars.
Another "innocent man" on trial. We need more tape denial to trivialize and sweep evil crimes under the carpet.

A nurse wouldn't know when she's been raped, if Nigerian men have anything to say about it.

palimo:
This girl must have seen too many gbola.

That's all you could determine from reading the article?

You didn't see that the man needs correction? You are trying to trivialize what happened, maybe so that you don't have to acknowledge the usual culprit of the seemingly usual crime.

Magnoliaa:
Ohh. I see.

I am not leaving you then.

I will see you on another thread.

You go call mods taya.

But I wee take your appraisal of the GOAT beebee. :-|

Wee wee sea about that.

You wee come running back to me. Am a magnanimous person.

Magnoliaa:


Your head isssss—

But why do I feel as if you're saying this to pacify me? You want me to leave you alone abi?

You're making me

Moral cards and skills off the table, even the uninitiate soccer watchers have a vague idea that he should be the better of the two.

Shall I call off the mods?