Business › Re: Rewane Pegs Naira’s True Value At ₦1,257/$, Says Currency Undervalued By 11% by bukatyne(f): 7:36am On Jan 27 |
starstaz: The era of Manipulative numeral economy, always using this man to announce govt dirty inkling. 1270, pls do it fast this time. Children skool fees is not smiling, hope it will have a better impacts on airline fees too. Or it's all about looking good before 2027/2026 election year, Most likely. @bold: Sounds like the end goal. If the govt revalues the NGN at N1,200 six months to 2027 elections, it is a major 'win' for them. |
Family › Re: Married But Lonely by bukatyne(f): 9:49am On Jan 24 |
Zackattack: She has already envisaged marrying someone as fun as Davido, only to end up with an introvert in real world. That’s the problem with most of these Gen Z wives. If you check well, the husband is doing his best to provide for the family, but she’s looking for a social guy. Man doesn’t beat you, doesn’t insult you, doesn’t cheat, provides basic needs in the home and she’s still lonely. I’ve heard it before. @bold: You genuinely believe this is all a husband needs to do to be a 'good husband'? It is well. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Khadija Ahmadzada Faces Death Penalty For Teaching Taekwondo To Young Girls by bukatyne(f): 10:33am On Jan 23 |
Rashduct4luv: Obey the authorities in charge of you! Your signature explains your very fuulish post. |
Romance › Re: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by bukatyne(f): 5:51pm On Jan 22 |
msbyao: It's not new. My dad is in his late 80s and my mum in her 60s. It wasn't until his 80th birthday that we knew his actual age. His sister sent a special birthday message in church. We didn't have any big celebration, nothing special, because we didn't know it was his 80th birthday. It will be hard to explain that to anyone. My mum was in shock. What? 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 How old did you guys think he was? |
Properties › Re: Girls Now Renting House And Apartment More Than Guys by bukatyne(f): 7:12pm On Jan 21 |
pocohantas: Since you are guys are sure it is married men paying their rent. Maybe these men should focus more on their families because I don't understand how you go 50-50 with your wives, only to give your spare to sidechicks.  |
Crime › Re: Man Convicted Over Refusal To Refund ₦1.5B Mistakenly Credited To His Account by bukatyne(f): 4:53pm On Jan 21 |
Dogalmighty17: There are countries without Interpol operations. However, Interpol isn't even the issue. He lacked knowledge of how to securely move that money in a way that it would be untraceable. 1.5 billion naira can buy you a soft life in the Carribbean and less than 20 million can get you citizenship in the country where Deizianni bought hers from. EFCC can't reach you there. You cannot 'securely' move N1 from your account in the Nigeria of today except if they do not want to get you. |
Properties › Re: Girls Now Renting House And Apartment More Than Guys by bukatyne(f): 1:06pm On Jan 21*. Modified: 7:14pm On Jan 21 |
fineboynl: What's really going on? Young women are now renting houses and apartments more than guys. Is this the new trend?
There is a new house close to me here. Pop blast and full option. But the people the agents keep bringing are majority young women. Even on social media young women are now renting houses fully furnished. Is this the new trend? Are they promoting prostitution? What does the future hold for thiese woman? And how will they maintain it on the long run? We are talking of apartments running into millions.
Many are under pressures as social media is promoting the trends
We have left the blackberry and iPhone era. It's now apartment fully furnished. The women on your family don't earn enough to rent houses? If you don't have any example at home, you have not visited organizations, markets, businesses to see women earning a decent living there? |
Food › Re: Nigerian Buys A Basket Of Tomatoes For ₦5,000 by bukatyne(f): 6:10am On Jan 21 |
Basket or paint bucket? |
Romance › Re: Can A Girl Ever Truly Forget The Guy She Lost Her Virginity To? by bukatyne(f): 4:57pm On Jan 20 |
Kobojunkie: First, 1. I am not a girl. Second, I sorta kinda remember vaguely...
