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This is why a woman must'nt settle for a man who lost his virginity for 2 packets of noodles and a bottle of Crest.

Marry a virgin man and enjoy peace of mind. If the man you're marrying has whored himself away with many other women, you will always have battles you didn't sign up for. He's given away his best years and is looking for an innocent woman to give his high body count, old age, crooked schlong, damaged emotions, troubled life and worthless leftovers to. The more women he's slept with, the less value the man has and the more trouble he is filled with. Don't believe it when he says that chapter is closed. He will always return whence he came from: the whoring streets. No good men today, all are used and over used.

dalass:
It's may have to do with that hideous and unnatural pink she loves so much. It's a turn off

You'd be surprised when she gets the guy who wants her like that.

Nobody gets with saints.

mmadu5:
Wetin I want take love do. Nigerian women don't love especially those ones over here. If they happen to love you,trust me it will cost you a tooth and leg . They are all useless . Our mothers were the last breed of Good women . These generation of nigerian girls only love you as long as you fuel their desire.

My advice to guys . Just find one girl pay her bride price . Weda she loves you or not shouldn't be your problem . Shoot your seeds in her and let her lay eggs for you . That's what they are probably good for .

You attract who you are.

If Nigerian women are so deficient, it's because Nigerian men are the same.

It's the same way Africans attract governance to themselves. You are the people you condemn. You are only angry because you aren't the beneficiaries

It should've boiled?

hopefulLandlord:
I find the gradual death of our local names disturbing. Why exactly would someone that bears Adekunle marry someone that bears Simisola then give birth to a kid and name her "Deja"?


Same thing is happening to our local languages. if you observe now there are many teenagers and 20 somethings that can hear their local language but can't speak it. if such kids marry people like them and they give birth their kids will not only be unable to speak but also unable to hear too

Our things are dying a slow painful death right before our eyes

It's simple really: uphold it in your own home.

buygala:
It's all good until their kids get teased by their peers that their parents hooked up via toilet sex on live TV

And it gets worse when the kids are shown the live video of the deed

And it gets far worse when their grandkids and great grandkids see the video of their ancestors toilet frolicking on live TV..


A eternal caricature made of an entire lineage due to the silliness of two people because sadly, the Internet never forgets

It will be quite commonplace by then that it won't really matter.

Has Kim Kardashian's daughter seen her tapes? No. And if she does, it won't even matter.

beejaay:
What's the difference..

She's actually a pedophile.

She had threesomes with those little girls and Jeffrey. She was in the same room. Testimonies from the victims indicate she was always present and participated fully.

armyofone:
Same Philip was with them today. Went to Christmas service and walk about with them today.

They should bring back Harry and Megan and stop being petty about HM raining on their parade for being too sought after.

You believe the Henry and Megan matter is about popularity? If you believe any one-sided thing those two liars say, you should believe Andrew is innocent.

Two people are looking for stories about their lives to sell, and black people actually believe the hucksters. Stories from a racist semi prince who dressed as a Nazi? Are you for real?

grandstar:
My standards are very high. Perhaps, it is because I'm a jehovahs Witness. We are urged to abide by the Bible's rules concerning marriage and married couples do their utmost to meet it

Marriage isn't a bed of roses. Apostle Paul said "married couples will face tribulations".

By applying Bible principles, we can make our marriage work.

You're quoting people who believe that as men they are entitled to cheat and be forgiven at the next whisper of wind. They believe they're perfect, and so rather than work on the terrible people that they are, they seek to lay the blame at women's feet.

Next moment, they're beating their chests that they're men, that it's their culture, that there can't be two captains in a shop. What kind of headship is that?

After the mythical money they claim to provide, what else do they bring into their marriage? Nothing. Except apologies that mean nothing.

Chinjo2:
These generation of wives have a lot to learn from our mothers who endured marriage for over 50 years and are still there. Out of sheer pride a d arrogance she has decided to deny these lovely kids fatherly attention. Ask her what happened now and she will never say she had fault.

What happened to this generation of men that they cannot keep one wife? They have a lot to learn. Any little skirmish at home, and the next thing they're running amok looking for what they call "peace of mind". There's no perfect woman, and after circulating like surface sewage they will find one innocent woman and tie her down only to repeat the same cycle.

Blessedmercy8:
You can only speak for yourself Sir. There are men who talk more than women.

Some men are nags and talk too much. When they have an issue with their wives, due to stereotypes, nobody will look in their direction as the problematic one.

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ogbe88:
You are the bigger idiot, learn how to talk properly.

I said it.

Here's one of the triggered idiots on the loose. The type who will blame everyone else but themselves.

Berankis:
This is the reason why some women can't stay married. They are very quick to divorce because they are wild and don't want to be tamed.
Her dressing here shows how wild some women want to be. And you can hardly do all these under a sane husband.
At the end of the day, the same women will be calling all men dogs after parading themselves as wild animals.

It is the same reason many men can't stay married and want their wives to protect their marriages.

Because men don't wear these kinds of clothes, doesn't mean they aren't manwhores at heart.

Jadeng:
A lot of women make this erroneous assumption,, that when you expose your body then you get attention of men....
Well, it will shock you to know, that no responsible man will want to hang around such women or even marry such.
Of course you will attract guys, the playboys who will use and dump you.

Men love such women. All this castigation is fake. Well, what's there not to like about a woman who ticks your boxes and is up front about it?

