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ademidedavid:
My greetings nairalanders,
I am married for 10years now and blessed woth 3 wonderful kids but my woman is a bit difficult.

To cut the long story short, i went out with a colleague on friday and due to the fact that the kids are on holiday, i took my wife along because she was already raising the roof bout my outing ( NOTE: I have never ever gone out without my family to avoid wife's palava).

On getting there, she complained i was looking at some ladies lustfully which was not at all.......just trying to figure out some important things in my head. After which she complained that i was drunk.....lo and behold i wasnt because i dont take beer, i only take red wine, bullet and spinnorf......which i took a red wine and bullet before leaving the house and also took 3 bottles of spinnorff ( I was never drunk with all of those)

Fast forward to today, i am very open with my finances guess one of my mistakes.........she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive even though i give her money for things she love like body cream, cloths and others but after all nagging, i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

i still cant place those words.....could it be out of anger or she actually mean the words for real?

Please help a heartbroken brother.

You have lost your frame bro you seriously need to start building it back and don't talk about finance with your woman never let a woman know your net worth and stop pleasing her.... I wish you the best

Nairobi33:
Dumb Nigerians always overrate their ability even when they are dumbest among all.
US Defense admitting China's rapid advancement in military might but mumu Nigerians from backward nation reading news on nairaland says no, it's a deception, China can never match up to US might because in their shithole, their government is used to nursing disaster until it blew up right in their face before they start looking for whom to blame rather than admitting the obvious to make amend..to them, US is the most powerful, the almighty. They happen to understood America's readiness better than the American experts themselves
For those of you who don't understand what 'inferiority complex' means, that's it up there

I stop taking you serious when you called China a shithole the US is more advanced whe. It comes to military I agree but there military doesn't win the war anymore... China infrastructures beat the US and will keep on beating them the country is rapidly growing and expanding more than ever...

udemzyudex:
Hahaha.. Which war, go ahead and list them out.

China had 100 years on internal conflicts more than any in the world do your research...

CSTRR:
For increased military Budget, surely.

China has bridged the gap in many areas but the technological and logistical difference is still very great.

China itself is not helping itself. Instead of them to draw their neighbours as allies, they have instead created enemies by their expansionism.

A warri proverb says person wey go dance near fire no go use kerosene as pomade.

China has danced near the fire by attempting to dislodge the US led global order by becoming the number one nation on Earth.
Nothing wrong with that.

But unfortunately, they have rubbed kerosene on their body through their antagonism with many of their powerful neighbours.

And now the US is going to use that loophole to cut off their trade routes and cripple them.

US has pivoted to Asia.
Imagine what it means for 90% of the offensive might of the greatest military this world has ever seen packed in your backyard.

That is what is happening to China right now, and most of it is their fault, through their many of their political gaffes that failed to match their economic ambitions.

do your research China has world largest navy and its in control of South Atlantic ocean the USA can't do a shit about it

udemzyudex:
Pls drop this nonsense talk it is stale, China this China that, how many wars have they fought? Have they gone for peace keeping missions in other countries?

Chinese tested war more thank any country in the world before the Qing dynasty United the whole of China they were already in 100 years of war.... Don't say what you don't know

Masterito:
Honestly if you think China can win US in a war then you are a big fool. I am not sure you understand the politics US is playing. China won't even be fooled like you based on this comment. Just tell China to invade Taiwan without US consent and you will understand why you should never trust your enemywho massages your ego.

China is in control and US isn't, chiina is way more organized while US are busy with LGBT, BLM and Racism shit who do you think that fund these organization read the backstory it is China.
Covid 19 was a collaborative effort between Dr fuaci from US and it's China counter parts...
US military general was caught having a conversation with a Chinese General on trump if he didn't step down they will seize power in white house...
China is the world largest automated robot.
China has already surpass Hollywood when it come to movies and Hollywood bend to there rules that's why don't cast and LGBT scan in China...
Russia is more powerful than the USA when it comes to military but they don't brag about it but the US always like the show themselves...
US can't afford to go to war with China just as China can't afford to go war with the USA China is in for the long game...
US is the land of free but the left is gradually destroying it, currently USA is overrated...

Google is evil and has always been from selling public data to the highest bitter to advertising child porn and abuse

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

Is a good sign you husband is a strong dude, you are now living in his world who says marriage is not sweet... Be independent and submissive you will live to enjoy all his love and riches

Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

Be the man take charge of your house, join men group like Amerix don't let emotions cloud your judgement do you best and leave the rest cuz over stressing yourself means you are likely to die young... Help your family don't leave anyone behind cuz when she deicide to leave they will always be there for you pay off your debt cuz it's important and never please a woman including your wife.. If you need help with men group quote me

grubby221:
Dear Nairalanders.

