Kobojunkie: I grew up in Ikorodu — Lagos rd/Benson st., not too far from Garage roundabout — and everybody was definitely not rich.
I attended Ayangbure Primary school, Isiu Grammar school, and later Government College Ikorodu as well. So yes, I was surrounded by the reality of life in Nigeria whichever way I looked, almost every single day of my growing-up-in-Nigeria life.
You forgot to add your name, so that somebody could go fact checking.
MrAdam: If you judge beauty by physical appearance, you're doomed.
What is beauty, if not ones physical appearance?
We need to normalize not claiming that beauty isn't physical on this forum of guttersnipe, because that's exactly what the word beautiful means: something or someone that looks good physically! Just say her beauty isn't to your desire.
Don't mistake character traits with beauty in a bid to make it appear that because a woman is beautiful she has nothing else going for her.
Her body has been overworked, though. Unrealistic proportions.
GabrielYulaw: When I was in the uni, some students would sneak into the hostels of blind students and steal their phones and money. I am pretty sure that some of those thieves are in the comment section proudly spewing rubbish
Just wow. But don't be surprised there are people who do these things.
Surely, they are here, as there are representatives of the vilest offenses who come in to diffuse their rubbish all over threads.
Kelvin3476: men and women doesn't share\have the same lifestyle.
u dnt ask urself why they do everything differently and are seen differently.
ur own na to forget ur brain anytime u are coming online
No.
You don't have any brains at all. Not even the ones other stupid men keep under their belts. It's why you cannot reason logically, rather you summon useless stereotypes that don't make any sense. Because you don't have a functional brain at all.
spiritedtete: The motherly influence, nurture, bond of a child and home is more in the hand of the mother. Men are ment to grow up and prepare for war.. also a child carries more of the mother gen morethan the father. We can't over emphasis the role and the influence of mother in a marriage. For men they have just little to give, Security, Provision, leadership and Guidance. Like I said men are born for wars and die faster than their wives in most cases. I don't smoke... but men smoking weed never lose their sanity and responsibilities in most case.
But one can marry a man who smokes, right?
Men aren't born for wars and don't die faster than their wives biologically, but that they create wars which they will die for and marry women who are decades younger than themselves. The human body is the same for both men and women. What will kill a man will kill a woman. If smoking will do so much evil to women, it will do the same to men. Unless you want to claim men bleed lead.
@bolded, is untrue. But it also explains the belief of Nigerian men, and their little contribution to humanity. That negligence of men and their desire to do little is the reason society is failing. Men are becoming cowards with many excuses for being substandard.
victoryukpong: my deaf friend was scammed by a sport betting scammer, the scammer knew that my friend was deaf and kept asking him to use POS to pay for games and was giving him story instead of booking number
my deaf friend fell for the guys scam 4 times and how I'm getting to know about it because not only did the guy make the deaf person spend as much as ₦75,000 he also made the deaf guy to believe that if he should continue sending more money he will put him in a betting group to get benefit
my deaf friend is begging me to help him
another situation here is that he does not want to involve the deaf association because of the shame of revealing the scam he fell for because all the deaf community will hear about it
I've sent a message to EFCC on Facebook but no response yet
btw I'm also deaf (hard of hearing) so I alone can not do any process to help him recover his fund
so I need your suggestions
thank you
Put aside the shame. The community is a community to help it's members.
What they will know is insignificant if they can help you guys out.
Besides, you're not deaf. You are hearing impaired and before that you are firstly a person. Stop using negative words to describe your inability to hear. Same goes for your topic.
spiritedtete: Some people think since the western girls are doing it and they are fine, it is just a stigma in Nigeria. Women who smoke weed are slow slowpoke all over the world. They are not smart and are always dirty including their sanity. If you want a bright home never marry a woman who smokes weed or do drugs.
How much are male users paid for these topics? Every 2hrs, a misogynist topic comes up.
After bashing your "mother" what will it have done for everyone involved in it? The "evil woman" even gave him some money to set up his life with. Her crime is marrying another man. He expected her to become a nun to make himself happy.
Baddosqqi: He came back home when he was diagnosed that he has cancer of the lungs. I just had to forgive him. I know you're hurt. But please forgive him and take care of him, trust if you don't and he dies, you will one day feel bad you didn't. Just look away and forgive him, please.
I'm not the poster who wants their father to suffer, though I can see reasons why they would want that.
Kudos to you for forgiving him. Hopefully you will extend that kindness to as many as require it. It's not easy forgiving a person who doesn't deserve it and will never ask for it. But for your healing, it's a good step.
Baddosqqi: Bro, he remains your dad, please forgive him. I know it can be very hurtful. Mine hurt me the most when he turned his back on us after I got admission into ABU. But immediately I realised he was gonna die, I forgave him. Please forgive him. Please.
