Yes of course I love my dad pass my mama, may his soul rest in perfect peace

The least you can do is buy her a nokia touch since you have money to spend on someone who has zero desire for you, you shouldn't expect a damn thing from her too. put that phone money into crypto and it might make you a millionaire in 5 years, maybe in 5 years time she won't be your type of woman. shun oneitis and embrace plate spinning that's how you you discover that no woman is really special...

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Long distance relationship is not a relationship am glad you had such a experience and was able to share it, these hoes aren't loyal

Gaddafih001:

He sure lost his frame to the slut and thinks because he is a nice man,the woman will pity her.
Women and men no dey reason the same.
I also have 3 daughters but what I learnt from AMERIX channel helped me to rebuild my self and focus on me.
Today I am a man because I have a community of men who has passed through same phase and are better themselves.
If you have to leave that toxic woman, you better do and find a way to be helping your kids.
If she can’t be loyal to your government,don’t live with her.
With women,stay Taliban.

its Good to see a warrior in this platform the only problem now is can the man take actions and up his games

From your statement you sound more like a perfect husband who doesn't seems to have a life of his own, perfect is boring indeed. you have lost control as a man and also as a husband which I believe can be fixed. every man needs a man friend therefore find one or join group of men whether online and offline I recommend you look for [b]Amerix [/b]on twitter it has more 10,000 men in the platform.
I won't tell you what to do with your wife but rather what you will do with yourself, create time for yourself by hitting the gym, embrace stoicism and try to read books about women, masculinity and philosophy give it a try for 6 months and you will be shock of the kind you control you have lost in you home don't let you wife get involve with what you are doing keep her guessing and focus on yourself and I promise you this with time you will figure it out by yourself am happy cuz money is not the issue here therefore fix yourself first and if you your wife decide not to see the handwriting on the wall divorce her no woman is bigger your family cuz family will never forsake you no matter what and as for you children they shouldn't be an excuse of reaching you full potential as long as you are able to give them life basics necessity, guide and protect them they will be fine....

Stop living in the world your wife but rather create and start living in your own world PEACE

Pumpumking:


so u lookin for babe?..correct?...Meobizy or that Olunmercy56?.u want?(THANK ME LATER)

Thank you but I will pass not really fan of online dating and long distance relationship

Quite unfortunate she took her life for a mere hateful message that to tell you it very necessary to keep ones emotional and mental health to check.. as for I would be laughing out load to my haters and there hateful message

MufasaLion:
More life, man!

Remember, stay single.

this one is very difficult for me I cant seem to move on way past it

oke2018:
you're welcome ,I'm a ma

oh my bad thank you ma

oke2018:
Long life and prosperity in IJN

Thank you sir

Itohanmiwa:
Happy birthday man. May the Lord bless and keep you.

bless you too thanks a lot

Truvelisback:
HBD bro.

thank you sir

[quote author=Dayveed23 post=108377519]Happy birthday brother man [/quote Thank you big man

pansophist:
Happy birthday, man. More winnings. keep up with the self-improvement. That is how you live life, and become free.

thanks I appreciate

Ebubechuwku:
I don see my Sagittarius mate... live long Boss and more successes...

Thank you chairman

RaYwon6:
Happy birthday sir.. may you leave long like metusela.. how many years do you use in learning your phone repair skills?

roughly 1 year plus stated last November

Mariangeles:
Happy birthday to you!!!
More wins!

December born are born leaders!

Thanks a lot i appreciate

Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?

Sorry to break your heart bro long distance relationship is not a relationship. you are better off alone or find another girl period

Good day nairaland
Today is my birthday please show a brother some love
My achievement this year include;
I did my convocation this year
I acquire a phone repair skill this year
I hit the gym lost 15kg and bulking up
I completed 14 books this year it really help me intellectually
Although am not rich yet but my finances has improved

Next year will be better cause I will work harder till I get to the promise land...

Bundle002:
There’s this girl that am dating , she always come to visit me atleast twice in a week. She’s a virgin and anytime she visit that I ask for sex she refuse . We only kiss and romance that am tired of. I tried to show her love and affections but still she refuse . She’s not demanding too much from me to be sincere . Help I don’t know what to do . I want to have sex with her .

instead of whining about her being a virgin and not giving you sex why don't you find alternative who said men can only stick with one girl at this stage you should be spinning more plate if you want sex, stop putting all your attention, money and time on one particular girl period... go and read books about masculinity and women i believe it will help you in making rational decision

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Well Men can be difficult creatures but it doesn't mean that they are more or less of human they are prone to mistakes especially when it comes to upbringing. looking at your write up your man has already been giving you his 4ps (provide, precede, procreate and protect) apart from the fact that his talks too much or let me say more of a talker slapping him might be a slap on his face and dignity imagine growing up as a child and your mom never slapped your dad and at the end of the day your wife slapped you simply because of mere argument too bad and unfortunate. you never can tell what is on his mind cuz you might come back one day and see you house empty, you are not loyal to his command , you are not submissive that's why you exchange words with him and keep arguing with him remember only a stupid person argues with a stupid man cuz he will bring your IQ to his stupid world and he will beat you hands down with experience. you have to apologies to him, call your parents tell them what happened cuz you never can tell the mind is a deadly weapon but don't ever slap your husband again... peace

Remove gini unless APC want to loose the election come 2023, roughly 15 months the government go japa

JoeNL22:

Before nkor!
Its a fact!
No doubt
But my question is are you working?

16 hours a day, 7 days a week no rest until i reach my financial goal

The crazy stuffs young business owner going through everyday mere doing business in there fatherland lack of power supply, bad road, high cost of transportation, unfavorable taxing, dishonest worker, insecurity and many other challenges.

Nigeria is not working period thanks to our leaders

Schools don't give a shit about your kids they only see your kids as tools for making money that's why most pay there teacher peanuts this is disheartening, wicked and cruel.

kyrian0:

Lol Please bro or sis forget all this "person of high caliber" as they enjoy disappointing people.
As for your question, direct posting starts only when portal is open for registration, you submit some informations required for it most importantly your callup number as the person sorts it out for you and if successful, you'll be posted to the state you want where you'll camp for 3weeks and serve for 11months and some days. I hope it's clear?

Yes thank you

kyrian0:

You just said you have someone that wants to help you out, why didn't the person explain it to you? All this details are very important

he is someone of high caliber he only want to know when I'm ready so he will delegate it to one of his people

Flahyuq:
I'm a very clean guy who has never smoked in my life....I used to drink alcohol but that stopped about 3months ago due to health related issue
.
Now my problem is,For d Past 2months,i keep having dreams of me smoking cigarrete....At first,i didn't take it serious but now its becoming too much,i had d dream again yesterday....Its weird somehow,i don't understand
.
Who has d gift of interpreting dream??
I need help

Replacing alcoholic addiction with smoking from dream to reality

Spherical77:
it works perfectly well if the person is sure

Alright thank you

Please guy how do direct posting works I have someone who want to help me to go to any state and place I want in to serve