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DyshApp:
A woman has gone viral on TikTok after sharing a video of her husband’s car, sparking hilarious reactions online.

In the clip, she is seen filming her husband’s parked car, saying he had “traveled again with the car key,” leaving her and the children to hop on a bike for school runs. According to her, this is routine, and she’s already used to it.

In the video, she said:

“He has travelled again with the car key while the car is here… bike all the way. This is a routine, so I am used to it. He will park car in the compound and take the key along with him.”

The video quickly went viral, with viewers both laughing and commenting on the situation. While some criticised her, she defended the clip, emphasizing it was purely humorous.

“Must I drive the car? It is not mine, so I don’t have the need to be entitled to his car. A man who pays school fees, house rent, and feeding can’t be labelled bad or wicked because of a funny video,” she wrote.

She also encouraged financial independence for women:

“Women, hustle for your own money, especially if your hubby isn’t big on sharing. Get the things you desire without waiting for anyone to hand them over.”

Omihanifa:
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AWONEYAN:
I now understand why the woman left the house and started playing victim mentality on you.

He has seen a man with zero self worth..
She is the husband
She has permanently withdrawn conjugal relationship with you,and probably getting her self satisfied some where.
She knows you will come and beg her.
Being poor does makes one loose his sense.

Guy upon all the sarcastic responses...yet you didn't still get it.


Who told you it's only twice ...
Who told that he is the only one...

You are not the one to beg her.
If you do , she will be slept with constantly under your roof.

I pray God will help you sort out your financial issues soon.

Pls move on, get a woman that will give you peace of mind and not break your marriage covenant

ntyce:
You failed to add that the congestion was as a result of trucks leaving Dangote Refinery.
Is there a need for another road corridor to Lekki, Yes
Is there an urgent need for Lagos to Calabar via the coast at such an humongous cost, No

naptu2:
Do you still think that the Coastal Road is unnecessary?

Clature:
She has warned. Let those with ears and those who claim to have common sense hear.

Again, Nigerians remain too strange a people. Read the comments. Does anyone need to tell anyone not to have children they know they cannot afford? Later, those commenters will still beg you for funds for medicine, pampers and school fees; say no.

When I see children hawking, begging or constituting a nuisance to the windscreen of my car, I feel a deep sense of disgust and anger. And in a rightful and intelligent society, they should be seized by social services and their parents arrested and punished.

If there are people within the national legislature and executive that view this platform, I would encourage them before it’s too late to amend the recent tax laws to include an added tax on anyone who has more than 1 or 2 children. It would assist in reducing this population of daftness since they (the leaders) have massacred the education sector.

flexyrule:
I wanted to argue with her, but looking at the environment the video was made, I had no option than to reason with her.

If we were to adopt her hypothesis, the world would have missed a lot of talents and breakthroughs.

Cuz we wouldn't have had people like:

Mike Adenuga - who worked as a taxi driver to fund his education
Victor Osihmen - World class footballer who sold pure water in Lagos traffic
Patoranking - who moved from Ebony to Lagos to hawk gala.
Oprah Winfrey - Media Mogul who was born to a teenage single mother in Mississippi, in a neighbourhood that didn't have electricity and running water.
Jan Koum - Founder of Whatsapp
Howard Schultz - former Starbucks CEO
Harold Hamm - was raised by Oklahoma sharecroppers. This self-made billionaire started out by picking cotton barefooted.
Roman Abramovich - Russian Billionaire who was born into poverty in southern Russia where he was orphaned by age two.
Dolly Parton - Renowned artist
Lakshmi Mittal - Indian Steel Tycoon
Jay Z - Named greatest rapper of all time by Billboard and Vibe

The list goes on and on...

Life is not a 1+1=2 thing like the "social media people" want to make it seem.

pocohantas:
Maybe his mother is also facing her own karma. Could that be possible?

Kobojunkie:
Oh, so they are no longer one again. He is instead the head of the household, while she is his slave in marriage? Right, right! Shifting goalpost check confirmed!

ajalawole:
Problem with most single mothers. Why don't you go and drop her there yourself and also go there and bring her back. You send a child of 13yrs all the way to dalta to holiday with her dad. Was the dad married or still single if we may ask.

Kobojunkie:
. Funny that men place conditions on women requiring them to prostrate to them in marriage, are averse to having women place conditions on them in return.

