₦airaland Forum

EmekaA125:
E better like this than say all men for neighborhood dey pounce on her everyday.

Magnoliaa:
Boiling hot lava, did something enter your eyes?

Or you need me to blow it for you or what?

Carmanbiz:
Unprofessionalism playing out.

Bloommax:
Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Explicits:
Where is it written on the bible that maturbation is a sin

KennethEnyi:
Don’t mind the fool

Bayyajidda:
I'm so sorry if I've offended you in any way. Do forgive me.

Bayyajidda:
Your dead one you mean? You're obviously a devil incarnate. Get behind me Satan!

Magnoliaa:
How much "freer" can I be?

If you don't mind, can I ask you some questions and just have some things cleared to me? Preferably off NL?

Maybe in the mails...

Celebrityblog:
Please help!! Foreign numbers from Algeria, Mozambique, Serbia, Benin, Angola, and several other countries keep flashing me. Different numbers oooo.

If i block them, another will flash after some days.
What do they really want?

Who has experienced this before pls?

Bayyajidda:
Back to sender!

I never mentioned your father. Use fada not father, fada is not the same thing as father. It's a regular saying on comedy skits. I can never insult anyone's father.

Maaverick:
But here in Nigeria it is even the poor that birth excessively.

Karleb:
My bad. It takes someone with poor taste in music to declare African music as noise.

Karleb:
You don't know Ed Sheeran?

Honestly, you disappoint me for someone you claims he has good taste in music.

Magnoliaa:
I am not even going to get mad at this, because I know in the next six years, you'll be another Sea.trade hustling for a wife.

So continue.

We'll be here.

Karleb:
You called Nigerian music noise.

You know that's not true.

I remember Ed Sheeran was the one that made Peru remix possible. He literally initiated the feature because he loved the song so much.
A song you just called noise by extension.

Karleb:
You people will come only and be forming rubbish.

As if we don't listen to these same non Nigerian artists.

Pimine:
Afro beats is not senseless my niggarrr. The whole world is jumping on the Afro beats train. Even me sef don abandon my R&B type songs and I'm listening to and writing more of Afro Beats songs now.

buygala:
Who are you to judge our taste in Music? ..and why exactly will you use Western criteria to judge an African's taste in music?


So as full-blooded Africans, we should be listening to musicians who sing like Jim Reeves, Luther Vandross, and Rihanna? ...

When we have musicians like late Perikoma, Osadebe, KWAM 1, Arabambi, Ali Jita and our contemporary Zanku and Skelewu musicians.

Idaytesj29:
The ministries and government parastatals that are very engaging, what do govt offer them in return? Alaye leave matter for Mathias. With the way Nigeria is running it's workers renumeration, do you think workers will be dedicated? Look at ASUU after so much time at home and an agreement reached, Govt still went ahead to pay half salaries, is that a serious govt? You forgot an ebonyi lecturer that was assassinated while doing Uber because of poor pay and strikes, how can you be a govt worker and still be looking for side hustle? Like not out of interest in the hustle but to survive and feed?

Pls be considerate when criticize govt workers.

Have you said anything about the working environment of these people? They use their money to buy chairs and tables to sit on, offices has no AC, no stationeries, no imprest to run office, official vehicles are dead and not replaced,. No staff buses.

Some are work without going on leave for years, they transfer them in-between states with no DTA, they send on course and they have to pay their own money to register and never get any course allowance, I can go on and on. Lecturers use their salaries to fund research, no research fund or grants, even when they are qualified.
Majority of them are frustrated by the system.
Don't be too fast to be critical, investigate as well.

LaIabobo:
He is giving them 3 months severance. That's more than fair

luluosas:
May God forgive them their sins

ecolime:
56 years?

That's an high-risk pregnancy.

Thank God it ended well. Congrats to the family.


Nancy told People that she was in labor for nine hours. When Hannah arrived, she weighed 7 pounds, 12 ounces and was 19 1/2 inches long.
Weight in Kilograms= 3.51kg

successmatters:
Ekweremadu shouldn't own properties, he has not been paid any salary or allowance in his 20 years senate seat. He should be poor and wretched.

Magnoliaa:
No problem, baby.

So long as you're dancing for me, I wouldn't find it embarrassing.

Bayyajidda:
Back to sender.