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Strike Emeagwali off that list chap chap: https://www.nairaland.com/177876/philip-emeagwali-genius-crook

I don't know about the others.

dgalon:
Yh it cud be black coffee

Hot coffee is a euphemism...

dgalon:
Beautiful couple
My wife to be is probably having coffee wit some guy around the corner of the world while I'm here patiently waiting....

Not coffee.

Maybe hot coffee .

bolayei:
A country on reverse gear will always move backwards...what does percing ve to do with competence...i think its time to change mindset...i wear ear rings on both ears n i am an employer both in nigeria n uk...i think i should stop employing people without percing since they wont employ me if it was the other way round...tell me one thieving politician that is pierced

The thing with piercings and tatts is that, to get them, on some level, you have to be unconventional, a kinda rebel.

And if you're not 'sheeple' you might just be difficult to herd.

And who knows what else you're unconventional about. Honesty? Hard-work? Punctuality?

Between an Einstein with a piercing and one without, my choice is pretty easy.

It's like having to choose between a single mum and a single girl with similar attributes.

Abbykem:
Don't judge a book by its cover, speaking from experience

On a statistical basis, 'judging a book by its cover' is a prudent move.

Lol, except its a favourite author...

kay29000:
I swear, even my friend didn't believe me. It was just one of those things that happen once in a lifetime. It was like I was in a movie.

Not once in a life time...

The Good, The Bad & The Ugly.

Leicester di hot

batulakarada:
Maybe he was angry because he didn't initiate it ...posseive like audu will pick offence if they are not the one commanding u to be abused .

Your mind is already so made up that even if God parts the heavens, this very moment, to tell you that Sugarbelly is full of it. You'll likely tell him that maybe he was sleeping.

biafranqueen:
http://www.livescience.com/8202-women-stay-abusive-relationships.html

You miss my point.

Someone who is capable of getting jealous just because you flirted will not pass you around to a gang.

Alphaoscar:
The girl was 17 them but she was already a spoilt fish at that age . you guys talk as if been 17 equals been foolish and senseless. She was the one going back for more when the guy was obviously trying to avoid her.


She accused the guy of raping her with his friends but the content of the mails shows she's the one flirting with his friends and the was upset with .

No mind them. She wants us to believe that the same guy who took offence that you flirted with his friends, passed her around to be gang-raped - earlier.

Beremx:
well at 17,I just finished secondary school and while i waited to get admission into the university, as the first child of the family,I was helping my mum in her shop. Thinking of a relationship at that age was the least of my problem.

So you see,I didn't do anything that would bring shame to my parents at that age.

You just postponed it for a coupla years .

batulakarada:
When oby Ezekwesili who knows you in and out and even know you are a close friend to her children believes the story immediately without asking questions ...I think the verdict of the story has been given .

What integrity does she have?

What happened to her BBOG crusade? Are the girls back?

Only fools rush to take sides.

Ishilove:
Liar liar pants on fire.

I didn't expect him to admit it because a rapist will not admit he is one. Your old sins have caught up with you, Mustapha Audu.

In a sane country he would have been picked up for questioning but Nigeria is anything but sane.

You sabi this guy from before?

ODUBEZE:
Exactly my thought! He is not imparting the knowledge well to the students if more than 50% fails!
something is wrong somewhere, either his methodology is wrong or his ego speaks higher than his knowledge!
Whichever way, the school authority should look deeply into the case because at the end, it is the students that suffers!

My oga, with your grammar, they shouldn't have let you go too .

All these buildings way dey collapse, na students way dem 'let go' dey build them.

lakesidepapa:
@Buddhapalm, ur moniker lol. That's reminds me of a chinese movie "Iron monkey"

Iron Monkey own dey learn work .

Kung Fu Hustle's is badass.

awesome11:
Hmmm....Alright. Hoping to run into some sort of classified info someday...

Donald Trump is an alien .

Don't tell anyone.

Now you can strike that off your bucket list.

Chubhie:
Reminds me of that lady that did colabo with COZA.Heard she's married now.

Sugarbelle would soon be taken off the market as a result of this controversy.

Chubhie my man, market must sell...

Amya:
I've read through all the detail I could get my hands on, tweets, blog posts
going as far back as 2008, emails e.t.c on this sugar belly and mustafa case
and I've reached the following conclusions.


1. Their first sexual experience in the car was consensual by all accounts.

2. They became lovers and did the car screwing for a while.

3. After he took her home for the first time, it got kinkier seeing how agreeable
and easy she was.

4. He took advantage of her love/infatuation and agreeability and introduced
new dimensions to their relationship. Triple Sins, SinParties, gangbangs e.t.c

5. She really wasn't extremely into all that kinkiness, but she thought being
agreeable will make her look cool and probably make mustafa love her more.

6. So she kept going back for more and more of that. But rather than love her,
he despised her agreeability. He hated her for not standing up to herself and
inflicted physical pain to go with it.

7. But she stuck around for the debasement till she left for college in the US.

8. While in the US, she 'd hoped that the relationship would continue, but it
didn't. he hated her for what she was and gladly closed the page on her
chapter.

9. She called persistently, sent loads of messages, texts e.t.c most of which
he never bother to reply. She did all she could for 8 months to revive the
relationship but the guy had lost interest.