Olachase:
Na Feel at home I tell her the werey girl don run put 5 alive and A/C remote inside her bag

😂😂😂

BuharisBoy:
Congratulations for wasting her money and time, how is cooking rice an achievement? when other countries are doing something incredible Nigerians are excelling in the meaningless, Ghm, my country always nose diving.
Guinness world record used to be for something that show talent, creativity or invention but now is for charade.
Nigerians must abuse everything.

New record: Largest serving of Nigerian style jollof rice - 8,780 kg (19,356 lb 9 oz) achieved by Hilda Baci and Gino in Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria 🇳🇬 pic.twitter.com/ErJLEJR5Qr

— Guinness World Records (@GWR) September 15, 2025

thewinning101:
The person who shot him was gay and was dating a transgender. Those are the kind of people he preached against.

And no. He never said he hated black people. Charlie Kirk's best friend was Candace Owens, a black woman.

He was telling you why blacks have so much poverty and crime and how to solve it.

Only a fool will see reasonable advice as insult.

Lexusgs430:
If she does not have any children, it was an unwise move, shagging up with a childless lady (that is still ripe)..... 😊😂😉

afangsoup:
Hello guys,
I don't know if anybody does this. Since I started a family a little over 5 years ago, subconsciously, I wake up almost every hour to go round and check my wife and son. I observe them sleeping, I listen and observe for breathing, most times I give them a nudge (subconsciously) to check if they're still breathing, if they do not respond, my heart start racing in panic mode, I nudge them slightly harder or push or pat them till they move, then my mind settles down again.

I am starting to get worried about this subconscious act, and I don't know how to stop it 😢😢


Does anyone else do this?
Am I doing the right thing or I'm just worried over something that shouldn't be?🤔🤔

RPG2020:
Know this and have peace ✌️🕊️

Men came to suffer while women came to feel the pain

profmallor:
Marriages, especially the one man one women type is modelled to favor the woman on the long run. Thats why in their 70s the men are gone, but the women go on to live till their 90s. Thats why as a man if you must marry, marry someone that is kind, dont marry for looks.

mjblinks:
Yes, husbands fight silent battles.
But let’s also remember: wives do too.

Many women carry invisible loads that often go unnoticed, even by the men they love most.
Why don’t wives talk?
👉 Because they don’t want to “nag.”
👉 Because they don’t want to feel unappreciated.
👉 Because they’re told “that’s just what women do.”

But just like men, their silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind her smile, here are 10 hidden battles many wives secretly face in marriage:

1. Pressure to Hold Everything Together
From kids to meals to home and sometimes career, she feels she can’t afford to “fall apart.”

2. Fear of Not Being Enough
She wonders if she’s still attractive, still desirable, still “the one.”

3. Loneliness (Even When Married)
She may crave quality time, deep talks, or affection but doesn’t voice it out.

4. Silent Exhaustion
Between work, home, and motherhood, many women are simply tired to their core.

5. Emotional Starvation
She longs for affection, appreciation, or just a listening ear—but may not ask for it.

6. Comparison Pressure
Seeing “perfect” wives or mothers online quietly makes her doubt herself.

7. Invisible Sacrifices
She gives up dreams, hobbies, and sometimes career progress for the family—often unnoticed.

8. Fear of Growing Apart
She worries: “What if one day, he stops seeing me the way he once did?”

9. Spiritual Weight
When she feels she’s carrying the faith of the family alone, it can be overwhelming.

10. Silent Cries for Partnership
She doesn’t just want a provider—she longs for a partner who shares the journey of life fully.

The truth is: both husbands and wives bleed silently.
Marriage is strongest when both see, honor, and support each other’s battles—not just endure them alone.

Because love isn’t about who suffers more. It’s about carrying each other’s burdens, together. ❤️

Angelfrost:
That's ,why no man becomes liberated, healthy and mentally strong until he stops giving a f*ck about what his family, peers and society think about his choices and decisions.

We put these pressures on ourselves because we think we are supposed to prove ourselves to the world.

Nope... Your only competition in life should be yourself.


Your sole goal in life is to find your purpose and work/walk in it... If anyone doesn't align with your path, cut them off!

aribisala0:
Does the young man want a big party for his first child

Mindlog:
These pictures, are further demoralizing....those meals are not enticing.