2. but bad memory problems over the years have taken much of what happened around that time away from me. So, I can't really tell you for a fact that I do.  @ bold... Finally oooooo!  @second bold: sorry about that 🫂 🤗 |
Celebrities › Re: Actor Emeka Ike Calls Out Jaruma Over Video Involving His Son by bukatyne(f): 1:36pm On Jan 18 |
Emeka get bad mouth sha  Sad about his son. Hopefully, the son find his way. |
Romance › Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by bukatyne(f): 1:23pm On Jan 18 |
pocohantas: It is very simple, Buka. They know who they can gaslight to virtuously gobble another woman's fluids off their phallús. It can never be me. Gaslight is the word. They believe in the Bible until it is time to actually follow its commandments. I don't blame them, they are learning from the chief gaslighters: Pastors and other religious leaders. Happy Sunday 😊 |
Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by bukatyne(f): 1:21pm On Jan 18 |
O Agozskey: I will never ask for forgiveness I want to assume it is hurt from years talking. This life ain't balanced and isn't fair. Taking your story at face value, your mother is the toxic one. However, parents' curses whether you feel they are justified or not are quite potent. Like that poster said, apologize to your mother, get her to reverse the curse, apologize to your father's people, gey their blessing and thereafter, take a looonnng break from your mother to find your feet and heal yourself mentally. It is well. |
Romance › Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by bukatyne(f): 12:37pm On Jan 17 |
pocohantas: If I didn't enter any polygamous or open marriage agreement with you from the onset, then you would definitely return to the street if and when I catch you cheating. [b]You are not going to infect me with sexual demons[/b). To think I am listening to something in this line. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 12:34pm On Jan 17 |
descarado: Didn't know she is divorced?  What happened to the role model good girl? Sis, she couldn't hold on anymore  |
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Romance › Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by bukatyne(f): 11:35am On Jan 17 |
Corporate2020: . Stop saying nonsense. A man can marry as many women as he lives, just as God allowed and love Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Job, Daid, Solomon and others. I don't you where you go your one man and one woman from. I think I know, you prefer one man with one wife, but many side chicks like your Yahoo Pastors have been doing You can leave the Bible out of your shenanigans. I guess it is ok to sleep with yout father-in-law, it is ok to connive with your second son to deceive your husband & first son out of their inheritance, it is ok to set up your husband to get his maid pregnant and send the child away as soon as yours is born, it is ok to be a prostitute or marry six husbands. After all, God allowed and loved them also. |
Romance › Re: Is Adultery of Married Women More Evil Than Adultery of Married Men? by bukatyne(f): 11:31am On Jan 17 |
nurudeen181: Can a woman mostly take responsibility for a marriage union even if she has money? No. Can a man take responsibility for a marriage union, mostly yes even if he has nothing. So the blame must go to the women because only very few of them can take responsibility Let's assume that women don't contribute financially in their marriages. So you mean if a woman contributes to her marriage financially, it is 'ok' for her to.commit adultery?  |
Business › Re: 21 Banks That Have Met The New CBN Capital Rules by bukatyne(f): 9:14pm On Jan 15 |
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Family › Re: 220k Budget For Family Of 5 by bukatyne(f): 7:25pm On Jan 15 |
FlamingBulb: Good day my fellow families.
Please take a little ride with me
You are free to add or remove from how I budget please...I need your assistance.
Husband and Wife 3 Kids age 7 to 3 all enrolled in school
Feeding Table; SAMPLE Monday; Morning: Golden Morn/ Jellof Rice/ Sweet,Biscuit and Juice.
Afternoon: Bread and Pepsi
Night: Semo and Soup
BREAKDOWNS SNACKS; 30k Monthly House Bills; 27k Monthly Data/ Transportation; 52k Monthly Food; 68k Monthly
Total: 198k Monthly
Meaning 20k can be left monthly
Remember; Primary Rent 300k/Year School Fees 250k/Year Clothing/Shoes
Tertiary Programs/Occasions Parental Care Siblings Egbon Adugbo things
MY LIFE JUST THEY STOCK I SAY MAKE ASK UNA OOO hahahahahahahahahahahaha The foods are extremely unhealthy for your kids. If finance is a challenge, garri + groundnut is a better and healthier option in the afternoon. In the morning, variants of rice (white rice + beans, jollof rice, coconut rice, native rice, fried rice, etc), beans, yam, spaghetti, moi moi, oats, Plantain, sweet potatoes etc. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 6:31pm On Jan 15 |
Onegai: That man was such a problematic man, he got kicked out of Ikoyi Club.
Like the premium elite country club in Nigeria and they removed him as a member, for fighting with the head of a section. As in, it got physical. No be gist, I saw the notice posted. It was wild.
Someone who worked at one of their kids' wedding said the man nearly got into a brawl over drinks, at the reception.
Folorunsho Alakija tried but unfortunately she was doing what Nigerian married women are trained to do: she made her husband an idol and lied to cover his issues.
I don't understand, una no dey ever see Quality Men to use as Examples of Good Behavior in Marriage?
Because y'all keep using Tuface, Yul Edochie and so on, when we have Banky W, Ibrahim Suleiman, Ebuka, and other peaceful husbands.
Why is this??