10. And broke off with her officially to stem the flow of calls and messages.
She was heartbroken.

11. Rather than move on, that incident brought in depression, humilation and
extreme hatred.

12. A week after the break up, she wrote on her blog on how he dumped her
and how she still loved him. There was also the first reference to emotional
abuse on that post.

13. The humiliation of what she went through came back and started eating
her up. Making her relieve the experience and recreate it to suit her current
situation.



Did Mustafa take advantage of her? yes.

Did he abuse her physically and emotionally? yes.

Did he hate her? yes

Did he do gangbangs with her involved and his friends? yes

Was it consensual? yes!

The guy is a scum of the earth. He took advantage of an impressionable 17
year old and probably scarred her for life. But he didn't rape her.


And wait a minute, where did the guy's dad factor into all this? was he also
part of the Group Intimacy. Especially since it was his death that excavated
this brouhaha.

You might just be the only girl with some sense on this forum.

Darkchocolate:
Every normal person who has been a relationship and no longer wants to be in a relationship would often tell the other person to stop contacting them. Or to move on with their lives whilst they move on with theirs. But to just simply ignore a girlfriend (or bf) and respond to her periodically in the positive is a bit misleading, don't you think?
Especially for a 17/18year old! We are talking about a teenager. She was barely an adult. People that age often need things spelt out in black and white.

Remember ...ranging hormones and all...maximum infuation stage...

So he should have been very clear and made it crystal that he no longer wanted the relationship. There is nothing in the email that informs me that he drew a defined line so yes...it could be argued that ignoring someone who is clearly infuatued with you (or responding once in a while) is an act of 'keeping them sweet' and still making them think you are interested.

I'm sure some grown as3 guys still get this kinda treatment from girls they are trying to 'chyke'but don't know he has already been friendzoned. She doesn't tell him either as she wants to keep him as 'backup'!!! Ever heard of this before?! I'm sure you have. You don't think its a form of control?

It's interesting how women always expect Utopia grade propriety from guys. Are women not the worst offenders at ignoring male attempts at communication?

One of the frustrations guys whine about here, on this forum, is how girls respond to their chat attempts with "K".

Maybe "O" is really expensive in the market these days .

This is the real world, and no one really anyone infatuated with them 'niceness'. A 17/18 year old girl is not a baby anymore. 17/18 is freshman/sophomore year at the University.

You can take it to the bank that there were other guys she blanked because she found them less thrilling than the 'governor's' son.

And they didn't 'date', they fvcked. And you don't need a divorce to end that one.

In fact what's a better tell to gerrara here than your fuckbuddy banging other girls and throwing it in your face, then being unresponsive?

I can bet you that this was just another day at the office for this Mustapha, abi Muhammed guy. Girls tripping for the thrills and wanting more.

It's fvcked to accuse someone of rape because they didn't return your affections.

Hehehe

Probably just ovulation stuff.

scholes0:
I literally got an erecction reading her vivid description of their sexual escapades.

Bad girl!
Omo buruku!

The one that revved my engines was the other narrative peppered with a thousand "bleeps".

Nihilist:
The emails were sent from America AFTER,by her own accounts the 'rapes' had stopped...

So she was still in love with him after several rapes?

Nigerians are so gullible sha...

Mein Neger.

Radoillo:


Well, that struck me more than anything else. Obviously a very intelligent girl. It's just sad intelligence isn't resistant to...the sort of feelings the Mustapha guy stirred up in her.

My brother, the part of the brain responsible for these things is literally another department from the intellect one.

And it almost always takes precedence.

TonyeBarcanista:
maybe she can get a good oyinbo guy to marry but i doubt any naija guy will want to end up with her. except hes only after his own share

For where? She go still marry.

That girl that was fingered in one of those BBA things is married. COZA's babe too.

eaglechild:
You are very wrong.

One can consent to have sex and still get raped along the line.
The moment she says she has had enough and you keep going it becomes rape even if she consented initially.

And that seems to be what played out here.

If you are saying she enjoyed the violence then I don't get it perhaps you are saying she is a masochist.

In any case all these are accusations and all I stand for is further investigation as we cannot dismiss or affirm her case.

It is important that you note the timeline of these current messages.

They were all AFTER the supposed rape and 'abuse'.

Darkchocolate:
He behaviour in the emails he posted are also classic abuser bevaiour where he has clearly lost his physical 'control' over the girl (as she was in the US) and he resorted to psycohological control (by constantly refusing to respond to her or being 'cold')....and making her admit all faults. He better get great lawyers sha.

Jesu!

So what are the signs that someone is not interested in you?

Ignoring you I'd suppose.

Just an infatuated girl whose affections were not reciprocated.

amtaken:
Are you a male or female?

Italy has its own problems ooooo.

As someone who has hustled in Italy, I think he should really listen to you .

Me spidey sense tingles...

You sire are on a VERY long thing...

nduchucks:
@OP, all you've done is shown that the accuser possibly lied about several things, but you did not prove that the accused (Audu) is not a liar or a rapist.

The fact is, even if the accuser lied about certain things, Rape is still Rape. None of you internet analysts has enough facts to prove that the girl was not raped. If by any chance this girl was ganged raped as alleged, you may very well be defending a rapists - that in of itself is shameful.

The onus then, is on the accuser to produce evidence.

This could be you man. So if your ex from 2007 comes up with tales of rape, we should all believe her - just like that - and term you rapist?