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Host78:
And yes, you cannot divorce your wife because divorcing requires a reason. You can walk to the court to say you don't want your wife anymore and since you can't cite lack of intimacy as a reason, suddenly you cannot provide why.

Peterlove11:
There's nothing like Marital rape.....it's a recent concept being pushed by women predicated on the already victimhood mentality celebrated in the west. Victimhood is now power. You must be a victim before you can be listened to.

budaatum:
I posted a link to this but mods decided it mustn't be seen.

Murketeer:
He’s trying to tell you that with the level of hate that western women have for men … they will exploit this law to the fullest … you will hear husbands been arrested everyday .. this law will add to the present problem of diminishing marriages that already exists in the west today … where a lot of men don’t wish to be married anymore … so it’s going to be a loss loss for them

zagorakis:
Why would you chose to marry him in the first place if he has nothing to offer?

uchman:
Do you jump into all topics without going through it because I can’t find any sense in this your write up

uche87:
The UK did not break these marriages; it gave women power and leverage, and they exercised them. The system simply exposed fragile arrangements. Any man humble and adaptable enough to accept these new realities can still save his marriage.

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EmperorIsaac:
Truth is what we call marriage in Nigeria is pure nonsense....heavily transactional and bereft of the concept of love in its essence. Quote me daily!

Kukutente23:
Why will African men mean backward pigs? Does African women mean dirty bitches?
Being backward or "forward" has nothing to do with race
The African man was more morally upright and responsible than his Caucasian counterparts whom you worship

ibrahimawelo12:
For Nigeria e no Dey happen ooo

cr7lomo:
There's nothing like rape in marriage....

Kukutente23:
Your grandchildren have learnt to be choosy
That's a turn off for an African man like me
Tell them to stick with oyinbo

Dididrumz:
Na wrong name you put for your note.

BeardedMeat:
Is good marlian the one that created the post??

dollytino4real:
is good because hard work pay but shame dey kpai plenty

Kukutente23:
May I warn you that you have only two applicants here while I'm in very high demand. You may not have all the time in the world to do your investigation before you're accused of trespassing into occupied territory and molestation to wit

toboizilla:
That’s one side of the coin, on the other hand it means there will be nothing as cheating. You can F**k you ever you like. Whether it’s accurate, it’s not for me to judge

Kukutente23:
You ma'am are a hopeless romantic and a progressive one at that
I'm a traditional man so I'll leave the naming out and stick to the cuisine and rubbing part

elipheleh:
If you ....

elipheleh:
If you jump on me without taking my permission, I will sue you for rape and you'll go to jail. So you think this law permits a woman to touch the man anytime she wants?
If you even rest on my shoulder without permission, I will sue you

lailo:
When the world begins to have problem is when they allow women to be among decision makers. The world will never be the same again.

Kukutente23:
So what happens if the husband is not feeling giddy enough at that moment to have his bit in your mouth while you've already taken the liberty of fixing your lips on it? Ain't that rape right there?

zagorakis:
You are just naive, and probably not married, otherwise you would understand that women would exploit this law to the fullest, a husband would Perpetually be working hard both outside and within the home to be able to consummate his marriage.

dollytino4real:
u get mind o

Kukutente23:
Your brain is a biological device as well
It simply makes no sense to reduce sex between partners to a mechanical act
Rape is even more mechanical than biological

Host78:
This is not about being in the mood.

This is something far more serious.

Imagine getting married to someone. But they have no intentions of sleeping with you.

Now by this law, you cannot divorce them.

ComeComing:
Hmm. this one na monitoring spirit o 🙄

Kukutente23:
Lol
Sex is a spontaneous biological act based on hormones not a mechanical act.

Farrason:
So if the intimacy that builds the bond between man and his woman is now based on rights, what is relationships without a bonding sporadically random intimacy activity?

ComeComing:
I feel teary and speechless after reading this

Life is full of ups and downs. And to be a man is not a day job.

To start with, I'd advise you consult a spiritual adviser. Tell your mum to take you to a strong spiritual adviser for cleansing. PLEASE DON'T IGNORE THIS ADVICE.