Even the ones who like it will come here to deny it and castigate her.

godofuck231:
A woman who has faied to protect her marriage and her man , instead she exposes him , side chic 1 - ex wife 0

Why can't the man protect his marriage? Is there some law that says men can only destroy, but never protect their homes?

Nigerian men say they are the head of the home, yet they want women to protect and run they're marriages for them. A husband who needs a wife to protect his marriage is not a real husband. He's not a man. He's a doorknob.

Besides, it's a dated video.

Blessedmercy8:
.. aunty don collapse the table finally.. horhorhorhorrrrrr chai...

Women stomach a lot in order to be seen as good women in the Nigerian society. Men will list one billion qualities of a woman, but if a woman just says she wants a tall man, cue short men to unleash the gates of insults about her and how she will end up at Shiloh unmarried and childless. But everyday we will see unrealistic expectations men have placed on a woman somewhere to meet up for them, things they cannot even do and be for God, they will want a woman to be all those things.

Now, this woman who has lived over a decade with her husband wants out, she's seen his lack of sense and tried to reason with him. Rather than accept her experience in his hands, they've dropped plenty insults for her.

Better for her to be single than swallowing the insensibility of an insensible man daily. That he has some money in his pockets doesn't mean he has any sense. But on this forum, poverty and the hate of women won't let them be reasonable.

His wife knows best.

Too many quacks spoil the trade.

Lol.

This forum.

If it were the man who said this, the thread will not have so much anger. She realized her husband doesn't have sense, so she should shut up? We normally read how men want women with sense, but today we have seen that men come with little sense. Rather than thinking about that, the next step is to turn it around on his wife. She must be talking out of turn, because sense is reserved for men. 90% of women are married to 98% of senseless men. Because sense is hard to find in men.

She was married to him. If she says he has it doesn't have sense, who are we to say it is her who is senseless for pointing it out? Buchi said something more senseless, and he got accolades here.

Probably because this forum is full of idiots.

He looks abusive/manipulative/red pill/unattractive/dangerous.

Judolisco:
not only yourself oga, u r working so that others will also benefit from u.... Why my own children go come suffer

They don't need to suffer, but the reason you want nice things is for yourself. Not because of them. Because when they're enjoying those things, they won't even think of you.

flexyrule:
Babe has made up her mind, and I respect her for that.

She don't wanna be a "numbered wife"

Yul f*cked up big time... Even though I ain't gonna throw a stone, cuz it's damn damn difficult sticking to one woman for donkey years.

A woman cannot find everything she desire in a man, in one man. Same with the man....

A woman might be good in the kitchen, top notch when it comes to relating with people, superbly neat and freaking smart, but terrible in bed...

Or she might be a ganster, a confamed nympho, but an empty brain that cannot impart a single knowledge in your kids..

In all this, understanding is the key. When you have that knowledge that nobody's perfect.. You have it all figured out.

It's always her who must be this and that type of person.

What about him? What if he's the one who is lacking severely?

Pvin:
The question is, will Yul's 1st wife, May be leaving or not?
She is staying on fence. She said she won't leave and won't accept her co-wife. It doesn't make sense. She is not in full control of this situation, two other people are involved.

She cannot make Yul divorce his 2nd wife. May please pick a struggle because you might not win if yiu don't decide on one thing. Which is to Leave or accept your co-wife.

What are Nigeria's bigamy laws?

She's sitting on the fence until she's gotten her cards right.

This woman and her public foray into forced polygamy.

The drama he consistently posts, which she replies to, is getting amusing. Slay men who live on social media are the worst. His need to dramatize the whole thing is ridiculous. If they live in the same house, why these public apologies and declarations?

Judolisco:
I'll leave a lot of wealth for my kids poverty is not good... Proper home training will make them knw Hw to manage wealth... Why I come dey work if ino fit leave for my children

You are working to enjoy yourself, not necessarily because of children. Even Solomon the wisest man knew that.

Tell that to the techosphere here. You do it for your children indeed. As if your wealth will be of any use to them.

Own your decisions.

JustforMen:
Mtcheeeww ...Adieu!

To you.

JustforMen:
Well, the choice to get sense is very free, my sister!

Compliments of the season.

Something you're perennially allergic to is what you're recommending to me?

You're a clown of many colors.

What a season to witness.

Mitsurugi:
How can I misread someone I admired and followed on BBN. BBN was the reason I even penciled her for a role without an audition which is what I do a lot. I watch you, I like you, I cast you, provided you are not inundated with witchcraft. Bro leave these girls. They are not what you think. Their real traits will shock you. I went on to work with Thin Tall Tony on another job and I have a whole list of actor friends who'll vouch for my attitude. I'm not boasting.

Okay.

Maybe she didn't like the typecasting. Or the project. She may not have an attitudinal problem.

Not specifically you, but why do extroverts or people who think they're down to Earth like labelling people who don't fit their mould as dislikeable/proud/unsociable people?

JustforMen:
If you imagine in your delusion that all a woman gets out of a marriage is a child then my statement holds true.

If you are a woman then I am not even surprised this comes from you!!!

Says the companion of a deluded hag.

Mitsurugi:
Exactly what you understand by uptight and having an attitude We're adults and understand these terms. In don't want to go into details. This was in 2017. I used another actress, got the job done and I've moved on. Downside was someone recently recommended her, and I sharply said no. Life is better that way.

I don't understand your context. It could be that you are the uptight and attitudinal one, and that you misread her. Context is important