Please advise me on how to go about this. My sister recently got admission to study in one of the Federal Universities in Southern Nigeria however, she has forgotten the password to JAMB CAPS site and also the password to the email that was used in creating her profile on JAMB site. Truth is that she was not the one who created the email used in setting up her jamb profile, she walked into a cybercafe to do that and the guy that created the mail is now no where to be found.
On the JAMB site, she has applied to reset her JAMB profile password but the link to do so was sent to the email which she does not have access to. She has tried to reset the email password but all to no avail since she does not know the initial password the cyber cafe guy used.

Please what can she do? She needs access to the JAMB Site in order to print her admission letter and other things.

PLEASE HELP.

if you have money hired a hacker in dark web to crack the email for her that's the only option...

People do get married through zoom call more of less proposals... It all depends on what you want

Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Bro move on she those hoes aren't loyal

Women are not meant to be leaders of the church unless she is the one that established it instead of to giving it to a capable hands and be the watch dog she chooses to do her thing tomorrow she will say God revealed a vision bla bla bla!
This is the kind of action that brought the downfall of Benson idahosa church of God mission after the wife took over the church where as Benney hills didn't gave his church to his wife rather his successor...

decatalyst:
I hope other people gets serious and take the vaccine.


It's not the Antichrist vaccine or sign.


It is meant to build the body to fight the real virus when you contract it.

Knowledge is profitable.

my Advice to you don't take advice from a fat person period... It's not covid that killed her maybe something else did...

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/unvaccinated-tiktoker-begs-people-jabbed-24955634

she is fat of course imagine I can't stop laughing

Hehu! Who amongst you is her fan?

BafanaBafana:
That's bad of him to say.
But one difference between Igbos and northerners is the way they celebrate evil. If boko haram kills anyone, you see Igbos online celebrating, if bandits kill, they celebrate, if ESN kill security men, they celebrate. You will never see s northerner siding or jubilating at the gains of terrorists (Quote me with evidence if I'm wrong). Imagine Ohaneze defending someone like Kanu! Tueh!
This attitude makes them repungent to other people, and they justify their actions by always pointing to others.

you have an illogical mindset I pity your sense of reasoning

How old is she, cuz mere looking at your story she is young and dumb just like Khalid says... My advice allow her to learn the hard way she will understand she has to put herself first and look after herself...
Cuz there nothing you are do about it experience is priceless and a good teacher

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

stay away from slut if you love yourself

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

my advice find a way to send him to military base to stay if that is possible when he stays there like 2 years his head go correct

Davash222:
You should be talking to women who feels they can use marriage to trap men down.

2face was living his life until Annie think she can use marriage to trap and scare other women away from him.

Annie is selfish, self centered and foolish to think she can personalize Father of All Nation.

exactly that what he should talking about

Imagine the audacity of the dude Called Boma what you did will hunt you, you will live to regret it

Useless show being portray to distract youth that guy will leave to regret his decision to sleep with a married woman... Stay away from married women

You see no reasonable, smart and intelligent woman with blast her husband and his family in public...
Where are the female is future and cohorts at the end you all still have everything to loose... This is not USA this is Nigeria...

Intelligent woman with amazing sense of reasoning

What's wrong with women of this generation, she brought her mother to stay in her husband's house who does that... Amerix once said "stay away from slut cuz it always ends badly" she signed up for it for getting married to him when she knows nature is brutal it doesn't care about your feelings and emotions, it does her thing, takes her place and will never fail or feel sorry for her doing... Men are polygamous in nature period especially when he has money his polygamy expands.... A wise woman should be independent and submissive she should be the piller of her house and controls what goes out and what comes in, she should never attack her husband family cuz once you leave they always have his back Blood is ticker than water wailing on social media won't do her any good cuz she will loose out if she leaves and his family will never abandon him so for the women never attack your husband's family in public no matter what it's wrong cuz they were their when you came will still be there when you leave...


As for tuface he's a weak man for allowing his in law to live in the same roof with his wife. These kind of things brings a questioning mind in public. He should treat his woman good, take charge and be the man he is supposed to be at this stage he shouldn't be controlled by pussy. Is expected of him to be brutally honest with is wife cuz lying and being a chameleon won't do him any good unless your wife superior than him and he's not in charge of his marriage....
These type this could be avoided if you do things the right way....

