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Exousiang01:
And it's their text example you want to follow here in Nigeria in Osun state where yams rot in the ground because of heat.

budaatum:
This is what my people say too that makes them come and harvest my yam early.

Peacefulplace:
I caught my husband flirting in multiple women's comments when we were first together and engaged. I told him he cannot do that. He then stopped. But then I found out he was following ex's and other women alot on Facebook. I mean like 100+ other women with very inappropriate photos.

I told him to stop. He stopped for awhile and then I found out he did it again. I told him off again and so far he never did these things again as far as I know.

But tonight he told me that the two women that were accusing him of cheating, he actually was cheating with in the beginning when he first proposed to me.

Not cheating on person, just cheating online. He had me believing they were crazy. Only now, 8 months later did he tell me... In total though, we have known each other 2 two years. So it's been a long time.

I am so upset. He does not do well when I cry. He does not like it. So I excused myself to cry. He told me not to get upset, but I feel betrayed.

We are getting married this month and now I am so worried upset with him. I am 31 and he is 30. I am a Australian woman and he is a Igbo man. I am moving across the world to be with him. I have visited him many times but I decided to stick by him and marry him.

I am very upset with him and hurting from within. I am trying to deal with this pain but it is a lot. Should I continue to stay by my man? Or should I leave? So far he has not cheated for quite awhile and I am hoping he has learnt his lesson. .

Exousiang01:
Keep sending us links from UK websites.
As your brain never tell you say every country get wetin dey grow for there.

peterdrury:
What's your honest take?

HateBigots:
... Reserve judgement until seeing the inflicted damage on the daughter and hearing the mother's side of the story.

Exousiang01:
When a man stand by the road side arguing with a mad mad man, soon people will begin to think the man also mad -Prof Chinua Achebe

I don't comot from this conversation Abeg.
I don't want people seeing me in a funny light

jetwonder:

Cut them off

Zulum noted that over 1,000 teachers who have O-Level certificates as their highest qualification will undergo additional training that would allow them to attain minimum teaching qualifications.

So many persons have kicked against me buying a house, completed or uncompleted. They suggest i should build mine. The major reasons is that I don't know the history or information on how the foundation was made.

Ezewuzie01:
You know a man's true character and intentions by what he does and says in secret rather than in open displays of hypocrisy. If the NSA or DSS had not hacked into his call to Pastor Oyedepo, who would have known that Peter Obi had the wicked intention of waging a religious war against muslims in Nigeria?

Cindypresh:
Kikikikiki

You should go into comedy, you go blow even before your yam😂😂

DaHighLife:
You've noticed I don't respond to you.

A conversation with you has 0 value to me, and I'm very selfish with my time.

Bobloco:
So, he told me that his father dreamt that he was nursing another man’s child and that was the excuse he gave me that day and it went on like that.”

Hatrick01:
where u jam indian

Exousiang01:
You first dey talk about 2-3 years for yam wer be annual crops.
Don't you know yam dies after 1 year?

budaatum:
This is what my people say too that makes them come and harvest my yam early.

DaHighLife:
Indeed.
The fact that I can reasonably suspect that tribalism motivated moderators to ban somebody, combined with my inability to deactivate my account, more than validates my decision.

Exousiang01:
How many tubers have you bought from Zaki By an that you are talking about importing from China.

You want to start importing yam from China because someone stole your yams in Osun.....

Please quick question: Re you Alright?
I mean mentally

Exousiang01:
Its amazing that this dude is posting the pictures of a white man to show the nation who is the largest producer of yam on earth an example....

Konquest:
The stats here on this thread clearly show that Nigeria is indeed a real underachiever when it comes to expanding the commodities value chains for localized consumption and export to the huge Nigerian Diaspora population.

The Ghanaians have mastered the art of TQM and this is why Ghana yams are widely exported in raw form to the UK and the U.S.

meobizy:
Why can’t someone deactivate an account?

Whites Only: Ade’s Extremist Adventure

The Nigerian British journalist Ade Adepitan is impressively open-minded and curious when he becomes the first Black person to spend a week in Orania, a “whites-only” town in South Africa. Orania occupies a strange position in the country – despite regularly being viewed as an attempt to revive or preserve the poisonous ideas underpinning apartheid, it is largely ignored by the South African authorities. As Adepitan speaks to local people, visits a school (where he watches an excruciating play) and gets kicked out of the community’s largest Afrikaner Protestant church, he asks the necessary but uncomfortable questions – and the hostility becomes increasingly palpable.

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2024/mar/18/tv-tonight-what-happened-when-a-black-broadcaster-visited-a-whites-only-town-in-south-africa

DaHighLife:
IjeBos takes a more high-minded and idealistic approach to this, but he's not necessarily wrong. The implementation of the moderation policy seems inconsistent and capricious.

DaHighLife:
I'm at a loss to explain how a moderator would intervene in this thread solely to address one person's use of the word "idiot" while disregarding others' use of the same term and even harsher language, including tribal slurs.

DaHighLife:
What troubles me further is that Bemeruca is evidently Benalvino3 and continues to post here. It seems everyone, including the moderators, is aware of this. How is it possible that despite using an embedded link to potentially phish for users' IP addresses and admitting to such behavior in the past, along with other things like admitting to identifying users' web browsers and phone numbers, Bemeruca and all his other known aliases have not faced even a temporary vacation? It's deeply disturbing that the moderators appear either unable or unwilling to safeguard the safety of users on this platform.

DaHighLife:
If the moderators are unwilling to moderate effectively, it might be better to leave the platform unmoderated so that users are aware of the risks they're facing.

DaHighLife:
However, I've seen enough. Best of luck.
Edit: To top it off, it appears Nairaland won't even allow me to deactivate my account

Cindypresh:
Oga go and grow your 2yrs yam nau, stop mentioning me.

Make it 5yrs sef, it'll grow bigger