It's wrong for men to maltreat their families in the hope that one day they will be forgiven and understood.
You are right to forgive him, for yourself. Not because he deserved to be forgiven. It's pathetic that many men have to drown before they realize their wife and children matter.
od501: Good reply. I felt really sorry for the guy. Typical product of a single mother.
Here is a prime example of why deadbeat men continue to be deadbeats and indoctrinate their sons into deadbeat-ism. In fact, the work of deadbeats is to be such trashy people, and then pin their failures to be good parents/fathers on their birthing partners. After all, it's a patriarchal society and it is forgiving of any type of evil men commit. So why not be a deadbeat? Your sins will be forgiven, and even if you are a failure, it is your partner who will accrue all blame at the end of the day. God help that child if it doesn't come looking for you as a man, because you hold the keys to it's life and future.
Definitely not his fault for being a deadbeat father. It's their mothers fault for raising them when their father wouldn't be there. It's as if the children in these situations were blind and dumb not to know their father had no role to play in their life, except that as sperm donor. You really think children are so foolish they need to be told that their father is a deadbeat by their mother?Have you heard that actions speak louder than words? Nigerian men can be quite stupid about that, believing children can't tell these things themselves. They believe it's always a woman doing this or that, when they are actually the ones making themselves look bad to their children.
Maybe the deadbeats partners should've abandoned the child, too, so that later on deadbeats won't accuse her of raising a child alone.
It's not the product of a single mother, but the product of a negligent, toxic man that you are referring to. If you don't want products of single mothers, then make yourselves available as men.
But you won't. It's much easier to blame women for being parents as it covers your failures as fathers.
Baddosqqi: That is not right... Honor your father and mother that you may live long is what the scriptures commanded... Forgive him please.
What if what is happening to the father is retribution for what he did to his own parents? What if he didn't honor them? Or is he innocent because he's now the one in a tight place?
kansoboy: Oga go Nd help Ur father if u can afford it... One day, if u are a man, u may understand y he left u and Ur mother. ...but don't make mistake of letting him die when u can safe his life.
If u are a girl, u wil never under his reason. But u will get in love one day and u will begin to wonder y is life like this.
@bolded is a lie that makes many men deadbeats, and makes their sons follow suit. It's a Nigerian cycle. Is it that men don't want to think or they prefer being brainwashed to follow certain thought patterns,?
Because he's a man, he should abandon his family, with the belief that he's a man and can easily get another one, and the family just understand him? What advice would you give to a child whose mother abandons them and their father? Would you preach the same thing?
hermesprogidy: You hit the nail on the head. Poverty is the only explanation I can profer as to why some young men see this human scum as their role model.
Check out any misogynist. Their shared history is poverty.
How anyone can follow and defend Tate is a mystery. Only damaged men can follow him, actually. Sheep like them are his oxygen.
DKM123: Evul Nigerian men won't like this. How can thier demigod be arrested for merely committing the little sin of human trafficking and terrorism to thier fellow human.
I mean, this idiats wish women will vacate the earth YET are making money off men's insatiable NEED for women's pu#s#sy. The irony of it all. Confused lots.
You know them well. Confused hypocrites. They need help.
Guyman01: The guy is anti transgender making them to know that even if you create fake Pussy for a man who decides to live like a woman you can't give her ovaries and eggs neither can a woman with artificial dck grow balls. They have been after him because he is making western ladies to start respecting and cherishing masculinity once again and he's telling men to defend women who recognise the place of natural man in the society. He is making nonsense of their woke ideology and they have been after him.
He said recently that if feminists want to defend the rights of women they should join the Army and ask to be deployed to Afghanistan to fight against Taliban which is denying women of rights to education and not talking down on men who go to wars started by Hillary Clinton in Libya
You're trying too hard to defend the rights of a known sex offender. You've created excuses his lawyers need to hear. You're trying to make him a hero. Perhaps you know more than the police do. Or maybe you're the mans dick and that's why you're preaching for him without being paid to.
Rest your anti-women sentiment. It will make you defend what your female family cannot withstand.
We all know it is poverty that births misogyny in men.
cococandy: His goons are already up there vituperating in his defense.
Disgusting
Very disgusting.
Their role models are getting dessert, one after the other, but the creatures continue to defend the indefensible.
I keep saying it: most of the male users here are murderers, rapists, child abusers, incestuous, batterers, abusers and robbers. What they can excuse under the cover of anonymity is a reflection of who they are.
Sixfeetbelle: This is how all those abusers and rapist hiding under redpill will be arrested and detained. Their time is coming, slowly but surely
It's all been a long time coming
So many toxic rapists, murderers and abusers hide under the guise of the red pill. Fxexperts is one of them.
Men in that movement are a danger to society and have some of the most backwards, evil minds. They always try to look like him and talk like him. They are always newspaper spectacles.