Marriage is scary but make sure you get the necessary traits, character, skills, resources and frame before venturing into it cuz it matters and don't forget to put your emotions into chack... Peace

ChiefSosa:
Bros, this is not a matter of "women get issues". Tuface really messed up. Annie really tried to have stuck with him, upon all the nonsense. 2face was irresponsible to have fathered multiple kids in the first place, when he's not polygamous. U feel say e easy for 2face to get better woman like Annie? Forget all that superstar stuff. We be guys, but make we dey tell each other the truth sometimes.....

Lmao, there's nothing I said here that's not known to the world already, unless you've not come outside of your mud house with thatched roofs since the 2000's. Tuface literally admitted to his mistakes several years ago. Foh



You literally heard me say this above quote in my comment, yet you're saying all these bull crap. If he was polygamous, will I even say anything? Always comprehend before quoting/mentioning me. You don go sniff dat tin again abi?
If you're polygamous, then be polygamous so we'll know; we no go kee u. Don't marry someone, either man or woman, with the believe that you'll stick to them forever, whereas you're spending suspicious moments with other people, either ex or not.

Common sense(which you obviously lack) should tell you this is not about 'simping' or 'alphamale' or 'feminisms', etc THIS IS DIFFERENT.
You think going about on Nairaland with your dry muscles, tattered clothes, malnourished body and mouth that obviously smells like old people farts, while shouting "Alphamale" or calling others "simp" is what makes you a man?? You better go and do worthwhile and productive things with your life.

I believe onetis is your thing so I won't argue with you any further, some men have been brain washed they can't defend and be there brothers keeper well it always end in premium tears for the women... Period Śhe simply do anything about it rather than to wail all she wants on social media...

kilisi:
Annie or er friend pouring it out on nairaland.

I wonder the epistle when the opinion does not count

othermen:
He is killing himself. His extended family are assisting in the suicide. His fans that defend his promiscuity are digging his grave.

Tu face goes about having unprotected sex and anyone who thinks that is something to cheer about is digging his grave; he is killing himself, maybe he's already got an incurable sexually transmitted disease. If he hasn't, that is a miracle. Should he then continue on that path of destruction?

Folks, our forefathers were not promiscuous. Polygamy is not promiscuity or infidelity. Marriage sanctifies the union.

In marriage, you have an obligation to be right with your spouse. If for whatever reason, you want out, then take the door, serve her the divorce paper...If Tuface does this, it's his business and his private business at that and he has a right to. After getting out of his contract with Annie, if he so wishes, he can marry Pero but it is not fair to demonise Annie, she has stood by Tuface through the thin and of coz when she married him, she knew she was settling for a man with a past, but she did with the promises of a future, that Tuface by his recent actions have break faith with.

Tu face brother demonises Annie so much in his response, there was a lot of anger in his response and none was at the issues Annie raised; rather his response just proves Annie is right about Tu face extended family but Annie is the wife and she has a right to demand peace and joy in her marriage. I believe she has done so privately and done so in her prayers to God, but sometimes we must take other actions along-side prayers.

The fellow said the Disney case happened pre-COVID, Annie has lived with the indiscretions of Tu face for years, I am sure she has exhausted many means to get him to stop, privately- engaging elders and others, But Tu face would not, hence her decision to exhale.

Everyone thinks it is all rosy for her, but it pinches the heels called Tuface and she is courageously fighting for her marriage against the exes and the Tu face siblings, who are happy as reported here, that Tu face no longer listen to her. Perhaps Tuface would listen to his fans; she has thought for a long time.

Tu face did not have to marry Annie or remain married to Annie... but if you marry Annie, you should respect her and be fair with her by avoiding infidelity and unfaithfulness with her. She has been the mother of all of your children. The truth is Tu face has not respected her, by having escapades with his exes and the extended family hasn’t either, rather they have encouraged their brother to fornication and extra-marital sex. Why would they do this? Because, if Annie is out of the picture, their right to Tuface wealth increases.

If you care about your brother, you shouldn’t disrespect and disparage his wife in this manner. You should reach out to your brother and give the truth. It is the embarrassment, this response of the brother.

Again, Annie has come out because she is exhausted and we the public that truly love Tuface artistry owe him the truth even if hurtful- he should zip up, reconcile with his wife and stay away from vultures.

See epistle I can see that you have been brain washed who told you that our forefathers didn't practice polygamy, monogamy has been a scam that the white portrait to we Africans... As for tuface and Annie remove your mouth from husband and wife issues it's not your business and your opinion doesn't count rather my advice is to focuz more on yourself and your family too...