Pocahontas bukatyne gloriousgbola Why? Because their vision of a 'virtuous and godly' woman is one who puts up with such a man. That Banky W example sha.... heard he was all about town which caused his missuss to go into depression 🫥 |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 6:26pm On Jan 15 |
pocohantas: Being a rich woman isn't easy. You are always considered masculine, less marriageable and undomesticated. Making it necessary to put up shows like to appeal to the male populace. Not to forget the humiliation ritual the husband puts her through to 'keep her inline' if he doesn't like her. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 6:24pm On Jan 15 |
GloriousGbola: imho she was not doing it for the man but for the public - since that is what the public wants to see
she is 74 years old. at that age you have see the man finish and know what he is. the man is 80 right now. at that age you don suppose calm down since
very strange behavior for a woman with fk you money and at an age when yu should not be giving a fk
maybe it was a marriage of convenience with the ma knowing where some bodies are buried To be honest, the more money a woman has especially in their generation, the more she had to 'prove' that she was a 'good wife'. I wouldn't be surprised if she actually washed the boxers to prove to her husband & public that she was still a 'submissive' wife. When I was in uni, our first registrar was female. She dragged her dead weight abusive husband around even though she obviously didn't lack money. She used to come to school with slap marks on her face back then. That was when I knew that money (while very good for a woman to own hers) did not stop or prevent abuse. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 9:33am On Jan 15 |
pocohantas: They terrorised us with that interview a few years ago. I almost left NL to go wash man boxers for peace to reign. 😩 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 Sadly, if man no rate you, e no rate you. The woman can be bathing him sef. I really felt sorry for her when the divorce went public. Whilst it is freedom come too late, she sounded like a woman who spent her life concocting herself into all sorts just to please and keep that man. |
Family › Re: Single Nigerian Mom Of 10 Children Share How She Survives With Her Children-vide by bukatyne(f): 9:30am On Jan 15 |
Kobojunkie: Her husband abandoned her with the 10 kids. 🥱🥱🥱
2. No one can be mentally OK with a diet that consists almost 100% of carbohydrates, day in and day out. She herself was probably raised on such a wicked diet, leading to her reasoning that it is OK to have 10 kids with a deadbeat as their father. Now the cycle is bound to repeat with her own children. 🥱🥱🥱 @bold: 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 |
Family › Re: Can This Marriage Work? by bukatyne(f): 9:29am On Jan 15 |
You both need marriage counselling to understand yourselves and start to build a solid foundation; what you guys have now is sand.
I suspect that she had not healed from the baggage from her parents' marriage and is projecting a lot of stuff into your new home. And she is displaying part of the disadvantages of the broken family system.
Don't talk to her mother, you will only give her ammunition to bite you.
When I say marriage counselling, I mean a professional counsellor; not a church; not your parents; not untrained elders.... there is a lot of toxicity in our society as regards marriage.
Caveat: She is displaying traits of a broken home doesn't mean a girl whose mother stayed in an abusive marriage will fare better.
Broken here means any dysfunctional relationship.
And the traits are not girl only; guys also have theirs. This thread just focuses on the wife. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 9:18am On Jan 15 |
Lamanii22: Hello famlanders! So a friend told me her husband is complaining that she doesn’t wash his clothes, so my question is that should a man be considerate enough to give his clothes to dry cleaners instead or it’s a must for the woman to do that?
Here’s my own story: I watched my mom washed my dad’s clothes til my old man passed, I tried to do the same with my husband’s clothes but he complained that I put too much pressure on his clothes lol 😂 that he would do his laundry by himself… imho if there are kids involved already, the husband should be kind enough to do his own laundry then the wife can wash her own clothes as well as the kids’ thank you. @OP: 😆 @ in this present age. Anybody can do anything at any 'age'. IMHO, there is nothing wrong in a wife washing her husband clothes or not dependent on 'age'. However, there are many nuances; does she have the time? Does she work? Does she like to wash clothes? Why can't the husband wash it himself? Is it because he feels it is the duty of his wife or because he doesn't have the time or she does the laundry for others and thinks she should add his etc. etc. Like others have said in previous posts, they should be hustling on how to get a washing machine. That way, anyone can do the laundry & if they have a marriage where the husband feels it is the duty of the wife to do so and she doesn't resist, she can handle. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 9:10am On Jan 15 |
GloriousGbola: nope - it is something i see myself. there is an MRS in festac. one morning i drove past a A LOOONG QUEUE and they had not even opened. people were patiently waiting and there was no fuel scarcity. that is what i have learnt very clearly from the end of fuel scarcity. nigerians are content to wait for hours for a very small and insignificant financial saving. before MRS, it was an NNPC station. same thing. you would see people on long queues when there were multiple other stations open.
it speaks to middle class nigerians complete lack of understanding that time is far more valuable than money. how many danfo drivers will go and lose 25 minutes at a station for n1000?
i have tried to explain to my kids that this is not smart at all. i hope the lesson enters @bold: well said. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 9:08am On Jan 15 |
pocohantas: And the man cheated on her with girls that do not wash even his handkerchief.
They are now divorced. She has entered church to heal the hartbreak
Give me another example. This one is stale and has served it purpose. Of all the examples to use. |
Family › Re: Should A Wife Wash Her Husband’s Clothes In This Present Age? by bukatyne(f): 9:03am On Jan 15 |
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Politics › Re: Lagos To Spend ₦212M On 20 Office Chairs, Tables; ₦20Bn On Vehicles - Doherty by bukatyne(f): 11:25am On Jan 14 |
Acidosis: Tax dey sweet like candy. 
Whenever we are ready, we will all drop our phones, leave our rooms, and occupy the streets. But they haven't even collected it nau. It's crazy. |
Politics › Re: Lagos To Spend ₦212M On 20 Office Chairs, Tables; ₦20Bn On Vehicles - Doherty by bukatyne(f): 11:18am On Jan 14 |
N10.6m for one table and chair?
Mr. Governor, we see you.
Kudos sir 👏 🙌 👍 👌 |
Family › Re: “I Loved Her Soul, Not Her Skin. I Only Wanted To Keep Her Happy” by bukatyne(f): 10:54pm On Jan 12 |
When a man genuinely loves a woman, he goes all out for her.
Eku ise Oluwa sir. |